Steps of Dialogue

two friends discussing living life in their twenties while tackling all of the obstacles in front of them! Join us weekly to discuss reality tv, do album reviews, and gush about our favorite artists. halcyeon and hailey love to talk about their unpopular opinions on everything pop-culture.

Our Music Festival Stories and Experiences | Bourbon and Beyond and Something In The Water

hi y'all! we both went to music festivals this year and decided to talk about our experiences. listen to halcyeon take the reigns on this music filled episode!!! thanks for listening :)

09-18
01:01:35

We’re Back! | Talking Rupaul’s Drag Race S15, Love Is Blind S4, and SZA’S SOS Album!

hey y'all!! we took a mental health break but we are back!! today we talked about our favorite rupauls drag race season 15 contestants like anetra, mistress isabelle brooks, and luxxx noir london!! we also talked about love is blind season 4 and our thoughts on other reality shows like perfect match and too hot to handle! we also talked new music and our love for SZA's newest album SOS :) hope you enjoyed!! to season two!

04-06
01:20:23

Reading our Deepest Thoughts | Journal Entry Analysis Ep. 10

welcome back! we have tasked ourselves with writing in our journals for about a month and we decided to dive deeper into our journal entries and our deepest thoughts! listen to hear more :) follow us on twitter @steps_podcast Hailey's entries: coughing at work is dehumanizing i feel like an animal in a jungle sometimes i just want to be mysterious and grungey and then i cough at work or school and i’m just normal average and i feel like a zoom animal come to the exhibit and watch the stupid girl cough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i literally almost choked to death at work because i was so afraid to cough i have a W.A.M wet ass mouth :( colorism the beauty standard and being hit on at the gym i’ve never experienced that it’s kind of sad is that normal am i just awkward “tall girls always lose” fatphobia “you can’t be fat ugly dumb and poor or something” that’s so messed up sometimes i yearn for sexism and misogyny tbh i once heard think back to the time you were cat called the most you were probably underage weren’t you and WOAH yeah that’s true probably what is the motivation behind going on a reality tv show if not money or clout would you want your real love story displayed on national television i feel like the only show not included in this is love is blind why is love is blinds premise superior transition to eleven routine ignorance follow the leader how many things am i doing just because my parents did them how do you break a habit today i saw a tiktok talking about how nicki minaj is probably on the spectrum and putting up video clips showing her stemming etc. i just think it’s so harmful when can neurodiversity just be accepted and not have to be acknowledged i just didn’t like how the clips were out together i have a lot of characteristics of those on the spectrum and i wish they could all just be normalized like it’s okay to get sensory overload or have to have your spaces a certain way and follow a certain schedule and none of those traits necessarily mean you are on the spectrum and who cares if you are!!! boundaries are so hard people pleasing is so hard to maintain perfectionism is the devil trying to perfect or balance or healthy include these things in my life is my personal hell the good place really made me change my perspective and i feel like at any angle any person looks at their lives they could see it as their personal hell that show made me think a lot tbh stockholm syndrome is so freaking crazy but i get it i’m always drawn to and towards the things and people that have caused me the most harm and hurt why can’t it be the other way around? Halcyeon's entry excerpts: I think using too much technology is bad for our minds. Like i do that really often which I don’t think is a good thing. I’ll be in the middle of doing something and completely forget what i was doing. “I also think it is important to celebrate the small victories. So i need to take it one step at a time.” I like writing like this though because when I just keep going I think it generally ends up being about something rather entertaining or interesting. It’s like a dive into my mind where I just reach in and see what I pull out. “I am starting to realize that I need a lot of money lol. I know that sounds weird but what i mean when i say that is that right now, I have little financial responsibility but I also make little money and if my income doubled but I had sole financial responsibility for myself and my needs, i’d be super broke. So yah, i need lots of money. “

10-06
01:02:14

Big Brother 23 Review | Bonus Episode

hey guys its Hailey!! I am a HUGE big brother fan and I have loved this season for so many different reasons I will be breaking down my thoughts in todays bonus episode :)

09-30
10:05

The Perfect Workout Playlist | Ep. 9

hey guys we are back this week talking about our ideal workout playlist!  follow us on twitter @steps_podcast

09-29
33:45

Lil Nas X 'Montero' Album Review | Bonus Episode

hey guys its Hailey and I was inspired to record this lil nas x album review! I am a big fan so it was fun to really break down my feelings for this album! follow the podcast twitter @steps_podcast :p

09-24
13:11

Nicki Minaj Controversy, RuPaul's Drag Race, and The Met Gala | Catch up with us! Ep. 8

Hi guys we are back on the podcast just chatting about some pop culture events! In todays episode we talk about the Nicki Minaj Controversy, Halcyeon's obsession with RuPauls Drag Race, The Met Gala and more! Here are some more topics we talk about today! real housewives atlanta, salt lake city  big brother  America's next top model sex education  on my block  atypical  elite  money heist  blood and water  behind her eyes  handmaids tale  selena gomez new show  the crown  we describe our perfect thanksgiving day  moving to cities and what we want in a home  finding hobbies  the cookie lady on tiktok  halcyeons big chop  hobbies: candles, skating, crochet, guitars mukbang  what we are going to do when halcyeon comes down  pop-tart taste test  organizations as an adult charities etc  greek life  what we’ve learned recently about ourselves  are we conceited,materialistic, and superficial?   plastic surgery and the beauty standard being damaging  capitalism and billionaires  met gala 

09-23
01:08:26

The Astrology Episode | Breaking Down My Birth Chart Bonus Episode

Hi guys welcome back to the steps of dialogue podcast!! In this episode I read my chart in depth here are my placements!! I have recently jumped down the rabbit hole of astrology and tarot and was so excited for this episode! Leo Rising Libra Moon Scorpio Mars Sagittarius Pluto Aquarius Neptune Aquarius Uranus Aries Mercury Aries Jupiter Taurus Saturn Taurus Sun Gemini Venus follow us on twitter @steps_podcast

09-18
19:38

The Devolution of Grownish | Kenya Barris Please Hire Us! Ep. 7

Hi guys welcome back this week we are joined with our friend Janell and we are discussing the hit Freeform tv show Grownish! This show really brought us together our first year of college and we loved it for a while but recently its been hard to watch... sit back and hear us discuss our thoughts on this show!  "Grown-ish" explores the first trappings of adulthood, and Zoey must navigate through the trials and tribulations of these momentous steps. Zoey discovers that once she leaves the nest, things do not always go her way. The series features "that in between place where you're not quite an adult but facing grown world problems for the first time," Kenya Barris, the show's creator and executive producer, said.” Did either of you watch blackish? Does this show feel like a spin off? What is your connection to the show does it remind you of a certain time in your life? Before rewatching the show, I had to ask myself if the show is really as good as I thought it was season one or if I was just younger and thought it was better than what it really was Moment of appreciation for the theme song Favorite episode from the series? Least favorite episode from the series? Opinion on each character Nomi Ana Sky Jazz Aaron Luka Vivek Doug Zoe What was the moment of downfall? What made the show great? Our main critique of the show What do you think the show portrayed well? Who do you think was a great actor/actress and who do you think wasn’t? Do you think the show is relatable? How well do you think the show handled social issues like racism, colorism, homophobia, drugs, alcohol abuse, and teen pregnancy? What storyline do you think was the most predictable in this series? What storyline do you feel like was just uneccesary? Do you think the show showed them as actual students enough? Can you recall any of their majors off the top of your head? Natural Hair Representation - Zoey - Jazz + Sky (locs) The amazing soundtrack of the show The episodes being titled based off of popular music titles The breakfast club parallels - The first episode - The versatility of people you meet in college - The friendship starting with everyone giving each other a reality  check How did you feel about the references to blackish and the reoccurrence of characters? - Dre - Junior - Rainbow Zoe’s inner dialogue (narration) - Telling us versus showing us how that intersects - It’s kind of like she’s reciting the past Each person’s backstory - Each main character has such a strong cultural background  or distinct personality Post production: - Video effects its kind of like you are in a tv with the vignette - use of montages The relationship between Diggy Simmons and Chloe Bailey off the screen - How would you feel having to act and work with someone you  were actually in a relationship with and pretend you are in an on  and off relationship? Do you think this show advanced Chloe x Halle’s career? What would you have done to make this show better and stop the shows sudden plateau? If you could pick another cast member to be the main character who would it be and why? Favorite celebrity or actor/actress cameo? - Saweetie -Jordyn Woods - Lala Anthony - Joey Bada$$ - Ryan Destiny Funny tweet I found about s4 riot episode - https://twitter.com/koriindahousee/status/1421518380167831556?s=20 Thoughts on the s4 ep 9 hookup?

09-16
01:13:25

Open Dialogue About Natural Hair | A Cute Chat Ep. 6

hi guys welcome back to the podcast!! this week we are talking about natural hair again! as two fairly new naturals with different hair journey's this conversation voices two interesting perspectives! follow our twitter @steps_podcast  some of the topics we discuss in today's episode - Halcyeon has a hair history that I think is unique that I would love to know more about her background there - Scalp condition as toddler - Never processing hair How did you view getting your hair done as a child? Our history with protective styles Our favorite protective styles and ones we want to try but haven’t yet Our journey with weave and hair extensions Our history with using heat Our history with color damage and damage in general College Hair Story - Going Natural In College what got you there and what have you learned - The price of maintaining natural hair - Our favorite hair inspirations and people we’ve learned tricks from or YouTube vloggers - DIY hair faves Halcyeons DIY shampoo and conditioner journey - Our favorite hair products - NO-GOS hair products you’ll never buy again - (Deva Curl Controversy) - Take us through a wash day for you - Go to styles for natural hair - How do you keep your hair moisturized during the week? - Thoughts on the no butters no oils no creams method? - LOC LCO Who the hell knows do you have a preference? - Can you pinpoint a moment in time when you fell in love with your curls? - Our favorite hair accessories - A natural style we haven’t quite mastered? - Twist outs, braid outs, banding, bantu knots is there a preference -  ( Hair Stretching) - Does your hair journey have a plan? - Would you ever loc your hair? - Would you ever relax your hair is that possible for you Halcyeon? - Our thoughts on the big chop and if we plan to do one - Have you ever chopped your hair? Do you think that you subscribed to negative stereotypes and fell under white supremacist/ European standards of beauty in response to hair Black hair and negative thoughts do you ever feel just fed up doing your hair? I heard once that your hair can feel your energy and to never do you hair when you are upset or angry

09-08
01:39:55

A Conversation With My Dad About Self Love and Healing | Spirituality + More! Bonus Episode

Hey guys welcome back it is Hailey here! While I was back at home I also recorded a podcast with my dad while I was home! Stay tuned to hear more about our relationship with spirituality and how we practice self love in this bonus episode!! Here are the questions I ask in this episode!  Does this story have an origin what do you think got you to this point? Did you ever feel weird or different for being interested in the things that you are? Do you think that growing up as an athlete influenced or inspired your decisions and interests? Did you set out a plan that as a father, friend, person that you wanted to enlighten others share your story be a kind of healer? Were you ever worried that the things that you tell/told me and my brother grant were not going to stick? What do you think that you have learned that has helped you grow as an individual the most? What is the best advice you have ever been given and who was it from? What practices do you do daily that you think help shape you to be more understanding of others? What do you do to give self love to yourself? Customize your life lets go deeper into that how did that start and do you think you’ve taken it into consideration? How you have inspired me to be more spiritual How has someone else inspired you to be spiritual Is there anything you still need to learn Karma what does that mean to you? Do you think your degree played a pivotal role in this awakening Your history with natural medications and substances Your favorite places to hear more Your favorite gurus and just people and places you would like the audience to find out more about Concoctions and Tea follow our podcast twitter @steps_podcast

09-04
45:26

College Advice | Our Experience + More Ep. 5

Hi guys we are back on the podcast this week talking about our college experience and our advice for this years incoming freshmen! This episode we are joined by our friend and fifth year architecture student at our alma mater, Virginia Tech, Waverly! Stay tuned to hear what we suggest! This episode was sparked by the dropping out trend on Tiktok we assumed this was due to COVID-19 and how that impacted student's previous school year. Back to school season is in full swing right now and we are coming to terms with not going back and we asked ourselves are we experiencing post-grad blues? How does it feel to not be back at school? All three of us attended Summer Academy at Virginia Tech so we described that application process and touched on how we chose our college. What should you look for in a college? We also talked about the adjustment period and how the first year of college went for us. Going to VT we saw a lot of racial events happen in our presence we touched on the various racist sports team incidents that occurred in our time there.  follow our twitter @steps_podcasst  What sparked this episode Dropping out trend tiktok Post grad blues and happies How do you feel about not going back to school this year? How does it feel to be back at school? How does it feel to not be back at school? Background: We all went/go to VT Summer Academy How did you pick your college? What did you look for when picking a college? First Year Questions How would you describe your first year of college? What are some things you struggled with in college particularly your first year? What is your advice to this years first years considering their position with covid? How did we handle school during the covid period? What was your move in and adjustment period like? What were/are your moving essentials? What was it like having roommates? Do you have any roommate horror stories? Do you have any tips on meeting new people What clubs were you apart of? How was the food? Overall Questions What was exam week like Studying advice What did you do when you felt overwhelmed or not good at school? What to do over breaks How often did you go home how often should you? Do you recommend working during school What jobs did you have while at school? Did you ever think about dropping out? Did you ever switch majors? What was the process like? What was the first generation student experience like? What was it like being black at pwi? Black Groupme BSA NARP vs Athletes Debate We experienced a lot of racist events while at tech how would you guys describe those events and how they made you feel? Baseball team incident LAX Team incident Football Player incident

09-01
01:19:00

A Conversation With My Mom About The Natural Hair Community | Our Story Bonus Episode

Hi guys its Hailey! This weekend I traveled back home and decided to do a few podcasts with some family members! In this episode I sat down with my mom and discussed the natural hair movement and our history with hair! I hope you enjoy this candid conversation and follow our twitter  @steps_podcast Sitting down for this heartfelt discussion I asked my mom her background with her natural hair and how she perceived getting her hair done as a child. We discussed old pictures of her and how black hair was seen in pop culture she referenced a L.L. Cool J commercial. We touched on the idea of hair being bonding time with your parent and siblings as well considering the age gaps we both have with our siblings.  We talked about how we took care of our hair in college and the feeling of having to use heat. I asked about her little hair braiding career and if she was scared when she realized she was pregnant with a baby girl. The podcast started to get a little heated when we discussed the reasons why my mom permed (relaxed) my hair without permission as a child. My mother also had two big chops during my life span so I tried to get some background on that decision. We touched on postpartum hair loss, her experience with weave and hair extensions and more! We closed the episode out talking about our hair inspirations and if we felt the conversation was productive!

08-29
41:08

Reviewing Anthony Ramos' The Good And The Bad Album | A Perfect Debut Album Ep. 4

SORRY ABOUT THE AUDIO WE TRIED A NEW METHOD IT DIDN'T WORK WELL!!! Hey guys sorry for our absence last week! We are back this week reviewing one of our favorite debut albums The Good and The Bad by Anthony Ramos! Stay tuned to hear more about the album :) follow us on twitter @steps_podcast In this episode we touch on our history with Anthony Ramos  Hamilton 21 Chump Street In The Heights Quarantine We talk about his promotion of the album and some of the stories he included in his interviews like the Zach Sang Show. We talked at length about each song in order picking out lyrics that stood out to us and questions the song made us realize to ask each other. At the end of the episode we ranked the album in terms of our favorite songs!

08-26
53:48

CBS Please Hire Me to Produce Love Island USA | Love Island Season 3 Review Bonus Episode

Hey guys its Hailey here! I am obsessed with reality tv shows, especially ones involving love stay tuned to hear me binge rant about my frustration this season and thoughts on the cast:) Follow us on twitter @steps_podcast to live tweet shows with me! We start the show off with a quick synopsis! LOVE ISLAND is the sizzling summer series based on the international smash hit and cultural phenomenon. The matchmaking begins as a group of single “Islanders” come together in a stunning villa in Hawaii, ready to embark on a summer of dating, romance, and ultimately, relationships. Hailey gives her thoughts on the main cast members and lists her grievances with the show! She talks about all the after the villa drama and the lack of privacy on the show! She explains why she felt let down and the differences between this season and last season. She claims the premise and almost daily episodes allow for the show to become addictive. She touches on CBS suppressing bisexuality on the show this season and details what she would do as a producer of the show!  - Hailey  Cashay - Black Representation - Amazing self confidence - Gorgeous - Bald Representation - Durag Representation - She went after what she wanted! She wasn't insecure at all an amazing quality Javonny  - Great friend - Deserved to stay on the show longer - Unsure to why he coupled up with Olivia Cinco - He missed a good person! - Was only with Trina for superficial reasons - Didn't go with who he had real chemistry with the reasoning behind this should be studied  Will - Awful - Liar, clout chaser, amazing actor (short-term) - Shannon read him for filth and I enjoyed every second except his anger  Shannon - Apparently a Trump Supporter - Very intense and insecure in terms of relationships - Probably has a history involving infidelity  - Wish they would have dived into her relationship with Ginny Josh - So cute - Scared during Casa Amor - Thy were robbed Trina - Literally an icon  - Her hair and makeup are amazing - All of her looks on the show were amazing I want them all - Unnecessary hate towards her - African and Ghanian Representaton  JEREMY EW! Dad worked for CBS Started to like him at the end but it just seemed like he just wanted to stay in the villa and get with as many girls as possible KOREY VA GOT THAT DRIP NOT REALLY His skater boy voice kills me and his hair and the bandanas Seems like he really wants love Him and Olivia seems so forced by her but honestly both of them to be in the villa He seemed like he was really into any girl who showed him any sliver of attention (understandable id do the same) He’s supposed to be some adventurous guy wants to go to Egypt I don’t see it with him or Olivia but maybe just because they are in the villa CHARLIE Clout chaser Caleb 2.0 Tok Tok of him eating food so uncofotmabe Boring Rude When he cried after sending cash home I wanted to jump through the screen Insecure kind of eh but he just really fooled everyone SLADE Wasn’t there long enough to say much Hope her’s okay family emergency Funny accent WES Post villa seems very dumb Love that he’s down for Amy now and didn’t make her being a virgin some weird thing

08-13
28:35

Too Hot To Handle Season Two | Our Review and Thoughts Ep. 3

Hey y'all long time no hear? Anyway we are back today reviewing Too Hot To Handle season two! We both love binge watching tv and are so happy to have a platform to be able to share our thoughts:)  We start the episode out with a quick synopsis of the show. “A bunch of conveniently hot, sex driven singles from all over the world are tricked into believing they are coming onto a love-island sequel show at a tropical villa. After they arrive they realize they are there to create deeper connections and that all sex is banned — and if it happens it will result in a deduction from the prize pot of 100,000!” We also touch on the main differences between this season and the prior season! We ask ourselves does this seem real to you? The fake show Parties in Paradise? We then discuss our thoughts on each member: - Cam Holmes - Chase Demoor - Emily Miller - Carly Lawerence - Kayla - Nathan - Larissa  - Peter Vigilante - Melinda Melrose - Christina - Robert - Marvin We touch on some of the gossip seen on Harry Jowsey's podcast as well! follow us on Twitter @steps_podcast

08-12
47:33

Halcyeon's First Concert Experience | Bruno Mars 24k Magic Tour Bonus Episode

Today we talk all about Halcyeon's first concert experience seeing Bruno Mars! We discuss her long term history as a fan and she takes us back to how she decided to go see him in concert. We touch on Halcyeon's amazing snapchat stories and how great of a performer Bruno is! Halcyeon also gives advice to other concert goers! Head over to the steps of dialogue twitter @steps_podcast to see highlights from her story! We hope you enjoy this bonus episode :P  Halcyeon goes into detail about the Yondr cases and the raw talent she saw at the concert that night! She details how Bruno Mars was as a performer and also describes her journey back home! - Hailey&Halcyeon

08-09
51:45

The Ariana Grande Episode | Getting Real and Raw Ep.2

Hi welcome back! In our second episode today we discuss our love for Ariana Grande! We rank her albums, our top 3 songs/lyrics, and feature. We touch on Ariana's history and path to stardom while discussing her iconic eras and what makes her special. We give recognition to her sound and the people behind the smash hits! Female role models are really important to have while growing up, and we give some examples of how Ariana has become that for us! We talk about her few controversies, including Scooter Braun, Taylor Swift, Justin Bieber, Mariah Carey, and the infamous black fishing scandal. We describe how we ring in a new AG release, and also explain how Ariana has helped communities and simultaneously created a socially aware generation of young people. We use the end of the episode to do a big sister chat! Living in your twenties is hard and we want to make it easier for everyone and create a safe space to discuss!  follow the pod on twitter: @steps_podcast mocha grandes rise!!!!!

08-06
01:08:01

Why We Hate Capitalism + Each Other | Our Backstory Ep.1

Hi welcome to our first podcast episode! In today's episode we talk about our backstory and what started the podcast. Filling you in on our post-graduation life and why we hate capitalism, join us on our stories about our hot-girl walks and our crazy mindsets! In this episode we talk about our history in college and we dissect how our behaviors impacted our friendship. We touch on our jobs and plans for the next year and how life has settled down for us following college. Nuerodiversity and the failing education system do come up in this episode as well! 

07-28
01:06:23

Our Thoughts on the Big Brother 26 Cast!!

Welcome back to the podcast! We loved watching BB26. Here are our thoughts :) Angela crying with the bear: https://www.tiktok.com/@hypnoticvisions/video/7415627540431244574 Chelsie BahamMakensy ManbeckCam Sullivan-Brown Rubina BernabeKimo ApakaAngela MurrayLeah Peters T'kor Clottey Quinn Martin Joseph RodriguezTucker Des LauriersBrooklyn RiveraCedric HodgesKenney KelleyLisa Weintraub Matt Hardeman

10-26
01:30:17

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