Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by dom top superstar Wade Wolfgar, who gives the boys a glimpse into the many elements that have helped him compose his brand. From growing up in Calgary, to the winding road toward sex work and adult films, to his very unique delivery in his videos, to his propensity for older men; all of this rounds out to a frank discussion about the power dynamics that sometimes play out in gay sex and porn, and how the terminology to describe this interplay has evolved over time, on and off camera. We love you, Dad!Presented by Fleshbot

In this episode, Adam and Cole welcome decorated gay porn veteran Steve Cruz, who shares with us the twists and turns of his unique journey in the world of gay adult films. Starting out at the top as a star performer at Raging Stallion Studios, Cruz spent over four years in front of the camera before making the permanent switch to behind, becoming one of Falcon Media’s most prolific directors. He also shares his perspective on what it’s like to see how gay porn has evolved during his time as a member of the industry, as well as the evolution of the gay community at large as reflected by its general proclivities. Strap on and Strap In!Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket

Welcome back to Sorry for Asking! In the season 2 premiere, Adam and Cole get used to the new and improved setup, provided by their partnership with Fleshbot x Cybersocket, while they catch up about the recent holiday season and share steamy stories from their recent sexy filming opportunities (including a shared group scene, in which Adam had a very exciting new experience). They also go in-depth about this year’s exciting gay porn awards season, their time at the GayVNs (where Cole brought home the coveted award for Best Leading Actor in a Feature), and also get into some of their New Year's resolutions.Strap on and Strap In!Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket

In the final episode of season 1, Cole and Adam share their wisdom, insights, and experiences with the body dysmorphia that often plagues performers in the gay adult industry, as well as the gay community at large. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

For the penultimate episode of season 1, Adam and Cole welcome actor and comedian Drew Droege to discuss a wide range of Hollywood’s film and television offerings that depict the evolving gay experience, sexual and otherwise.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Our Thanksgiving Episode!  Adam and Cole discuss a delicious buffet of topics, including queer party culture, double penetration, Adam’s recent travels and Cole’s upcoming directorial enterprise, and link them all back to the spirit of giving (and receiving).  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Adam and Cole welcome porn performer and Falcon Exclusive Andre Donovan, who shares the evolution of his sexual tastes and performer journey over eight years in the industry, and discusses his perspective on the importance of diversity, representation, and visibility for POC performers in gay porn and beyond.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

You know what doesn’t get talked about enough? Gay butt sex! The boys have an in-depth conversation about the ins and outs and the joys and woes of anal intercourse, on and off camera. Sorry in advance, Mom. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

This week the boys nab an exclusive interview with James Larusso, formerly known as gay porn star Tommy Defendi, who shares the extreme highs and deep lows of his very unique journey as a ‘heteroflexible’ performer, which started at the age of 18.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Adam and Cole dive deep into the psychology, anatomy , and occasional help from science that it takes to keep their equipment stiff and ready in order to ensure a smooth day at work.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

This week, the boys welcome the LA nightlife guru, who shares his experience bringing sex positivity and a sense of humor to his very unique parties, which feature vintage porn, sexy gogo boys, and a safe space for LGBTQ folks to get their freak on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Cole and Adam welcome prolific porn personality, Joel Someone, to share his experiences as the self-proclaimed ‘Maggie Gyllenhaal of gay porn,’ from working with every independent run studio to winning this year’s GayVN award for Best Bisexual performer.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Cole and Adam catch up on recent events, including their respective travels and breakups, and the traumatic incident that required surgery for Cole.  They also examine what it’s like to date while being part of the adult industry.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Adam and Cole are joined by Raging Stallion exclusive performer Drew Valentino, who answers questions about performing, his beginnings in the industry, and, of course, his propensity for pits. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Adam and Cole discuss health issues relevant to performers, including the arduous testing processes for monkeypox, Covid, and STIs, that can be prohibitive to a productive filming schedule. They also recount the tricky landscape of porn star Twitter drama, and deconstruct the mono-normative relationship structures that are particularly difficult to function when partaking in the world of adult content. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Adam and Cole welcome podcast extraordinaire, H Alan Scott, as their first guest to discuss and compare notes on the porn that shaped them in their formative years.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Adam and Cole revisit the monkeypox issue and underline the importance of sexual health as performers.  They also discuss the funny politics of unsolicited nudes and share insight on the ever involving and often frustrating process of setting up content collaborations.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

Our first Podcast!  What are we doing here?  Adam and Cole discuss why we decided to start a podcast and what kind of things you can expect to hear on our forum.   --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support

And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things up in the new year can bring some inspiration to their lives, in order to kick some old habits and jumpstart new ones. The boys pontificate on how to take better care of themselves as winter approaches, mentally, physically, and even financially, in order to ensure a fruitful and clearheaded start to the looming new year. Thank you all for listening to season 3 of Sorry For Asking, and we will be back!!

Lube up more than your nethers this time, folks. Your brain, heart, and soul could each use a good yank, as evidenced by today’s conversation with OG YouTube sensation turned holistic adult content producer, Davey Wavey. Adam and Cole dive deep into Davey’s history, growing up Catholic in Rhode Island, and falling into the early days of YouTube video diaries going viral and making coin, ultimately leading him to creating his own porn studio. After cultivating a community of followers and inviting them into the ongoing conversation of our collective queer sexual awakening and authenticity, Davey created Himeros.TV. In this episode, we get into the mission statement behind what Himeros is about, offering a different way to experience adult content that reflects a variety of physical as well as emotional and spiritual touch points. Did you know that porn could be healing? Davey had an inkling, and he turned it into something special with Himeros, an alternative to the gay erotica we are more familiar with, that may open up new avenues of how you process, consume, and enjoy erotic art, and thereby your erotic self. Adam and Davey share stories of how they met and worked together, and how working in this field has helped all three gentlemen on the path to deeper self discovery. May require a second listen, sorry not sorry!