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Tahoe, Ms. DajahBelle and Dj Trauma talk relationships, friendships, life issues, finance, sex, and everything about men that annoys women.
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This week we invite Tahoe and Dajs friend Scroooge to the show as we talk the whole YSL debacle, sharing finances in relationships, when is the right time for money to be given or asked for when you start dating, at what point men get tired of providing, are all women born to be nurturers, the affect of single fathers vs single mothers on their children, Tahoe and his new kittens, Scrooges card game, aand MORE! ENJOY!!!Socials:Scrooge @ScroogeBoss on Instagram
In this episode we welcome @TheAngieLolo of the @TalkThatShhh podcast and it gets hot right from the start as he explains to Daj why he doesnt think she likes men. Then we talk the influence of the younger generation vs the influence of Daj and Yesssterdays generation. Paul Pierce urges men to seek out a 5 or 6 vs trying to get with a 10. Dating women who refer to themselves as a baddie, a guy who used to do all the little things for his girl but has since stopped once he realized she had her own money, women not cooking for their men once they have enough money to afford a chef, and MORE!! Enjoy!!Socials:Angelo@TheAngieLoLo on Instagram@AngieLolo on TikTokListen to his show Talk That SHHH!!!@TalkThatShhh on Instagram
Welcome back to part two of this weeks episode.A wife cheats on her husband, getting a hall pass from your wife, men not being in serious relationships until their lives are fully together, and modern feminism is the number one destroyer of relationships today? ENJOY!Socials:Glady@ToxicWithBenefits podcast on instagram@GlxDxmxr on Instagram
Welcome Back NSG! This week we well Gladymir from the Toxic With Benefits podcast to talk Tahoe choosing between business and his friends services, choosing not to go to funerals of close friends or family members, separating yourself from ppl who didnt grow up the way you did, and the controversy surrounding the Martin show and the jabs thrown towards Pam. Tune in this thursday for part two or hit the patreon to listen to the whole show NOW. ENJOY!Socials:Glady@ToxicWithBenefits podcast on instagram@GlxDxmxr on Instagram
I Did It My Way

I Did It My Way

2025-08-0603:04:42

Tahoe tells a story about his life and losing his best friend to a tragic accident. TRIGGER WARNING ..this is deep.Listen on patreon ad free at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
Welcome back to part two of So Shameless!We continue the episode with the top ten struggles that men face, Malcolm Jamal Warners tragic passing, RIP Hulk Hogan?? De-Blacking a home and would yall put your kids on a no room policy? ENJOY!!!
Welcome Back NSG!This week the crew receive a call from a listener about a letter his wife wrote to the Hard Or Soft show. The convo got really interesting as he admitted to cheating and needing more than what he felt that his wife was willing to accept in their relationship. Then we follow up with women needing to sleep more than men?? lol interesting topic indeed...ENJOY!!! Join the patreon to listen to the full episode ad free at patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
Welcome Back To Another Week of So Shameless!!This week Tahoe "apologizes" to Daj after not showing up to her birthday celebration and that doesnt go quite as planned, the coldplay concert cheating scandal, cheating in the open vs cheating amongst friends and family, being a vulnerable narcissist and weaponizing your trauma, and Drake Vs America. ENJOY!!
Welcome Back to Part Two of this weeks episode!We continue the convo with Tahoe speaking about suing an ex in the past, ppl owing you and not expecting them to pay you back, a woman says woman that are taking care of themselves cant be held accountable, men not having children after 30 being a green flag, women making new male friends after being in a relationship, and silencing your children can lead to them being silent adults? Great episode yall!! ENJOY!!!
Welcome Back NSG!!This week we celebrate Dajs birthday as she talks her birthday plans and of course Tahoe has an issue with them. Then we talk Andrew Shultz and his disappointment in Trump, the floods in Texas, Justin Blu questions the Target boycott, a young lady gets told to go home, co-parenting when your BM is in a bind, who you're helping first when everybody needs some help, and a date with an interesting ending. ENJOY!
Welcome back No Shame Gang!!!This week Daj presses the cast about not RSVP'ing to her birthday party, wild conspiracy theories, ppl we would send back into slavery, the state of the US right now and the new America Party, the deportation of immigrants being fair or not, the Diddy verdict, and protecting your kids from finding out you are having sex. ENJOY!!
Welcome Back to Part Two yall!We continue the convo about womens affect on mens homophobia, the idea that women also abuse women when they are young, yesssterday is a contrarian, going on a trip after your partner has a traumatic event, and more! ENJOY!!!
Welcome Back No Shame Gang!!!This week the crew is back together and we start off HOT as Tahoe messy a$$ asks Traum why he didnt come to Dajs wedding, then he continues the chaos as he takes Yesssterday to Homie Court, a guy at his job says the N word, and more chaos in the comments of a Hard or Soft post as Tahoe takes offense to a comment from a friend. WHEW! This one was a LOT! Stay tuned for part two dropping later this week...and ENJOY!!!
Welcome Back To Part Two of the episode without Daj! lmaoThe guys continue conversation about getting out of the friendzone, if you found out her "friend" and her used to be more than friends would you be bothered, why men put themselves on child support and more! ENJOY!
Welcome Back No Shame GANG!!!This week Tahoe, Traum and Yesssterday sit with Daj's HUSBAND Dru to talk why men want to get married, why the engagement process can be longer for some than others, how they deal with being gaslit by their partners, not feeling comfortable speaking on certain issues with their fiancees and why, being rewarded for telling the truth vs being condemned for it, why men get into monogamous relationships even though they dont consider themselves monogamous, and would they be cool with a woman you're interested in telling you that she's interested in your friend? Stay tuned for part two releasing this thursday or head to our patreon to listen to the whole episode ad free!! and ENJOY!!!!Socials:Dru@SheCallsMe_Sirr on Instagram and Twitter
Welcome Back to Part Two of our amazing episode with Host and Comedian Davida.D! We get right back ingto it with men not having the appropriate selfcare items in the house, dating in an open relationship, a woman that says she will iron her husbands clothes before he goes to see his side chick, men basing their relationship values on their ego vs what women base their relationship values on and Jess Hilarious triggers the LGBTQIA community. ENJOY!!Socials: Davida@IamDavida.D on all platforms
No Shame Gang Whats Good!!This week Daj and Tahoe welcome comedian and host Davida.D as Daj spaeks about getting married as Davida speaks about her experience being married and why she feels it didnt work out, Cardi's latest breakdown on social media, Offset asking Cardi for spousal support, the "My Man, My Man, My Man" trend, losing yourself in a relationship, Tahoe revisits the situation where the stepfather was not invited to his stepdaughters graduation, and then we talk "Happy Wife, Happy Life" vs "Happy Spouse, Happy House". ENJOY!! Tune in this Thursday for part two or head to our patreon to listen to the complete episode Ad Free!Scials:Davida@IamDavida.D
Me Vs Me

Me Vs Me

2025-05-2801:44:12

Welocme Back to another episode of So Shameless!This week Tahoe gives us a solo episode as he talks the attention around Blue Ivy, the American Music Awards favorite hip hop artists picks, and the New Orleans escapees. Then he enters into a protagonist vs antagonist convo with himself as he talks the Diddy trial, Remy vs Clarissa and Tory lanez new appeals claims. Enjoy!Join our patreon to listen to the full episode AD FREE at patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
Welcome Back To Part TWO!Tahoe and Yesssterday rejoin their discord cast Trav, Malcolm and Q to ask can you "borrow" money from your spouse and do men "need" sex, then some YN's are confronted with an "unbelievable" truth and a group of girls play a prank on a guy. ENJOY!
This week on So Shameless, Tahoe brings Trav, Malcolm and Q, members of the So Shameless discord, to join him and Yesssterday as they talk Q's listener letter regarding his inappropriate friend, wishing people Happy Mothers Day, did tahoe get Tane a gift, a mother who felt her sons wife is ruining their tradition, and a wife that went on a solo trip and did not come back. Stay tuned for Part Two airing next week or head to the patreon to hear the entire episode ad free right now. ENJOY!Visit our Patreon at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast to listen to the full episode AD FREE and join the discord
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Comments (35)

Korey Riggins

daj single handedly ruined this pod, shes insufferable.

Aug 24th
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MsMelody Renee

yall be having Daj on the edge🤣🤣🤣

Jun 13th
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MsMelody Renee

i love Cream!!

May 30th
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Dr. Raina J. Jackson

Plus the one king made his illegitimate children lawful which caused an additional split

Sep 1st
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Marissa Candace

your transparency is why you've always stook out to me. Tahoe. 🖤

Jul 30th
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Bithja Gebrulien

which episode was it where Tahoe was discussing the situation with the young woman he thought was his daughter?

Jan 12th
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Dr. Raina J. Jackson

Tahoe is correct when he said "black men have been historically traumatized and so have the women". - Hurt people, hurt people. Thus can be due to historical truama and black men and women being programmed to self-destruct bcause the only time we see eachother on tv is in stereotypical roles (unless it is a show or movie made by us). TV/movies now show black families who are bi-racial or with a man with darker complextion with a lighter woman or A dark skin woman with a white man. We no longer see us love one another. **Black men are the most disrespected and black women are the mules of this country. In addition, black people in this country are outnumbered and do not have the same community as other country. Also, there has been an evolution of the beauty of black women. At times we follow the Eurocentric standards of beautiful. Black women were/are made to hate their natural look because of these standards (e.g. the evololution of Lil Kim). Recently, we have the freedom to show up

Aug 19th
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Marissa Candace

y'all really be yelling into the mics huh. earphone warming⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️ volume low.

Aug 17th
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Marissa Candace

...this episode is hella ignorant. DJ...dude ..wow. You're speaking from a place of privilege..but most importantly igornace.

May 27th
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Marissa Candace

I just don't think anything is funny about Trump. He was at a bookstore when I visited NY as a child he was making fun of women over her weight.. that has stayed with me for years.

Nov 4th
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Marissa Candace

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Oct 23rd
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Marissa Candace

y'all ... I think I love you guys. I generally get happy hearing you guys laugh. peace and love from Massachusetts. (almost embarrassed I live here)

Sep 18th
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K Kinchen

Good first show. It’s good hearing men speak openly and freely about sex. Keep going!

Feb 14th
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Marissa Candace

I dont know what I'm listening to anymore.. where's the rest of the crew?

Feb 8th
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King Juan

yo 136. this nigga greg doing too much 😂😂😂 he trying make niggas do more

Feb 4th
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Fit Foodie

Dajah is on fire this episode, I'm always trying to fix and help everyone but the same energy is not returned. I cleaned my circle and 99% of my friends are gone because I'm not available but I'm happier than ever and focused on myself/family and making money I should have done this years ago because people are leeches that drain you with their problems or life issues.

Dec 26th
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Faith Coleman

Lmaooo this movie story has me dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oct 8th
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Marissa Candace

straight up, any conversation about money deserves a phone call. especially when it's that's much money. texting is easy. co parenting is not.

Sep 16th
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MsMelody Renee

I LOVE THIS PODCAST! Instantly my favorite. I've been made it all the way back to the mother's day episode. Love, love, love it!

Aug 26th
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King Juan

yo chey ima get her 😂😂😂😂 I go deep

Jun 5th
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