Stop Shoulding On Yourself

Welcome to Stop Shoulding On Yourself with Jessica and Jamie! We're two friends who talk about navigating the should's and should not's of our adulthood. We talk about it all, with some topics being silly, serious, relatable, or just random AF. And as a disclaimer, this is NOT an advice podcast! If you find some things we say useful to apply in your life, great! But we're here to have a good time with good conversations, so join us for the ride!

Episode 35: How Do You Know If Someone Is "The One"?

Cuffing Season is in full effect and some are already boo'd up for the holidays! Now, the question is... are they the one or are they just a holiday boo? How do you know?

12-12
22:44

Episode 34: Spotting a F*ckBoi

How to spot a f*ck boy 101 in this week's episode (;

10-12
18:35

Episode 33: Growing Up With Strict Guardians

They say that people who grew up with strict guardians have similar experiences. Can you relate? 🤔

10-03
21:44

Episode 32: Sharing Passwords With Your Partner

What's the whole deal about sharing passwords with your significant other? Should you do it or keep it to yourself? 

09-22
17:28

Episode 31: Long Distance Relationships

Is it just us or are so many more people in long distance relationships nowadays? Well, here's what we have to say about it.

09-16
20:58

Episode 30: Staying Entertained During A Pandemic

What'd you get hooked on during this pandemic? Let's talk! 

09-08
17:19

Episode 29: Crazy College Drinking Stories

It's right around that time when college is starting again! So we started reminiscing about our (not-so) glorious college nights when we'd party til the sun would rise. 

09-01
22:46

Episode 28: Right Person, Wrong Time? (Minisode)

Is this even real? Is there such a thing as meeting the right person at the wrong time?

08-26
19:13

Episode 27: Do You Believe in Second Chances?

Sometimes we get back into relationships with the hopes that whatever broke it off never happens again. But does it actually work out or is it all just wishful thinking?

08-18
22:09

Episode 26: Do Breaks Work? (Minisode)

One of our friends is thinking about going on a break with her boo to (hopefully) bring peace to their relationship. But let's be real. Do breaks actually work? 🤔

08-11
20:52

Episode 25: What's The Best Way To Gain Closure?

Jessica's friend is dealing with a break up (yikes!) & the worst part about the break up is the aftermath. So let's talk about closure and what might be the best way to get it.

08-04
25:35

Episode 24: When You Don't Like Your Friend's New Boo (Minisode)

So your friend got boo'd up, but you're starting to realize that you might not really like this new person. Do you tell your friend or let your friend do their thing?

07-28
15:46

Episode 23: You're Exes. Now What?

Breaking up with a partner is hard enough, but what about the aftermath? Because everything's different as an ex. So what's the best way to do this? Let's talk!

07-21
25:43

Episode 22: Is Lying Sometimes Better Than The Truth? (Minisode)

When is it acceptable to lie to your partner or friend? ... Is it ever okay?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

07-14
20:08

Episode 21: Are We Enabling Toxic Friendships?

Sometimes we have friends who enable toxic behaviors... but sometimes WE are that enabler friend. In this episode, we discuss being a supportive friend vs a toxic enabler.Music: allthat by bensound.com

07-07
30:40

Episode 20: Should You Be Friends With An Ex? (Minisode)

You shared a part of your life with someone, and now that chapter's done. But do you keep your ex as a part of your past? Or should you stay friends with your ex? Here's our two cents. Music: allthat by bensound.com

06-30
18:21

Episode 19: What's Your Definition Of Success?

Our idea of success has definitely changed throughout the years, and in this episode we talk about how we currently define and measure success. Music: allthat by bensound.com

06-23
29:29

Episode 18: What You Shouldn't Do On First Dates (Minisode)

California has fully re-opened, which means... We're going to be seeing a lot of first dates happening in restaurants and bars this summer! So let's prep for it and talk about what you shouldn't do on those first dates.😉Music: allthat by bensound.com

06-16
21:24

Episode 17: Dating In Our Early vs Late 20s

So much can change in 10ish years, like what we look for in potential partners. Today, we're talking about what we use to vs. what we currently look for in a partner.  Music: allthat by bensound.com

06-09
33:24

Episode 16: Life Lessons We Should Listen To...But Don't (Minisode)

Let's talk about some "life lessons" that we should have learned by now and should know how to listen to... but don't.Music: allthat by bensound.com

06-02
20:10

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