Spice Station

In this episode of Spice Station, Igbo Spice explores why the concept of “coming out” doesn’t always fit—especially for queer Africans. Through personal reflection and anonymous submissions from the community, they unpack themes of identity, culture, faith, and the pressure to explain yourself in a world that often refuses to understand.With humor, heart, and honesty, this episode holds space for anyone navigating queerness on their own terms.Submit a question or story anonymously: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Or email:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Support us by becoming a YungNollywood patron: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💌 We’re catching up with your anonymous stories, and this one? It spirals. A messy entanglement with an older friend, shared lovers, queer confusion, and questions about safety in female friendships that blur too many boundaries. Spice dissects bisexuality vs. predatory behavior, why age doesn’t equal wisdom, and the deeper root of avoidant attachments.We also revisit a powerful message from a recovering parentified daughter reflecting on the weight of being the firstborn, growing up in a home where love looked like punishment. This heartfelt note cracks open a necessary conversation on childhood trauma, self-worth, and healing from emotionally unavailable parenting.Finally, we hear from a young listener in her early 20s wondering: is it okay not to prioritize romantic relationships right now? (Short answer: yes. Long answer: you'll want to hear this segment.)And of course—some beautiful love notes to the YungNollywood community that remind us why this platform exists in the first place. 💐This episode is messy, magnetic, and deeply human. Press play.Submit a question or story anonymously: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Or email:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Support us by becoming a YungNollywood patron: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Hello people of God 🌬️ In this candid and unfiltered episode of Spice Station, your host Igbo Spice is showing up just as she is—no pressure, no script, just realness. Fresh out of 20 therapy sessions (clap for her!) and officially past her Saturn return, she shares what it feels like to be in this in-between season—resting, reflecting, and gently stepping into a new chapter.She chats about eclipse energy, the stock market shifts (yikes), and the beauty of giving yourself grace to slow down. This is an episode that feels like a cozy check-in with a friend, reminding you that it’s okay to chill and honor where you’re at.Tune in for some lighthearted reflections, laughs, and that familiar Spice warmth.

On this episode of Spice Station, we have affirmations for eldest daughters and all parentified children. Set to the frequency of cosmic manifestation, these words are here to support your healing, self-love, and renewal. 🌑✨Happy New Moon in Pisces. Allow yourself to release, receive, and step into your power.🎧 Listen while meditating, journaling, or resting. If this resonates with you, replay and share with someone who needs it.And as always—be wreckless about your self-preservation. 🖤Join the conversation https://yungnollywood.com/PODCAST/

Why is women’s sexuality so feared, controlled, and policed? In this episode of Spice Station, Igbo Spice dives into the power of embracing our erotic selves as an act of resistance. From the psychology of projection to the sacred roots of sexuality, we explore how reclaiming desire is reclaiming power. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation on autonomy, pleasure, and liberation.🎙️ Subscribe, share, and join the conversation atyunollywood.com/podcast.

In this episode, we’re diving deep intoself-esteem—the invisible force that shapes your reality. Forget success, status, and external validation—true confidence isn’t built on applause, achievements, or how others see you.It starts from within.Igbo Spice shares a personal journey of recognizing low self-esteem in 2018 (the same yearYungnollywood was born!) and how that realization changed everything. From burnout to breakthroughs, she unpacks how self-worth impacts your relationships, career, and even the energy you attract. Why does low self-esteem keep you stuck in unfulfilling cycles?How does high self-esteem make you magnetic?Why is validation only forparking (and not for your identity)?And most importantly—how can youstep into the most powerful version of yourself andseduce life itself?Turn up the volume and get ready for aself-worth revolution. 🚀💫You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

In this episode of Spice Station, we’re diving deep into the institution of marriage—its history, its modern implications, and, most importantly, who it truly benefits. Inspired by Annie Idibia’s situation in Young, Famous & African, we dissect the societal narratives that frame marriage as a woman’s ultimate achievement while often ignoring the sacrifices it demands. From the disturbing historical reality of marital consent to the stark gender disparities in marital benefits, we’re questioning it all. Why is marriage still presented as the pinnacle of a woman’s success when data shows that single, child-free women report higher levels of happiness and well-being? And if marriage was never designed with women’s autonomy in mind, can we truly redefine it to serve us better? Annie’s predicament reflects a larger truth: women are conditioned to endure, to "stick beside him," even at the cost of their well-being. But at what point does devotion become self-sacrifice? It’s time for women to reclaim, redefine, or even reject marriage on their own terms. And if choosing yourself means embracing the villain narrative—so be it. You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

In this special episode of Spice Station, your host Igbo Spice invites you to celebrate her birthday from the vibrant streets of Havana, Cuba. Reflecting on her journey of self-actualization, she explores the power of protecting your peace and the concept of trust as a mirror—once cracked, the reflection is never the same. Igbo Spice dives deep into the art of letting go, why confrontation isn’t always the answer, and the profound importance of setting boundaries. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that self-love and self-respect are the ultimate gifts we give ourselves. Tune in for thoughtful musings, personal anecdotes, and a sprinkle of humour as we kick off a new chapter together. Don't forget to follow Igbo Spice’s birthday adventure on TikTok! You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: ⁠⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠ or email: ⁠⁠⁠spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠⁠ You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

Drawing parallels between growth in darkness—like a seed in soil—and the quiet power of patience, this episode explores the beauty of delayed gratification and how it shapes us. IgboSpice unpacks why worrying is wasted energy, how frustration can signal the need for pause or redirection, and why self-validation is the ultimate key to staying grounded in your journey. You'll leave this episode with a fresh perspective on trusting the process and a set of affirmations to remind you that everything you deserve is already making its way to you. Take a deep breath, tune in, and remember: the best is here, and the best is yet to come. You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: ⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠ or email: ⁠⁠spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠ You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

In this episode, Igbo Spice is back with Ask YungNollywood in a new bonus segment to tackle a spicy listener dilemmas. When a boyfriend invites his Nigerian parents to stay in a one-bedroom apartment for three whole months—without consulting his partner—things get real tight, real quick. How do you set boundaries without being labeled the "mean girlfriend"? Should you compromise, speak your truth, or start looking for a new apartment? Igbo Spice doesn’t hold back as she breaks down this situation with her signature wit, wisdom, and no-nonsense advice. ✨ Get ready for laughs, tough love, and some serious gems on how to prioritize your comfort over people-pleasing. Because sometimes, you just have to be the mean girl. 💅🏾 Have a question for the next episode? Submit yours anonymously at yungnollywood.com/podcast or email us at spicestation@yungnollywood.com 🔊 Hit play and let’s get into it!

In this episode of Spice Station, IgboSpice dives deep into the powerful concept of devotion vs. discipline. Drawing inspiration from a Dr. Phil segment starting a gold digger and her disgruntled daughter, she unpacks how desires aren’t distractions, but rather sacred clues guiding you toward your highest self. She challenges the societal narrative that success and fulfillment require struggle and sacrifice, encouraging you to instead lean into devotion—doing what excites you and fuels your passions. Through personal stories and insights, IgboSpice reveals how devotion to your desires makes you magnetic and unstoppable, while discipline can often feel like forced effort. If you’ve ever wondered how to align with your true purpose and receive all that life has to offer, this episode is for you. Tune in to hear why honoring your desires is the key to unlocking ease, joy, and the abundance you truly deserve. You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: ⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠ or email: ⁠spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠ You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

In this spicy episode of Spice Station, your host IgboSpice dives deep into the powerful connection between self-care, vanity, and feminine energy. Far beyond the surface, she challenges the conventional views on beauty and vanity, embracing the idea that nurturing your external appearance can spark a transformative shift in your internal world. IgboSpice reflects on her own journey, from investing in her skincare to cultivating luxury and softness, and how these actions were not just about looking good, but about claiming her power and stepping into a more confident, feminine version of herself. She shares her belief that self-care practices like skincare are forms of honoring and adoring your body—investing in yourself not for validation, but as an expression of self-love. Get ready for an inspiring conversation on how vanity, when approached with intention, can lead to empowerment, confidence, and a magnetic aura. She also touches on the deeper significance of self-respect and beauty, urging you to embrace your own worthiness and connect with the divine energy within. Tune in and discover how treating your body like the temple it is can unlock the confidence and joy you've been craving! You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.com You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

In this soulful episode of The Spice Station Podcast by YungNollywood, we dive into the transformative power of self-adoration. Host IgboSpice explores the art of honoring yourself, as a sacred act of self-respect. Discover how embracing your inner radiance can uplift your spirit and shape a life of unapologetic beauty and confidence.Join us as we explore small rituals that celebrate your uniqueness, rewrite negative narratives, and surround yourself with the luxuries of the heart that nurture your soul. It’s time to stop dimming your light, and start basking in the glorious brilliance of who you are.Tune in, and let’s make adoration an everyday practice. Because when you adore yourself, the world can't help but adore you back.You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.comYou can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

Hello 2025 🐣 A word from your low effort queen 🐈‍⬛ IgboSpice kicks off 2025 and season 3 of the podcast with a raw, heartfelt episode, recorded straight from her phone. Reflecting on sensitivity, emotional growth, and overcoming perfectionism, Eva shares lessons from her own life and the story of drag queen Tyra Sanchez (now James). She encourages listeners to take charge of the things they need to work on, offering insights into emotional awareness and the power of staying calm in chaos. This marks the start of a more authentic, unfiltered podcast journey. Stay tuned for more from the "self-proclaimed prophetess of this generation."

Who needs enemies with friends like these? On this episode we use the 2006 Blockbuster film 'Girls Cot' to dissect the complexities in the structure of a frenemy relationship. Listen to personal stories from Igbospice and the Nollybaddies, and learn why you cannot grow a friendship with someone who wants your life. You too can join the conversation: yungnollywood.com/askyungnollywood/ or email spicestation@yungnollywood.com Support what we do by becoming a patreon Nollybaddie: www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

If you've ever experienced body shaming, body dysmorphia or an eating disorder, then everyone in this episode relates to you. Listen to why it's okay to fight fire with fire when you're protecting your vessel. You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.com You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

Igbospice and the yungnollywood family react to Tory Lanez being found guilty of shooting Megan thee Stallion.   You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.com You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

The beauty queen, the rebel, the mother, the lawyer, the diplomat and the widow of the most controversial Nigerian man (Biafra's leader), this episode covers why I am so obsessed with Bianca Ojukwu.  You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.com You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

On this episode, we respond to a listener question about overcoming the effects of family dysfunction as the oldest daughter, "None of my family validates my trauma. I feel like I really served no purpose to them but to serve them. I wish I wasn't born sometimes... is it really going to get better?" Listen as we share the benefits of distance, therapy and radical self preservation through personal stories and testimonies of survival.  You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.com You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood

To explore the theme of Gold-digging we chose the 2006 film 'Fishers of Men' that centres on a newly widowed woman and her two children, a son and daughter and how she encourages them towards reckless survival, all the while making sure she's taken care of in the process. Listen as we discuss how dating to secure financial freedom is normal, justifiable, recommended as just as hard a job to do as any. Is she a gold-digger or are you upset that you cannot afford to have her? You too can join the conversation by submitting anonymously here: https://yungnollywood.com/podcast or email: spicestation@yungnollywood.com You can support what we do by becoming a yungnollywood patron: https://www.patreon.com/yungnollywood