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Got a situation? Steve Harvey and Shirley Strawberry deliver unfiltered advice on love, relationships, family, work, and life. Send your letter, subscribe, and get real talk every day!


Every weekday, the Steve Harvey Morning Show tackle a listener-submitted “Strawberry Letter”... a real-life dilemma ranging from romantic entanglements to career choices, family drama to money struggles, and everything in between.


With a blend of wisdom, wit, and brutal honesty, they offer candid commentary and heartfelt guidance, often sparking conversation (and laughter) among the rest of the morning show crew.


Submit your Strawberry Letter at www.steveharveyfm.com for a chance to be featured, and get the truth, Steve Harvey style!

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Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed April Lancit. Founder of a private therapy practice focused on culturally sensitive therapy for Black and Brown communities. Main Topics: Cultural differences in therapy Challenges in modern relationships and marriage The impact of technology on human connection The role of therapy in addressing generational trauma and stress The future of therapy in the age of AI 💡 Key Insights 1. Culturally Sensitive Therapy April emphasizes the importance of therapists understanding the lived experiences of marginalized communities. Black and Brown clients often face unique challenges that require a nuanced, empathetic approach. 2. Modern Relationship Struggles Top issues in marriage therapy: finances, infidelity, and communication. Communication is often overlooked but is foundational to resolving other issues. 3. Technology & Disconnection The rise of remote living and digital communication is reducing opportunities for organic human interaction. Couples are increasingly using text messages—even within the same home—to communicate, which can erode intimacy. 4. Therapy as a Preventative Tool Therapy shouldn't be reserved for crises; it can be a proactive tool for personal and relational growth. Pre-marriage counseling is often skipped or done too late, missing key conversations about values, finances, and intimacy. 5. AI in Therapy April sees potential in AI as a supplementary tool but stresses it cannot replace the human connection essential to effective therapy. 🧠 Final Message April encourages people to seek therapy not out of crisis, but as a way to grow and connect more deeply—with themselves and others. She remains hopeful that with intention and effort, society can rebuild meaningful human connections. #SHMS #STRAW  #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Monique Strong. President of the Atlanta Chapter of the National Association of Black Women in Construction (NABWIC). Here's a breakdown of the key highlights and takeaways: 🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways 1. Breaking Barriers in Construction Monique Strong is a trailblazer in a traditionally male-dominated and white-dominated industry. She leads NABWIC’s Atlanta chapter, advocating for leadership, equity, and professional development for Black women in construction. 2. What “Construction” Really Means Construction isn’t just hard hats and manual labor—it includes: General contracting Project management Estimating Safety coordination Architecture and engineering Business ownership and development 3. Legacy and Inspiration Monique’s passion for construction was inspired by her grandfathers and her grandmother, who helped build the home she grew up in. Her journey includes a degree in engineering from Clark Atlanta University and further training in construction management. 4. Challenges and Triumphs Faced skepticism from family and industry peers. Overcame stereotypes and isolation as a young Black woman in construction. Emphasizes the importance of knowing who you are and embracing your identity as a woman in the field. 5. The Power of Mentorship and Community NABWIC provides a supportive network for women at all stages of their construction careers. Weekly calls, mentorship, and shared resources help members grow and succeed. 6. Why Diversity in Construction Matters Diversity reflects the makeup of the country and brings innovation and detail-oriented excellence to the field. Inclusion in leadership and contracting opportunities is essential for equity and community development. 💬 Notable Quotes “You don’t have to be hard. You just have to be hungry.” “We are the unicorns people are looking for.” “I like to take something that’s nothing and make it something.” 🎯 Advice for Women in Construction Get involved with a community like NABWIC that supports your growth. Seek mentorship from women at all stages—beginning, middle, and end of their careers. Embrace your uniqueness and use it to lead and innovate. #SHMS #STRAW #BEST #AMISee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Obi Obadike. A world-class fitness and nutrition expert, about the importance of building healthy habits, realistic weight loss goals, and the truth behind diet myths. Obi emphasizes portion control, consistency, and education over quick fixes. He also discusses his supplement brand, Ethical Inc., co-founded with actor Morris Chestnut, and shares practical advice for sustainable health and wellness. 🧭 Key Points 1. Motivation vs. Habit Motivation gets you started, but habit keeps you going. The hardest part is showing up—once you start, the benefits become self-reinforcing. 2. Time and Prioritization Everyone has 24 hours; health must be prioritized like hygiene. Schedule workouts like appointments—don’t try to “fit them in.” 3. Small Goals, Big Results Focus on small, incremental goals to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Use analogies like “one game at a time” or “one chapter at a time” to stay motivated. 4. Weight Loss Basics Weight loss = caloric deficit (burn more than you consume). A 500-calorie daily deficit = ~1 pound/week; 1,000 = ~2 pounds/week. 5. Simplified Nutrition If calorie counting is overwhelming, use hand-based portion control: Meals: size of two hands. Desserts: size of one palm. Meals should include protein, complex carbs, and fibrous carbs (fruits/veggies). 6. Supplements and Ethics Obi’s company, Ethical Inc., focuses on clean, science-backed supplements. He stresses that supplements are optional if you eat a balanced diet. 7. Desserts and Cheat Meals You can enjoy desserts 1–2 times per week in moderation. Portion control is key—even for treats like Krispy Kreme donuts. 8. Realistic Expectations Healthy weight loss is 1–2 pounds per week. In 3 months, 25–30 pounds is a realistic and sustainable goal. 💬 Notable Quotes “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” “You have 24 hours in a day. You’re telling me you don’t have 30 minutes to take care of your health?” “Forget the vanity aspect—this is going to save your life.” “You can’t overdose on broccoli.” “If you’re eating in a balanced way, you don’t need supplements.” “A dessert should not exceed the palm of your hand.” “Small, incremental goals are the key to long-term success.” #SHMS #STRAW #BEST #AMISee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Charles Cofield. Thanks! The transcript from this episode of Money Making Conversations Masterclass features an inspiring and high-energy interview with CPA and financial educator Carter Cofield, co-founder of Melanin Money. Here's a breakdown of the key highlights and takeaways: 🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways 1. Melanin Money: A Mission-Driven Firm Co-founded by Carter Cofield and a financial advisor friend to serve the Black community. Focuses on helping business owners save on taxes and invest wisely. Aims to close the wealth gap and promote financial independence. 2. Authenticity as a Brand Carter left corporate America after being told to hide his success and identity (e.g., facial hair, tattoos, car). Built his brand by being unapologetically himself—fun, energetic, and passionate about financial literacy. His authenticity has helped him connect with a wide audience and become a standout in a traditionally “boring” industry. 3. Personal Tragedy & Financial Awakening Lost both parents by age 16. Used grief as motivation to excel academically and professionally. Learned the importance of financial literacy after receiving only $5,000 from a $25,000 life insurance policy following his father’s death. 4. Financial Literacy & Health Believes “health is wealth and wealth is health.” Poor financial decisions often lead to poor health decisions (e.g., fast food due to affordability). Financial stress can directly impact physical and mental well-being. 5. Melanin Money Awards Annual event in Atlanta (July 18–20) celebrating Black wealth and financial milestones. Awards given for reaching net worth goals ($100K, $500K, $1M, $10M). Designed to make wealth-building visible and celebrated in the Black community. 6. Generational Wealth: Redefined Not just about leaving money to your kids. True generational wealth means your money lasts for multiple generations. Involves setting up trusts, investments, and financial education for future heirs. 7. Free Weekly Financial Classes Carter hosts free money classes every Wednesday at 7 PM ET. Accessible via his Instagram: @cofield_advisors 💬 Notable Quotes “Fear is Finally Exiting Average Reality.” “It’s okay to sleep in late when your money woke up early.” “The scariest thing is getting to the end of your life and realizing you never truly lived.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Mowbray and Cherina Rowand. 🎙️ Interview Summary: Mowbray & Cherina Rowand Purpose of the Interview To showcase the entrepreneurial journey of Mowbray and Cherina Rowand, co-founders of The Rowand Group and One Stop Taxes, the largest Black-owned virtual tax preparation service in America. The interview highlights their business evolution, scaling strategies, community impact, and the creation of the Black Tax Festival. 🧭 Interview Outline 1. Background & Origins Both from Memphis, Tennessee; met in high school. Started tax preparation in 2010 as a mom-and-pop operation. Transitioned from brick-and-mortar to virtual model by 2015. 2. Business Philosophy Entrepreneurship is defined as service to others. Mowbray is the visionary; Cherina is the implementer. Emphasis on scaling with structure: legal, accounting, HR. 3. One Stop Taxes Grew from a single office to over 1,000 virtual franchise locations. Offers free training, no startup costs, and shared revenue model. Built a platform allowing clients to submit documents and sign remotely. 4. Virtual Tax Model Designed for convenience and accessibility. Clients and tax preparers never need to meet in person. Platform includes document upload, e-signature, and cloud storage. 5. Franchise & Training Learning Management System (LMS) for onboarding. Training includes tax prep, customer acquisition, and platform use. Strategic partnerships with local businesses (e.g., dealerships, daycares). 6. Black Tax Festival Combines networking, education, and recognition. Includes IRS updates, business workshops, and the Titan Awards. Open to all entrepreneurs, not just tax professionals. 7. Expansion & Diversification Own restaurants in Memphis and the Dominican Republic. Franchised Fat Tuesday and Esco Restaurant (did \$1M in first 6 weeks). Own a yacht for rental experiences in the DR. Plans to develop a restaurant strip near FedExForum in Memphis. 💡 Key Takeaways Vision + Execution = Growth: Their complementary roles fuel business success. Virtual is Scalable: Transitioning to virtual allowed exponential growth. Community Impact Matters: Black Tax Festival fosters education and recognition. Diversification is Strategic: Restaurants and real estate expand their brand. Mentorship & Learning: They study successful entrepreneurs like Tilman Fertitta. Faith & Family Drive: Their journey is rooted in love, planning, and purpose. 🗣️ Notable Quotes “Entrepreneurship means being a servant to other people.” “The same thing that works at \$1M doesn’t work at \$15M.” “We had to fire ourselves from some jobs and hire professionals.” “We built a platform where you can do taxes from your couch.” “We started before social media—we know belly-to-belly marketing.” “Recognition matters—people don’t get it at home or work.” “We’re trying to bridge the wealth gap through proper paperwork.” “We bought a yacht in the Dominican Republic to rent for experiences.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Jocelyn Pearson. Purpose of the Interview The interview on Money Making Conversations Masterclass with Rushion McDonald and Jocelyn Pearson aimed to: Share Jocelyn’s journey of graduating debt-free by securing $126,350 in scholarships. Educate families on how to avoid student loan debt through her proven system, The Scholarship System. Dispel myths about scholarships and provide actionable steps for parents and students. Key Takeaways Scholarship System Approach Jocelyn developed a six-step process to simplify scholarship applications and avoid overwhelm. Focus on breaking the process into small, manageable steps rather than a vague “go get money” directive. Common Myths Debunked Too early or too late to apply: Start by junior year; it’s never too late—even college seniors can apply. Only perfect students or low-income families qualify: Many scholarships don’t require high GPA or athletic ability. All good scholarships are gone: Smaller, local scholarships ($500–$5,000) add up over time. It takes too much time: With a system and reusable materials, effort decreases each year. Avoiding Scholarship Scams Beware of “easy,” “enter to win,” or sweepstakes-style scholarships—they often sell personal data. Real scholarships require effort and personalization. Role of Parents Parents should help with planning and identifying legitimate scholarships but not complete applications for students. Committees can detect when parents write essays. AI in Scholarship Applications Jocelyn warns against copy-pasting AI-generated essays. Her platform introduced TESS, an AI assistant for ethical guidance and support. Financial Aid Basics Submit FAFSA even if you think you won’t qualify; some colleges and states require it. Combine all sources—government aid, institutional aid, and private scholarships. For Current College Students Check with financial aid offices, academic departments, and organizations for scholarships available after freshman year. Entrepreneurial Journey Jocelyn turned her passion into a business by starting with a book, building an email list, and launching webinars. She emphasizes persistence and ignoring naysayers. Notable Quotes “I had to accumulate my way to getting college paid for—the mere mortals’ way to going to college without tons of debt.” “Most families want scholarships, but they get stuck in the overwhelm.” “There’s no big red easy button—but with clear steps, it feels less daunting.” “We’re saying no to the broken system… It takes, on average, 21 years to pay off student loans.” “With great power comes great responsibility—AI can help, but only if used ethically.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Germaine Bolds-Leftridge. 💼 Business Overview I Know Skincare: A skincare brand created to empower women—especially Black women—by embracing their real age and promoting self-care. Mission: To challenge the anti-aging narrative and replace it with a pro-aging, affirming message: “#RealAge.” Inspiration: Germaine’s late mother, whose glowing skin and wisdom about self-care sparked the brand’s creation. 💡 Key Insights Anti-Aging vs. Pro-Aging: Germaine rejects the term “anti-aging,” advocating instead for embracing the natural aging process as a privilege and a journey. Target Market: Primarily Black women over 40, though the products are inclusive and used by a diverse customer base. Marketing Strategy: Focused and intentional—Germaine emphasizes the importance of knowing your audience and not trying to market to everyone. Cultural Relevance: The brand is rooted in cultural pride, self-affirmation, and economic empowerment, drawing parallels to movements like Black Wall Street. 🧠 Business Wisdom “The win happens in the fourth quarter.” “If you don’t like what you see, do something about it.” “You can’t sell to everyone. Know your audience and serve them well.” 📦 Bonus Highlights Dragonfly Symbolism: Represents transformation and resilience—core themes of the brand. Clinical Testing: Products are tested specifically on Black women to ensure effectiveness for their unique skincare needs. Legacy Building: Germaine’s goal is to create generational wealth and a lasting legacy for her family and community. #AMI #STRAW #BEST #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Friday, December 26th, 2025. Subject: "I Can't Do That Often"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, December 24th, 2025. Subject: "She's In The Middle Stirring Up Mess"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Tuesday, December 23rd, 2025. Subject: "It's The D For Me"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Monday, December 22nd, 2025. Subject: "She Slapped My Husband"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Friday, December 19th, 2025. Subject: "Trying To Get Through The Holidays"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Thursday, December 18th, 2025. Subject: "Trapped Under The Bed"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, December 17th, 2025. Subject: "My Holy Lover's Double Life"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Marsha Evans. Purpose of the Interview To highlight Marsha Evans’ work as a licensed professional counselor and founder of Willow Tree Counseling and Educational Center. To explore strategies for navigating life’s complex stages, breaking generational patterns, and building authentic relationships. To provide actionable insights for entrepreneurs and individuals on self-awareness, fear management, and relationship dynamics. Key Takeaways Understanding Complexity Life stages vary in complexity for each person—middle school for some, adulthood for others. Evans emphasizes listening and identifying what balance, peace, or contentment means for each individual. Early Awareness and Discipline At age 12, Evans set a goal to earn a scholarship, showing intentionality and discipline. Athletics taught her teamwork, problem-solving, and resilience, shaping her leadership style. Reading the Room Start by reading yourself—know your energy and intentions. Authenticity and confidence are key to building relationships and leveraging opportunities. Fear and Family Systems Fear often originates from family systems and generational patterns, not just personal experiences. Example: Parents’ limited worldview can project fear of the unknown onto children. Recognizing these patterns helps individuals break cycles and pursue their own paths. Generational Patterns & Healing Evans uses Genograms (visual family trees) to identify psychological and behavioral patterns across three generations. Acceptance of parents and family history is crucial for personal and professional growth. Rejecting parents = rejecting life and success; honor them while creating new narratives. Practical Steps for Change Build a relationship with yourself through solitude, meditation, yoga, and movement. Reduce stress (cortisol levels) to improve clarity and decision-making. Examine your money story—how family attitudes toward money shape your financial behavior. Relationships Romantic: Partners often mirror unresolved childhood issues; do inner work to avoid projecting. Professional: Maintain boundaries; emotional needs should not be placed on workplace relationships. Personal: Define roles clearly; avoid expecting friends to fill parental gaps. Consistency and Authenticity Success requires consistency with yourself before expecting it from others. Ask: Are your goals truly yours or influenced by societal expectations? Notable Quotes “I become a visitor in your world and start listening to your story.” “Reading the room starts with reading yourself.” “Fear is often not yours—it comes from your family system.” “You can’t reject your parents; when you reject your mother, you reject life.” “Consistency with yourself is key to achieving the results you desire.” “Your partner cannot carry the burden of your parents.” “People are divorced from themselves—I teach them how to get married to themselves.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Tuesday, December 16th, 2025. Subject: "I Can Tell by the Smell"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Monday, December 15th, 2025. Subject: "She’s Getting More From Him Than Money"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Friday, December 12th, 2025. Subject: "So What I Burned a Few Things"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Thursday, December 11th, 2025. Subject: "He Needs New Underwear"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, December 10th, 2025. Subject: "I'm Not Going This Year"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Wavelyn (WavyWav)

he eating that berry...

Sep 2nd
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Neenah Beenah

He shouldn't have gotten with her and had a baby if it bothered him so much. That doesn't give him a free pass to cheat for the entire relationship

Jan 30th
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Eighttwo Faye

Sounds like he needs to pick a struggle - not work or trash sex. 🫣🫣🫣

Oct 2nd
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Eighttwo Faye

I think the “joint custody” of the dog is his way of staying in the wife’s life.

Jul 1st
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MIKE SHIELDS

the ignorance and hypocrisy in the responses to this letter is hilarious. you old folks funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jan 29th
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Tshetshe Moatshe Khosi

Hey everyone! Loving the podcast all the way from South Africa! Cracking up everyday. Thank you all.

Sep 14th
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Samantha Green

#UngratefulHeffer

Jun 15th
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Why don't we do it in the road?

Steve's British accent sounds like Bill Cosby lmfao.

Nov 2nd
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Rhonda Brown

this is the nasty of nasties...they were flirting from jump street . .he could have stopped it at the beginning ....nasty self

Oct 26th
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Lakisha Brown

Has she EVER been around a child? She trippin

Oct 13th
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Shae La Vie

girl, what in thee hell. run, this man is crazy!!!!

Jun 12th
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Rhonda Brown

Mom-ma daddy got another wife in Brazil! I would tell, momma probably know he got a side-chick, but don't know they married...

Jun 2nd
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Shae La Vie

Nope. Don't comprise. Celebrate with your own mama on mother's day. she's selfish.

May 13th
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Shae La Vie

whaaat? this man needs to explain a little more.

Apr 13th
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Samantha Green

Men are so damn dumb! If u want her to initiate sex, help her with dishes or vacuum the whole house. Try scrubbing some toilets & sweeping/mopping floors. Make sure u ain't talking rude to her without realizing it. Ask for feedback from her, or anyone who spends time around y'all. Give her a back rub without expecting sex! FOR REAL DON'T EXPECT IT! If u really can do that & get thru the night, sexless, do the same thing next day, bet she jumps on u! Just do anything u can to make her life easier. And don't do it for sex. Do it for her. Promise u if u can do this without ultior motives, she'll want u so bad u won't be able to get her off u.

Apr 12th
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Stephanie Woods Johnson

he is stupid!!!! he fell for it and now he is going to lose his wife 🤔

Apr 10th
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Samantha Green

Leave Shirley alone! I found out about Furries on an episode of CSI Miami when in the 1st few seasons.

Mar 21st
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Samantha Green

Steve sure is taking this one personal! Wonder why, LoL

Feb 6th
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Rhonda Brown

She knew exactly what she was doing, bc why would she call him and ask why he wasn't angry, she wanted drama to see if he had feelings for her...games will get you no where, at least if she play lotto she has a better chance of winning. She mad bc he killed it and she can't stop thinking about it. She's crazy!

Jan 22nd
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Rhonda Brown

This was planned they were already messing around. She got the "no good" to ask her husband if he can stay with them. I see this clear as day. That was too easy, there is always a back story, the husband just didn't know the back story. He's a habitual cheater, biw he gonna cheat with her cousin...she is super, duper dumb!!

Jan 15th
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