So, Here's the Thing: A podcast about life, love, and all that other shit!

So, Here's the Thing is a podcast created by Javon A. Frazier, author and self-proclaimed Guiding Light. This is the place she shares her thoughts, trials, and triumphs as a black woman and how we can rebuild ourselves, our families, and our communities. When she says "Here's the thing" you know it's about to get good!

So, Let’s Talk About 2020

Hello loves! It’s the first Tuesday of the new year so what better way to kick it off than to look back over my 2020. In this episode I’m sharing my highs and lows as well as how it’s going in the new year so far.

01-05
21:00

So, We Gotta Unlearn Some Ish......

So in this episode (a day later but NEVER a dollar short) I’m sharing my experience with unlearning and relearning. With the New Year around the corner, now is the time to re-evaluate where you in order to understand where you’re going.

12-30
30:21

So, Let’s Talk About Grace!

Amazing grace, how sweet the sound..... In this episode I am talking about my personal experience with grace. It's going to be a long one guys. So grab your favorite beverage (unless you're driving), get comfortable, and let's talk, I can't wait to hear your thoughts!  Don't forget to Rate, Subscribe, & Review the podcast on Apple & Spotify!

11-17
30:43

So, Expectation Killed Reality

I'm spilling the tea and it's HOT!!! In this episode we're talking: Expectations in relationships Reality vs. the idea How communication can save the day Don't forget to Rate, Subscribe, & Review the podcast on Apple & Spotify!

11-10
35:09

The Re-Introduction of Javon A. Frazier

In this episode, I share very candidly about where I've been and where I am now. 

07-24
35:14

The R Kelly (I Mean Ripple) Effect

In this episode I discuss the recent Lifetime docuseries regarding R. Kelly and the effect it is having on our community.  Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening.  I love you for real, Javon A. Frazier Your Guiding Light 

01-04
22:23

Ep. 2: The Chopping Block: The Truth About Cutting Ties

In this episode I discuss the truth about cutting ties with people. Are you cutting people off too prematurely? Are you hurting people in your search for self? Listen in and tell me what you think!

10-02
24:39

Welcome to So, Here’s the Thing!

Latest episode of Here's the Thing with Javon A. Frazier

09-11
04:47

So, Let’s Talk About Sex: The Power of Meditation and Masturbation

🚨 FOR MATURE AUDIENCES ONLY 🚨 In this episode I’m pulling back the covers and talking about the art of sacred pleasure.

03-24
37:37

So, Let’s REALLY Talk About Women

In this episode were reflecting back to one of our first episodes, Demystifying the Superhero Syndrome. Its important as we celebrate women this month that we honor it all, the light and the dark. It’s a doozy and one you’ll have to listen til the end 😏

03-09
01:23:29

So, Here’s My Bestie

Happy Women’s History Month! In this episode I’m sharing a bonus: a raw conversation between me and my favorite person, my bestie. Let me know what you guys think. Should we invite her on for another episode?

03-02
31:57

So, I’m Back (For Real This Time)!

Hello loves! Javon, here!!! Did you miss me?!?! In this episode I talk about where I’ve been and how I’m navigating this pandemic. Let’s talk!

09-23
19:59

Girl, Let That Dream Die!

Hey loves! In this episode I am getting real about dreams! Here are some things I would love for us to consider: Sometimes your dreams will mess you up. The definition of dream is a series of thoughts, images, and sensations occurring in a person's mind during sleep. Things may look a little different once you wake up! Sometimes we hold onto people, places, and things past the expiration because of our dream and what we think it should be. Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening. I love you for real, Javon A. Frazier Your Guiding Light

10-10
09:19

Freedom Friday!

In this throwback episode, I pull back the curtain on a very personal (yet public) experience that I had. It is my hope that through my transparency, you are able to shed light on some of your darkest moments. Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening.  I love you for real, Javon A. Frazier Your Guiding Light 

03-01
29:10

You Killin Me Smalls!

In this episode, I apologize to the brothas. Like, really! Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening.  I love you for real, Javon A. Frazier Your Guiding Light 

02-26
22:28

Ep. 3: Ladies, You Better Love That Man

In this episode I am talking about the importance of loving our black men. Here are a few things to consider: 1. Yes, there are some "bad" men out there, but we cannot lump them all together. 2. A man responds better to love then aggression. 3. We are killing men faster than any cop or bullet. 4. As women, we have the power to create the change that we want to see in men. I want to hear from you! Join in the conversation on social media by using #HeresTheThing. Your opinion could be added to the next episode. If you enjoy this episode, be sure to like, comment, and share!

10-05
01:11:47

Ep. 1: Demystifying the Superhero Complex

In this episode I am breaking down the "Superhero Complex" and what that means for black women. Here are a few things to consider: 1. The Superhero Complex is killing us. 2. Just because we CAN do it, doesn't mean that we SHOULD. 3. No one can "do it all" and do it all in excellence. Something will go lacking 4. Surround yourself with people who love you enough to check you. If you enjoy this episode, be sure to like, comment, and share!

09-11
54:06

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