Stop Falling for the Wrong Men

In this episode, you'll learn how small words like "probably" can affect your chances at finding love. I'll share stories from my Happy Hour workshops, where people have found strength in being open and vulnerable.Together, we'll explore the difference between love's "probabilities" and "possibilities." Probabilities often come from past pain, while possibilities offer fresh starts. We'll discuss leaving behind old expectations and embracing new relationships with clear eyes and hope.If you're ready to change your love life, this episode is for you. I'll offer guidance and support to help you find the love you deserve. Let's navigate the dating world together, leaving behind the wrong partners and welcoming the right ones into our lives.This episode is your invitation to a landscape where emotional rehabilitation paves the way to self-confidence and the possibility of healthy, meaningful relationships.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

In this episode, we're discussing why picking partners for safety might be holding you back from finding true love. We'll explore how past relationships shape your current views on love.But here's the twist: we'll also tackle the solution. We'll talk about why it's crucial to emotionally invest in relationships. Think of it as planting seeds in a garden—if you invest emotionally, you can cultivate a stronger, more fulfilling connection.This insight could be the key to solving your dating dilemma if your connections aren't progressing. By understanding the importance of emotional investment, you'll be better equipped to break free from playing it safe and open yourself up to deeper, more meaningful relationships. Join us as we unravel the secrets to finding lasting love by taking emotional risks.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

In this podcast episode, we're delving into a crucial skill for navigating the dating arena successfully – clear and fearless communication. Join me as we explore why confidently expressing your needs and desires is essential in aligning with your dating goals. Discover how mastering this skill can help you avoid falling for the wrong men and pave the way for healthier, more fulfilling connections. 👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Say goodbye to the confusion and toxicity of past relationships, as we focus on the empowerment of choice and self-awareness by distinguishing attracting the wrong men and being attracted to them in return.  In this episode, I discuss the intricate dynamics of relationships and explore the subtle yet crucial difference between attracting the wrong men and being drawn to them in return. Suppose you find yourself trapped in a pattern of repeatedly attracting the wrong partners. In that case, it's time to unravel the mystery and understand that it may not be about who you attract but rather what you're naturally drawn to. Join us as we navigate the complexities of self-awareness, personal preferences, and the forces that shape our romantic choices. Gain insights into breaking the cycle of toxic relationships by examining the deeper roots of attraction and empowering yourself to make conscious, fulfilling choices in matters of the heart. If you're feeling confused about your romantic patterns, this episode offers a fresh perspective that might just be the key to unlocking a healthier and more satisfying love life.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Have you ever mistaken the grip of anxiety for the flutter of butterflies in your stomach? In this episode, we will dissect the critical link between our emotions and the choices we make in relationships. Through sharing my missteps, I’ll help you to recognize the difference between self-love and self-harm in the quest for companionship. This is about learning to trust your gut and make decisions that lead to the kind of love that nourishes rather than destroys.Breaking free from the shackles of toxic relationships isn't just a dream—it's a potential reality with the right insight and action. This episode is your toolkit for understanding the importance of emotional awareness and the role it plays in either perpetuating a cycle of heartache or paving the way to fulfilling connections. If your heart is yearning for a change, tune in to learn how to harness your emotions to steer clear of the pitfalls of dating the wrong men and how to step confidently toward the love life you deserve. And remember, if you're ready to take it a step further, my personal dating success session is just a click away—details await in the show notes.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Have you ever felt like an invisible barrier is holding you back in love?Navigating the dating world with a history of relationship trauma is like walking through a minefield blindfolded. I get real about how these past hurts can mutate into negative belief systems, influencing our actions, and potentially leading to self-fulfilling prophecies of romantic disappointment. But don't despair, as we discuss 'the model'—a powerful coaching tool that clarifies how our thoughts about past traumas shape our present and future. Together, we dissect this transformative framework, giving you the tools to reconstruct the narrative of your dating script and opening the door to new, healthier connections.Lastly, we talk about transformation—how changing our thought patterns about dating can drastically alter our love lives. Through personal stories and insights, I demonstrate the magic of reframing our perspectives, distinguishing facts from emotions, and choosing empowering narratives over old scripts. From the daily practice of self-reflection to seeking professional guidance, we lay out the steps towards overcoming the trauma of ghosting or deceit and moving towards the relationships we truly deserve. Tune in, and let's embark on this journey to the empowering shores of love and self-discovery together.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

 This episode is an intimate exploration of self-discovery and fortifying the most crucial relationship you'll ever have—the one with yourself. As we turn the page on a chaotic year, I extend a heartfelt invitation to a transformative workshop designed to supercharge your confidence and guide you through the maze of life's uncertainties with a 75% boost in self-assurance.Through the lens of my own journey, from feeling adrift to seizing self-awareness, I'll show you why knowing yourself is synonymous with crafting a life of joy and achievement. This isn't just about setting goals; it's about the inner work that sets the stage for how we experience everything. Whether it's your career, your relationships, or your personal endeavors, understanding the intricate bond we share with ourselves is like finding a compass in a storm—something I learned the hard way.Cap off this heartfelt conversation with a chance to join me in a virtual workshop that's more than just an event—it's the beginning of a new chapter. We'll share a drink, some laughs, and most importantly, the practical tools that'll arm you for the year ahead. It's time to transform hesitation into action and self-doubt into empowerment. Tune in, get comfortable, and let's raise a glass to a year of living with intention and confidence.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Embark on a transformative journey with me, Stefanie Marianné  as we unlock the secrets to becoming your own greatest love. This week, we're setting the stage for a year of unapologetic self-admiration and care, unveiling the artistry behind nurturing the most pivotal relationship you have — the one with yourself. We'll explore how the tender acts of self-care reverberate through every facet of life, from the dating scene to achieving personal milestones. Imagine a world where your well-being is the cornerstone of every decision; together, we'll start building that reality.As we introduce the Self Care Club, I warmly invite you, my cherished listeners, to this sanctuary of growth and self-compassion. Drawing on a tapestry of personal triumphs and the collective wisdom of our community, we'll weave a narrative that celebrates your unique journey. Next week, prepare to step into a life where you're not just surviving but thriving, with self-care as your guiding light. There's no guest joining us—just an intimate conversation between you and I, as we chart a course towards a love-filled and resilient life.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Swipe after swipe, match after match, but where's the real connection? This episode isn't just about the woes of Tinder or Bumble; it's a roadmap to transforming your love life, whether you're seeking a ring on it or just a genuine link.Are you bored of the same faces popping up on multiple platforms? Are you tired of conversations that go nowhere and the endless cycle of looking for the next best thing? You're not alone. Get ready to break free from the 'grass is greener' syndrome and the dopamine loop of swiping. We'll tackle the tough issues, like the "squirrel brain" phenomenon and tech codependence, and share strategies for creating a profile that's less about playing the numbers game and more about marketing your authentic self. Think of it as a personal ad that's all about attracting the right kind of attention.Ever consider confidently making the first move while maintaining your essential feminine energy? It's time to empower yourself by stepping outside the algorithm box and into the world of organic dating. This episode teases our upcoming workshop poised to revolutionize your dating approach. If you're ready to rewrite your love story with a mix of assertiveness and grace, raise a glass with me, and let's toast the beginning of your transformed dating life. Here's to ditching the digital fatigue and embracing the art of authentic connection.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Do you ever feel like you're running in circles with your love life, repeatedly encountering the same disappointments and heartaches? It's not you, it's love-blocking energy. In this episode, we'll dive deep into the four pillars of love-blocking energy - our relationship with ourselves, dating and men, past experiences, and love-building skills. You'll discover how our internal energy, encompassing our thoughts, feelings, and actions, plays a massive role in attracting or repelling potential partners. We'll explore how trauma can deeply impact one's self-perception and connection with oneself, leading to a love-blocking model. Stephanie takes us through a detailed breakdown of this model, illustrating how unintentional thoughts and belief systems can obstruct one's ability to share and accept love.But we won't stop at identifying the problem. We'll end this engaging workshop-style series with practical steps to shift your energy, break free from the cycle of love-blocking, and rewrite your unique and beautiful love story. Stephanie will share invaluable insights on overcoming negative self-relationships, embracing self-care, setting boundaries, and the power of a supportive community. Get ready to embark on an empowering journey of self-discovery and transformation. Buckle up! 👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Shame, a heavy emotion we often carry from past relationships, can keep us from stepping forward into new love and connections. But what if we could repair our brokenness and emerge stronger and more beautiful? Taking inspiration from yinsugi, a Japanese art form that repairs brokenness with gold, I metaphorically explore how we can apply the same concept to healing our relationships. We'll also discuss the importance of seeking professional help from therapists and coaches in this process, just as I have.Finally, we'll plunge into the power of gratitude and how it aids personal growth. Our past experiences, no matter how painful, shape us into the unique individuals we become. With that realization, I want us to embrace our past, celebrate our growth, and view our experiences as opportunities rather than obstacles. Let's rebuild ourselves and use our relationship resume as a tool for personal development. Remember, you're not broken, you're just in the process of becoming your best self. So tune in, and let's journey together to discover the whole, worthy individuals we are.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Tired of attracting the wrong men? If you’re nodding your head, then this episode is your timely intervention.  We'll navigate the complexities of dating, focusing on breaking past barriers, taking control of our love lives, and prioritizing self-care and personal growth. Brace yourself to explore the intriguing concept of love blocking energy, and how it can be a significant game-changer in your dating life.Ever questioned how our deeply ingrained beliefs about men unknowingly shape our love lives? Well, here's a space to scrutinize that. Drawing from my journey, we'll delve into the limiting belief system and its impact on our relationships. Additionally, we'll tackle how our subconscious thoughts sometimes morph into a protective shield, blocking us from genuine connections. Undeniably, this shield serves as a safety net, but it also deprives us of potential partners and deeper bonds. But fear not, we equip you with the power to flip the script by shifting your beliefs and taking control of your narrative.Concluding the episode on a high note, it's time to unbox the role of attraction and personal power in dating. We'll discuss how the right energy can be a magnet that draws in the right partner. When you shift from "love blocking energy" to "date me energy," you gift yourself the power of choice in attraction, thereby preventing the trap of falling for the wrong person. So, ladies, gear up for a transformational journey where we'll debunk myths, challenge status quo, and pave the way for a fulfilling love life.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Ever been ghosted? Proposed to as a joke? If you've found yourself on the rollercoaster ride that is modern dating, join me, Stefanie Marianné, on the next episode of Dating Boot Camp, where we'll unpack my own journey navigating these tricky waters. You'll hear about my struggle with love blocking energy and how it became a catalyst for self-growth and reflection.Are you hooked on reality TV shows like Married at First Sight? That's my guilty pleasure, too! But how does our desire for instant love, depicted in these TV shows, affect our real-life dating experiences? Together, we're going to delve into the brain's pursuit of pleasure and its impact on how we approach relationships. Discover why we need to embrace the 50-50 game of dating and how to minimize love-blocking energy.What happens when we merge science with spirituality in the realm of dating? Get ready to dive into the 'date me energy' concept and its vital role in boosting resilience and courage in the dating scene. Believe me, you deserve love, but it's going to take some self-growth to get there. Looking forward to future relationships, let's discuss our hopes and dreams, and remember, I'm right by your side, cheering you on as you embark on your love journey. Let's connect and support each other on this exciting adventure.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Ever caught yourself making excuses for your partner’s behavior? Ever held onto a relationship, hoping against hope that you could change them? You might have unknowingly been high on 'Hopium'. I am your dating coach, Stefanie Marianné and today, we're going to tackle this destructive addiction. Walk with me as I share a personal and very real story of a friend stuck in a toxic relationship, blinded by Hopium. We'll delve into the danger signs, the frequent ignoring of red flags, and how sunk cost theory and familiarity can often trap us in unhealthy relationships. Hope isn’t always a good thing, especially when it veils reality. We'll discuss how to let go of false hope and trust your gut when it comes to dating. I'll remind you of your self-worth and how self-love is instrumental in building healthier relationships. But remember, pulling yourself out of the Hopium haze isn’t a lonely journey. You're invited to our supportive community, a warm space where your pursuit of love is nurtured and encouraged. As we wrap up, I want to extend a heartfelt Thanksgiving wish and assure you that next week, we are meeting again for another exciting episode. Tune in, and let's embark on your journey to a happier, healthier love life.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Are you tired of falling for men who weren't who you thought they were? You're not alone. Many people find themselves ensnared by charming words and grand promises, only to be left heartbroken when actions fail to live up to the rhetoric. Welcome to Dating Boot Camp, where I, Stefanie Marianné, your dating coach, will take you through the importance of action alignment - the synergy between a person's words and actions in ensuring a successful relationship. This episode offers insights into how to effectively assess a potential partner's sincerity and trustworthiness, and the significance of waiting at least 90 days before getting intimate as part of becoming action alignment aware.Ever heard of being a 'sex sloth'? I bet not! Here's your chance to discover why it's a term worth embracing in your dating journey. This episode digs deep into why intimacy should be the final puzzle piece in the 'getting-to-know-you' phase and not the other way round. By doing this, you're able to avoid the common pitfall of 'morning-after' regrets, often sparked by whirlwind emotions. In a world that increasingly values instant gratification, learn the power of taking a step back, slowing down, and allowing past behavior to inform your present relationship decisions.The foundation of any healthy relationship lies in clear communication and establishing expectations early on. As we navigate this together, you'll learn how to give a potential partner space to express themselves, while learning to manage your own expectations. The importance of recognizing and addressing our biases, and understanding how they color our perceptions, will also be addressed. Remember, dating is an exploration. It's a journey of learning and growing, so buckle up as we delve into this enlightening episode, aimed at improving your dating experiences. No one said the journey would be easy, but it's certainly worth it. Thanks for being part of this beautiful community!👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Ever been ghosted and left wondering what you did wrong? Or maybe you're stuck in a pattern of love-blocking energy that leaves you frustrated and single. Well, buckle up because I'm about to take you on an unexpected journey through the world of dating! As your dating coach, I'll share my recent ghosting experience and reveal the surprising turn of events that arose when I decided to date myself. Spoiler alert: it involves a charming gentleman and an unforeseen twist with the original ghoster.But it's not all about my experiences - I'll guide you on how to embody the transformative 'date me' energy and become an irresistible beacon of light in your dating life. Let's get real about dealing with love-blocking energy and how a shift towards compassionate curiosity can open up exciting new possibilities. We'll discuss my unique dating protocol, its power to shift mindsets, and the unexpected results it can bring. No, we're not in the business of fixing others. Instead, we're here to show them what a healthy relationship looks like and how your presence can have a profound impact on the dating landscape. Ready for a healthier, more fulfilling dating life? Let's get started!👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Have you ever wondered how to navigate the tumultuous waves of the dating world? Well, brace yourself for an adventure as we journey through the highs and lows of my personal dating experiences, from ghosting to a surprise marriage proposal - all in a single day. Get ready to construct your own emotional first aid kit, a unique tool to handle triggering moments with grace, turning them into neutral circumstances and propelling forward with positive intention.Experience the power of gratitude in your dating journey. I'll take you through my own experiences, sharing how staying connected to inner guidance and trusting the universe led me to humorous, unexpected situations - including a marriage proposal from a complete stranger! As we laugh off these surprising moments together, you'll learn how to harness the energy of gratitude to attract your perfect match.Maintaining a safe space for yourself is crucial while venturing into the dating scene. Discover how to navigate challenging dating moments by connecting with your inner guidance and trusting in the universe. Get inspired to join my group coaching program, Dating Boot Camp, where you can find support in navigating the not-so-pretty parts of dating. Let's explore together the importance of creating an emotional first aid kit for this journey, and appreciate the community we're building. Let's stay connected and glow in the energy of love, hopefulness, and appreciation for each other.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Have you ever felt haunted by specters of past relationships, their ghostly presence leaving you in a loop of love-blocking energy? Well, I have. This week, I share my personal story of how two significant men in my life - my dad and my child's father, left me with an insecurity that men will always abandon me for another woman. This experience made me realize the lasting impact of such events on our capacity to love, and the need for a conscious effort to mend our love lives.From this revelation, I developed my Dating Bootcamp program, crafted to help you clear your love-blocking energy and prepare you to welcome an amazing love into your life. We'll explore the role of the prefrontal cortex, and how understanding its function can enable us to control our reactions. I'll also share my journey of overcoming this haunting fear, shifting my mindset to a more neutral stance and realizing the power I hold in choosing how to interpret and process experiences.Don’t miss out on our Heart to Heart Happy Hour, an opportunity to learn more about the Bootcamp and its benefits. Plus, there's a special bonus in store for the first 10 women who join! So, are you ready to liberate yourself from the chains of past experiences and step into a future of your own making? Tune in, and let's walk this journey together, from the shadows of the past into the light of a love-filled tomorrow.👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Ever wondered why dating often feels like venturing into a wilderness? Well, fear not, for I've transformed the wilderness into a comfortable glamping experience with this dating boot camp episode! Together, we'll turn the grim dating landscape of 2023 into a fertile field of opportunity, by surrounding ourselves with like-minded women and embracing the empowering power of happy hour. You don't have to endure the harsh conditions of the dating wilderness anymore, let's create a safe haven where dreams of love and companionship bloom.Does the idea of love scare you because it feels so elusive and unpredictable? What if I told you that love isn't just a feeling, but a practice, something that's within your control? We'll unpack this concept, breaking down the six pillars of practicing love - from the art of focused attention to the power of being present. We'll discover how practicing love, instead of merely feeling it, can actually amplify those warm, fuzzy feelings in your relationships. Lastly, we'll embrace the art of practicing love, exploring how it's not just about others but about self-love and self-care. In this 30-day challenge, we'll see how love leads to personal growth and self-awareness. From expressing gratitude to understanding the importance of physical affection, we'll turn love into a positive force in our lives. Ready for a revolution in your love life? Join me, Stephanie Mariani, your dating coach, in this journey of practicing love and see how it changes your life. Now, let the love games begin!👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie

Wouldn't it be amazing if you could wave a magic wand and transform your dating life? I can't promise you a wand, but in this episode, I unravel the modern dating world, revealing its challenges and how technology has reshaped it. I also share insight on the impact of social media platforms, like TikTok and Instagram, and how our reliance on technology can affect our love lives. Plus, I'll discuss the importance of personal growth and the role it plays in fostering healthy and meaningful relationships.There was a time in my life when I had dreams of losing weight, pursuing a career I was passionate about, and of course, finding love. The path to achieving these dreams was not a straightforward one. It involved setbacks, lessons, and plenty of self-reflection. But most importantly, it taught me the art of manifesting and preparedness. In this episode, I share my journey and how I finally manifested the life I had always dreamed of, offering you the secrets to do the same.But here's the catch, achieving your dream life isn't just about dreaming and hoping - it's about aligning your energies and taking responsibility. It's about shifting that love-blocking energy that's been holding you back. So, how do you do that? By investing in yourself, addressing your personal blind spots, and creating a space of gratitude. Join me in this transformative episode as we explore how to shift from a state of love-blocking energy to a place of love and manifest the love life you've always longed for. It's going to be an enlightening and inspiring episode I promise you won't want to miss!👇🏽Book Your Dating Success Session 👇🏽 https://linktr.ee/coachmestef💖I can't wait to meet you!💖xxStefanie