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The cousins welcome, for the first time on Spacetrash, the talented and amazing cousin Emily! We learn about each other's social media savvy, introverted tendencies, and how the Full Moon Lunar Eclipse energy has affected us. We speak about the rise in popularity of introverted tendencies like the fetish of cancelling plans, the trouble with ghosting, and the general aversion to such things that were commonplace when Allie was a teenager like phone calls and voicemails - and what a frightfest answering machines were. We get into a slew of additional interesting topics highly relevant to living in modern society today! Join us! :)
The cousins Mark and Allie break down what self care really means - to them individually and as a collective cultural phenomenon. Life is hard. That's just facts. Listen in to hear how we crack open the magic of self-care, however it looks - whatever it takes.
Mark turns the big 3-0 on September 29th so to add to the festivities for the final SpaceTrash episode of his 20's we are joined by the ever-wonderful cousin Kate, Mark's older sister by 3 years!! Mark's sun sign being a Libra, we delve into the specifics - is Mark a typical Libra? What are Libras like? What makes them so especially loveable, fair, charming, and kind? And when exactly did Mark dial up his style game and start dressing to impress, as Libras so often do? As we wish our beloved and amazing Cousin Mark the Best 30th Birthday Ever, come listen in to learn why sometimes it's important to EAT THE LAST DONUT. Mark definitely drops some serious words to the wise in this episode. Join us!
In which the cousins Mark and Allie talk about so many things from tricks to make your home smell like a beautiful fall bounty without burning dangerous candles, to what it takes to toss morals aside and enjoy a good serial killer series, with so many laughs and ridiculousness inbetween. And the count down to Mark's 30th birthday has begun! We just KNOW Lizzo will be fire on September 29th.
In this episode, Mark and Allie talk all things career, work-life balance, and how the current culture is challenging (and in many cases outright rejecting) the idea of workaholism as a virtue. Also, Allie is becoming a certified life coach - what does that mean? Let's discuss!
In this UNHINGED episode, the cousins discuss the books they're reading, witchcraft, the FBI raid of former president trump and pumpkin spice lattes!
When the world around you feels impossibly bleak and on the precipice of getting even bleaker, what are we doing with our lives and what really matters? In this episode we talk about how the once ever popular 5-year plan has become more like a 3-week or 3-month plan as predicting what our lives will be like in this society even a year from now feels pretty overwhelming and maybe even impossible.
In this episode we cover just about EVERYTHING from the overturn of Roe to the role religion, government, and white privlege have played in setting up a society too rigid and too uninclusive to stand the test of time. As we are seeing all around us - in ways we are not yet equipped to handle without a LOT of anger and backlash - the old norms, rules, structures and restrictions simply cannot stand when so many of us are determined to evolve and expand what it means to be human and what it means to be free. Amidst all of this bleakness, we discuss the role of entertainment, comic relief, and how much of each is too much or just right in times when we are all truly under constant threat.
In this episode we cover a LOT of ground because we have a LOT going on right now. We talk investing in new business ventures, investing in our relationships, new athletic interests, and opening up our minds and hearts to renewed versions of ourselves. Join us!
In which Allie and Mark discuss BenDeLaCreme's newest stage show, Ready to be Committed. Mark explains the phenomenon that is RuPaul's Drag Race and possibly taking Allie to her first drag brunch! As Allie continues to work on her memoir, the cousins discuss the resistance that can come from doing what you love the most. Also, is separating ourselves by generation detrimental to our society or is there value in the distinction? All these things and more in the first Space trash episode of Pride months 2022!
This episode may just be one of our very favorites ever. We get vulnerable about hard feelings around addiction, family, love, and taking care of our own needs before anyone's else's. We also chat about how Allie's book is coming along, we praise Mark for his exceptional performance as the officiant of cousin Owen and Heather's wedding, and take a deep dive into many intimate topics like celebrating quitting as success and why Allie NOT delivering her own toast to her brother at his wedding was absolutely the right call. Who knew that by starting off with topics like Hulu's "Candy" and Jennette McCurdy's "I'm Glad My Mom Died" we cousins could get so deep!
In which the cousins Allie and Mark chat all about moving Mark into his brand new solo living space, aka The Lake House. It's got the chillest vibes that even this episode felt like hanging out on the couch in the roof top living room with all the windows open, springtime evening breeze sailing right on through. Also, cousin Owen's wedding is this week - Allie is Best Lady and Mark is Officiant. . . are we ready??? Never a dull moment in this family. :)
In which Mark and Allie discuss the modern day dating scene as cousin Mark continues his earnest search for the man whose personality and charms compliment his in that perfect way. We talk all about what it means to bring out each other's strengths in a relationship, how Mark envisions a committed relationship, love languages, ways to meet someone, and so much more! Grab your favorite beverage and come hang out as we discuss all things love, dating, marriage, and the keys to a lasting relationship.
SO MUCH in this super fun episode! Mark and Allie are pumped for springtime with so very much to look forward to on the horizon. New haircuts, new living spaces, new furry friends, and new relationship goals are all out there waiting. We do take a moment to reflect on some old school nostalgic stuff, too. Come hang out - it's been too long. :)
In which cousins Mark and Allie give their review of the first zero proof bar to open in the Philly area: Volstead by Unity in Manyunk. What is it like to drink a mocktail as a sober person? Would you drink a non-alcoholic beer or wine if you didn't "have to"? Also, is cousin Mark about to move into his new home?! Come hang out and hear what we are up to. :)
Mark gives up giving a f*ck for the Lenten season which inspires Allie to do the same! There really is an art to letting go of the things that simply do not matter, the things that are holding you back, and the things which are causing you anxiety for no good reason. Let's discuss!
In this very special episode, Mark asks Allie a few lovely questions about her sobriety journey so far (at the time of recording she was 53 days) and as Allie shares her answers, they both discover it is a topic rich with interesting life lessons for all about how to talk about sensitive stuff with respect and care while still being able to laugh and be your whole self. Mark opens up about his coming out story and the two cousins discuss the ways in which being "in the closet" is isolating, and what it's like to reveal your true self in a world where you do not know what people's reactions may be or how you will deal with that. This episode is a moving one and we feel honored that you would join us and take a listen. :)
In which we draw our tarot cards from The Dark Wood Tarot to kick off the Year of the Tiger! Find out how beautifully spot on the reading is both for cousin Mark and cousin Allie. What are you looking to let go of and leave in the past as we begin a new lunar year? What are you looking to bring new life to? Let's get into it!
Welcome back Spacetrashers! In our first episode of the new year we discuss Mark's brand new image (haircut), what switching up your look can do for your soul, and please help us decide: should Allie get bangs?? We pay tribute to the beautiful and strange Bob Saget, who embodied both homespun compassionate dad and raunchy stand up comedian without shame or remorse and everyone from John Stamos (*swoon*) to Randy Rainbow adored him. Also, join us on Allie's first ever journey through Dry January! How is THAT going? Come hang and find out. We missed you. :)
In our final episode of 2021, cousins Mark and Allie discuss the roller coaster of a year gone by. It's been another year of insanity and we chat about all of it from the brain fog to the question we've been asking ourselves most recently: in times as off the wall as these, can you even be sarcastic anymore? Also, cousin Mark continues his tradition of ranking a classic Christmas song and this year he takes on a controversial one - can you guess? Tune in to find out! And remember - no matter how crazy it gets "out there" - it will always be cozy on Spacetrash. Happy Holidays we love you!





