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Got a situation? Steve Harvey and Shirley Strawberry deliver unfiltered advice on love, relationships, family, work, and life. Send your letter, subscribe, and get real talk every day!


Every weekday, the Steve Harvey Morning Show tackle a listener-submitted “Strawberry Letter”... a real-life dilemma ranging from romantic entanglements to career choices, family drama to money struggles, and everything in between.


With a blend of wisdom, wit, and brutal honesty, they offer candid commentary and heartfelt guidance, often sparking conversation (and laughter) among the rest of the morning show crew.


Submit your Strawberry Letter at www.steveharveyfm.com for a chance to be featured, and get the truth, Steve Harvey style!

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Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Cary Carbonaro. A certified financial planner and author of Women and Wealth. 1. Guest Introduction: Cary Carbonaro Certified Financial Planner with 25+ years of experience. Leads a multimillion-dollar financial planning practice. Focuses on empowering women and increasing financial literacy. Promoting her second book: Women and Wealth. 2. Why Cary Wrote the Book To share her 25 years of experience working with women. To address the lack of female-friendly practices in the financial industry. Key stat: “By 2030, women will control two-thirds of the nation’s wealth—$30 trillion.” 4. Challenges in the Financial Industry Industry built by men, for men. Not ready for the shift in wealth ownership to women. Harvard Business Review (2009): “Financial services is the least sympathetic to women and has the most to gain if they get it right.” 5. Financial Planning Philosophy Everyone deserves a financial plan. Quote: “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” Financial planning includes: Risk management Cash flow Tax strategy Investments Retirement Estate planning 6. Making the Industry Female-Friendly Women often leave their financial advisors after a spouse dies (80% of the time). Reasons: lack of connection, poor communication, feeling ignored. Not a DEI issue, but a dollars and cents issue: “What other industry would ignore a $30 trillion opportunity?” 7. Stereotypes and Societal Expectations Women face pressure to look attractive in professional settings. Stereotypes persist in media and even in AI-generated images. Example: AI generated a man when asked for an image of a financial planner with long hair. 8. Cary’s Personal Journey Inspired by her father, a JPMorgan Chase executive. Grew up learning about money and finance. Built her business by focusing on women, not traditional male-dominated marketing. Quote: “Money equals power, and women need more of both.” 9. The Wealth Gap Beyond the wage gap, the wealth gap is driven by caregiving responsibilities. Termed the “good daughter/spouse penalty.” Lifetime cost to women: $1 million. 10. Call to Action Women should seek financial literacy and independence. Encourage planning before crisis hits. Quote: “Wealth gives you choices in life.” 📌 Key Quotes & Highlights “If you don’t start dreaming about what you want today, you will not get it tomorrow.” “By 2030, women will control $30 trillion in wealth.” “The industry was built by men, for men. But the clients are changing.” “Money equals power, and women need more of both.” “The wealth gap is generated by caregiving responsibilities, costing women $1 million over a lifetime.” “Everyone deserves a financial plan.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Jotaka Eaddy. An award-winning strategist and advocate, founder of Win With Black Women (WWBW)—a collective of over 200,000 Black women leaders. Key Highlights from the Interview: 🎙️ Opening Message Rushion emphasizes the importance of living your own success story and introduces the show’s mission to inspire and educate. 👩🏾‍💼 Guest Introduction: Jotaka Eaddy First Black woman student body president at the University of South Carolina. Founder of WWBW, which aims to uplift Black women in leadership, politics, and business. Works to bridge the gap between Washington, D.C., and Silicon Valley. 🌍 Win With Black Women (WWBW) Originated during the 2020 election cycle in response to sexist and racist attacks on potential Black female VP candidates. Focuses on: Combating racism and sexism. Supporting Black women in elections. Elevating the economic and cultural power of Black women. Organized impactful initiatives like theater buyouts for The Little Mermaid to demonstrate economic influence. 💡 On Leadership and Identity Jotaka reflects on her upbringing in rural South Carolina and the influence of her late mother and community. She discusses the importance of representation, mentorship, and self-belief. Emphasizes that leadership is not just about position but about empowering others and evolving daily. 💻 Bridging to Silicon Valley Shares her journey into tech, overcoming imposter syndrome, and becoming a C-suite executive. Advocates for demystifying tech careers for Black communities and creating inclusive opportunities. 🧠 Perception vs. Reality Addresses stereotypes about Black women and contrasts them with data: Black women are the most educated demographic and fastest-growing group of entrepreneurs in the U.S. 💬 Closing Thoughts Rashawn praises Jotaka’s motivational presence and impact. Jotaka shares her commitment to living a life that uplifts others. #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Loni Love. Emmy Award-winning comedian, actress, and author. The conversation centers around her memoir, I Tried to Change So You Don’t Have To, and offers a rich blend of personal storytelling, cultural insight, and motivational wisdom. 📘 About the Memoir Title: I Tried to Change So You Don’t Have ToTone: Comedic, honest, emotional, and empoweringPurpose: To share Loni’s journey from the Detroit projects to Hollywood, while inspiring readers to embrace their authentic selves. 🌟 Key Themes & Highlights 🏙️ Early Life & Upbringing Grew up in the Brewster Projects in Detroit. Raised by a strong community of Black women, including her mother, babysitter Miss Brooks (a Jehovah’s Witness), and other influential women like her Girl Scout leader and Miss Fever. Emphasizes the importance of the “village” in shaping her values and resilience. 🎓 Education & HBCU Experience Attended Prairie View A&M University (an HBCU), where she joined Delta Sigma Theta Sorority. Credits her college experience and sorority sisters for bailing her out of jail during a pivotal moment in her youth. Studied electrical engineering and later worked at General Motors before transitioning into entertainment. 😂 Humor & Hardship The memoir balances levity with serious topics like racism, wrongful arrest, and self-doubt. Chapter 8, where she’s thrown in jail for trespassing, is highlighted as both hilarious and eye-opening. Each chapter ends with a joke to bring levity to even the darkest moments. 💪 Empowerment & Mentorship Encourages readers to trust themselves and not conform to others’ expectations. Discusses the importance of mentorship and how someone saw potential in her beyond her factory job. Shares how Rushion McDonald personally mentored her during a difficult time in her TV career. 🎭 Career & Creativity Talks about her journey into comedy, acting, and co-hosting The Real. Reflects on her first film role in Soul Plane and the realities of the entertainment industry. Advocates for journaling and documenting personal history, especially for Black voices. 💬 Memorable Quotes “This is a love letter to my fans.” “If you feel hopeless, if you need some inspiration… understand that you are from a strong stock of people.” “We have to share our stories to show them the experiences that we've come through.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Friday, August 29th, 2025. Subject: "My Boss Wants To Whip Me"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Thursday, August 28th, 2025. Subject: "I'm Not As Strong As I Think I Am"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Monday, August 27th, 2025. Subject: "What Is My Role In My Marriage?"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Tuesday, August 26th, 2025. Subject: "How Could He Be So Cold Hearted?"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Monday, August 25th, 2025. Subject: "They Want Equal Treatment"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Friday, August 22nd, 2025. Subject: "My Husband Left Me, But He Didn't Move Out"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Thursday, August 21st, 2025. Subject: "Patiently Waiting For My Man To Settle Down"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter, heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Wednesday, August 20th, 2025. Subject: "My Friend Is Doing The Most"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Earthquake. Comedian, Actor, Entrepreneur and Radio Host Comedy Icon known for his Netflix special Chappelle’s Home Team Presents Earthquake: Legendary (produced by Dave Chappelle). Host of Quake’s House on Kevin Hart’s Laugh Out Loud Network via SiriusXM. Longtime contributor to the comedy scene since the 1990s, with roots in Atlanta. 🎤 Key Themes & Insights 🧠 Comedy with Purpose Earthquake emphasizes that his comedy is rooted in truth and humor—not shock value or controversy. He uses comedy to educate, especially on health issues like colonoscopies, encouraging Black men to prioritize their well-being. 💼 Business of Comedy Talks about the evolution from performing for meals to becoming a headliner. Shares insights on managing a team and making tough decisions to grow professionally. Advocates for professionalism over loyalty when scaling a business. 📺 Upcoming Projects New comedy special titled “Joke Telling Business” filmed in Atlanta. Developing a sitcom with Bill Burr, backed by Fox Network President Michael Thorn. 📻 Quake’s House Radio Show A platform for emerging comedians. Described as “The View with comedians,” focusing on hot topics and real-life scenarios. ❤️ Personal Life Credits his fiancée (soon-to-be wife) for grounding and motivating him. Says being “properly loved by a Black woman” has transformed his life and career. 💬 Memorable Quotes “I’m in the joke telling business. I’m not your pastor, not your critic. Judge me on the jokes.” “Being properly loved by a woman, especially a Black woman, is a beautiful thing.” “Laughter is the best healing ever.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Tuesday, August 19th, 2025. Subject: "All In The Family"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Monday, August 18th, 2025. Subject: "Best Friends And Lovers"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Friday, August 15th, 2025. Subject: "Has He Crossed The Line With His Play Sister?"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Thursday, August 14th, 2025. Subject: "I'm In The Middle Of Some Mess"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Wednesday, August 13th, 2025. Subject: "A Major Coverup Is Going On"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Brandon Bronaugh. A life transition expert and one of the faces of A&E’s hit show Hoarders. 🎯 Purpose of the Interview The interview aims to: Explore the deeper emotional and psychological aspects of hoarding. Highlight Brandon Bronaugh's unique approach to helping individuals and families transition through crisis-level home situations. Educate the audience on the realities behind the TV show Hoarders and the broader mission of Brandon's company, Lifecycle Transitions. 🧠 Key Takeaways 1. Hoarding Is a Mental Health Crisis Hoarding is not just clutter—it’s often a manifestation of unresolved trauma. The physical accumulation reflects emotional and psychological pain. “You learn more about a person from their home than any other facet of their life.” – Brandon Bronaugh 2. Lifecycle Transitions: A Holistic Approach Bronaugh’s company blends emotional, logistical, and real estate support. Services include cleanup, therapy, home evaluations, and even relocation. The Transition Evaluation Assessment (TEA) helps clients decide whether to stay, sell, or relocate. 3. Clients Often Don’t Self-Identify as Hoarders Most clients are high-functioning individuals who don’t recognize their behavior as hoarding. Shame and embarrassment are major barriers to seeking help. “Very few people have ever called it. I mean, we do… but what I didn’t know is what it took for them to get to that point.” 4. Health and Safety Risks Hoarding environments can lead to respiratory issues, mold, fire hazards, and even death. Bronaugh created a mold remediation division after realizing the health dangers hidden behind clutter. 5. Demographics and Challenges About 80% of Bronaugh’s clients are Caucasian, but hoarding affects all races and socioeconomic backgrounds. Cases range from teenagers to the elderly. Hoarding has a high recidivism rate (65–70%). 6. Spiritual and Entrepreneurial Journey Bronaugh started as a property preservation contractor. His mission evolved into a humanitarian effort to save lives. “God had a plan. He said, no, you’re going to save lives and change.” 💬 Notable Quotes “When you go home, that’s when the mask is taken off. That’s when you can be your most authentic self.” “For every one year that a client goes without addressing the hoarding conditions… is equivalent to about one day of actual cleanup.” “We’re going to build this ecosystem… that we can do what most companies would take nine months to do in 30 days.” “The home is killing them.” 📞 How to Get Help Website: LifecycleTransitions.com Email: info@lifecycletransitions.com Services include in-home evaluations, virtual assessments, and a zero-contact cleanup option for clients too ashamed to be present. #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Tuesday, August 12th, 2025. Subject: "My Wet & Wild Older Man"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Monday, August 11th, 2025. Subject: "My Husband & His Life Partner"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Comments (121)

Wavelyn (WavyWav)

he eating that berry...

Sep 2nd
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Neenah Beenah

He shouldn't have gotten with her and had a baby if it bothered him so much. That doesn't give him a free pass to cheat for the entire relationship

Jan 30th
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Eighttwo Faye

Sounds like he needs to pick a struggle - not work or trash sex. 🫣🫣🫣

Oct 2nd
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Eighttwo Faye

I think the “joint custody” of the dog is his way of staying in the wife’s life.

Jul 1st
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MIKE SHIELDS

the ignorance and hypocrisy in the responses to this letter is hilarious. you old folks funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jan 29th
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Tshetshe Moatshe Khosi

Hey everyone! Loving the podcast all the way from South Africa! Cracking up everyday. Thank you all.

Sep 14th
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Samantha Green

#UngratefulHeffer

Jun 15th
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Why don't we do it in the road?

Steve's British accent sounds like Bill Cosby lmfao.

Nov 2nd
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Rhonda Brown

this is the nasty of nasties...they were flirting from jump street . .he could have stopped it at the beginning ....nasty self

Oct 26th
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Lakisha Brown

Has she EVER been around a child? She trippin

Oct 13th
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Shae La Vie

girl, what in thee hell. run, this man is crazy!!!!

Jun 12th
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Rhonda Brown

Mom-ma daddy got another wife in Brazil! I would tell, momma probably know he got a side-chick, but don't know they married...

Jun 2nd
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Shae La Vie

Nope. Don't comprise. Celebrate with your own mama on mother's day. she's selfish.

May 13th
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Shae La Vie

whaaat? this man needs to explain a little more.

Apr 13th
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Samantha Green

Men are so damn dumb! If u want her to initiate sex, help her with dishes or vacuum the whole house. Try scrubbing some toilets & sweeping/mopping floors. Make sure u ain't talking rude to her without realizing it. Ask for feedback from her, or anyone who spends time around y'all. Give her a back rub without expecting sex! FOR REAL DON'T EXPECT IT! If u really can do that & get thru the night, sexless, do the same thing next day, bet she jumps on u! Just do anything u can to make her life easier. And don't do it for sex. Do it for her. Promise u if u can do this without ultior motives, she'll want u so bad u won't be able to get her off u.

Apr 12th
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Stephanie Woods Johnson

he is stupid!!!! he fell for it and now he is going to lose his wife 🤔

Apr 10th
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Samantha Green

Leave Shirley alone! I found out about Furries on an episode of CSI Miami when in the 1st few seasons.

Mar 21st
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Samantha Green

Steve sure is taking this one personal! Wonder why, LoL

Feb 6th
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Rhonda Brown

She knew exactly what she was doing, bc why would she call him and ask why he wasn't angry, she wanted drama to see if he had feelings for her...games will get you no where, at least if she play lotto she has a better chance of winning. She mad bc he killed it and she can't stop thinking about it. She's crazy!

Jan 22nd
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Rhonda Brown

This was planned they were already messing around. She got the "no good" to ask her husband if he can stay with them. I see this clear as day. That was too easy, there is always a back story, the husband just didn't know the back story. He's a habitual cheater, biw he gonna cheat with her cousin...she is super, duper dumb!!

Jan 15th
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