Spill the Tea with Beau & Kirsty

In this episode of Spill the Tea, Mylee shared her transformative journey from struggling with trauma, addiction, and a challenging 20-year career in social housing to becoming a breathwork facilitator for professional Muay Thai fighters. She emphasized the power of self-action, community support, and changing one's environment to facilitate healing and personal growth. Mylee’s inspiring story highlights the importance of vulnerability, resilience, and the impact of supportive coaching communities in overcoming life’s hardships.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:31 – 00:16:26 | Mylee’s Personal Background and Journey into Breathwork Mylee described herself as a lost soul before discovering breathwork, struggling with childhood trauma, self-hate, body image issues, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, and highly functional alcoholism.Her past relationships were often abusive, reflecting her own struggles with self-worth.The turning point came after her mother’s brain cancer diagnosis, which made her realize life’s brevity and the need for change.00:16:26 – 00:23:10 | Career in Social Housing Mylee worked for 20+ years in social housing, supporting clients with drug and alcohol problems and severe mental health challenges.She shared the emotional toll of this work and the inadequacy of systemic support.Over time, due to lack of support and the demanding nature of the work, she transitioned from frontline work to project-based roles with less client connection.This ultimately led to her decision to leave her 21-year career to pursue breathwork and coaching full-time.00:23:10 – 00:32:13 | Transition to Breathwork Coaching and Life Changes In a pivotal meeting with Kirsty, Mylee decided to pivot from comfortable roles (e.g., virtual assistant) to focusing on breathwork for Muay Thai fighters.She became accredited and embraced the purpose of helping athletes perform better and manage stress.Mylee relocated from Sydney to Thailand for a healthier environment promoting her growth and professional goals. 00:32:13 – 00:50:32 | Impact of the Limitless Community and Coaching Joining the We Breathe Success community provided Mylee with no-nonsense accountability, honest feedback, and emotional support.The community helped her maintain sobriety and handle setbacks without self-hate.She highlighted the importance of collaboration, encouragement, and real-talk in personal growth.00:50:32 – 00:56:28 | Final Motivational Message Mylee encourages people to join supportive communities for connection and growth, especially if feeling lonely or isolated.She advocates for taking action rather than overthinking or waiting for perfect conditions.The importance of self-prioritization and creating healthy environments is highlighted.Mylee's message underscores the power of resilience: "The grass is greener where you water it."  👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments! Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess. JOIN our FREE community here:a...

Linda Kaye, a mindset transformational coach specializing in breathwork, meditation, Reiki, energy healing, and mindset coaching. Linda shares her deeply personal journey of resilience, healing, and transformation, detailing her experiences with multiple marriages, single motherhood of four special needs children, and her path to becoming a successful coach and community leader.=================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:31 – 00:21:59 | Linda’s Personal Background and Early Challenges Linda Kaye is a mindset transformational coach specializing in breathwork, meditation, Reiki, and energy healing. She is involved in the We Persist community and is recognized for inspiring others through her personal transformation journey.Linda shared her life story as a single mother raising four children, most of their childhood spent in survival mode dealing with multiple challenges, including four divorces.She revealed her upbringing as an immigrant from Argentina and the pivotal moment of feeling abandoned when her parents moved back there, which significantly impacted her emotional patterns and relationships. 00:21:59 – 00:38:39 | Survival as a Single Mother and Parenting Challenges Linda’s role as a single mother was overwhelming, managing four special needs children with various diagnoses such as autism, ADHD, intellectual disabilities, and borderline personality disorder.She detailed the intense emotional and logistical challenges, such as suicidality and meltdowns in her children, which compounded her stress and survival mode.Discussed the loneliness of single motherhood, balancing work flexibility, and the constant unpredictability of her children’s needs.00:38:39 – 00:53:51 | The Turning Point: Limitless Event and Breathwork Discovery A major breakthrough occurred after attending the Limitless breathwork session in 2024, which awakened her to unresolved emotional pain and the unconscious patterns in her life.Breathwork was initially met with skepticism but proved transformative, enabling her to reset her nervous system and reduce anxiety and depression without medications.Through breathwork, ice baths, yoga, and meditation, Linda found effective mental health tools beyond traditional therapy. 00:53:51 – 01:05:58 | Transition to Mindset Coach and Business Growth Motivated by her transformation, Linda quickly became a breathwork facilitator and mindset coach, sharing her story publicly and building a following on Instagram.She emphasized ongoing personal growth and nervous system regulation as lifelong processes.Linda’s growing confidence manifested publicly since mid-2024, exemplified by attending conferences, stepping out of her comfort zone, and embracing leadership roles within the We Breathe Success communities.01:05:58 – 01:20:40 | Final Motivational Message Linda encourages embracing triggers and difficulties as opportunities for self-awareness and growth rather than avoiding them.She advises "just do it" as a mantra for her clients and herself, advocating for action over hesitation in decisions and life changes.The importance of nervous system regulation and daily self-care practices was emphasized for sustained mental and emotional health.  👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth?Share it in the comments! Catch the Vibes:p...

Kylie Anderson shares her powerful journey from a traumatic childhood and addiction to healing through breathwork and community support, following the devastating loss of her son. Kylie credits the transformative breathwork events and the support from the We Breathe Success community for helping her rebuild her life, set boundaries, and launch her own mentorship and events to support others experiencing grief. The conversation emphasizes the importance of connection, authentic healing beyond medication, and courageously overcoming personal pain to empower others.=================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:02:06 – 00:13:44 | Kylie’s Background and Past Struggles Kylie shared her troubled upbringing and time in boarding school, leading to a lack of love and support. She turned to drugs, unhealthy relationships, and experienced domestic violence.She used amphetamines for five years but has been clean for 18-19 years, naming a police raid with her children present as the pivotal moment to quit.The discussion touched on how addiction often fills a void and offers a sense of community, which makes recovery challenging.00:13:44 – 00:27:27 | Loss of Kylie’s Son and Its Impact Kylie recounted the tragic death of her 19-year-old son in a motorbike accident on July 8, 2016, and the profound impact it had on her life.She described her intuition and how that day was permanent marked by a message still saved on her phone.The trauma with images and sounds like sirens and helicopters became triggers for her grief. Kylie spoke about the years following the loss, which were characterized by deep grief, struggle with medical practitioners, and a refusal to be medicated for her pain.She expressed frustration with the medical system’s inability to offer meaningful help beyond prescribing medications.00:27:27 – 00:42:18 | Connection and Healing Through Breathwork Kylie detailed how her daughter introduced her to Beau and the breathwork community after a particularly severe trigger episode involving an ambulance.Despite initial skepticism and perceiving Beau as "cooked," she followed his content and reached out after six years of suffering, seeking help without medication.Beau responded with five voice messages in a row that deeply resonated with Kylie and became a turning point for her healing journey. 00:42:18 – 01:04:00 | Transformation and Growth Journey Kylie’s continued involvement included attending multiple events, joining online sessions, and receiving structured coaching, which helped her establish boundaries and prioritize her needs while maintaining relationships with her daughters.The importance of community and connection in healing was emphasized, noting how vulnerable spaces have been created to support others experiencing grief.01:04:00 – 01:17:43 | Business and Advocacy Development In 2023 and 2025, Kylie launched Breathe For Them, created a mentorship program Inner Circle, ran four events, and became a regular on a radio show, all anchored in her healing journey.She described the intention behind her work was to help others who feel isolated in grief.Kylie discussed the relevance of her story for others, encouraging people to embrace their worthiness and take action in their healing. 👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our...

Kim Kent shares her personal journey from financial struggle to success, including the emotional healing necessary to transform her relationship with money. She shared insights on mindset shifts, money management strategies, and the importance of addressing deeper emotional and generational beliefs around money. The conversation also touched on balancing hustle and flow, the challenges and successes in business and personal life, and practical advice for financial empowerment.========================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:16 – 00:16:50 | Relationship with Money and Early Struggles Kim explored her complicated relationship with money, including spending habits on wine and entertainment that conflicted with her financial goals. She emphasized the importance of budgeting intentionally, not cutting out what you enjoy, but allocating money wisely. Money stories and beliefs from childhood heavily affected her financial mindset. Money coaching is less about budgets and more about reprogramming subconscious beliefs and nervous systems to feel safe receiving and managing money.  00:16:50 – 00:29:46 | Money as a Reflection of Internal State Money is symbolic and reflects inner beliefs and trust issues formed in childhood, often manifesting in personal relationships and self-worth. Different family backgrounds lead to contrasting money mindsets within couples. The nervous system responds to financial stress and scarcity ingrained from upbringing.  00:29:46 – 00:46:14 | Personal Challenges and Resilience Kim shares deep personal challenges, including heartbreak with her husband and the tragic loss of her sister-in-law in 2021. These life events reinforced her trust in herself and motivated her to launch her coaching business focused on money mindset. Launched her one-on-one money coaching business during a difficult period, motivated by the fragility of life and a desire to empower herself financially for her child.Faced business challenges such as unmet expectations for product uptake, learning the importance of market testing, and not holding on to shame or failure. 00:46:14 – 00:56:36 | Financial Philosophy and Successes Kim discussed her views on property investments, rejecting societal conditioning that owning a home is intrinsically necessary for happiness or security.Prefers digital assets and investments that align with her lifestyle and freedom goals rather than traditional mortgage structures.Highlighted significant financial milestones such as achieving consistent five-figure months from her coaching business, upgrading to a seven-figure family home, and sustaining cash flow without relying on events.Advocates for working smarter, not harder — recognizing when to hustle and when to allow flow in business and life.  00:56:36 – 01:06:45 | Money Management Tips and Strategies Kim outlines practical advice: separate income accounts without linked cards, manual control over payments to build trust with money, saving first before spending, and budgeting consciously. These habits cultivate empowerment and reinforce positive beliefs around money. Kim recommends four pillars for financial change: mindset, money management, manifestation, and multiplication of money.Encourages saving first as a behavior to support belief in worthiness and financial stability.Advises creating separate bank accounts for income and spending to maintain control and personal power over finances.Warns against relying...

Monique Mottet shares her powerful journey as a green witch, overcoming personal trauma, embracing her spirituality, and how she empowers herself and others through her work. They also explored the misconceptions around witches, the importance of self-regulation, mindset shifts related to money beliefs, and the value of authenticity in life and relationships. Monique shared her experiences with the We Breathe Success community and her mission to help others find their power and live their truth. ==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:07 – 00:21:36 | Monique’s Background and Journey Monique identifies as a witch with a deep heritage combining modern science and magic.She experienced childhood challenges including night terrors and trauma within her family environment, which influenced her spiritual path.She was raised around toxic relationships and abusive experiences but was motivated by love for her daughter to seek change and break free.  00:21:36 – 00:29:05 | Witchcraft and Spirituality Redefined Monique redefines being a witch as a "Woman In Total Control of Herself," emphasizing empowerment, self-regulation, and sovereignty beyond stereotypes of witches.She discusses how historical oppression of women and witches informs her current belief in owning power without fear, and the cultural shift where women now embody both masculine and feminine roles.The host and Monique discuss the compatibility of spirituality and religion, addressing misconceptions and the freedom to believe in more than one truth. 00:29:05 – 00:41:46 | Personal Life & Relationships Monique met her husband through shared trauma and recovery; their relationship embodies complexity and healing over time.She navigates challenges within her marriage due to differing spiritual backgrounds but remains committed to self-love and authenticity.Raising her daughters with teachings about their ancestral magic and heritage is a key part of her life.   00:41:46 – 00:46:10 | Experiences with We Breathe Success Monique credits joining the We Breathe Success program as transformative for her mindset and inner power.Working on money mindset was pivotal; she overcame fears of being a “target” due to financial success and embraced receiving money as a form of energy exchange.This mindset shift led to unexpected financial opportunities and breakthroughs, including significant deposits in her bank account.She highlights the importance of mindset over strategy alone for holding and growing success.  00:46:10 – 00:57:41 | Challenges and Empowerment One of Monique’s biggest challenges was overcoming her own limiting beliefs and the masks she wore to protect herself from judgment.Joining a supportive, non-judgmental community (We Breathe Success) helped her shed these masks, embrace vulnerability, and expand confidently into her authentic self.She acknowledges the ongoing work of self-regulation and leadership in her personal, spiritual, and business life. 👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments! Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being...

Kirsty O'Neill shares her powerful journey overcoming severe drug addiction, domestic violence, and trauma to find healing and purpose. We discusses how her experiences led her to become a hypnotherapist and facilitator, dedicated to helping others heal through connection and self-love. Kirsty emphasizes the importance of community, personal choice, and inner work in recovery, inspiring listeners with her story of transformation and resilience==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:17 – 00:10:26 | Struggles with Addiction and Domestic Violence Kirsty began using drugs at 17, progressing to daily use of hard drugs like meth by her early twenties, which deeply affected her life and relationships. Her marriage ended, and she became involved with her drug dealer, who was abusive and responsible for her daughter’s sexual assault. Kirsty’s drug addiction worsened during this period. She experienced homelessness, legal troubles, hospitalizations, and multiple rehab attempts, including getting kicked out of rehab before deciding to get clean on her own.  00:10:26 – 00:25:46 | The Hidden Realities of Addiction The discussion highlighted that addiction often hides behind a "functional dysfunctional" life, with Kirsty and the speaker sharing personal experiences of leading double lives while addicted. Kirsty detailed her experience with meth and intravenous drug use, surprising those who know her current self due to the stark contrast. Addiction requires intense effort and creativity, which can translate into entrepreneurial skills later in life.  00:25:46 – 00:36:38 | Healing and Recovery Journey Kirsty explored various therapies for healing, including breathwork, hypnotherapy, and nervous system regulation, which have been transformative for her. She now focuses on offering these tools to others to support their healing journey, drawing from her own extensive experience with trauma and recovery.  00:36:38 – 00:43:07 | Role of Community and Support Kirsty joined the WeBrew Success community, which played a pivotal role in her recovery and business growth.Community was described as a safe, supportive space where women uplift each other without judgment.The value of being surrounded by people who understand and support recovery and growth was emphasized. 00:43:07 – 00:52:31 | Impact of WBS and Future Goals Kirsty is now an inspirational figure and facilitator, using her experience to empower others facing similar challenges. Kirsty’s evolution from a deep struggle with addiction and domestic violence to becoming an advocate and healer.Kirsty encourages others to make conscious choices and seek connection and support.Everyone has the inner strength and tools to heal and create a better life; the answers are within.It is essential to reach out for help and use community and therapeutic tools for healing.   👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth?Share it in the comments! Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the...

In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:21 – 00:16:31 | Nicky’s Personal Background and Identity Grew up in a small rural town in WA, where she developed a love for country life but felt destined for something different.Joined the army at 23 seeking freedom and to break from familial patterns.Transitioned from a successful military career to motherhood, facing the challenge of anxiety and postnatal depression.Experienced a major identity shift juggling the “strong, boss babe” persona and the vulnerabilities of being a mom.Overcame societal and self-judgment about motherhood and women’s roles.  00:16:31 – 00:24:37 | Identity Challenges & Motherhood Struggled with a major identity shift transitioning from a strong military persona to motherhood, involving feelings of guilt, anxiety, and depression.Described motherhood as the hardest job, forcing her to soften control and adapt her approach.Initially underestimated the role of being a mom and judged others using children as excuses, later realizing the importance and strength in motherhood.Discussed identity conflict between being a strong, independent person and embracing the vulnerable mom side. 00:24:37 – 00:37:06 | Building Businesses and Coaching Career Nicky's first ventures included network marketing, personal training, music and movement programs for children, and parenting coaching.She highlighted the importance of creating businesses based on personal experience and the community and connection needs of women, especially moms.Transitioned into corporate leadership coaching using her military background but realized traditional corporate settings did not fulfill her soulful purpose.Maintains an authentic coaching style, unapologetically herself, using humor and directness.00:37:06 – 00:48:45 | Overcoming Shame and Reclaming Identity Nicky emphasized shedding other people’s expectations and shame to reclaim her identity and self-worth.She shared how therapy and coaching sometimes taught her to minimize her emotions, and it took someone else to validate her right to express anger and imperfection. Embraced a more bold, authentic version of herself after joining Kirstie’s community and the 21-day challenge. 00:48:45 – 01:08:43 | Successes and Challenges with Business Growth Nicky’s first successful month making $45,000 caused guilt and triggered deep reflections on money, responsibility, and self-worth tied to her upbringing and military mindset.She bought practical items like a washing machine instead of celebrating success, reflecting her "good girl" programming.Shared how she empowers other women by sharing her experiences and creating strong networks and communities that foster belonging and mutual support.  👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments! Catchthe Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess. JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6e One to One with Beau Drury :a...

This episode featured a special guest Annette Fuller, we discussed Annette's journey through personal challenges, business success, and healing processes. We explored the impact of trauma on entrepreneurship, the importance of mindset mastery, and the support found in community. The conversation also highlighted Annette's multiple business ventures and her involvement with We Breathe Success.=================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:09 – 00:21:45 | Annette’s Background and Personal Journey Annette has lived in Broome since age 21 after being encouraged to leave Perth due to personal issues.She initially worked as a prison activities officer, offering yoga, life skills, and fitness training for inmates, many of whom were incarcerated due to domestic violence-related offenses.Annette endured traumatic experiences, including the suicide of her daughter's father and domestic violence against her daughter.A significant turning point was a severe surfing injury to her leg, which led to depression and the inability to continue in her former job or run her boot camp.Annette transitioned to business ownership by buying a surf shop called Barrels, despite no prior affinity for selling clothes or retail work.She credits her recovery and ongoing resilience to tools like breathwork, yoga, mindset work, and emotional regulation learned through programs such as We Breathe Success.  00:21:45 – 00:35:05 | Overcoming Trauma and Mental Health Struggles Annette discussed how her past traumas, including domestic violence and assaults, challenged her mental health.She highlighted the importance of facing and processing emotional pain rather than suppressing it to avoid depression and anxiety.Using breathwork and participation in supportive communities helped her regulate emotions and maintain accountability.She shared a powerful message of resilience and the ability to redefine one’s limitations, citing her comeback to running and fitness after being told she wouldn’t run again. 00:35:05 – 00:46:46 | The Role of Community and Support Annette praised the We Breathe Success community for its role in providing accountability, support, and learning opportunities.She values the network for lifting her up and giving her the courage to take business and personal steps.Kirsty emphasized that strong community, emotional mastery, and mindset regulation are critical for overcoming life’s challenges.  00:46:46 – 00:54:05 | Participation in We Breathe Success Program Annette explained her decision to join We Breathe Success as a response to reaching a point where she needed support and community to heal and grow her business and life.She values the structure, accountability, and network the program provides, highlighting the benefits of daily commitments and tools like Notion for organization. 00:54:05 – 00:56:55 | Advice and Final Reflections Regular self-reflection: “Look at yourself in the mirror and ask if you are really happy.”Embrace personal accountability and step into supportive communities.Use tools such as breathwork, mindfulness, and emotional regulation to process trauma.Don’t be afraid to say “no” but be open to revisiting opportunities with an open heart.Embrace learning even when it feels uncomfortable or overwhelming. 👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth?Share it in the comments! Catch the...

This episode featured an in-depth conversation with Ash Edelman, an Australian-born former IFBB pro bodybuilder, stripper, military contractor, and performer who has undergone significant life transformations. Ash shared his diverse life experiences, struggles with ADHD, mental health, and how breathwork and mindset have played crucial roles in his healing and personal growth. Now based in Dubai, he is facilitating breathwork, coaching, and immersive wellness experiences.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:00:00 – 00:14:59 | Ash Edelman’s Life Journey and Career Ash Edelman shared his diverse life experiences, from working in mines, bodybuilding, and being a stripper to becoming a breathwork facilitator in Dubai. His journey included performing on Britain's Got Talent and traveling extensively, which shaped his personal growth and career direction.He described how ADHD traits influenced his restless nature and his drive to constantly pursue new challenges and ventures.The toxicity and mental health challenges in the mining industry and bodybuilding world were highlighted, explaining why he pivoted towards breathwork and mindset work. 00:14:59 – 00:45:50 | Breathwork and Its Impact Ash introduced breathwork as a critical turning point in his life, which he first experienced informally on the road and later more seriously during COVID lockdowns while in London. Breathwork helped him manage anxiety, find calm, and regain control over his emotions and thoughts during difficult times.The science and benefits behind breathwork were discussed, including how it can downregulate the nervous system and support mental health better than medication in many cases.Ash emphasized the importance of practical experience over theoretical knowledge, encouraging consistent practice of breathwork and meditation to achieve real change.There was a discussion of the challenges getting others, including loved ones, to adopt breathwork, and how transformational it can be once accepted. 00:45:50 – 00:54:34 | Thailand & Monastery Experience The monastery offers a structured program for foreigners to experience monk life, including a novice period followed by ordination. Participants can engage in meditation, breath work, and other spiritual practices, fostering personal growth and self-discovery.Experiencing a profound sense of inner peace and clarity during meditation practices.Gaining insights into personal patterns and behaviors that hindered personal growth.Developing a deeper connection to self-awareness and understanding of one's purpose in life.  00:54:34 – 01:02:06 | Social Commentary and Cultural Observations   The discussion touched on societal judgment, social media criticism, and the stigma around steroids and alternative healing practices, illustrating how projections reveal people's own insecurities.Ash noted the resistance to change among people until they reach a breaking point and the conditioning from familial and societal expectations that keep individuals stuck in unfulfilling lives. 01:02:06 – 01:20:14 | Ash Edelman’s Current Work and Vision Now based in Dubai, Ash is building an initiative called Immersive Collective, focused on immersive experiences including breathwork, floatation, meditation, yoga, and ecstatic dance to transform lives.He actively speaks on stage and engages in retreats in Thailand and Costa Rica, aiming to...

In this podcast episode, We discussed the importance of taking action over mere knowledge, strategies to overcome procrastination and burnout, managing emotional energy through awareness and actionable tools, and leveraging teamwork and delegation to scale business efforts. We shared personal insights on motivation, mindset, and the significance of filling one's value-driven "fun cup" to maintain sustained action. The conversation also touched on journaling for emotional processing and emphasized the mantra: "Just do the damn thing."==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:42 – 00:10:37 | Core Philosophy on Action Taking Knowledge vs Action: Knowledge alone is not power; taking action is crucial.Despite abundant knowledge on subjects like weight loss, failure to act is the main barrier for most.Action taking is linked to confidence, beliefs, and fears: fear of failure, fear of success, fear of rejection, etc.People who consistently take action, even with fewer resources or knowledge, often outperform more knowledgeable but less proactive individuals.  00:10:37 – 00:18:11 | Action Barriers & Motivation Identified core reasons people don't take action: fear of being seen, fear of success consequences, fear of rejection, lack of confidence, and belief system issues. 'Lazy is not real' - it's always underlying fear, conditioning, or comfort zones preventing action. fear of failure, fear of judgment, or fear of success can paralyze individuals and prevent them from taking action.Conditioning from past experiences and comfort zones can create mental barriers, making it challenging to step outside of familiar patterns and pursue goals.Inspiration sources discussed: attending events, play music, breathwork, and courses that immediately motivate action. 00:18:11 – 00:27:09 | Mindset and Emotional Management People-pleasing behavior is discouraged, as it inhibits authentic leadership and personal power.Leaders must be unbothered by criticism and focused on pushing others to their highest potential.Importance of emotional regulation: Leaders should manage feelings and push themselves and others toward positive growth. 00:27:09 – 00:47:49 | Personal Fulfillment & Emotional Management Tools            The Baseline Shape Shifter framework categorizes emotions into four quadrants based on energy levels and positivity.It helps individuals identify their emotional state and provides tools to shift from negative to positive emotions effectively.The framework emphasizes the importance of awareness and intentional action to maintain emotional balance and well-being. Five and Snap involves counting down from 5 to 1 while performing a physical action, such as snapping fingers or jumping, to disrupt negative thought patterns and refocus energy.Fuck It Bucket is a weekly practice where individuals write down their negative thoughts and fears, symbolically discarding them to reduce mental clutter and promote a positive mindset. 00:47:49 – 00:58:44 | Closing and Takeaway The ultimate advice: “Just do the damn thing.”Action is the key to success and overcomingprocrastination or fear. Encouragement to share the message to inspire othersto live healthier, wealthier, and happier lives. Even small steps can lead tosignificant progress, making it easier to tackle larger goals over...

In this podcast episode, We discussed the concept of quantum leaping in business and life, emphasizing the importance of rapid growth, flexibility, and making hard decisions. We shared personal experiences about balancing business and family, overcoming fear and anxiety, and maintaining a strong mindset for success. We also touched on the impact of environment and community on personal development and the significance of gratitude and self-care. =================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:42 – 00:07:56 | Quantum Leaping Definition & Examples Quantum leaping defined as rapidly moving between projects/ideas before fully implementing previous plans. Quantum leaping involves making swift transitions between projects or ideas, often without fully executing previous plans.It emphasizes the importance of flexibility and adaptability in entrepreneurship, allowing individuals to pivot quickly in response to changing circumstances or insights.This approach can lead to accelerated growth and innovation, but may also result in a lack of focus or unfinished projects if not managed carefully.  00:07:56 – 00:18:25 | Freedom in Business Ownership Core business philosophy: Started business for freedom to make own rules, not to please clients or follow others' expectations. Started the business to create a lifestyle that prioritizes personal freedom and autonomy.Focus on making decisions that align with personal values rather than conforming to external pressures or client expectations. Encourage innovation and adaptability within the business, allowing for shifts in direction when something no longer feels aligned. Opposite of quantum leaping: People stuck in toxic relationships, same jobs, or comfort zones for years without growth.  00:18:25 – 00:26:59 | Innovation vs Implementation Balance Universe principle: Won't advance to next level without gratitude for current positionThe universe often tests individuals by presenting challenges to ensure they are ready for growth.Gratitude for one's current situation fosters a positive mindset, enabling clearer decision-making and resilience.Acknowledging and appreciating present circumstances can attract further opportunities and advancements in life.00:26:59 – 00:35:38 | Reflection on Life Pace and Achievement            Recalled how quickly time passes and the need to pause, appreciate present accomplishments, and be mindful of maintaining balance between business hustle and personal fulfillment. Openly discussed prioritization between relationships and business ambitions, stressing the desire not to sacrifice either but to harmonize both. 00:35:38 – 00:48:30 | Personal Regulation Under Stress Nervous system regulation: Ability to handle emergencies without compromising professional responsibilities through breathwork and mindset tools. Nervous system regulation enhances resilience in high-pressure situations, allowing individuals to maintain focus and composure.Breathwork techniques can quickly activate the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation and reducing stress during emergencies.Mindset tools, such as reframing and positive affirmations, help individuals shift their perspective, enabling them to respond effectively rather than react impulsively. 👇Your Turn:What mindset shift...

In this podcast episode, We discussed the concept of time blocking as a critical tool for entrepreneurs to balance life and business effectively. We emphasized the importance of setting boundaries, planning daily routines, and aligning tasks with energy levels to enhance productivity and reduce overwhelm, procrastination, and burnout. We also shared insights on implementing time blocking through structured weekly plans and encouraged intentional use of time for work, rest, and personal activities.=================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:27 – 00:06:15 | Concept and Importance of Time Blocking Time blocking is introduced as a practical tool to overcome procrastination, reduce overwhelm, and improve clarity across personal, business, and family life. It's presented as essential for intentional use of time for entrepreneurs.We shares Our weekly "Manifestation Monday," a session dedicated to setting priorities, strategy, and systems, and identifying non-negotiables that protect personal boundaries.  00:06:15 – 00:09:33 | Self-Discipline and Setting Boundaries Time blocking is described as a form of self-love through discipline, with examples including early morning routines that regulate the nervous system and prevent distractions. Detailed morning routines are advocated, including breath work, tea, reading, and preparation to start the day with clarity and intention. Explicit boundaries against distractions, such as phone and social media use, are essential to maintain focus within each block.  00:09:33 – 00:19:10 | Practical Tips for Time Blocking Success·        Intentional scroll time for social media engagement is allowed but limited with alarms and apps to avoid overuse.·        Learning to say no to energy-draining requests preserves time for high-impact activities.·        Evening boundaries includephone silencing, dedicated family and dinner times without multitasking. ·        Utilizing tools like GoogleCalendar, Notion, and ClickUp facilitates planning and adherence to time blocks. ·        Establishing limited availability for meetings enforces professional boundaries supporting the blocked schedule. 👇 Your Turn :What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess. JOIN our FREE community here :https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :

In this podcast episode, We discussed the complexities of being in a relationship and business partnership simultaneously, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual growth, and maintaining a foundation of friendship. We shared personal experiences about handling challenges, the need for emotional support, and how we continuously work on ourselves and our relationship. The conversation also touched on masculinity, validation, and the significance of loyalty and respect in a lasting partnership. =========================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:34 – 00:11:28 | ❤️ Relationship Dynamics & Growth Being in a relationship, and in business together, requires personal growth and mutual rising to meet each other's levels.Different relationship phases: romantic partners, parents, and business partners each demand unique attention and nurturing.Their success is strongly grounded in deep friendship, mutual respect, and trust.Challenges arise but are addressed through hard conversations and consistent work on ourselves.  00:11:28 – 00:22:34 | 🗣️ Communication & Conflict Resolution Importance of "hard conversations," emotional openness, and accountability.Use of constructive criticism techniques like the "shit sandwich" method (positive-negative-positive) to provide feedback healthily.Avoiding sweeping issues under the carpet is crucial to relationship longevity.Loyalty and backing each other during conflicts are core values. Couple experiences major relationship challenges approximately every six months but works through us by doing personal development work and having difficult conversations. Couple prioritizes uncomfortable conversations over sweeping issues under the carpet, contrasting our approach with other couples who avoid difficult discussions 00:22:34 – 00:28:40 | Mental Health and Emotional Support Emphasis on wearing different emotional hats, holding space for each other, and supporting mental health through breath work, meditation, therapy, and men's groups.Discussion on toxic masculinity versus healthy masculinity, the challenges men face around emotional expression, and the dangers of suicide among men who don't seek help Recognition of the power of vulnerability and emotional regulation in strengthening their relationship and individual wellbeing.  00:28:40 – 00:34:50 | Community, Brotherhood, and Masculinity in Different Contexts Beau’s background with bikie clubs as searching for masculine energy, leadership, and protection, and how some members transitioned to positive leadership roles. Contrasting spiritual community challenges with camaraderie in tough masculine environments, appreciating loyalty and protection even if it’s unhealthy in some ways.Commentary on societal perceptions of men’s emotional expression and masculinity, advocating for redefining strength through emotional openness.  00:34:50 – 00:44:50 | Relationship Challenges and Resilience Description of a "sticky stage" in their relationship where they questioned future direction but chose to face issues head-on through conversation and mutual commitment Stories about loyalty and family values providing a strong foundation that keeps their relationship resilient, even during conflicts or misunderstandings.Acknowledgment that no relationship is perfect, both partners continue to grow, evolve, and choose love actively.p...

In this podcast episode, We discussed the importance of buying back your time by hiring expert staff to handle tasks, allowing business owners to focus on what they love and regain balance in their personal lives. We emphasize setting strong boundaries, investing in quality team members, and overcoming the trauma-driven hustle mentality to create sustainable success and genuine fulfillment. Ultimately. We encourage entrepreneurs to delegate responsibilities, prioritize family and self-care, and remember the passion that inspired their business journey.=========================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:00:54 – 00:11:08 | 👥 Staff Management and Team Building Approach Establishing regular weekly meetings with VAs fosters clear communication and alignment on tasks and expectations.These meetings provide an opportunity to address any challenges or questions the VAs may have, enhancing their productivity and engagement.Setting clear expectations during these meetings helps ensure accountability and allows for better tracking of progress towards goals. Rewarding staff well fosters loyalty and increases job satisfaction, leading to higher retention rates.Treating employees as family members creates a supportive work environment, encouraging open communication and collaboration.Investing in staff well-being and personal growth enhances overall team performance and contributes to a positive company culture.  00:11:08 – 00:17:10 | 🔄 Breaking Trauma-Driven Work Patterns Business empires built on pain and trauma often lead to burnout and unsustainable work habits, as the initial drive for success can overshadow personal well-being. Such businesses may struggle with high turnover rates and employee dissatisfaction, as the culture of hustle and stress can create a toxic work environment.Ultimately, relying on trauma as a motivator limits growth potential, as it can prevent leaders from embracing a balanced approach that prioritizes mental health and personal fulfillment. 00:17:10 – 00:21:58 | ⚖️ Work-Life Balance and Seasonal Approach Embracing the idea that life consists of different seasons allows individuals to prioritize various aspects of their lives at different times, rather than striving for a constant balance.This approach encourages flexibility and adaptability, recognizing that personal and professional demands fluctuate and can be managed more effectively by focusing on what is most important during each season.By letting go of the pressure to maintain a perfect balance, individuals can reduce stress and enhance their overall well-being, leading to greater fulfillment in both personal and professional spheres.  00:23:38 – 00:30:05 | 🎯 Identity Shift and Ego Challenges Ego can lead to a reluctance to delegate tasks, as business owners may feel that no one else can do the job as well as they can.This mindset can hinder business growth, as it prevents the owner from focusing on high-level strategic decisions and personal passions.Recognizing and addressing ego-driven behaviors can facilitate a healthier work environment, allowing for better teamwork and collaboration. Business owner-workers often find themselves trapped in their businesses, working long hours without the freedom to step back or delegate tasks.True entrepreneurs focus on building systems and teams that allow them to step away from day-to-day operations, enabling them to pursue growth and innovation. The mindset of business owner-workers is typically centered around survival and immediate profits, while true entrepreneurs prioritize long-term...

In this podcast episode, We discussed the success and transformative impact of our recent We Breathe Success retreat, emphasizing the importance of strong community, clear boundaries, and personal growth. We reflected on past challenges with leaky boundaries and internal conflicts, which led to valuable lessons and improvements in leadership and retreat standards. Additionally, We announced their decision to cancel upcoming tours to focus on community and personal stability, including our move to Dubai to create a home base while continuing to expand our business and offerings.  =========================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:00:01:08 – 00:11:10 | 🌏 Retreats & Community Expansion We Breathe Success offers three luxury retreats a year worldwide. Recent retreats include Bali and Dubai, with upcoming retreats planned for Japan, Costa Rica, and Bali. Retreats focus on deep personal and business growth, and attendees experience significant breakthroughs and business pivots, such as starting new ventures and hitting high revenue months.The community environment at retreats is highly supportive and inclusive, with meaningful connections formed among participants. 00:11:10 – 00:21:07 | Leadership, Boundaries & Lessons Learned Past retreat faced challenges due to leaky boundaries, staff issues, and negative group dynamics, leading to major lessons in leadership. Implementation of strict boundaries and standards at current and future retreats to protect community integrity and ensure positive experiences.No tolerance policy for disruptive behavior, members who break standards are removed to safeguard the group. Lessons on hardness in leadership and how boundaries support not only community but also empower individual leaders and coaches   00:21:07 – 00:37:35 | 🤝 Community Building & Networking Retreats foster lifelong friendships, business collaborations, and ongoing support through WhatsApp groups and local meetups. Community, networking, and support are foundational pillars of the program, prioritized even above business strategy. Strict but fair boundaries (e.g., punctuality, alcohol consumption, no bullying) are enforced to maintain a safe and empowering space. Positive feedback from participants on transformative experiences, business growth, and the lifelong friendships formed during the retreat  00:37:35 – 00:48:27 | Business Direction and Operational Changes We decided to cancel the upcoming Australian tour due to misalignment with current goals and a desire to focus on exclusivity and community growth. Emphasis is shifting from large events to intimate, high-impact experiences. The move to Dubai aims to create stability for the family, with plans to establish a home base and expand business operations there.00:48:27 – 00:52:44 Leadership Philosophy and Mindset for Success Embracing lessons from setbacks and people who betray or challenge leadership.Maintaining strong boundaries and not tolerating toxic behavior.Encouragement to control mindset and nervous system to prevent being derailed by external negativity."Control, Alt, Delete, Fuck Off" mantra for managing challenges and protecting one’s space.Building a life and business on personal terms, free from being controlled by clients, staff, or circumstances.  👇Your...

In this podcast episode, we discussed about the concept of getting out of one's own way to facilitate rapid quantum shifts and personal growth. Our experiences and decisions regarding travel and how we avoid stagnation in our environment. How important environmental change is to trigger a surge in creativity and productivity. In business, it is important for us to knowing when to pivot in business to adapt messaging and branding to reflect personal growth. We emphasize a coaching approach that prioritizes mindset before strategy, aiming to help clients overcome personal obstacles to achieving business success. You must be able to understand your situation in order to make the necessary changes and improvements.=========================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:00:01:22 – 00:09:26 | The Power of Changing Environments Changing environments can spark creativity and business growth. Changing environments can lead to fresh perspectives and innovative ideas, enhancing creativity.A new setting can stimulate motivation and energy, driving individuals to take bold actions in their business ventures. Exposure to different cultures and practices can inspire new strategies and approaches, fostering business growth and adaptability. The change in environment provided a fresh perspective, inspiring new ideas and approaches to work. Increased access to beautiful surroundings and a relaxed lifestyle led to enhanced focus and motivation, resulting in higher productivity levels. 00:09:26 – 00:13:09 | Decision-Making Processes helps in adapting to changing circumstances Quick decision-making is crucial for travel and relocation.Quick decision-making allows for seizing travel opportunities before they disappear.It helps in adapting to changing circumstances, such as weather or personal situations, ensuring a smoother relocation process.Making swift choices can lead to increased creativity and productivity in new environments, enhancing overall experiences. The importance of changing environments to boost creativity and productivity in business. Quick decision-making regarding travel has led to significant financial gains and improved energy levels between personal experiences, mindset shifts, and business success during travels. 00:13:09 – 00:20:18 | Manifestation Practices can lead to significant business results Manifestation practices can lead to significant business results.Manifestation practices can help clarify goals and intentions, leading to focused actions that align with business objectives.By fostering a positive mindset, manifestation can enhance creativity and problem-solving abilities, resulting in innovative business solutions.Regular manifestation practices can create a supportive community and network, increasing collaboration and opportunities for growth in business.00:20:18 –00:24:35 | Travel Plans for networking and personal growth in a different environment The decision to go to another country reflects a desire for new experiences and opportunities.This choice allows for networking and personal growth in a different environment.Aims to continue entrepreneurial journey and explore new business possibilities in another country.  00:24:35 – 00:35:07 Breaking Through Limiting Mindsets Need to know when to tear down existing business elements and rebuild Recognize the signs that current strategies or offerings are not meeting...

In this podcast episode, Beau Drury and Kirsty Waddingham engage in a dynamicdiscussion centered around the distinctions between a job mindset and anentrepreneurial mindset. Drew outlines action items, including the creation ofa resource guide with practical examples to help individuals transition betweenmindsets, as well as the compilation of client transformation stories into acase study document to attract potential clients. Kirsty emphasizes the needfor a video series that addresses common business challenges, drawing from arecent incident involving their YouTube channel, alongside the development of aworkshop aimed at helping entrepreneurs overcome mindset blocks. Theconversation highlights actionable strategies and resources designed to empoweraspiring entrepreneurs in their journey.=========================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:00:01:41 – 00:05:48 | The J.O.B Mindset vs Entrepreneurial MindsetDefinition of J.O.B. as "Just On Broke" mindset.Discussion on the differences between having a job and being an entrepreneur.Emphasis on the need to shift from a job mindset to a CEO mindset in business.Discussion on how individuals transitioning from jobs to entrepreneurship oftencarry their job mindset with them, which can hinder their growth as businessowners. The importance of breaking through this mindset to become the CEO ofone's life is emphasized. The conversation highlights that entrepreneurshipinvolves risk and unpredictability, contrasting the safety and security oftenassociated with traditional jobs. 00:05:48 – 00:17:02 | The Role of Community & Support for Handling AdversityImportance of mindset (90%) over strategy (10%)in achieving success.Job mindset often equates to safety and security, whileentrepreneurship involves risks and fluctuations in income. Entrepreneurship asa means of personal growth and self-discovery. Entrepreneurship is a journey ofself-discovery, where individuals learn about their strengths and weaknessesthrough challenges. They emphasize that personal experiences, including trauma,can shape entrepreneurial resilience and drive. The importance of surroundingoneself with supportive and successful individuals is highlighted, as well asthe challenges faced when one begins to outgrow their social circles. 00:17:02 – 00:32:53 | Client Transformation and Coaching Approach With Motto “People First, Money Second”.Most business challenges stem from mindset issuesrather than strategy problems.Encouragement for individuals to break free fromlimiting beliefs and embrace a growth mindset. n the concept of "choosingyour hard," recognizing that both being broke and being wealthy come withtheir own challenges.The...

If you think business success is all about strategy, think again. Success starts with mindset — business strategy comes second. You can have the best marketing plan in the world, but if you’re stuck in self-doubt, fear, or that "Who am I to do this?" energy, you’ll never get to where you want to be. Today, we’re breaking down the mental blocks that keep healers, coaches, and spiritual entrepreneurs stuck—plus, the real reason why so many people struggle to charge what they’re worth.We’re calling out the myths, the limiting beliefs, and the straight-up BS that keeps people small. From imposter syndrome to the jealousy that shows up the second you start winning, we’re spilling it all. Ready to shift your mindset and own your success? Let’s go.=========================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:00:02:09 – 00:05:23 | The "Unhealed Healer" EpidemicThe spiritual space is full of people claiming to be healers, but are they really doing the work? One of the biggest problems in the industry are unhealed healers. These are the people who preach about transformation but haven’t faced their own shadows. And here’s the truth—if you haven’t done the inner work, you have no business guiding others. 00:05:23 – 00:20:37 | The Dark Side of the Spiritual BusinessThe second you start making moves, the haters come out—and they’re usually the ones preaching love and light. Kirstie shares a wild story about a friend who landed a huge opportunity, only to be met with backlash from the very community that should have been cheering her on. So why does success trigger people so much in the spiritual space? We’re calling it out: jealousy, scarcity mindset, and the deep-seated fear that someone else’s win means your loss. Spoiler alert—it doesn’t. 00:20:37 – 00:32:50 | | Leadership, Mindset, and Pushing Through the Hard StuffTrue leadership is about lifting others up, not tearing them doww and success isn’t a threat—it’s a roadmap. Instead of blocking or ignoring competitors, study them. Go through their business, their funnel, their client reviews—find the gaps they’re missing and position yourself differently.Everyone starts at zero. No one is born with a six-figure business. The difference? Some people believe in themselves enough to go all in, while others let self-doubt keep them stuck. Scaling means breaking things apart. We’ve had to rip our business to shreds, fire and hire, completely restructure—because growth requires reinvention. It's messy, uncomfortable, and exhausting, but it's also what takes you to the next level.00:32:50 – 00:50:05 | Healing and Transformation Are Possible with the Right Mindset, but It’s Your Responsibility to Put in the WorkMindset beats strategy every time. Business growth isn’t just about ideas—it’s about pushing through discomfort, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs. Most people don’t fail because of a lack of knowledge; they fail because they don’t truly believe they’ll succeed/You have the power to change your internal narrative. When you shift your thoughts, you can change your feelings and actions. Healing begins with self-awareness and understanding that the stories we attach to our emotions shape our experiences. Mindset plays a critical role in overcoming limiting beliefs, and it’s important to question the stories we’ve been programmed to believe. But the key is YOU have to put in the work! We are not your “healers”, we’re just here to give you the tools and resources. 00:50:05 – 00:56:13 | Fear of Charging What You’re WorthMost coaches are amazing at what they do. That’s why they’re coaches. But here’s the thing – there’s this weird disconnect when it comes to asking for money. It feels “icky” because somewhere along...

Parenting while building a business? It’s not for the weak.Juggling clients, travel, and running a company while raising kids is a whole new level of chaos. But we wouldn’t have it any other way.In this episode, we’re getting real about what it’s like to parent as entrepreneurs—how we handle tantrums (without losing our sh*t), why each kid needs a different approach, and the biggest game-changer when it comes to raising emotionally strong kids.No one’s got this parenting thing 100% figured out, but we’ve learned a few things along the way. Let’s get into it.In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:00:01:08 – 00:03:23 | Why Parenting as Entrepreneurs Hits DifferentRunning a business is demanding. Parenting is even harder. Put them together, and you’ve got a full-blown rollercoaster. We talk about the highs, the lows, and why the chaos is totally worth it.00:03:23 – 00:08:00 | Co-Regulation: Your Kids Are Learning From YOUEver wonder why your kid’s energy shifts based on your mood? It’s because they’re constantly picking up on your emotional state. We break down why co-regulation is key to raising emotionally strong kids and how to stop passing your stress onto them.00:08:12 – 00:17:05 | Handling Tantrums Without Losing ItTantrums are inevitable, but how you react to them changes everything. Kirsty shares a powerful story about a public meltdown with Harvey, how she kept her cool, and the surprising lesson it taught her about parenting with patience and trust.00:17:05 – 00:31:02 | The Self-Care Hack Most Parents IgnoreYou can't be the best parent if you're running on empty. We get real about the guilt parents feel around taking time for themselves and why making self-care non-negotiable is actually the best thing you can do for your family.00:31:02 – 00:36:20 | Why Breathwork is a Parenting SuperpowerWhen the stress hits, breathwork is our go-to tool for not snapping at the kids. We explain how box breathing can help you reset in the moment and teach your kids to manage their emotions, so they don’t explode over the little stuff.00:36:20 – 00:16:00 | Different Kids, Different NeedsThere’s no one-size-fits-all parenting style. Each of our kids needs something completely different from us—Carson thrives on love and reassurance, Noah craves structure and independence, and Harvey? Well, he’s just here to remind us who's really in charge..00:48:12 – 01:00:17 | Raising Confident, Resilient KidsThe world can be a tough place—so how do we prepare our kids for it? We talk about helping them build confidence, handle bullying, and develop the kind of resilience that’ll carry them through life’s biggest challenges.Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eBook a FREE 1:1 DISCOVERY CALL to apply for We Breathe Success: https://calendly.com/believeinyourbreath/beaudrury WORK with US:

Okay, crew, it’s time to spill the tea on what really happens when you’re traveling the world with kids, running a business, and trying to stay sane. We’re coming to you straight from the beaches of Pattaya, Thailand—way more chill than the last time you heard from us in Vegas.This episode? It’s all about the messy, the magical, and the downright mental moments from our travels. Sure, Instagram makes it look dreamy, but we’re here to tell you about the real side of travel:Like the time we almost got married by Elvis in Vegas (spoiler alert: it was not what we expected).How we managed a full-blown family flu while trying to keep up with our business and our jet-setting schedule.The truth about traveling with kids, from jet lag to snacks to “are we there yet?” moments on repeat.We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to wake up in a different country every other week, to keep grinding when you’d rather crash, and to find joy in the chaos of it all.In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:00:01:50 – 00:08:47 - Vegas and the Strip Club “Miscommunication”: We kick things off by sharing our Vegas experience - what was supposed to be a wild, glamorous trip turned into a flu-filled, chaotic adventure. We also talk about the missed opportunity to get married by Elvis and the fight we has soon after due to Beau’s visit to the biggest strip club in the world. 00:08:47 – 00:17:22 - The Aftermath of Our Fight, Travelling from Vegas to LA by Bus and Still Showing Up to Do Our Work: After Vegas, we made our way to LA. After an emotional morning filled with frustration and unresolved tension, we ended up  taking a bus to LA. Despite the setbacks, including a grueling bus ride that left us feeling nauseous and exhausted, we pushed through. The discomfort and disagreement didn’t stop us from showing up for work, though. We arrived in LA late and immediately got to work, with one of us setting up a makeshift office in the tiniest hotel gym imaginable. It was a struggle, feeling sick and overwhelmed, but we did what we had to do to serve our audience and keep moving forward. This experience taught us an important lesson about resilience: even when things don’t go as planned, it’s about showing up, doing the work, and making the best of any situation. Life and work aren’t always perfect, but success comes from handling the chaos with grace and determination.00:17:22 – 00:24:03 - Family Experiences & Overcoming Fear: Our highest value in life is giving our family experiences and creating those memories. And honestly, flying? Beau still hates it. Every time we board, there’s this anxiety that hits and the brain just goes straight into Final Destination mode. It’s that constant battle—what’s intuition and what’s just plain old anxiety? But,we push through it because we know that’s how we break through the comfort zone. And sometimes, you gotta do that to get to the next level, right? It’s the same with starting a business - those doubts, that inner voice telling you not to do it, trying to protect you. But deep down, you know you gotta go for it. It’s that same feeling I get when I face my fears—turning anxiety into excitement, shifting my mindset, and just going for it.00:24:03 – 00:35:25 - Homelessness and Addiction Crisis in Vancouver: We stayed in Vancouver a bit longer than planned, and the state of homelessness there was something we've never experienced. It was shocking, like nothing we’ve ever seen before. We saw people who looked completely zombified, their bodies twisted and contorted in ways we couldn’t comprehend. Hundreds of people, stuck in these awful cycles, many so far gone that we honestly couldn’t see a way back for them. It really hit us hard because we kept thinking about how these people were once kids, innocent and full...