How can we know we are showing up clearly in relationship when we haven't addressed the unconsious materials that we're building our relationships from? In this episode I talk all about my own attachment wounds growing up in Mormonism, my unpopular views on "romance" and why I think that addressing and holding our own internalized shame, instead of asking others to do so, allows for deeper intimacy and more connection in our lives. Shayne Case - https://www.shaynecase.com/ Darananda - https://www.dara.energy/ https://www.instagram.com/philemonisalive/