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The Journey Continues – Life After Moving to New Zealand Almost a year after moving to New Zealand, I thought we were finally finding our feet. Instead, everything seemed to hit at once. In this episode, I continue our immigration story and share what was really happening behind the scenes during our first year in New Zealand, the part that doesn't often get talked about. From serious family illness back home, to the guilt of being far away when people you love need you most, to work pressure, financial stress, and the emotional toll of having to keep going when you're already exhausted. This isn't a polished success story. It's an honest conversation about: what happens when the excitement wears off the emotional weight immigrants carry quietly feeling responsible for your family when you're struggling yourself and what it's like when the journey has to continue… even when all you want to do is stop If you're in your first year or two after immigrating, or you're considering making the move — this episode is for you. You're not weak for finding this hard. You're not broken for feeling overwhelmed. And you're not alone in carrying more than you expected. Sometimes the journey doesn't fall apart, it just asks more of you than you thought you had. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz  

Almost a year after moving to New Zealand, we thought we were finally finding our feet. Instead, reality hit — hard. In this episode, I continue our immigration journey from Episode 6 and share what was really happening behind the scenes during our first year as migrants in New Zealand. From serious family illness back home, to the guilt and helplessness of being far away, job uncertainty, financial pressure, and the stress of having to move again — everything seemed to pile up at once. This isn't a polished success story. It's an honest conversation about: the emotional toll of immigrating to a new country the guilt of leaving family behind when they need you most work stress and job uncertainty after migrating trying to stay strong for your partner and kids while you're struggling yourself If you're in your first year or two after immigrating, or you're thinking about moving to New Zealand, this episode is for you. You're not weak for finding this hard — and you're not alone. Sometimes the journey doesn't fall apart. It just asks more of you than you expected. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz

Moving to New Zealand often feels like a fresh start, but few migrants realise how complicated things can become if tragedy strikes. In this episode of the Migration and Money Series, Brett Corlett (Soft Landing NZ) speaks with Ivandee Fitchet from Migrant Financial Services and Alistair van Schalkwyk from ASCO Legal about one of the most important and most overlooked, parts of migration: having a valid Last Will & Testament in both countries. Brett opens with a deeply personal story: the loss of his sister-in-law to cancer, and the emotional and administrative challenges of managing her estate from the other side of the world. Their family's experience shows just how unpredictable life can be and why having the right legal documents in place can protect your children, your partner, and your assets when the unexpected happens. Planning Ahead_Your Last Will &… Ivandee and Alistair then explain, in clear and practical language: Why migrants need a will in both their home country and New Zealand Why your South African will does not automatically work in NZ What happens if you die without a will (intestate law) and why it can become a nightmare What "guardianship" really means when you're an immigrant Why online wills and templates often fail migrants How jointly owned assets and life insurance are treated in NZ How often you should update your will What happens if your nominated guardians are not NZ residents Why original wills must be safely stored and who should keep them Whether you're still preparing to move or already settled in New Zealand, this episode gives you the clarity, confidence, and peace of mind to protect the people who matter most. 📌 Links & Resources Book a financial consult with Ivandee (Migrant Financial Services):👉 https://forms.gle/75TwxcnrUxN79SH8A Watch/listen to the full Migration and Money series:👉 https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUyrX6hymTr1qQui1OZVKXhNO7HOeLZag&si=lS3mV-CC9Y6Ko5yL 🌟 Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand.📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz 🔎 Summary A practical, migrant-focused guide to understanding wills in New Zealand. This episode explains why newcomers need a Last Will & Testament in NZ, what happens if you don't have one, how guardianship works for migrant families, and the legal steps needed to protect children and assets across two countries. Perfect for South Africans and anyone moving to NZ. Q: Do immigrants need a will when moving to New Zealand? Yes. Your home country will does not automatically apply in NZ. Migrants need a will that reflects New Zealand laws to protect partners, children, and assets. Planning Ahead_Your Last Will &… Q: What happens if I die without a will in New Zealand? Your assets may be split between your spouse and children — not automatically to your partner — which can cause major complications. Planning Ahead_Your Last Will &… Q: Can I use my South African will in New Zealand? It may not be valid for NZ assets. Migrants often require separate wills in each country. Planning Ahead_Your Last Will &… Q: Who should keep the original copy of my will? Most NZ law firms store originals safely and notify families if a death occurs. Planning Ahead_Your Last Will &… Q: How often should I update my will? Every 5–8 years or when major life events occur (kids, new assets, inheritance, loss in family).  

Moving to New Zealand is exciting, but it also comes with financial realities many migrants only discover once they're already here. In this episode of the Migration and Money Series, Brett Corlett (Soft Landing NZ) and Ivandee from Migrant Financial Services break down one of the most overlooked parts of the immigration journey: insurance. Brett shares his personal story of being diagnosed with cancer before immigrating, and how having the right insurance cover in place protected his family when life took an unexpected turn. Ivandee then explains, in simple, practical language, the exact types of insurance every newcomer should understand, when to take them out, and why timing matters so much, especially in your first months in New Zealand. Whether you're still offshore planning your move or already settling in, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to protect your family, your income, and your future in New Zealand. 🔎 Summary A practical, migrant-friendly guide to understanding insurance in New Zealand. This episode explains the essentials, life insurance, trauma cover, disability cover, income protection, medical insurance, ACC, and what migrants should have in place before and after arriving. Perfect for anyone planning to move to New Zealand or already settling in and wanting to make smart financial decisions. 📌 Links & Resources Book a financial consult with Ivandee (Migrant Financial Services):👉 https://forms.gle/75TwxcnrUxN79SH8A Watch/listen to the full Migration and Money series:👉 https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUyrX6hymTr1qQui1OZVKXhNO7HOeLZag&si=lS3mV-CC9Y6Ko5yL 🌟 Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand.📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz

Most migrants underestimate how financially hard the first year in New Zealand can be. In this episode, we break down a REAL first-year budget using Brett's own numbers — so you know exactly what to expect, what to plan for, and how to avoid costly mistakes. This is Episode 1 of the Soft Landing × Migrant Financial Services financial series — your complete guide to understanding the real costs of immigrating to New Zealand. In this kickoff episode, Brett Corlett sits down with Ivandee Fitchet to answer the question almost every mover asks: 👉 "How much money do I really need to survive my first year in New Zealand?" Together, they walk through Brett's actual numbers from his own immigration journey, breaking down: • What a real first-year NZ budget looks like • Rent, transport, food, setup, and hidden expenses • Why the first 12–24 months feel financially tight • Practical ways to plan, prepare, and manage the transition more confidently This series exists because migrants deserve honest, lived-experience guidance — not guesswork or generic advice. 📌 Want personalised help or partner support? Share your details here: https://forms.gle/DhzeGRL4cLF1egs68 New Zealand immigration budget NZ cost of living 2025 NZ immigrant finances Migrant Financial Services Moving to New Zealand costs New Zealand family budget NZ first-year expenses Soft Landing NZ Brett Corlett podcast #SoftLandingNZ #NewZealandImmigration #NZCostOfLiving #MigrantFinancialServices #MoveToNZ #ImmigrationBudget #NZVisaJourney #NewZealandLife #ImmigrantStories #BrettCorlett #NZBudgeting #MovingToNewZealand

What does it really take to build a secure financial future as a migrant in New Zealand? In this Soft Landing NZ episode, Brett Corlett sits down with Ivandee Fitchet, founder of Migrant Financial Services, to unpack her inspiring story, from leaving Cape Town to starting over in Aotearo, and how she now helps other immigrants navigate the challenges of money, mortgages, and retirement planning in NZ. Ivandee opens up about her own journey, rebuilding her career, supporting her parents from abroad, and learning what financial resilience really means. Together, we explore: ✅ The real cost of starting over in New Zealand ✅ Why buying a home and saving for retirement can feel impossible and how to fix that ✅ Common money mistakes new migrants make ✅ What "choosing your hard" really means when you immigrate ✅ How we'll be using Brett as the "guinea pig" in future episodes to model the full financial journey from budgets to home ownership to long-term security If you've ever wondered whether you can truly build a stable life in New Zealand, this conversation will inspire you to believe that you can. Guest: 👩‍💼 Ivandee Fitchet — Founder, Migrant Financial Services 📧 ivandee@migrantfinancialservices.com | 📲 +64 210 825 2035 Host: 🎙️ Brett Corlett — Soft Landing NZ Helping immigrants make New Zealand home through real stories, practical guidance, and honest conversations about money, mindset, and belonging. Stay Connected: Follow the Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to the YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories and practical tips for newcomers to NZ. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz 🎯 Hashtags (for show notes / SEO) #SoftLandingNZ #IvandeeFitchet #MigrantFinancialServices #ImmigrateToNewZealand #MovingToNewZealand #NZFinanceTips #FinancialPlanningNZ #MigrantStories #NZHomeOwnership #KiwiSaver #LifeInNewZealand #BrettCorlett #RetireInNZ

In this heartfelt episode of Soft Landing NZ, I open up about our journey from South Africa to New Zealand, what we built back home, what we left behind, and what it really feels like to start over in a new country. After 2½ years in New Zealand, I'm asking the big question many immigrants face: "Will I ever truly feel settled — will I ever own my own home here?" I share my personal story, from buying our first home in our 20s, investing in property, and building stability, to now navigating NZ's housing market, rising costs, and the challenge of saving for a deposit. This episode is raw, reflective, and deeply relatable for anyone trying to make NZ their forever home. We'll also be diving into practical next steps in upcoming episodes, including expert advice from Ivandee Fitchet (Migrant Financial Services) on how to plan, budget, and turn the dream of home ownership into reality. If you've ever wondered how to put down roots, buy a home, or build a secure future in New Zealand, this one's for you.  Want to be part of an accountability group and support one another through this journey of buying a home in NZ - Share your details and we will get in contact and help make this a reality together - https://sites.libsyn.com/574215/contact    📍 All my content & free tools: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz   #NewZealand #ImmigrationJourney #MovingToNewZealand #LifeInNewZealand #FromSouthAfricaToNewZealand #NZImmigrantStories #NZHomeOwnership #MigrantFinancialServices #NewBeginnings #MakingNZHome #NZDream #CostOfLivingNZ #LivingInNewZealand #NZPodcast #ExpatLife #SouthAfricanInNZ #FinancialPlanningNZ #KiwiLife #Aotearoa  

 Podcast Description In this powerful episode of the Soft Landing podcast, I sit down with Francisko "Cisko" Du Plessis to hear his incredible immigration story. What began as a family's move from South Africa to New Zealand for a better future became a fight for survival when Cisko faced sudden organ failure and the need for life-saving surgeries. This is more than just an immigration journey, it's the story of resilience, faith, family, and a true medical miracle. Cisko's testimony will inspire anyone facing tough challenges, whether in a new country or in life itself.    Stay connected: Subscribe to the Soft Landing podcast and follow my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for more real stories and practical tips. All links & resources: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz   #SoftLandingNZ #ImmigrationStory #InspiringStories #MedicalMiracle #SouthAfricanInNZ #NewZealandLife #HeartTransplant #Resilience #FamilyFirst #ImmigrationJourney

 Podcast Description Making New Zealand home takes more than paperwork — it takes resilience, mindset, and purpose. In this episode, I open up about the 5 steps that changed everything for me as an immigrant and helped me feel connected and grounded here in New Zealand.  The 5 Steps I Share in This Episode: Taking control of your mind and thoughts Having a clear purpose, vision, and mission (tied to Ep 14: Wheel of Life) Practicing Kaizen — small improvements every day Creating routines and discipline (21 days to form a habit) Paying it forward — helping others along their journey This is for anyone who feels stuck, lonely, or uncertain about their future in New Zealand. My hope is these steps give you encouragement, clarity, and a practical way forward. Don't give up, you got this!!!! Find your Why/Purpose - https://youtu.be/IvRxnZJvHLU Books -  https://www.audible.com.au/pd/B0F74LH52M?source_code=ASSORAP0511160007   https://www.audible.com.au/pd/B072MRYSZX?source_code=ASSORAP0511160007  Stay connected: Subscribe to the Soft Landing podcast and follow my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for more real stories and practical tips. All links & resources: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz   #ImmigrationJourney #MakingNZHome #ImmigrantMindset #SoftLandingNZ #ExpatLifeNZ #ImmigrantStories #MovingToNZ #ImmigrationGrief #MindsetShift #WheelOfLife #PositiveMindset #Kaizen

📖 Podcast Description: When you first arrive in New Zealand, one of the biggest challenges is knowing where to buy what. Back home, you knew which shops to trust for food, furniture, or phones. But in NZ, all the logos, brands, and services are different and that can be overwhelming. In this episode, I guide you through the essential shops and services every newcomer should know. From groceries at New World, Woolworths, or Pak'nSave, to DIY at Mitre 10 or Bunnings, to furniture, banks, gyms, internet, and even insurance providers, this is the roadmap I wish I had when I first landed. You'll learn: The main grocery stores and how they compare Where to buy furniture, appliances, and electronics How to set up your internet and phone plans quickly The banks and insurance providers most migrants use Extras like gyms, petrol stations, and rental websites 💡 I've also created a free downloadable spreadsheet with links to all the shops and services mentioned. Check the link in the description to grab it. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfjMQLSAc92Pk_7woYRB72jmnbqxQCKJaSDYk8wFtKTlIa8Ag/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=112837948330544769666 This episode is all about helping you avoid confusion and make smarter choices, so you can have a softer landing in New Zealand. Helping you make New Zealand home. From culture shock to starting over, the journey isn't always smooth. That's why Brett created Soft Landing, real stories and practical support through his podcast, YouTube channel, blog, and more to help you find your feet. 🎙️🎥 Honest content to help immigrants.👇 Tap the link for free tools, tips & support.🔗 https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz Got a question or video idea? Click the link above and hit ASK — we'd love to hear from you!

When your child needs hospital care, nothing else matters. In this episode, I share our family's personal experience at Starship Hospital in Auckland, one of New Zealand's leading children's hospitals. From the emotional toll to the incredible support from staff, I open up about what it's really like when your child needs urgent care in a new country. I also talk about how New Zealand's children's hospital system works, what immigrant families should expect, and how you can prepare if you ever face this situation. Whether you're already in New Zealand or planning your move, this is an honest look at a side of life many don't think about — but every parent should know. What you'll learn in this episode: Our daughter's Starship Hospital story How children's hospitals work in New Zealand The challenges (and relief) of getting care as a parent What immigrant families should expect if their child needs medical attention ✨ If you're immigrating to New Zealand, or already settling here, I hope this episode gives you reassurance and practical insight. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz  

📄 Description: "If you're starting a new life in New Zealand, you might face an unexpected challenge, immigration grief and in this video I share my experience and tips." We talk about the waves of loss, the identity shifts, and the moments of doubt that can catch you by surprise, even when moving to a place you love. You'll hear practical ways to navigate these feelings, find your footing, and start truly making New Zealand your home. Whether you've just arrived or have been here for years, this conversation will help you feel seen, understood, and supported. Listen now and discover you're not alone in this journey. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand.📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz New Zealand's national suicide prevention training: https://www.lifekeepers.nz/need-to-talk

  🎙️ Episode 17: What Happens When You're Sick, Injured, Made Redundant, or Grow Old in New Zealand From ACC to KiwiSaver — The Financial Safety Nets Every Immigrant Should Know About Moving to New Zealand means starting fresh and that includes understanding how to protect your health, income, and future in a new system. In this episode of Soft Landing, I take you through the key financial safety nets and insurance options that help provide stability and peace of mind once you've started to settle in. Whether you're a few months into your immigration journey or already working and building your life here, this episode will give you the practical knowledge to make smarter decisions for yourself and your family. I cover: 🛟 ACC: What it does and doesn't cover 🏥 Public vs. Private Health Insurance: Is Southern Cross worth it? 💸 Income Protection & Trauma Cover: Why it matters and how to get it 🔐 Life Insurance & Redundancy Cover: Who needs it and when 💰 KiwiSaver: What it is, how it works, and when you can use it 📈 Other Investments: Building a safety net for the future I'm not a financial advisor, and this episode isn't financial advice it's just my real-life experience, the lessons I've learned, and the systems I now use to protect my family here in Aotearoa. If you're working toward financial stability, planning your future, or just wondering what these terms mean in the New Zealand context, this episode is for you. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz  

📝 Description: In this powerful episode of Soft Landing, I interview Andre Cronje, a South African immigrant who arrived in New Zealand with just $3,000, two suitcases, and no job and went on to become a general manager at a leading defense company within four years. Andre shares his step-by-step journey: from door-to-door sales to senior leadership, using smart CV strategies, skill stacking, and understanding the hidden rules of New Zealand's job market. Whether you're applying from overseas or already in NZ and struggling to land that first interview, this conversation is packed with practical advice and hard-earned wisdom. What you'll learn: How to tailor your CV to pass NZ recruitment filters Why culture fit often matters more than qualifications The real reason cover letters and one-page CVs matter What "skill stacking" is and how it can transform your job prospects How to adapt your communication style for Kiwi workplaces This is a must-listen for new immigrants and job seekers alike. Subscribe and share it with anyone trying to land that all-important first job in New Zealand. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz  

In this honest episode of Soft Landing, I break down the current state of the New Zealand job market and why so many people, especially migrants, are finding it incredibly hard to land interviews and secure work. We talk about: Why unemployment has risen from 3% to 5% The impact of the recent recession and economic slowdown Why employers are hesitant to hire offshore What this means for migrants, job seekers, and families already in NZ It's not all doom and gloom, there is hope. I share some real talk, context, and perspective to help you better understand what's happening on the ground and what you can focus on while things shift. Whether you're still overseas or already here trying to find your feet, this episode is for you. Stay Connected Follow my Soft Landing podcast and subscribe to my YouTube channel @softlandingnz for real stories, walkthroughs, and practical tips for newcomers to New Zealand. 📍 All links & platforms: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz  

🎙️Why Am I Here? How I Found My Purpose After Moving to New Zealand In this episode, I share how I hit a turning point after our first year in New Zealand, when survival mode started to fade and bigger questions began to surface: 👉 Why am I here? 👉 What is my purpose? 👉 How do I design a life that feels intentional, not just busy? I walk you through: My honest struggles post-immigration  The exact questions I asked myself to become more self-aware How I defined my personal purpose and mission A powerful tool called the Wheel of Life to plan goals across all areas of your life My step-by-step process to get the noise out of my head and into an actionable life plan 💡 Whether you're new to New Zealand or simply feeling stuck in the "what now?" stage of life, this episode will give you the clarity and structure to reconnect with your why — and start building a life you love. 📝 Download the FREE workbook to guide your own purpose and goal-setting journey: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe97JQPnNitrYJ8vYWBDBmUDI_fnP9FaC24hDtsz8efDEUdTw/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=112837948330544769666  🎧 Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube and all major platforms. 🟣 iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/soft-landing/id1805477245 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5t3FeTxjNup90JfemCzkH0?si=0IsIieMqTfGB2-vGfv1uVg 🔴 YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@softlandingnz  Soft Landing NZ—Making New Zealand Home. SUBSCRIBE and FOLLOW: https://linktr.ee/softlandingnz 📩 Share this with someone who needs clarity, direction, or encouragement today.

  🎙️ Episode 13: The DUI That Almost Cost Him New Zealand Description: What happens when one bad decision behind the wheel puts your entire future in New Zealand at risk? In this deeply personal episode of Soft Landing, I sit down with a close friend who shares his raw and honest story of getting caught driving under the influence (DUI) in New Zealand. He opens up about the moment he was pulled over, the stress of going through the legal system, and how the incident rippled through every part of his life—his visa, job, family, and mental health. It's a cautionary tale that every immigrant, newcomer, and long-term resident needs to hear. We cover: What actually happens when you're charged with a DUI in NZ The emotional and legal impact on visa holders How it affected his career and personal life A powerful message for anyone thinking "it'll never happen to me" Whether you're new to New Zealand or you've been here for years, this is a conversation you won't want to miss. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and more. 🟣 iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/soft-landing/id1805477245 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5t3FeTxjNup90JfemCzkH0?si=0IsIieMqTfGB2-vGfv1uVg 🔴 YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@softlandingnz    New Zealand's national suicide prevention training: https://www.lifekeepers.nz/ 

🎧Episode Description: When NZ Post Texted Me: My Scam Story & 10 Ways to Stay Safe In this candid episode of Soft Landing NZ, I open up about the first scam that caught me off guard soon after arriving in New Zealand. From a convincing "NZ Post" text demanding I pay a small delivery fee, to the moment I realized I'd been scammed out of $1000, you'll hear the full story of how I fell victim, what went wrong, and how it felt discovering I'd been duped. I share 10 practical tips you can use right now to protect yourself and your family (whānau). https://www.actnowstaysecure.gov.au/cyber-safe-actions  🔒 10 Scam-Proofing Tips Verify the Sender: Always check the official domain or phone number before replying. Never Tap Unexpected Links: Go directly to the organisation's website or app instead. Watch for Urgent Threats: Scammers use fear; genuine services don't demand immediate payment. Inspect URLs Carefully: Hover on desktop or press-and-hold on mobile to preview the real address. Enable 2FA Everywhere: A second factor stops scammers even if they get your password. Use Official Apps: Download NZ Post, AT, and bank apps only from trusted app stores. Block & Report: Forward suspicious texts and report to orginisation they impersonating. Keep Software Updated: Patch operating systems and antivirus to close security holes. Limit Personal Info on Social Media: Scammers often mine your profiles for clues. Educate Your Family: Share these tips with family and friends to build a scam-aware community. 🔗 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts, and take control of your online safety in New Zealand. 📺 YouTube Channel: @softlandingnz 🎙️ Soft Landing NZ—Making New Zealand Home.

In this special episode, I sit down with my wife to talk through one of the most important parts of relocating as a family—getting your kids enrolled in school in New Zealand. We share our real experience, what caught us off guard, and what we wish we had known before arriving/enrolling the kids. From understanding school zones and year levels, to navigating enrolment paperwork. 💬 In this episode, we cover: Public vs semi private schools in NZ The importance of school zoning How the school levels work (starting age) Uniforms, stationery, and school donations Managing the communication from schools What's different from the education system back home (SA) What we feel is important to consider/keep in mind If you're a parent preparing to move or recently arrived in New Zealand, this episode will help you feel more informed, more confident, and better prepared when it comes to choosing and enrolling your children in school. NZ Ministry of Education website has a lot of resources for you to research education.govt.nz www.govt.nz/browse/education   Please follow and subscribe to my YouTube channel YouTube Channel:    / @softlandingnz    Full Tutroial on how much is costs to live in New Zealand - https://bit.ly/45C3eSL 

In this episode, I share the emotional side of immigrating to New Zealand, the part we don't always talk about. Yes, I love this beautiful country and all it offers. But starting over in a new country, far from family, familiar places, and support systems, can be incredibly hard. From unexpected loneliness to the quiet pressure of "making it work," this episode is for anyone who has ever smiled on the outside while struggling on the inside. If you've felt overwhelmed, uncertain, or even just exhausted while settling in to your new country, you're not alone and you're not doing it wrong.   The 5 Mindset Shifts: 1. "It's okay to grieve what you left behind." Give yourself space to miss the familiar—this is part of adjusting, not weakness. 2. "You don't need to have it all figured out yet." You just need the next step. Focus on progress, not perfection. 3. "Feeling lonely doesn't mean you made the wrong choice." Loneliness is a phase, not a verdict. Community will come, keep showing up. 4. "You belong here, even if it doesn't feel like it yet." You don't have to 'earn' your place. You're allowed to take up space and feel at home. 5. "Asking for help is a strength." Don't suffer in silence, even if you just speak about your challenges, it helps.   🧡 You're not alone. And you're doing better than you think.   YouTube Channel:    / @softlandingnz    Full Tutroial on how much is costs to live in New Zealand - https://bit.ly/45C3eSL