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Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Elle's podcast, she dives into the book "How to Think Like a Woman" by Regan Penaluna, exploring how philosophy has historically been gatekept from women. Elle discusses: The importance of philosophy for everyone, not just academics How the historical exclusion of women from philosophy impacts modern women's daily lives The concept of women's imposter syndrome and its prevalence in high-achieving women The "mental load" that women often carry in managing households and families The "beauty myth" and how it relates to gatekeeping women from intellectual discourse Elle encourages listeners to challenge societal expectations, embrace their intelligence, and support other women in their intellectual pursuits.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this thought-provoking episode, Elle debunks “the Oxford study,” delving into the controversial topic of societal attitudes towards Asian women's dating choices. The podcast covers key issues such as the infamous "Oxford study" comments, interracial dating, and the double standards applied to women in these relationships. Elle discusses the concept of "pick-me" behavior and encourages individuation. She examines the historical context of the penalization of Asian women face for their dating choices, referencing examples from popular media like R.F. Kuang's "Yellowface" and the TV show "1923". The episode concludes with a critical look at the "Oxford study" phenomenon on TikTok, emphasizing the importance of allowing women to make their own choices based on shared values rather than racial considerations.

Learn how I went from 0 to 200k YT subs in 1 year ➡️ The Business of Content Creation Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle delves into the pervasive myth that men gatekeep commitment while women gatekeep relations. She argues that women actually gatekeep everything, from their bodies and relationships to the next generation. Elle challenges the long-held belief that men are the arbiters of commitment, explaining how this misconception has led women to undervalue themselves and become "pickmes" for men. Elle discusses the rise of dating apps and hookup culture, highlighting how these platforms have lowered the barriers to entry for men, making it easier for them to exploit and mislead women. She emphasizes that the idea that men gatekeep commitment is a scam designed to make women feel unworthy. She concludes by encouraging women to act in alignment with their value, understanding that they are the true gatekeepers of commitment, relationships, and much more.

Learn how I went from 0 to 200k YT subs in 1 year ➡️ The Business of Content Creation Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle dives deep into the topic of aging and why Gen Z's fear of it is valid, especially considering the societal pressures women face. She explores the current sentiments towards aging, how these views have developed, and the immense pressure on women to preserve their youth. Elle discusses anti-aging products and practices, the role of social media in spreading ageism, and the misconceptions about aging, such as the loss of beauty and the association with decline. Elle emphasizes that aging is a natural and privileged part of life, advocating for a shift in narrative to celebrate the wisdom and experiences that come with it. The episode aims to provide a hopeful perspective, encouraging listeners to embrace and look forward to aging.

Learn how I went from 0 to 200k YT subs in 1 year ➡️ The Business of Content Creation Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle delves into the pervasive myth that men gatekeep commitment while women gatekeep relations. She argues that women actually gatekeep everything, from their bodies and relationships to the next generation. Elle challenges the long-held belief that men are the arbiters of commitment, explaining how this misconception has led women to undervalue themselves and become "pickmes" for men. Elle discusses the rise of dating apps and hookup culture, highlighting how these platforms have lowered the barriers to entry for men, making it easier for them to exploit and mislead women. She emphasizes that the idea that men gatekeep commitment is a scam designed to make women feel unworthy. She concludes by encouraging women to act in alignment with their value, understanding that they are the true gatekeepers of commitment, relationships, and much more.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get the Besties Book Club in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle dives into the topic of "pretty privilege" and its perceived downsides. She questions whether these so-called downsides are actually just manifestations of misogyny and the general female experience under patriarchy. Elle argues that while pretty privilege does exist and can elevate women above other women, it does not elevate them above men and still serves as a tool to control women's behavior. She discusses how pretty privilege keeps women in a state of "auditioning" for male approval and highlights how the concept ultimately harms womanhood. Elle also touches on the real benefits of being attractive, such as higher earnings and better social treatment, but emphasizes that these advantages do not protect women from misogyny. The episode features a discussion on the halo effect and how cognitive biases related to attractiveness influence social and professional judgments. Elle concludes by encouraging listeners to remain hopeful and proactive, reminding them that while pretty privilege and its implications are complex, understanding and navigating these dynamics can empower women to create positive change in their lives and communities.

Transform your hobby into a 6-figure business - The Business of Content Creation Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle dives into the intriguing and unsettling connections between the rise of tradwives, family annihilators, and no-fault divorce bans. She explores how the increasing popularity of tradwife culture on social media and in real life may be linked to a potential rise in family annihilation incidents, driven by economic pressures and societal expectations. Elle also emphasizes the importance of financial independence for women. Elle unpacks these complex topics and examines the cultural shifts that influence such disturbing trends.

Transform your hobby into a 6-figure business - The Business of Content Creation Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In the latest episode of Elle's podcast, the discussion centers around the issue of beauty standards, specifically in relation to the popular TV show 'Love Island.' The topic of conversation revolves around how these women, most of whom are not close to 30, appear to look much older due to cosmetic procedures like Botox and fillers. Elle delves deep into the issue of unrealistic beauty standards and how they are perpetuated throughout society. Elle highlights the cyclical nature of beauty standards, where a certain look becomes popular, gets adopted by the masses, becomes oversaturated, and is then villainized. This cycle is driven by societal sentiments influenced by high-status groups, which are then transformed into beauty trends by marketers. The podcast also touches on the role of celebrities in setting these standards, using Kylie Jenner as a prime example. Elle concludes by pointing out that while individuals can choose which societal pressures to conform to, the pressure to conform will always exist as long as we live within a society. She encourages listeners to be more aware of these pressures and to make conscious choices about which ones to follow.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the social dynamics of splitting the bill during group dinners, particularly birthday dinners. She shares her "Spoiled Girlie" rules for managing these situations. Elle also dives into the cultural trend of GenZ drinking less alcohol, and the benefits this has on their health and finances. She further explores the "Asian Glow" phenomenon, explaining the health risks associated with it. The episode concludes with a discussion about managing expectations and surrounding yourself with people who share similar values when it comes to money and social interactions, emphasizing the importance of compatibility in these areas for overall happiness and well-being.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of 'Big Sis Advice', Elle encourages her listeners to never dim their light for anyone. She discusses the importance of being true to oneself and not allowing others to influence or suppress their natural shine. Elle suggests if people around are unable to appreciate and celebrate your light, it's better to move on and find people who can. She further discusses the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive and positive people, sharing her personal experiences. Elle also talks about societal beauty standards and the difference between the public objective consumerist type of beauty and the private objective type of beauty. She shares her journey of dealing with negative people and urges listeners to not let them win. Elle emphasizes the need to reject people's negative projections and focus on improving their own lives. The episode ends with Elle's powerful reminder to never dim your light for anyone.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Elle's podcast, the discussion focuses on the issue of 'deadbeat' Hollywood fathers and how they often abandon their children once they achieve fame. This trend is used as a representation to highlight the empathy gap between men and women. The podcast emphasizes the way these men view women and children not as humans, but as objects. The discussion leads to the conclusion that this empathy gap is a significant problem that men need to address within themselves and their circles. The conversation ends on a powerful note, suggesting that women are so fed up with men's behavior that they are choosing not to create more of them, thus initiating the extinction of men.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle On today’s episode, we are talking about how men are the original gold diggers and you should be one too. We will cover how women are penalized for behaviors men are praised for and the sinister reason behind it. We are reacting to a clip from Shark Tank where Mark Cuban, a billionaire is calling a female founder a “gold digger.”

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle delves into a discussion about a controversial commencement speech given by NFL kicker Harrison Butker Jr, which sparked backlash for suggesting that a woman's life truly begins with marriage and motherhood. Elle brings a unique perspective to the conversation, sharing her experience as a Catholic and exploring the roles of women in the faith. She also discusses the phenomena of single shaming and the negative impact it has on women in society. Elle then explores the history and context of the Catholic Church's relationship with women, highlighting the significance of Mother Mary and female saints within the faith. She draws a connection between the shift from matriarchy to patriarchy in religious practices and the societal roles and expectations of women. Elle references Merlin Stone's book "When God Was A Woman", discussing how ancient religions that worshipped female deities were replaced by patriarchal religions. She explores the implications of this shift on women's status in society. 

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Big Sis Advice, Elle guides listeners on embracing the mantra of "let them, let go, and let God". She emphasizes the importance of maintaining peace and not letting others disturb it. She explains the concept of karma and encourages women to support each other, stating that women are a source of good karma. Elle shares her personal experiences of dealing with hate from other women and the importance of not letting others upset you. She stresses the need for selective social interaction to protect one's energy. The concept of letting God, irrespective of one's religious beliefs, is discussed as a healing process. Elle talks about honoring other women as a form of worshiping God, referring to the divine feminine energy. The podcast concludes with Elle expressing that practicing these principles can lead to inner happiness and joy, thereby encouraging her listeners to let go and let God handle things beyond their control.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this podcast episode, Elle delves into the downfall of dating apps, focusing on Bumble. She discusses the controversy surrounding Bumble's recent billboard ads and the backlash primarily from women. Elle then delves into the history of Bumble, founded by Whitney Wolfe Herd, and its evolution from being a female-friendly dating app to one which is criticized for shaming women. Elle also explores how dating apps are part of the sharing economy. She asserts that women, in this context, are treated as underused assets that are used for their time and attention. Drawing on Andrea Dworkin's book "Right Wing Women", Elle explores the idea that both left and right-wing men are guilty of “using” women, with left-wing men often being worse. She suggests that the so-called seggsual liberation movement did not lead to women's freedom, but rather to their further subjugation.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the rising trend amongst influencers like Nara Smith, Ballerina Farm aka Hannah Neeleman, and Emily Mariko who are wealthy, educated women showcasing domesticity and simple living rather than luxurious lifestyles. Elle argues this reflects the current societal value of time, peace, and an abundance of fresh food, which many people do not have. She also discusses how health and wealth are intertwined, with the wealthy having the privilege of better food, housing, and medical care, which contributes to better health. Elle emphasizes that knowledge is a critical privilege, particularly in understanding how to balance macronutrients, where to find affordable groceries, and how to cook. She concludes by highlighting the need for community and shared knowledge in these challenging times.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the stereotypes and societal expectations placed upon women, focusing on the concepts of the candid girlfriend, cool girl, manic pixie dream girl, and brain rot core. She ponders whether women are required to perform their inner lives to validate their existence. The discussion includes a review of social media's role in these stereotypes, with the candid girlfriend being portrayed as an airheaded muse by her boyfriend. Elle criticizes the objectification and commodification of women in these roles. She also explores how the perception of an "inner life" can vary greatly, positing that there is no single acceptable framework for self-actualization. Elle emphasizes that women can cultivate rich inner lives through various activities that honor their desires and contribute to their well-being. The episode ends on the topic of the manic pixie dream girl, a stock character type often used in fiction.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of her podcast, Elle dives into the discussion around women's fear of men, triggered by a social media trend where women were asked to choose between being trapped in the woods with a man or a bear. Elle unpacks the universal fear women have towards men, supported by various anecdotal evidence, literary examples, published scientific studies, news articles, and personal experiences. She also discusses the societal gaslighting that occurs when women express this fear. Elle highlights the importance of understanding that men are aware of this fear, often using it to their advantage. She further criticizes men's lack of empathy and the victim-blaming that occurs when women are attacked. Throughout the podcast, Elle advocates for women's safety and empowerment, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and caution when interacting with men.