Stoic Events Podcast

Most People Wait for TIME to Heal Them.But What If Healing DOES NOT Come with Time?We've Waited and We've Tried That!nothing.Healing from the Past Comes with Choice, no Matter What IT Was.We’re Not Giving You a Band-Aid — We’re Giving You Tools that We Found.Tools to Heal from Trauma, Betrayal, Loss, and the Lies You Keep Telling Yourself.It’s Not Easy.But It’s Possible.And It Starts with a Choice.In Today’s Episode, We’re Telling You the TRUTH!YOU - Choose to Forgive.YOU - Choose to Confront the Pain.YOU - Choose to Stop Pretending You’re “Fine.”#stoiceventspodcast #HealingIsAChoice #MindsetShift #DailyDiscipline #RealHealing #EmotionalFreedom #MorningMotivation

Comfort Feels Good…But It’s Robbing You Blind.It Steals Your HungerIt Numbs Your VisionAnd It Silences Your FightYou Think You’re Safe—But Really, You’re Stuck.Growth Isn’t Found in Comfort.It’s Found in the Stretch.The Struggle.The Sacrifice.Want More From Life?Then Pay the Cost.Wake Up Earlier.Say No to Distractions.Push Through the Discomfort.Walk Away from Average.Because Here’s the Truth:Comfort Will Cost You Your Calling.Comfort Will Cost You Your Future.Comfort Will Cost You Everything.Read That Again.Now Ask Yourself—Is It Worth It?

We Become What We Consume — In Our Body and IIn Our Mind.Every Thought, Every Image, Every Conversation Is Either Fueling Our Future or Feeding Our Destruction. Are We Choosing Growth, Strength, And Wisdom? Or Are We Settling for Mental Junk That Drains Our Energy,Sparks DramaBreeds Comparison?Mental Snacking Feels Harmless in the Moment — But Over Time, It Starves Your Potential.It’s Time to Get Serious About What We Let In.Protect Your Mind Like Your Life Depends on It — Because It Does.Let’s Dive Deep,Cut Through the Noise, And Start Feeding Our Minds forWhat BUILDS UnotBreaks us.Stoic Events Baby

YOUR Life Is HEADING in the Direction of Your STRONGEST Thoughts,and If You Don't Take Control of Them ...Your Thoughts - WILL Control YOU and TAKE You Wherever You are LED. Simple, and You CAN SEE it Everywhere.Let's GO, We're Gonna BREAK this DOWN. Now.- Why ARE Negative Thoughts So LOUD?- How to Rewrite Your Daily Thinking.- Controlling Your Mind is the FIRST STEP to Controlling Your Mind.TIRED OF MENTAL CHAOS?Get PEACE with POWER.Your Mind Isn't a Dumping Ground, It's a Battlefield, and We Better Act Accordingly. Take Fire and Keep Moving Forward!You're POWERFUL.Take Your LIFE Back.--- Your Existence is a MUST! ---NEED TO TALK? text 559.475.1578anytime.One Love & Blessings to the Rodarte Family  @rafaelrodartefilms  for the CONSTANT Support & Encouragement.#stoiceventspodcast #controlyourmind #mindsetshift #discipline #suicideawarness

Ever Feel Like Your Thoughts are ALL OVER the Place Carrying the Same Worries, Ideas, and Frustrations Day after Day? Journaling is the KEY to Breaking that Cycle. LET'S GO! We Dive into the POWER of Putting Pen to Paper. Journaling isn’t Just about Writing—It’s about Clarity, Discipline, and Transformation. FOUR THINGS!1- Clears Mental Clutter so YOU can FOCUS.2-Tracks your Growth so you SEE Progress. 3-Helps you Process Emotions Instead of Bottling Them Up. 4-Builds Self-Discipline – and Discipline is EVERYTHING. If You’re Feeling STUCK, OVERWHELMED, or just Need a GAME-CHANGER… this Episode is for YOU! - Start Shifting your Mindset Today! #stoiceventspodcast #JournalingPower #SelfDiscipline #DailyGrowth #MindsetShift #PersonalDevelopment #MorningRoutine

Think your guest list is locked in? Think again. 😏From Last-Minute No-Shows to Plus-Ones You Never Approved. We’re Breaking Down the Truth About Wedding Guests —Who Actually Show Up, Who are Ghosts, and Who’s Just Here for the Open Bar Baby! 🍹Don’t get Caught off Guard. Tune in now! 🎙️#WeddingPodcast #WeddingGuests #WeddingPlanning #BrideToBe

Life moves FAST. One Day, You’re Planning your Wedding, and Before you Know it, You’re Celebrating Anniversaries, Raising Kids, Building Careers, and Juggling a Million Responsibilities. But in the Middle of all That, it’s EASY to Lose Sight of what Really Matters—LIVING. TOGETHER. INTENTIONALLY.A Couple’s Bucket List isn’t Just about Thrill-Seeking or Extravagant Trips. It’s about Setting Shared Dreams, Creating Unforgettable Moments, and Making sure your Relationship is Filled with Adventure, Purpose, and Fun.✅ Want to take a dance class together? Write it down.✅ Dreaming of a spontaneous weekend getaway? Make it happen.✅ Want to renew your vows in 10 years? Plan for it.A Strong Relationship isn’t Built on Routine—it’s Built on Experiences that Challenge, Grow, and Inspire You as a Couple.So sit Down, Grab a Pen, and Start Writing YOUR list Toay. let's talk more.

Brides & Grooms, We Need to Talk!Wedding are Expensive, but are You Spending Your Budget the RIGHT Way?In this Episode, We Break Down: ~ the Bigest Wedding Budget Mistakes!(and what noone warns you about) ~ Where Couples Waste Money!(and how to fix it) ~The ONE THING You Might Be Splurging on!(you might be surprised)If You are Planning a Wedding, Watch this BEFORE You Book ANYTHING.#stoiceventspodcast #weddingpodcast #bride #groom#weddingbudget #weddingplanninghacks#centralvalleyweddings #centralvalleyphotograper

Here We Go! Stoic Events Dives Deep into the Art of Healthy Arguing in Marriage and DON’T Act Like You Don’t Argue with Each Other!! After being Married for 30 years, Jill & Darren can Assure You that We’ve Gone Toe to Toe more than a Few Times. Conflict is Inevitable in EVERY Relationship, but it Doesn’t Have to be Destructive. We Share Practical Tips for Managing Emotions during Heated Moments and Turning Arguments into Opportunities for Growth and Understanding. It’s So Important to Strive to Transform your Disagreements into Meaningful Conversations that Bring you Closer Together as a Couple! Stoic Events Baby #stoiceventspodcast #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipGoals #MarriageTips #HealthyArguments

The Moment You say “YES” is Magical, but What Comes Next Can Feel Overwhelming. Planning Your Dream Wedding, Navigating Family Dynamics, Managing Budgets—Where Do you Even START? 🎙️ In This Week’s Episode, We’re Breaking it All Down for YOU: ✨ First Steps to Take After the Proposal 💰 Budgeting Tips to Keep your Wedding Stress-Free 👥 How to Handle the Opinions of Everyone and Their Mother 🌸 Creating a Vision for Your Big Day Whether you’ve Been Planning this Moment Forever or Are Starting from Scratch, THIS is Your Ultimate Guide to Staying Grounded and excited for the Journey Ahead. 💕 #WeddingPlanningTips #BrideToBe #PodcastEpisode #WeddingInspo #YouSaidYes #engagedlife

We Can't Even Write How Much Pain We Have Felt in This Walk of Life. Honestly, We'll Get into That at Some Point on This Podcast but Please Believe that this Message is Genine to Help with LOVE. If You Do Not Start Appreciating Life, a Tradegy Might Have to WAKE YOU UP from the Fact that THIS ENTIRE EXISTANCE Could be TAKEN TOMORROW. Hating on OUR Life, Our People, Our Situation, and the CHOICES We HAVE MADE is Completely WASTING OUR LIVES. Look Too Long in the Mirrors While Driving and You're DEAD. Stop Looking at Yesterday and Focus on the ROAD AHEAD. Once the Egg is Scrambled, it Can't go BACK in the Shell. Life is Going by WAY TOO Fast and If WE Do NOT enjoy LIFE, then YOUR PAIN WAS FOR NOTHING. the clock is ticking.

We're Talking Events Jill & Darren Break Down STRIKE TEAMS! Strike Teams are Teams that Work ON and FOR a Specific Purpose. With Your Event, a Strike Team can Perform Many Functions to Make Your Event Run Smoothly with Service and Action. From Set-Up to Tear Down, Strike Teams can Vary in Their Capabilities AND Responsibilities...Basically: THEY GET SUFF DONE! We Have Been Part of Weddings that Have Had Strike Teams. We Have Also Been Part of Those that DID NOT. Aaaaand We Break This Down! Stoic Events

When Talking About YOUR Event: It Seems Like an Easy Enough Question but Asking 'Who is Coming?" can Get Complicated QUICK. Working on the Guest List can Get Big...FAST, but It's Super Important to Balance Your Vision, Personal Relationship and Budget with Your Event. Many Couples are Amazed at How Quickly the List can Grow and Honestly, Get Out of Hand, but Jill & Darren Give You ALL the Pointers to Keep this Process Reasonable and Stress Free. Let's Advance the Talk: You Know We're Going to Tie This into Life, So What About it? Do YOU Have the Right People Coming into Your Life? Currently? Are The RIGHT People Already in Your Life? They Should Be: Helping, Motivating, Encouraging, Empowering, Make Sure You Get to Where You Need to Go. We Need to Get This List of Ours Dialed is As SOON As Possible! Stoic Events Baby!

When Planning Your Wedding or Event, We Had to Ask... Is the Flow of Your Special Day Planned and Ready to be Executed? Perfectly? We Have Seen Events Mapped Out with a Fantastic Timeline and Plan, Ending with Epic Results. Some Couples Get in There and Pull Off Running a Massive Event with Multiple Moving Parts at One time in a Loud Chaotic Environment. However, We Have Seen the Other Side of This and Some Events Can Really Struggle without a Great Plan...it Almost Always Slips Away, and We See the Despair That This Causes. You Know We Gotta Tie It into Life, right? So, what about it? Is YOUR Life's Flow Right? Do You Have a Precise Plan for Attacking This Thing? Or is Life Just Happening, Ultimately Taking You on a Ride? We Cover a Lot in This One! Stoic Events Baby

When Planning an Event, We Need to Make SURE that Those People Closest to Us are Helping Us Meet Our Goals.  It’s YOUR EVENT and You are assembling a team. Let’s Make sure Everyone Plays their Roles Properly for the WIN! The Closest to Us are Likely the Most Influential to Us.  You ARE who You Surround  Yourself with careful out there kid. out in all platforms  Stoic Events

Some of the Most Important Decisions to Make When Planning Your Event are the non-Negotiables. Setting Healthy Boundaries with Friends and Family are so Important, and THAT is Why You and Your Partner NEED to Agree on What You Both Want and Absolutely Do Not Want to Take Place at YOUR Event. Venue Guest List Music Food Kids Let's Make Sure to Address Each of These Areas Prior and During the Planning Stages to Assure You and Your Partner Get EXACTLY WHAT YOU BOTH WANT. Get a Plan & STICK to It. It's What YOU Want. We GOT This! Stoic Event Baby

You Can't Pour from an Empty Cup! It Might be an Event that You are Planning, and it Might be YOUR LIFE that You're Planning... Either Way - YOU NEED a Routine. Let's Get our Live's in Shape by Setting Healthy Boundaries and Win at These New Tasks and Demands in Life. If We Aren't Even Taking Care of OURSELVES, how can We Help Champion the Lives of Those Around Us? It's on US to be Prepared Each Day to Face and Attack these Challenges Each Day as Examples to Those we Care About. We NEED a Routine. Somethings Got to Change and We Know it. They're Waiting on Us. Stoic Events

Photos are a Given at Your Event or Wedding, but Video Cannot be Overlooked: You've Just Spent So Much Time & Energy on All of These Details Leading to this Moment... Let's CAPTURE THIS! On This Episode, Jill Talks w. Rafael  @rafaelrodartefilms  about How Easy It Is to Get Pictures AND Video for Your Event without Breaking the Bank! ...they gotta have THAT eye & team! On Your Special Day, Photo AND Video Should Work Together! Making Sure Your Day is Remembered. as YOU See It, cohesively, beautifully, collectively...Yours! We've Said it, but...Rafael Explains Perfectly in This Episode, as We DIVE INTO This! Stoic Event Baby!

Whether you are 2 Weeks from Your Event...or 2 Years, Jill & Darren talk 6 general sections of your wedding that you should focus on! * preperation * first look / pre-ceremony pics * ceremony * reception * the send off With the above six, we need a good plan, and most important... that person to help you execute this! Stoic Events Baby!

It Is NOT Out of Reach! Your Beach Wedding is an Easy One to Pull Off. You Know What You Want and You Can Have What You Want on a Fixed Budget. Let's Get a Few Simple Things Down to Get Started in the Right Direction: -Find the Beach Look You Want -Plan For Elements -Cover Guest Amenities -Permits and Regulations -Get What You Want. see...it's simple. Stoic Events LOVES Beaches and Weddings. C'mooooooon...LET'S GO!!! Special Thanks to RafealRodarteFilms.com !! Darren was Left in Charge of Equipment for the First Time. He Didn't Know What He Was Doing. Rafael is BACK Next Week!! (quality/sound IMPROVES)