Spiced Wife: Let's Grow in God, Life, Marriage, and Sexual Intimacy

Spiced Wife is a bold, relatable podcast for wives who want to grow in biblical marriage, femininity, and confident, holy sexual intimacy. With practical tools, laughter, and convicting truth, get equipped to build an impactful life and marriage.

Ep 240 To Lose is Gain

Let's go to the Bible and talk about losing it all to gain it all. The Lord is our refuge and tower. He wants to be our main point of help and answers. We need Him more than anything.    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

12-15
29:27

Ep 239 Marriage Went As Unexpected | Question 15

Have you ever prayed for an answer only to have God respond in a way you didn't expect? Have you ever asked Him for help and felt like the guidance you received wasn't direct, simple, or easy to grasp? In this episode, we're talking about those moments—the unexpected turns in life and marriage—and how to recognize God's blessing even when it doesn't look like what you imagined. If you're feeling discouraged, disappointed, or even tempted to walk away because your husband isn't the godly man you hoped or expected him to be, this episode is for you. Lean in, be encouraged, and discover how God may be working in ways you haven't seen yet. Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

12-08
40:52

Ep. 238 Spiritually Mismatched Marriage | Question 14

What happens when you're passionately pursuing Jesus, but your husband isn't walking at the same pace? In this episode, we talk about navigating a spiritually mismatched marriage with grace — encouraging your husband without nagging, trusting God's timing, and building unity even when your paths look different. Find practical wisdom, biblical strength, and renewed hope as you believe God is still writing your family's story. Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

11-24
42:49

Ep. 237 Question on Oral Sex & Nudity | Q's 12 & 13

WARNING... Mature audience ONLY! This email came in asking a very detailed question on the topic of oral sex and where it is in the Bible. As you know, this is a God-centered podcast that is not scared of all topics. We stay holy, transparent, humble, and honest with all topics for the focus of marriages that glorify God. Let's Grow!  Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

11-17
32:02

Ep. 236 Work vs Stay Home + Communication | Question 11

Should a wife get a part-time job to help out, or should a husband get more work? Let's talk about it!   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

11-09
18:40

Ep. 235 Gods View of Husband as Provider | Question 9 and 10

Let's discuss this hot topic on what the role of provider looks like in a marriage, based on God's perspective! Take some time to listen all the way out. Don't listen with flesh, listen by the Spirit. Here we GROW! We will open with Scripture encouragement and then dive into the questions! 11:40 - Questions read 57:14 - Sermon from a male perscpective on husband providing   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

11-03
01:29:50

Ep. 234 Spiritual Warfare and Porn | Question 8

In this episode, we are getting powered up to take down every demonic force coming against our marriage! It is time to activate spiritual maturity and truth. We are also addressing how to confront the issue of porn in your marriage, addressing feeling intimidated, where to start if your husband is watching porn, and the spiritual aspects of it all. Buckle up and press play! Here we GROW!   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

10-27
01:01:35

Ep. 233 How To Find a New Church | Question 7

Are you feeling that you need to go to a new church for a new start in your life? Or have you been gone a while and now want to go back to church again? Maybe you have never attended a church before and want to know how to find one? If any of these apply, this episode is for you! We will discuss where to find a new church, how to identify the right one, and what to do before the search even begins! I even share a little about my own personal journey.    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/     ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife at Spicedwife.com/about    

10-20
30:25

Ep 232 Getting in The Mood For Sex | Question 6

In this episode of the Spiced Wife Podcast, we're diving into the talk about getting in the mood for sex, and I'm sure it's not what you think. It's amazing to feel sexy and confident—but what happens when life gets hectic, and that feeling just isn't there? How do you navigate those seasons without letting intimacy become a chore or an obligation in your marriage? Let's talk about practical ways to reconnect with your desire. Tune in—you don't want to miss this.   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH

10-13
36:30

Ep 231 How to Save The Marriage When Husband Wants a Divorce | Question 5

In this heartfelt episode, I'm responding to a question from a wife who's fighting for her marriage while her husband is ready to walk away. We'll explore what Scripture has to say about this difficult situation, turning to Romans 12 for guidance on love, patience, and perseverance, and 1 Corinthians 7 for wisdom on marriage and separation. If you've ever felt alone in wanting to save your relationship, this episode is for you. There is hope, even in the tension—and God's Word has something to say about it... Also, let's join together in prayer at the close!    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH

10-06
55:29

Ep. 230 When Friends Disrespect Your Marriage | Question 4

In this episode, I answer a question from a wife who is fed up with her husband's friends' wives being extremely inappropriate towards her husband and disrespectful towards her. Take a listen and share in the comments what you would do in this situation?    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH  

09-29
50:21

Ep 229 When Your Husband Does Not Obey God | Question 3

In this episode, I answer a heartfelt question from a wife whose husband believes in God but chooses not to follow Him. She is feeling weary, frustrated, and in need of encouragement to remain faithful to the Lord. If you've ever felt the same, this episode will lift your spirit and remind you of the strength found in God's truth. You'll learn how to keep pressing forward, what prayers to speak over your husband, and how to stand firm in faith this week.   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/  

09-22
35:23

Ep. 228 Married To An Unbeliever... Do I stay? Do I submit? | Question 2

In this episode, I'm answering question number two from a wife who shares a very difficult situation. She married while living in the world, but five years into her marriage, she gave her life to Christ. Since then, her husband has not only refused to convert, but he mocks her faith and argues with her about not living in sin with him anymore. On top of that, he has been unfaithful multiple times and continues to use drugs. Her question is: Should she stay in the marriage, and if she does, is she still called to submit to his unholy requests?   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

09-15
42:29

Ep 227 When Marriage Feels Like a Mistake | Choosing Your Spouse Over Family (Question 1)

Have you ever wondered if you made the wrong choice in marriage? Or felt the pain of a spouse who seems to dislike your family or maybe prioritize their parents and family over you? In this episode, we're diving into the real struggles a wife faces when doubt creeps in and when family comes between the marriage covenant. Together, we'll explore God's design for marriage, practical ways to know the voices in your mind, and how to encourage your spouse toward healthy change without nagging or resentment. This is a convictly raw yet truth and hope-filled conversation that will remind you that with God's guidance, your marriage can grow stronger, even in the toughest seasons.   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Watch and Subscribe to YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/  

09-08
53:29

Ep 226: Marriage Longevity Comes From the Secret Place | Strengthening Your Faith and Marriage

It's a brand-new season of Spiced Wife! This season, we're diving deep into your real questions about faith, marriage, intimacy, and womanhood—so be sure to send your questions to info@spicedwife.com to have them answered on the show. Before we jump into the Q&A episodes, this show sets the tone by pointing us back to the most important place for every wife and every marriage: the secret place of God. In this episode, Ashlyn shares why the secret place is the source of strength, guidance, and renewal for your life and marriage as well as how to access the secret place. If you want to grow, press forward, and build a godly, lasting relationship, it all begins with time spent with God!   ::: GET THE SPICED WIFE APP :::  https://www.spicedwife.com/theapp         

09-01
25:54

Ep. 225 My Battle With Darkness & Keeping Faith | Season Finale.... (Ch. 8)

Today, Ashlyn opens up about her personal struggles with darkness and the unwavering faith that has carried her through. In this final episode of Season 8, we also wrap up our book club discussion on I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer, with a deep dive into Chapter 8, which affirms our purpose and identity on earth. With raw honesty and empowering truth, Ashlyn offers encouragement to help you finish this season with the strength and clarity needed to fully surrender and stay strong in your journey. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp   The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem:  https://spiced-wife-intimately.mykajabi.com/offers/odF7DTP6   Visit the Spiced Wife Website: https://www.spicedwife.com   Let's Stay Connected! IG: https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Book Club Read: I Surrender All  https://amzn.to/48CpZpc  

03-24
01:04:44

Ep. 224 Overcome Feeling Unquailifed.... (Ch 7)

Join us as we dive back into our book club series with Chapter 7 of I Surrender All. In this episode, we explore the challenges of feeling unqualified to boldly embrace our transformation and fulfill the purpose God has set before us. No matter your past, today's discussion will empower you with the courage to step into your calling as a disciple who makes disciples. Tune in for inspiration and a renewed sense of purpose! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp   The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem:  https://spiced-wife-intimately.mykajabi.com/offers/odF7DTP6   Visit the Spiced Wife Website: https://www.spicedwife.com   Let's Stay Connected! IG: https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Book Club Read: I Surrender All  https://amzn.to/48CpZpc  

03-17
30:20

Ep. 223 Have You Been Honest With Yourself?... (Last Pause)

In this final pause of our book club reading, we're diving deep into the essential role of honesty in the journey of surrender. In today's episode, we'll explore Scripture to uncover the power of self-honesty and discuss practical steps for embracing it in our lives. Join in as we reflect on the importance of being true in the process of spiritual growth and surrender. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp   The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem:  https://spiced-wife-intimately.mykajabi.com/offers/odF7DTP6   Visit the Spiced Wife Website: https://www.spicedwife.com   Let's Stay Connected! IG: https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Book Club Read: I Surrender All  https://amzn.to/48CpZpc

03-10
41:02

Ep. 222 Stop Worrying and Stop Condeming Yourself

In this episode, we discuss HOW to stop worrying and stop condemning yourself. Get your Bibles and let's grow! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp   The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem:  https://spiced-wife-intimately.mykajabi.com/offers/odF7DTP6   Visit the Spiced Wife Website: https://www.spicedwife.com   Let's Stay Connected! IG: https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Book Club Read: I Surrender All  https://amzn.to/48CpZpc  

03-03
36:36

Ep. 221 Embracing Suffering... (Let's Pause)

Let's pause our reading of I Surrender All book club for a moment and learn how to embrace suffering. This is the mentoring that is needed to keep us strong and focused. This is an episode that pulls us up to spiritual maturity and accountability. Grab your Bible, prepare your heart for some loving but hard truths, and let's navigate this journey of growth and freedom together. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp   The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem:  https://spiced-wife-intimately.mykajabi.com/offers/odF7DTP6   Visit the Spiced Wife Website: https://www.spicedwife.com   Let's Stay Connected! IG: https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Book Club Read: I Surrender All  https://amzn.to/48CpZpc  

02-24
54:11

Katie Murphy

On your period being sin? The only Scripture on that was OT Levitical law, which was fulfilled by Christ. Also, please be careful recommending Joyce Meyers and look deep into what she believes. she is a false teacher. Thanks for sharing God's truth in sensitive topics.

07-15 Reply

Lori Ellens Manuel

I do not interpret the verse you referenced in the same way. Defiling the marriage bed means bringing another being into your marriage; hence, the union between husband and wife is no longer sacred. If, however, both parties find anal sex pleasurable, then I don't think God finds anything wrong it.

08-23 Reply

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