Something Was Wrong

In today’s episode, I interview Holistic Psychotherapist, Isaac Smith, MAT, LCSW, NTP to discuss why leaving an abusive relationship safely is important, the cycle of domestic abuse, creating a safety plan, resources available to all, and how others can best support those in an abusive relationship. Episode Resources: FREE interactive safety plan to help you prepare: loveisrespect.org  National Domestic Violence hotline 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) Legal help for women by state: womenslaw.org List of shelters by city/state: domesticshelters.org Find a therapist by city/state: psychologytoday.com or goodtherapy.org Isaac Smith on Instagram: @WholeWellnessTherapy Find out more @: https://www.wholewellnesstherapy.com/ Something Was Wrong is written, produced and edited by Tiffany Reese. On Instagram @LookieBoo

Isaac Smith, MAT, LCSW, NTP is a licensed clinical social worker, nutritional therapy practitioner, and the owner of Whole Wellness Therapy on Instagram @WholeWellnessTherapy and Facebook  Find a Therapist easily @ PsychologyToday.com GoodTherapy.org Department of Consumer Affairs - Breese.ca.gov    Purchase Everything Sucks - A Gratitude Journal for People That Have Been Through Some Sh*t (affiliate link) Support SWW on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/SomethingWasWrong

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*Content Warning: child abuse, sibling abuse, emotional, sexual, medical and physical violence of children.  Free and confidential resources + Safety Tips: somethingwaswrong.com/resources  Artwork by the amazing Sara Stewart @GreaterThanOkay - Instagram.com/greaterthanokay *Sources: Child Welfare Organizations by State https://www.childwelfare.gov/organizations/?CWIGFunctionsaction=rols:main.dspList&rolType=custom&rs_id=5 CDC on Child Abuse Prevalence https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/vacs/onebillion-children.html CDC Fast Facts on Child Abuse  https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/fastfact.html Child Sexual Abuse Disclosure Rates https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Child-Sexual-Abuse-Disclosure-Statistics-and-Literature-Review.pdf Child Sexual Abuse Prevalence & Statistics https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Updated-Prevalence-White-Paper-1-25-2016_2020.pdf California Partnership to End Domestic Violence https://www.cpedv.org/ Children’s Assessment Center https://cachouston.org/about-the-cac/a-message-from-our-director/ Domestic Violence Action Center https://domesticviolenceactioncenter.org/about/ Futures Without Violence https://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/our-mission/ Child Welfare.gov on The Consequences of Abuse https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/long_term_consequences.pdf Child maltreatment, 19 September 2022, World Health organization https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/child-maltreatment   Peterson C, Florence C, Klevens J. The economic burden of child maltreatment in the United States, 2015. Child Abuse Negl. 2018 Dec;86:178-183. doi: 10.1016/j.chiabu.2018.09.018. Epub 2018 Oct 8. PMID: 30308348; PMCID: PMC6289633. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30308348/ 

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*Content warning: child abuse, sexual abuse, pedophilia, medical child abuse, Factitious disorder imposed on another, Munchausen by proxy, psychological, emotional, mental, and physical abuse.  Thank you Andrea Dunlop for partnering with us for this special educational Data Points episode! Andrea's website: https://www.andreadunlop.net/ Andrea's books: https://www.andreadunlop.net/books Nobody Should Believe Me podcast: https://www.nobodyshouldbelieveme.com/ Munchausen Support website: https://www.munchausensupport.com/ *Sources: The Power of Labels via The Lancet https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(04)17007-4/fulltext Epidemiology and evolution of the diagnostic classification of factitious disorders in DSM-5: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5729833/ First Uses of the Term Munchausen by Proxy: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26372976/ Munchausen syndrome by Proxy rates: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8608388/#:~:text=The%20estimated%20mortality%20rate%20of,by%20proxy%20is%209%20percent. MBP Clinical & Case Management Guidance by APSAC: https://apsac.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Munchausen-by-Proxy-Clinical-and-Case-Management-Guidance-.pdf Feldman, K.W., Ambartsumyan, L., Goldin, A., Jenny, C., Wiester, R.T., Metz, J.B. et al. (2022) Gastrointestinal problems and non-Oral feeding in children evaluated for medical child abuse (fabricated and induced illness). Child Abuse Review, e2746. Available from: https://doi.org/10.1002/car.2746 *Resources:  Munchausen Support https://www.munchausensupport.com/ Marc Feldman’s website/books http://www.munchausen.com American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children https://apsac.org/ For a comprehensive list of non-profit organizations and resources, please visit somethingwaswrong.com/resources Artwork by the amazing Sara Stewart: Instagram.com/greaterthanokay

*Content Warning: child abuse, abuse, assault, sexual assault, natural disasters, violence, mental illness, self-harm, suicidal ideation, suicide, and murder. Resources: Head Strong Project: http://www.headstrongproject.org PTSD Foundation of America: https://ptsdusa.org/ 22 Zero: http://22zero.org American PTSD Association: https://www.aptsda.org/ Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration: https://www.samhsa.gov/ For more free + confidential resources + safety tips please visit: somethingwaswrong.com/resources  Sources: Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders: DSM-5-TR(TM). American Psychological Association (2022), American Psychiatric Publications Inc: https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/practice/dsm Sex & Gender Differences in PTSD by Olff M. Sex and gender differences in post-traumatic stress disorder: an update. Eur J Psychotraumatol. (2017 Sep 29) (sup4):1351204. doi: 10.1080/20008198.2017.1351204. PMCID: PMC5632782: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5632782/ Mental Health Issues, by The Office of Victims of Crimes on PTSD, (2005): https://www.ncjrs.gov/ovc_archives/ncvrw/2005/pg5n.html  Ketamine as treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder: a review, by Liriano F, Hatten C, Schwartz TL. Drugs Context. (2019 Apr 8) 8:212305. doi: 10.7573/dic.212305. PMID: 31007698; PMCID: PMC6457782: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6457782/ Virtual Reality for PTSD, by Arline Kaplan (November 23, 2009): https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/virtual-reality-ptsd  MDMA’s Latest Trial Results Offer Hope for Patients with PTSD: UCSF-led study puts MDMA on path to be the first psychedelic to seek FDA approval, by Victoria Colliver. (September 18, 2023): https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2023/09/426116/mdmas-latest-trial-results-offer-hope-for-patients-ptsd PTSD statistics 2024, By SingleCare Team (Jan. 20, 2023) Medically reviewed by Marissa Walsh, Pharm.D., BCPS-AQ ID: https://www.singlecare.com/blog/news/ptsd-statistics/ How Common Is PTSD in Adults?, by The US Department of Veterine’s Affairs (last updated: February 3, 2023) https://www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/common/common_adults.asp What is Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)?, by The American Psychiatric Association (2024): https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/ptsd/what-is-ptsd Dr. Danielle Moore Moore: On Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dr.dani2016 At The Army of Survivors: https://thearmyofsurvivors.org/ Listen to What Came Next S01 E17 [Dr. Danielle Moore] No Longer a Number: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dr-danielle-moore-no-longer-a-number/id1674051643?i=1000615414939 Artwork by the amazing Sara Stewart: Instagram.com/greaterthanokay

*Content Warning: anxiety, depression, mental health, mental illness, suicidal ideation, self-harm, suicide, police brutality, and racism. *Resources: Life 4 All Minority Mental Health Resources: life4all.co/minority-mental-health Lifeline Network: https://988lifeline.org/ BEAM Collective:  http://beam.community Free + Confidential Resources + Safety Tips: somethingwaswrong.com/resources  *Sources: “Prioritizing Minority Mental Health.” Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 27 June 2023, www.cdc.gov/healthequity/features/minority-mental-health/index.html Nirmita Panchal, Matthew Rae. “How Does Use of Mental Health Care Vary by Demographics and Health Insurance Coverage?” KFF, 24 Mar. 2022, www.kff.org/mental-health/issue-brief/how-does-use-of-mental-health-care-vary-by-demographics-and-health-insurance-coverage/ MacMillan, Amanda. “4 Reasons for the Increase in Mental Health Conditions.” Health, 21 Aug. 2023, www.health.com/condition/depression/8-million-americans-psychological-distress.  Ijoma, Bassey. “5 Common Health Conditions That Affect Minorities and Ways to Reduce Risk Factors.” SummaCare, 23 Feb. 2023, www.summacare.com/blog/entries/2023/02/5-common-health-conditions-that-affect-minorities-and-ways-to-reduce-risk-factors.  Brandt, L., Liu, S., Heim, C., & Heinz, A. (2022). The effects of social isolation stress and discrimination on mental health. Translational psychiatry, 12(1), 398. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41398-022-02178-4 Turner, Erlanger A., et al. “Predictors of Seeking Mental Health Treatment in Black Men: Therapy Fears and Expectations about Counseling - Community Mental Health Journal.” SpringerLink, Springer US, 8 Sept. 2023, link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10597-023-01183-1.  Reingle Gonzalez, J. M., & Connell, N. M. (2014). Mental health of prisoners: Identifying barriers to mental health treatment and medication continuity. American Journal of Public Health, 104(12), 2328–2333. https://doi.org/10.2105/AJPH.2014.302043. Sheftall, Arielle H., et al. “The Tragedy of Black Youth Suicide.” AAMC, 11 Apr. 2023, www.aamc.org/news/tragedy-black-youth-suicide.  Dr. Corey Emanuel:  Dr. Corey Emanuel’s website: http://coreyemanuel.com  Dr. Corey Emanuel’s Linktree: http://linktr.ee/coreyemanuel  Dr. Corey Emanuel’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/coreyemanuel  Dr. Corey Emanuel’s TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/drcoreyemanuel  Men Talking Shift: http://www.instagram.com/mentalkingshift Artwork by the amazing Sara Stewart: Instagram.com/greaterthanokay Follow Something Was Wrong: Website:somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: instagram.com/lookieboo 

*Content warning: stalking, harassment, emotional, mental, and physical violence.  Resources: Stalking, Prevention, Abuse, & Resource Center: https://www.stalkingawareness.org SPARC SHARP Risk Assessment Tool: https://www.stalkingawareness.org/sharp/ Stop Stalking Us: https://www.stopstalkingus.com Special K Investigations: https://www.specialkpi.com Delete Me: https://joindeleteme.com/ Sources: Catalano, S. (2012). Stalking Victims in the United States - Revised. U.S. Department of Justice. Retrieved July 5, 2024, from https://bjs.ojp.gov/content/pub/pdf/sv19.pdf Stalking Prevention Awareness & Resource Center. (n.d.). SPARC. Retrieved July 5, 2024, from https://www.stalkingawareness.org/fact-sheets-and-infographics/ Storey JE, Pina A, Williams CS. The Impact of Stalking and Its Predictors: Characterizing the Needs of Stalking Victims. J Interpers Violence. 2023 Nov;38(21-22):11569-11594. doi: 10.1177/08862605231185303. Epub 2023 Jul 24. PMID: 37482768; PMCID: PMC10515444. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10515444/ Tjaden, P. G., Thoennes, N., National Institute of Justice (U.S.), Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (U.S.), & National Violence Against Women Survey. (1998). Stalking in America: findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey. Center for Disease Control. Retrieved July 5, 2024, from https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/21857 Lenora Claire: Lenora’s website: https://www.lenoraclairellc.com/ Lenora’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenoraclaire Special K Investigations: https://www.specialkpi.com/

*Content warning: domestic violence, intimate partner violence, physical, emotional, mental, and sexual abuse, assault, racism, murder, and hate crimes Resources:  Interpride: https://www.interpride.org/ UN Women: https://www.unwomen.org/ Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation: https://glaad.org/ UN High Commissioner for Refugees: https://www.unhcr.org/us/ Sources: Understanding Intimate Partner Violence in the LGBTQ+ Community. (2022, November 4). Human Rights Campaign. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://www.hrc.org/resources/understanding-intimate-partner-violence-in-the-lgbtq-community N.T. Brown, T., & L. Herman, J. (2015). Intimate Partner Violence and Sexual Abuse Among LGBT People: A review of existing research. UCLA Williams Institute School of Law. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/ipv-sex-abuse-lgbt-people/ E. James, S., L. Herman, J., E. Durso, L., & Heng-Lehtinen, R. (2024). 2022 U.S. Trans Survey. National Center for Transgender Equality. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://transequality.org/sites/default/files/2024-02/2022%20USTS%20Early%20Insights%20Report_FINAL.pdf Youth Risk Behavior Survey: Data Summary & Trends Report 2009 - 2019. (n.d.). In Center for Disease Control. Center for Disease Control. https://www.cdc.gov/healthyyouth/data/yrbs/pdf/YRBSDataSummaryTrendsReport2019-508.pdf Wiggins, C. (2023, October 17). Hate Crimes Against LGBTQ+ People Surge, FBI Reports. The Advocate. https://www.advocate.com/news/fbi-increase-lgbtq-hate-crimes Li, W., & Lartey, J. (2023, March 25). New FBI Data Shows More Hate Crimes. These Groups Saw The Sharpest Rise. The Marshall Project. https://www.themarshallproject.org/2023/03/25/asian-hate-crime-fbi-black-lgbtq Jimanekia Eborn: Jimanekia’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/jimanekia Jimanekia’s Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Trauma Queen the Podcast: https://traumaqueen.love/podcast What Came Next Episode 36: [Jimanekia Eborn] Everyone Does Survivorship Differently

*Content warning: physical, emotional, mental, sexual, and financial abuse. Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ Sources: Frye, D. (2024, June 11). What Makes a Cult Leader? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/202406/what-makes-a-cult-leader Leaving The Relationship: Planning to leave? By Do It Safely Domestic Violence Center of Chester County: https://dvcccpa.org/leaving-the-relationship/ Love Bombing: Meaning & Origin. (n.d.). Dictionary.com. (August 6, 2024) https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/love-bombing/ Narcissistic Abuse: A Therapist's Guide to Identifying, Escaping, and Healing from Toxic and Manipulative People By Vanessa M. Reiser (2024): https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/vanessa-m-reiser/narcissistic-abuse/9781668644782/?lens=hachette-go  Follow Vanessa Reiser: Vanessa’s website: https://tellatherapist.net/ Vanessa’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/vanessareiserlcsw Vanessa’s TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/vanessareiser Vanessa’s Book: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/vanessa-m-reiser/narcissistic-abuse/9781668644782/?lens=hachette-go Vanessa’s What Came Next Ep. ‘The Treachery of No Empathy:’ https://podcasts.apple.com/bw/podcast/vanessa-reiser-the-treachery-of-no-empathy/id1674051643?i=1000661213926 Follow Something Was Wrong: Website: somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: instagram.com/lookieboo  The Data Points cover art is by the Amazing Sara Stewart.   

*Content Warning: digital violence, non-consensual distribution of intimate images, doxxing, cyberstalking, cyberbullying, grooming, exploitation, child sexual abuse material, internalized misogyny, hate crimes, racism, transphobia, and homophobia. Resources: Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3): https://www.ic3.gov/ National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ Take It Down: https://takeitdown.ncmec.org/ THORN: https://info.thorn.org/ Sources: Artificial Intelligence 2023 Legislation. (2023). The National Conference of State Legislatures. https://www.ncsl.org/technology-and-communication/artificial-intelligence-2023-legislation Bernard Marr. May 8, 2024. The Important Difference Between Generative AI And AGI. https://www.forbes.com/sites/bernardmarr/2024/05/08/the-important-difference-between-generative-ai-and-agi/ Deeptrace Labs. (2019). The State of Deepfakes: Landscape, Threats, & impact. https://regmedia.co.uk/2019/10/08/deepfake_report.pdf European Commission. (n.d.). The EU’s Digital Services Act. https://commission.europa.eu/strategy-and-policy/priorities-2019-2024/europe-fit-digital-age/digital-services-act_en FACT SHEET: Presidential Memorandum Establishing the White House Task Force to address online harassment and abuse. (2022). https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2022/06/16/fact-sheet-presidential-memorandum-establishing-the-white-house-task-force-to-address-online-harassment-and-abuse/#:~:text=The%20Department%20of%20Justice%20(DOJ)%20will%20implement%20new%20statutory%20provisions,at%20the%20intersection%20with%20domestic Janine M. Zweig, Ph.D., Meredith Dank, Ph.D., Pamela Lachman, Jennifer Yahner. Technology, Teen Dating Violence and Abuse, and Bullying.  U.S. Department of Justice. 2013. https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/243296.pdf National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. (n.d.). CyberTipline 2023 Report. https://www.missingkids.org/gethelpnow/cybertipline/cybertiplinedata Pew Research Center. (2021, January 13). The State of Online Harassment. Pew Research. https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2021/01/13/the-state-of-online-harassment/ Pew Research Center. (2022, December 15). Teens And Cyberbullying. Pew Research. https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2022/12/15/teens-and-cyberbullying-2022/ Right To Be. (n.d.). Self-Care When Experiencing Online Harassment. Right to Be. https://righttobe.org/guides/self-care-when-experiencing-online-harassment/ Rosenblatt, K. (2021, November 16). Drag queens are being swatted while streaming on Twitch. They want it to stop. NBC News. https://www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/pop-culture-news/drag-queens-are-swatted-streaming-twitch-want-stop-rcna5631 Rosenblatt, K. (2019, November 11). Family of Wichita man killed by police in swatting incident seeking $25 million from city. NBC News. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/family-wichita-man-killed-police-swatting-incident-seeking-25-million-n1079836 THORN. (2023, April 11). Online Grooming: What it is, how it happens, and how to defend children. https://www.thorn.org/blog/online-grooming-what-it-is-how-it-happens-and-how-to-defend-children/ Walker, Paige, Adam Jazairi, and Chelcie Rowell, eds. Digital Literacy Against Digital Violence: A Handbook for Library Workers. 2022. https://nfpcsa.pubpub.org/handbook. Dr. Aiden Hirshfield: Dr. Hirshfield’s website: https://www.aidenhirshfield.com/ Media Psyched Podcast: https://www.aidenhirshfield.com/podcast Dr. Hirshfield’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dr.aidenhirshfield

*Content warning: anxiety, depression, cyberbullying, cyberstalking, parasocial relationships, and mental illness. Resources: For additional resources & a list of related non-profit organizations, please visit http://somethingwaswrong.com/resources Sources: Rebecca Godard, Susan Holtzman, Are active and passive social media use related to mental health, wellbeing, and social support outcomes? A meta-analysis of 141 studies, Journal of Computer-Mediated Communication, Volume 29, Issue 1, January 2024, zmad055, Chaffey, D. (2024, May 1). Global Social Media Research Summary 2024. Smart Insights. https://www.smartinsights.com/social-media-marketing/social-media-strategy/new -global-social-media-research/ Firth, J., Torous, J., Stubbs, B., Firth, J. A., Steiner, G. Z., Smith, L., Alvarez-Jimenez, M., Gleeson, J., Vancampfort, D., Armitage, C. J., & Sarris, J. (2019). The "online brain": how the Internet may be changing our cognition. World psychiatry : official journal of the World Psychiatric Association (WPA), 18(2), 119–129. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.20617 Firth, J., Torous, J., Stubbs, B., Firth, J. A., Steiner, G. Z., Smith, L., Alvarez-Jimenez, M., Gleeson, J., Vancampfort, D., Armitage, C. J., & Sarris, J. (2019). The "online brain": how the Internet may be changing our cognition. World psychiatry : official journal of the World Psychiatric Association (WPA), 18(2), 119–129. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.20617 Uncapher MR, Wagner AD. (2018). Minds and brains of media multitaskers: current findings and future directions. Proc Natl Acad Sci;115:9889‐96 Wallinheimo, Anna-Stiina, and Simon L. Evans. (2021). "More Frequent Internet Use during the COVID-19 Pandemic Associates with Enhanced Quality of Life and Lower Depression Scores in Middle-Aged and Older Adults" Healthcare 9, no. 4: 393. https://doi.org/10.3390/healthcare9040393 Transactions, 21(4), 376-381. Hanson, J. (2018). Social media. World Book Student. Loftus, E.F. (2018). Memory. World Book Student. Mendoza, J. S., Pody, B. C., Lee, S., Kim, M., & Mcdonough, I. Krach, S., Paulus, F. M., Bodden, M., & Kircher, T. (2010). The rewarding nature of social interactions. Frontiers in behavioral neuroscience, 4, 22. https://doi.org/10.3389/fnbeh.2010.00022 Kwek, A., Peh, L., Tan, J., & Lee, J. X. (2023). Distractions, analytical thinking and falling for fake news: A survey of psychological factors. Humanities & social sciences communications, 10(1), 319. https://doi.org/10.1057/s41599-023-01813-9 Bekalu, M. A., McCloud, R. F., & Viswanath, K. (2019). Association of social media use with social well-being, positive mental health, and self-rated health: Disentangling routine use from emotional connection to use. Health Education & Behavior, 46(2_suppl). https://doi.org/10.1177/1090198119863768 11. Korte M. (2020). The impact of the digital revolution 
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. Dialogues in clinical neuroscience, 22(2), 101–111. https://doi.org/10.31887/DCNS.2020.22.2/mkorte Dr. Corey Emanuel: Dr. Corey Emanuel’s website: http://coreyemanuel.com Dr. Corey Emanuel’s Linktree: http://linktr.ee/coreyemanuel Dr. Corey Emanuel’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/coreyemanuel Dr. Corey Emanuel’s TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/drcoreyemanuel Men Talking Shift: http://www.instagram.com/mentalkingshift  Follow Something Was Wrong: Website: somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: instagram.com/lookieboo  business@tiffanyreese.me  The SWW theme Song is U Think U, by Glad Rags.  The S21 cover art is by the Amazing Sara Stewart. 

*Content Warning: anxiety, depression, mental illness, suicidal ideation, suicide, cyberbullying, cyberstalking, sextortion, and predatory internet grooming. Resources:  National Alliance on Mental Illness: http://www.nami.org SOSA — Safe from Online Sex Abuse: https://sosatogether.org/  Healthy Children – How to Make a Family Media Plan: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/Media/Pages/How-to-Make-a-Family-Media-Use-Plan.aspx  Sources: Crushell, D. (2023, March 6). Park: Precise advertiser report - kids. YouTube Advertising Insights & Performance Blog. https://blog.precise.tv/blog/park_precise_advertiser_report_kids  Proulx, M. (2023). Tiktok usage plateaus among us gen Z teens. Forrester. : https://bit.ly/4avWrZU  Joseph, B. (2022, August). Cyberbullying (for parents) | nemours kidshealth. KidsHealth: https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/cyberbullying.prt-en.html  Chou, H. G., & Edge, N. (2012). “They are happier and having better lives than I am”: The impact of using Facebook on perceptions of others lives. Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 15 (2), 117-121: https://doi.org/10.1089/cyber.2011.0324 Ho, S. S., Lee, E. W., & Liao, Y. (2016). Social network sites, friends, and celebrities: The Roles of Social Comparison and Celebrity Involvement in Adolescents’ Body Image Dissatisfaction. Social Media Society, 2(3), 205630511666421: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/2056305116664216  Office of the Surgeon General (OSG). (2023). Social Media and Youth Mental Health: The U.S. Surgeon General’s Advisory [Internet]. Washington (DC): US Department of Health and Human Services. What Drives Mental Health and Well-Being Concerns: A Snapshot of the Scientific Evidence. Available from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK594764/ Yates, J. (2024, January 23). Violence on social media - the online fight for our children’s attention. Youth Endowment Fund: https://youthendowmentfund.org.uk/reports/children-violence-and-vulnerability-2023/  Katella, K. (2024, June 17). How social media affects your teen’s mental health: A parent’s guide. Yale Medicine: https://ym.care/9hg  Ivey-Stephenson, A. Z. (2020). Suicidal ideation and behaviors among high school students - youth risk behavior survey, United States, 2019. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/su/su6901a6.htm  Connect with Dr Corey Emanuel: Dr. Corey Emanuel’s website: http://coreyemanuel.com Dr. Corey Emanuel’s Linktree: http://linktr.ee/coreyemanuel Dr. Corey Emanuel’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/coreyemanuel Dr. Corey Emanuel’s TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/drcoreyemanuel Men Talking Shift: http://www.instagram.com/mentalkingshift Socials to tag: @coreyemanuel on IG @mentalkingshift on IG Follow Something Was Wrong: Website: somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: instagram.com/lookieboo  business@tiffanyreese.me  The SWW theme Song is U Think U, by Glad Rags.  The S21 cover art is by the Amazing Sara Stewart.

*Content Warning: sexual assault, rape, false reporting and mental illness. Sources: Brittain, A. (2024, October 1). Me Too Movement. Britannica. https://www.britannica.com/topic/Me-Too-movement Brooks SK, Greenberg N. Psychological impact of being wrongfully accused of criminal offenses: A systematic literature review. Med Sci Law. 2021  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7838333/  The Criminal Justice System: Statistics. (n.d.). Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network.. https://rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system Criminal Resource Manual. (n.d.). U.S. Department of Justice. https://www.justice.gov/archives/jm/criminal-resource-manual-916-false-statements-federal-investigator False Reporting. (2012, March). National Sexual Violence Resource Center. https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2012-03/Publications_NSVRC_Overview_False-Reporting.pdf Falsely Reporting an Incident, Saland Law  https://www.new-york-lawyers.org/falsely-reporting-an-incident.html  Former Rising Football Star Exonerated in Rape Case. (2012, May 24). ABC News. https://abcnews.go.com/US/rising-football-star-brian-banks-exonerated-rape-case/story?id=16424770 Leithead, K. (2022, November 9). False Reports: Percentage. End Violence Against Women International. https://evawintl.org/best_practice_faqs/false-reports-percentage/ Mascolo, J. (2023, September 8). Filing a False Police Report. https://www.findlaw.com/criminal/criminal-charges/filing-a-false-police-report.html McNamara, J., & Lawrence, J. (2012, September 1). False Allegations of Adult Crimes. Law Enforcement Bulletin. https://leb.fbi.gov/articles/featured-articles/false-allegations-of-adult-crimes McNamara JJ, McDonald S, Lawrence JM. Characteristics of false allegation adult crimes. J Forensic Sci. 2012 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ More Than Twice as Many Americans Support Than Oppose the #MeToo Movement. (2022, September 29). Pew Research. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2022/09/29/more-than-twice-as-many-americans-support-than-oppose-the-metoo-movement/ Perrotto, A. (n.d.). The rarity of false rape reports; a brave new world of technology (PCAR). Pennsylvania Coalition to Advance Respect. https://pcar.org/blog/rarity-false-rape-reports-brave-new-world-technology Tarana Burke. (n.d.). Britannica. https://www.britannica.com/biography/Tarana-Burke Woman Who Falsely Accused Brian Banks of Rape Ordered to Pay $2.6M. (2013, January 15). KTLA 4. https://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/woman-falsely-accused-brian-banks-rape-ordered-to-pay-26m/1971672/  Resources: National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) https://www.nami.org/  National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) https://www.nsvrc.org/  Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN). https://rainn.org/?_ga=2.262784078.390982495.1727710159-2006450411.1727373347  Follow Something Was Wrong: Website: somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: http://www.instagram.com/lookieboo  The Data Points cover art is by the Amazing Sara Stewart.   

Sources: As Nationwide Fraud Losses Top $10 Billion in 2023, FTC Steps Up Efforts to Protect the Public. (2024, February 9). Federal Trade Commission. https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/press-releases/2024/02/nationwide-fraud-losses-top-10-billion-2023-ftc-steps-efforts-protect-public BBB Tip: 10 steps to avoid scams. (2024, June 21). Better Business Bureau. https://www.bbb.org/article/tips/8767-bbb-tips-10-steps-to-avoid-scams The Latest Scams You Need to Be Aware of in 2024, By DeNicola, L. (2023, December 30). https://www.experian.com/blogs/ask-experian/the-latest-scams-you-need-to-aware-of/ ​​Empowering Fraud Fighters. (n.d.). Financial Industry Regulatory Authority Foundation. https://www.finrafoundation.org/networks-we-strengthen/fighting-fraud Internet Crime Report 2023 by The Federal Bureau of Investigations. (2024). In Internet Crime Complaint Center. https://www.ic3.gov/Media/PDF/AnnualReport/2023_IC3Report.pdf  National Center for Victims of Crime, Financial Crime Resource Center: https://victimsofcrime.org/financial-crime-resource-center/  Financial Crimes Enforcement Network, FinCEN Resource Center:  https://www.fincen.gov/fincen-resource-center Fletcher, E. (2023, October 6). Social Media. Federal Trade Commission. https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/data-visualizations/data-spotlight/2023/10/social-media-golden-goose-scammers Identity Fraud Cost Americans $43 Billion in 2023. (2024, April 10). American Association of Retired People. https://www.aarp.org/money/scams-fraud/info-2024/identity-fraud-report.html Is Fraud Always a Federal Crime? (2024, March 20). Stechschulte Nell. https://www.tpatrialattorneys.com/fraud-always-federal-crime/ Criminal Consumer Fraud, Must the Goals of Deterrence and Compensation Be Mutually Exclusive? By The American Journal of Criminal Law, Kirschner, N. M. (1979). https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/criminal-consumer-fraud-must-goals-deterrence-and-compensation-be Recovering From Online Fraud. National Crime Victim Law Institute: https://ncvli.org/recovering-from-financial-fraud-and-identity-theft-services-for-victims/#:~:text=%E2%80%93Identity%20Theft%20Resource%20Center%20 What Are Some Common Types of Scams? (2024, March 13). Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/what-are-some-common-types-of-scams-en-2092/ Resources: FBI Internet Complaint Center: https://www.ic3.gov/ FBI Tip Center: http://tips.fbi.gov BBB Scam Risk Calculator: https://www.bbb.org/all/scam-prevention/risk-calculator Cybercrime Support Network: https://fightcybercrime.org/ Identity Theft Resource Center: https://www.idtheftcenter.org/ Financial Industry Regulatory Authority: https://www.finra.org/ Report Fraud to the Federal Trade Commission: https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/ For additional resources and a list of related non-profit organizations, please visit http://www.somethingwaswrong.com/resources Follow Something Was Wrong: Website: somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: http://www.instagram.com/lookieboo  The Data Points cover art is by the Amazing Sara Stewart.  

*Content Warning: sexual assault, sexual abuse, sexual violence, rape, suicidal ideation, and mental illness. Resources: Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network: RAINN.org 1 in 6 Organization: 1in6.org 1 in 6 Organization Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/1in6org National Sexual Violence Resource Center: https://www.nsvrc.org/find-help National Sexual Assault Hotline (1800-656-4763): https://www.rainn.org/resources Sources: The 1 in 6 Statistic. (n.d.). One in Six Organization. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://1in6.org/statistic/ Cal Poly Humboldt & North Coast Rape Crisis Team. (n.d.). Supporting Survivors. Sexualized Violence Statistics. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistic Chen LP, Murad MH, Paras ML, Colbenson KM, Sattler AL, Goranson EN, Elamin MB, Seime RJ, Shinozaki G, Prokop LJ, Zirakzadeh A. Sexual abuse and lifetime diagnosis of psychiatric disorders: systematic review and meta-analysis. Mayo Clin Proc. 2010 Jul;85(7):618-29. doi: 10.4065/mcp.2009.0583. Epub 2010 May 10. PMID: 20458101; PMCID: PMC2894717. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2894717/ March 2020 Delayed Disclosure: A Factsheet Based on Cutting-Edge Research on Child Sexual Abuse. (2020). Montana Legislature. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://leg.mt.gov/bills/2023/Minutes/Senate/Exhibits/230227JUSa3.pdf T. Muller, R., PhD. (2020, October 15). The Invisible Male Victims of Sexual Trauma. Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/202010/the-invisible-male-victims-sexual-trauma National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey: 2015 Data Brief - Updated Release. (2018). National Center for Injury Prevention and Control Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2021-04/2015data-brief508.pdf National Sexual Violence Resource Center. (n.d.). Sexual Assault: Statistics. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics Petersson, C.C., Plantin, L. Breaking with Norms of Masculinity: Men Making Sense of Their Experience of Sexual Assault. Clin Soc Work J 47, 372–383 (2019). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10615-019-00699-y Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network. (n.d.). Perpetrators of Sexual Violence: Statistics. RAINN. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://www.rainn.org/statistics/perpetrators-sexual-violence Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network. (n.d.-b). Sexual Assault of Men and Boys: Statistics. Retrieved June 26, 2024, from https://www.rainn.org/articles/sexual-assault-men-and-boys U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). National Center for PTSD: Sexual Assault - Males. https://www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/types/sexual_trauma_male.asp LeRon Barton:  LeRon’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/leronlbarton Leron’s Website: https://leronbarton.com/ Follow Something Was Wrong: Website: somethingwaswrong.com  IG: instagram.com/somethingwaswrongpodcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@somethingwaswrongpodcast  Follow Tiffany Reese: Website: tiffanyreese.me  IG: instagram.com/lookieboo  business@tiffanyreese.me  The SWW theme Song is U Think U, by Glad Rags.  The S21 cover art is by the Amazing Sara Stewart.

Resources: National Domestic Violence Awareness Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ Sources: *FACT SHEET: Biden-⁠Harris Administration Commemorates the 30th Anniversary of the Violence Against Women Act and Strengthens Commitment to Ending Gender-Based Violence. (2024, September 12). The White House. https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2024/09/12/fact-sheet-biden-harris-administration-commemorates-the-30th-anniversary-of-the-violence-against-women-act-and-strengthens-commitment-to-ending-gender-based-violence/ *Reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). (2022, March 16). The White House. https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2022/03/16/fact-sheet-reauthorization-of-the-violence-against-women-act-vawa/ *Release of the National Plan to End Gender-Based Violence: Strategies for Action. (2023, May 25). The White House. https://www.whitehouse.gov/gpc/briefing-room/2023/05/25/release-of-the-national-plan-to-end-gender-based-violence-strategies-for-action/ *These sources were removed from the White Houses website a few days after this episode was published. The below sources were added to support the reported information elsewhere. 2013 and 2022 Reauthorizations of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). (2023, April 7). U.S. Department of Justice. https://www.justice.gov/tribal/2013-and-2022-reauthorizations-violence-against-women-act-vawa Howard, J. (2023, May 25). White House launches national plan to end gender-based violence. CNN. https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2023/05/25/health/gender-based-violence-white-house-plan Sullivan, K., & Vazquez, M. (2022, March 16). Biden marks reauthorization of Violence Against Women Act. CNN. https://www.cnn.com/2022/03/16/politics/biden-violence-against-women-act-white-house/index.html University of Southern California, Santa Barbara. (2024, September 12). FACT SHEET: Biden-Harris Administration Commemorates the 30th Anniversary of the Violence Against Women Act and Strengthens Commitment to Ending Gender-Based Violence. The American Presidency Project. https://www.presidency.ucsb.edu/documents/fact-sheet-biden-harris-administration-commemorates-the-30th-anniversary-the-violence Lenora Claire: Lenora’s website: https://lenoraclaire.com/ Lenora Claire Consulting: https://www.lenoraclairellc.com/ Lenora’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenoraclaire Special K Investigations, Inc.: https://www.specialkpi.com/

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