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🎙️ Episode Summary In this episode, Jeffery and Jami explore how they each react to fear—Jeffery with immediate action and Jami with caution and pulling back. Through a vulnerable conversation, they uncover how these opposite reactions have shaped their marriage, decisions, and even moments of tension. They also dive into themes of transparency, patience, and giving each other space to grow and change. From big Halloween skeletons to Chris Voss’s Never Split the Difference, this episode highlights the power of naming emotions, being honest in relationships, and learning how fear can guide (or misguide) us. 📖 Chapters 00:00 – Opening & Setting the Stage Fear, October, Halloween decorations, and a playful start. 02:23 – Discovering a Pattern in Fear Jeffery shares a revelation: his instinct is to act when fearful, while Jami’s is to slow down. 04:48 – Tension in Decision-Making How fear responses create friction, and the importance of recognizing each other’s pace. 07:11 – Defining Fear Reactions in Marriage Acting vs. pulling back—what this has looked like in real-life decisions (like buying the NV3500 van). 11:54 – The Cost of Fear-Based Decisions How moving ahead too quickly—or holding back too much—has sometimes led to mistakes. 14:06 – Seeing Weakness as Strength Personal “aha” moments where limitations were revealed as self-imposed. 16:28 – Collaboration Over Fear How naming fear led to healthier, more balanced decisions together. 18:54 – Labeling Emotions & Negotiation Lessons Insights from Chris Voss’s Never Split the Difference on the power of naming feelings. 21:15 – The Courage of Transparency Both Jeffery and Jami commit to being open—even when honesty risks discomfort. 23:39 – Vulnerability & Trust Recognizing the hidden worries, sharing openly, and imagining a world where thoughts are fully shared. 26:01 – Science Fiction Thought Experiment What would it mean if spouses could see all of each other’s thoughts and memories? 28:01 – Growth, Change, and Patience in Marriage Allowing each other to grow, change, and redefine what matters—even after decades together. 32:54 – Streaking, Consistency, and Credibility Why consistent transparency builds trust over time, just like streaks build credibility. 34:00 – Closing Thoughts The value of vulnerability, patience, and transparency in relationships—and an invitation to connect. 📝 Conclusion Fear can push us forward or hold us back. The real breakthrough comes when we recognize how we individually respond to fear and choose transparency over silence, collaboration over corners, and patience over pressure. In marriage, as in life, the gift of consistency—what streaking is all about—creates the trust and credibility needed to grow together. 📩 If today’s conversation resonated with you, reach out to Jeffery (jeffery@mystreaksapp.com) or Jami (jami@mystreaksapp.com). And remember: the MyStreaks App is here to help you track consistency in your own journey—whether in transparency, growth, or courage. As always: Keep Streaking.

🎙️ Summary In this episode of the Streaking Podcast, Jeffery and Jami explore how focus shapes what we see—and what we miss. From pumpkins hidden behind bird poop to unnoticed acts of service, they unpack how our attention often gravitates toward the negative while overlooking the good. The conversation then shifts to rejection, using puzzle piece and missing-piece metaphors to show how every person has a place and purpose. Together, Jeffery and Jami highlight how streaks provide grounding, structure, and perspective to keep us moving forward with faith and intention. 👉 Sponsored by the MyStreaks – Streak Tracker app, the simple way to build consistency in the small daily actions that matter most. Download today and keep streaking. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Sponsor & Tease Introducing the MyStreaks app and a preview of today’s themes: focus, rejection, and finding your fit. 02:13 – Pumpkins vs. Bird Poop A front porch story reveals how our focus blinds us to beauty while magnifying annoyances. 07:03 – The Boot Bench & Everyday Blind Spots Why clutter, chores, and overlooked details illustrate how selective our focus can be. 09:30 – Noticing the Good Learning to see acts of service, beauty, and blessings before they disappear. 11:56 – Puzzle Piece Rejection A metaphor for rejection: sometimes we don’t fit because we’re not in the right place yet. 16:47 – Learning from Rejection How bitterness blinds us, and why focusing on growth changes the outcome. 19:07 – The Puzzle Piece Analogy Expanded From the frustration of pieces that don’t fit to the joy of finding the perfect spot. 21:34 – Everyone Has a Place Why every person is a vital piece of God’s plan and why no one should feel discarded. 24:00 – Persistence & History’s Examples Abraham Lincoln and Thomas Edison—how rejection and failure prepared them for success. 26:07 – Facing Fear & Building Courage How streaks, faith, and persistence strengthen resilience in uncertain times. 33:16 – Streaks as Grounding Daily streaks—prayer, scripture, family, and service—provide structure and focus. 40:15 – The Evolution of Streaks How streaks grow and multiply over time, shaping identity step by step. 42:32 – Wrapping Up: Cleaning Up Our Puzzle Piece How consistency helps us be ready when it’s our time to fit into the bigger picture. ✨ Conclusion Focus can blind us to the beauty right in front of us, and rejection can make us feel like we don’t belong. But just like a puzzle, every piece has a place—and every person has a purpose. Streaks are how we stay grounded, ready, and consistent, so when the time comes, we fit perfectly into the bigger picture. 👉 Keep your puzzle piece pristine with the MyStreaks – Streak Tracker app. Build streaks in the simple, daily actions that matter most—and keep streaking.

Summary In this episode of The Streaking Podcast, Jeffery and Jami introduce and explore the Streaking Growth Matrix—a framework they developed to clarify how different tools (wishes, goals, habits, routines, and streaks) interact in the process of personal growth. They discuss the limitations of relying solely on goals or habits, and show how streaks uniquely serve as both a starting point for change and a method for sustaining it. Through family stories, health examples, and even piano practice, they illustrate why streaks belong in the top-right quadrant of the Growth Matrix: high power to change behavior and high power to maintain it. Chapters 00:00 – Introduction & Excitement Jeffery and Jami set the stage by sharing their excitement about the Growth Matrix and why they felt it was important to create. 02:26 – Defining Goals Clearly They review FranklinCovey’s definition of a goal—“X to Y by when”—and discuss how goals ignite change but often fail to sustain it. 04:45 – Family Reading Goal Example The Downs family’s goal to read 200 books in a year highlights how goals drive short-term focus but are rarely repeated. 07:13 – Habits and Routines in Maintenance A discussion on why habits and routines help maintain existing behaviors but don’t start new ones, and the problem with assuming all good things become “automatic.” 09:35 – Explaining the Growth Matrix Jeffery introduces the 2x2 visual: X-axis = Maintain Behavior Y-axis = Change Behavior Quadrants: Wish, Routine/Habit, Goal, Streak. 11:54 – The Wish Zone The starting point for all change, but not sustainable if you remain there. Wishes inspire but don’t move you forward. 14:22 – Routine & Habit Zone Using metaphors like a tree’s water and nutrients, they show how maintaining consistency prevents atrophy—even if growth isn’t flashy. 19:07 – The Goal Zone High change but low maintenance. Great for starting big shifts but weak for sustaining them. 21:31 – The Streak Zone Why streaks uniquely combine maintenance and change: they create a floor you can always build on and connect seamlessly to goals. 23:57 – Streaks as Lifelong Tools Examples of piano practice and health routines show how streaks help through life changes, transitions, and disruptions. 30:53 – The Path: Wish → Goal → Streak → Routine/Habit Jeffery and Jami argue that positive growth starts with a wish, builds with goals and streaks, and eventually can lead to stable routines. 33:14 – The Role of Intentionality They emphasize that meaningful growth doesn’t become effortless; it always requires some level of intentional action. 35:34 – Closing Reflections They wrap up with gratitude for the conversation and invite listeners to share their own experiences with the Growth Matrix. Conclusion The Streaking Growth Matrix helps us see clearly where streaks belong: in the zone of maximum growth, where they fuel both change and consistency. Unlike goals, which end when the finish line is crossed, or habits that only maintain, streaks keep you moving forward every single day—laughably simple, but deeply powerful. If you’re ready to move from wishing to real, sustained growth, the best way to start is with the MyStreaks app. It’s the only streak tracker designed around the Streaking Laws, helping you set laughably simple streaks, keep them alive, and unlock the compound effect of daily consistency. Download MyStreaks today, and step into the Growth Matrix’s top-right quadrant—where lasting growth truly lives.

Summary In this episode, Jeffery sits down with sales strategist and magician Tyler Jensen, founder of Top Performance Group, to unpack the four pillars of top performance and how “a little sleight of hand” can lock critical sales ideas into memory. If you’re ready to turn insights into consistent action, start a simple streak in the free MyStreaks app today—for example, “Make 1 prospecting touch” or “Review pipeline for 5 minutes” daily. Tiny, laughably simple actions—done consistently—compound into top performance. Download MyStreaks and join the streaking community to build the systems Tyler talks about and keep your optimism, power, and focus alive. Tyler shares how learning magic (yes, Vegas gigs!) sharpened his ability to teach principles that stick. He tells the story of opening an insurance agency, getting slammed with a $12,000 clawback, and deciding to study top performers across fields. That research became his framework: Optimism (the mindset), Systems (the safeguard), Power/Wisdom (applied knowledge), and Focus (clear direction)—plus a memorable sales-culture model he illustrates with a magic routine built on C.A.R.E.: Customers, Attributes (of leaders), Reputation, and Employees. We also hear a wilderness lesson on promptings and perspective, how to recover gracefully when tricks (or deals) fail, and why attunement beats canned objection handling. Chapters & Timecodes 00:01 – Opening & Guest Intro: From AGT inspiration to sales culture expert 01:20 – The Magic Origin Story: Learning Matt Franco’s routines, performing in Vegas 05:35 – Career Zigzag: Trainer → agency owner → corporate trainer → entrepreneur 07:48 – The $12K Gut Punch: Chargebacks, doubt, and the decision to study top performers 09:32 – Research Scope: Agents, athletes, parents—top performance is universal 10:44 – Pillar #2: Systems: Consistency with flexibility beats chaotic “busy” 13:19 – Pillar #3: Power/Wisdom: Knowledge isn’t power—applied knowledge is 18:58 – Pillar #4: Focus: “There is no fear when the focus is clear” (goals, plans, daily direction) 20:52 – False Peaks & Complacency: Why “I’m good” stalls growth 23:25 – Pillar #1: Optimism: The mindset that makes the whole model work 26:56 – Mountain Lesson: A hunting story, promptings, and choosing the “best possible outcome” lens 29:37 – Teaching with Magic: Designing tricks to anchor business principles 31:34 – The C.A.R.E. Sales Culture: Customers, Attributes, Reputation, Employees—made unforgettable 36:30 – Family & Entrepreneurship: Gratitude, support, and kids as first audience 39:03 – Psychology of Sales: Attunement > scripted rebuttals (Attune–Unite–Transition–Close) 42:30 – When Tricks Fail: Systems turn mistakes into memorable moments 47:28 – Connect with Tyler: TopPerformanceGroup.com, summits, assessments 48:27 – Close: Keep paddling upstream—and keep streaking Conclusion Tyler’s framework is simple and potent: Start with Optimism, protect progress with Systems, turn learning into impact through Power/Wisdom, and steer everything with Focus. If you want these ideas to change your results, you need daily proof of action. That’s where MyStreaks shines: set one micro-commitment (e.g., “1 customer follow-up,” “Draft 3 lines of a proposal,” or “Capture 1 lesson learned”) and do it every day. The app keeps your streak alive, your optimism high, and your focus clear—so false peaks don’t become finish lines. Ready to summit your next “mountain”? Download MyStreaks, Create one laughably simple sales or leadership streak, Share it with your team to build a top-performing culture of C.A.R.E. And if you want a keynote (with real magic) to ignite your sales organization, check out TopPerformanceGroup.com to connect with Tyler. Until next time—keep it simple, keep it consistent, and keep streaking.

This episode is all about building a life that matters—day by day, action by action. That’s exactly what the MyStreaks App was made for. It’s not about checking boxes. It’s about becoming who you’re meant to be through small, consistent commitments. If you’ve ever felt the nudge to live more intentionally… to be a more present parent, a more deliberate leader, a more purpose-driven person—this is the tool to help you follow through. And what Jim shares today will change the way you think about legacy forever. Download MyStreaks – The Streak Tracker App at MyStreaksApp.com. Now let’s get into it. In this landmark 400th episode of the Streaking Podcast, Jeffery and Jami sit down with their good friend, Jim Huling—global executive coach, bestselling author of The 4 Disciplines of Execution, and founder of Execution Insights™. What unfolds is a masterclass in living with purpose, building a legacy, and evolving with intention. Jim shares how, even at 70, he continues to deadlift 400 pounds—not to chase achievement, but to fuel vitality in service of his calling. Together, the trio explores the three stages of a leader’s life (achievement, scalability, and legacy), the emotional depth of building purpose rather than trying to “find” it, and the sacred power of presence—especially as a parent, mentor, or leader. They also touch on technology, including the role of AI in leadership, and why authenticity, not algorithms, remains our greatest strength. This is more than a conversation. It’s an invitation to build your life from the inside out—one streak at a time. Chapter Headings [00:00] Welcome to Episode 400: A Milestone with Meaning [02:00] Deadlifting at 70: Discipline, Vitality, and the Power of Community [06:00] From Achievement to Legacy: The Three Stages of Leadership [15:00] Building, Not Finding, Your Purpose [23:00] Streaking and Legacy: Writing Daily Inscriptions on the Heart [28:00] Four Questions That Lead to a Life of Meaning [39:00] The Work of Reflection: Why Most Don’t Begin—and Why You Should [44:00] AI and Authenticity: What Leadership Looks Like in the Digital Age [58:00] Purpose-Driven Evolution and the Call to Keep Growing [1:02:00] Execution Insights™: Why Jim Still Shows Up Every Week [1:05:00] Closing Thoughts: Streaking, Legacy, and Living on Purpose

Presented by MyStreaks – Streak Tracker App This episode of the Streaking Podcast is brought to you by the MyStreaks app—the ultimate tool for building consistent, identity-shaping streaks. Whether you're reading a paragraph a day, connecting with loved ones, or doing a plank for 10 breaths, MyStreaks helps you track your streaks with simplicity, joy, and motivation. Personal journals, folders, custom reminders, and a cast of quirky motivation personalities are just the beginning. Download MyStreaks today and start becoming who you want to be, one streak at a time. In this deeply reflective and playful conversation, Jeffery and Jami Downs explore a surprising source of tension in their streaking philosophy—timed streaks. What begins as a personal debate over setting a daily 5-minute study streak with their son evolves into a thoughtful and often humorous exploration of how we perceive and manage time, how it affects our consistency, and why activity-based streaks may offer more freedom and flexibility than time-based ones. They discuss the psychology behind "not having time," why perception of time is flawed, and how measuring activity rather than duration helps build true consistency. The episode underscores that streaking is not about measuring effort by the clock, but by the identity you’re building—one deliberate action at a time. They end by agreeing that time-based streaks aren’t necessarily wrong, but they are a “hard yellow light”—requiring extra caution due to the mental hurdles they introduce. Key insight: “Everyone has the same amount of time in a day. What changes everything is not the minutes you manage—but the meaningful actions you repeat.” Chapter Overview 00:00–02:00 | Podcast Banter and Setup Jeffery and Jami open with some lighthearted commentary about their podcast setup and how streaks are often born from their running conversations. 02:00–04:30 | The Debate Begins: Time vs. Activity Jami shares her feelings of being “bristled” when Jeffery discourages time-based streaks. They discuss how disagreements have evolved into deeper understanding in their marriage—and in streaking. 04:30–07:00 | What’s ‘Laughably Simple’ is Personal They emphasize that the “laughably simple” standard is determined by the individual, not imposed externally. If five minutes feels simple to you, that can be your streak. 07:00–11:30 | Why Jeffery Avoids Time-Based Streaks Jeffery shares his aversion to time streaks, explaining how “I don’t have time” becomes a mental block. Activity-based streaks remove that excuse. 11:30–14:00 | The Universal Currency of Time They discuss how everyone has the same 24 hours and how time is constant—but our perception of it is wildly inconsistent. 14:00–18:00 | Perception vs. Reality of Time Through examples (planking, watching shorts, pop tarts, and Disney lines), they explore how different activities distort our experience of time. 18:00–21:00 | Are We Managing Time or Activity? Jeffery offers a mind-shift: you don’t manage time—you manage the activity that occupies time. This leads to more intentional living. 21:00–25:00 | Seeing Opportunity in the Gaps They reflect on moments where streaks happened during unplanned time—like reading in line at Disneyland—because the activity was front of mind. 25:00–27:00 | Planking, Shorts, and Productive Distractions Jeffery admits to pairing planking with watching shorts as a way to make the time pass faster. It's a clever blend of distraction and discipline. 27:00–30:00 | The Yellow Light of Timed Streaks They propose that timed streaks aren’t necessarily bad—but they do require caution. Time can create mental barriers or limit expansion. 30:00–32:30 | Identity Over Minutes: The Final Shift They conclude that streaking is about identity through activity—not effort measured by time. Time passes regardless. It’s the consistency that builds change.

This episode of the Streaking Podcast is brought to you by the MyStreaks app—the simplest way to build consistent daily actions that drive breakthrough results. Whether you’re focused on health, mindset, or relationships, MyStreaks helps you stay on track by making it laughably simple to succeed. Download it now at MyStreaksApp.com. In this inspiring and deeply personal episode, Jeff & Jami interview Stéph & Shay, bestselling authors of Master Your Mindpower. They share their individual journeys from hardship to resilience, the origins of their powerful coaching practice, and the science and metaphor behind "running parachutes"—the invisible emotional and mental barriers holding us back. You’ll learn how they built their methodology through years of research, how they help clients break through limitations, and how consistent, laughably simple daily actions can lead to massive transformation. Click here to learn how to get a free copy of Stéph and Shay's bestselling book -  Master Your Mindpower Pair Master Your Mindpower with Streaking for a one two punch! Click here to purchase your copy of the Streaking book. 00:00 – Welcome & Introduction 01:01 – Stéph’s Origin Story 11:59 – Shay’s Journey to Mindpower 17:38 – How Stéph & Shay Met 26:00 – Authenticity and Resilience in Relationships 29:03 – Starting Their Company & Research Journey 31:53 – The Power of Mindset over Systems 36:00 – Writing the Book During the Pandemic 40:00 – The Running Parachute Metaphor 47:00 – Turning the Metaphor into a Method 54:01 – The Power of Forgiveness 56:03 – Daily Consistency & Mindpower Routines 01:03:01 – The Neurology of Habits & Fitness Routines 01:07:42 – Overcoming Resistance & “What Do You Want Instead?” 01:09:00 – Teaching Mindpower to Kids 01:13:17 – Final Thoughts: Reps, Mastery, and Mindpower Parenting 01:17:22 – Closing Remarks If you’re inspired by this episode and ready to take small daily actions that lead to breakthrough results, download the MyStreaks app at MyStreaksApp.com. Start your streak. Build your identity. Change your life.

Before we go full throttle into today’s episode—if you haven’t downloaded the MyStreaks App now’s the time.Whether you're the engine racing ahead or the brake keeping life on track, MyStreaks helps you build momentum through laughably small daily actions. Create streaks that reflect who you want to become and track the simple behaviors that accelerate progress or apply the brakes when you need to stay grounded. Your transformation is one streak away. In this heartfelt and metaphor-rich episode, Jeff and Jami explore how a Formula One race car’s engine and brakes reflect deeper truths about marriage, personal growth, and streaking. Drawing from their shared experience as runners, spouses, and streakers, they compare Jeff’s “engine” nature with Jami’s role as the “brake.” Together, they show how embracing both acceleration and control—through intentional daily streaks—leads not only to finishing life’s race, but winning it. 00:00 – Welcome & Metaphor Introduction Jeff and Jami introduce the day’s topic: they’re “experts” in Formula One—at least metaphorically. The conversation centers on the powerful dynamic between speed (engine) and control (brake) and how that mirrors real life. 01:45 – Ford vs. Ferrari & the Brakes That Save the Car Jeff shares a scene from Ford vs. Ferrari, where the car crashes due to brake failure. The takeaway: power without control is dangerous. That’s where the metaphor is born. 03:45 – Jami’s Running Journey: From Doubt to Determination Jami recounts how she once believed she wasn’t a runner—until inspiration (and a few brutal experiences) pushed her to lace up and finish races, even with setbacks like bloody noses and vomiting. 06:50 – Inspired by the Finish Line Watching Jeff complete a marathon sparks Jami’s desire to become a runner. She realizes that crossing the finish line matters more than time, speed, or comparison. 09:00 – The “Our Pace” Epiphany A poorly phrased comment from Jeff leads to an ongoing conversation about pace—not his, not hers, but ours. It becomes a metaphor for marriage and shared goals. 10:55 – Injury, Ego & the Blessing of Slowing Down Jeff admits that before running with Jami, his ego drove him to injuries. Running at “our pace” not only healed his body but enabled their 10-year running streak. 13:00 – Jami’s Vulnerability: Always the Brake Jami opens up about the emotional weight of always being the “brake.” She longs for Jeff to feel what it’s like to be the slower runner—the less celebrated one. 15:00 – Trusting the Brake = Greater Performance Jeff explains that in F1, the best drivers go faster because they trust their brakes. It’s the same in life—trusting the slower, grounding forces allows us to move forward with confidence. 17:15 – Society’s Obsession with Acceleration They reflect on how our culture idolizes engines: overnight success, viral posts, bestseller lists. But without brakes—rest, reflection, and restraint—we crash. 18:55 – Streaks as Brakes: Slowing Down to Stay on Track Jeff reveals that many of his streaks (like daily connections with his kids) are brakes. They interrupt his natural tendency to “go fast” and protect what matters most. 21:30 – Dual Purpose: Streaks as Brakes and Engines Jami reframes it beautifully: streaks can be either brakes or engines depending on the moment. Sometimes they motivate, sometimes they regulate. 23:00 – Writing and the Work Behind the Scenes Jeff tells the story of becoming a writer—how streaking replaced fantasy with consistency. Writing a book didn’t happen in a burst of inspiration but through showing up daily. 25:30 – Glory vs. Grind: Why Streaks Matter They talk about how social media shows the highlights, not the hard work. Streaking celebrates the daily grind that no one sees—but that makes the difference. 27:00 – Who Are You in Your F1 Car? You’re the driver. The question is: can you trust both your acceleration and your braking systems? The right streaks help you do both and become who you’re meant to be. 28:00 – Wrap-Up & Invitation to Streak Jeff and Jami encourage listeners to reflect on their own engines and brakes, and to use the MyStreaks app to track and reinforce the daily actions that help finish the race. Closing Quote “The engine gets the spotlight, but it’s the brake that keeps you alive. When both work together, you don’t just move—you finish.”

What Would You Tell Your Freshman Self? In this heartfelt episode of The Streaking Podcast, Jami and I reflect on our son’s graduation and the timeless question seniors were asked: What advice would you give your freshman self? That question sparked a deeper conversation about choice, fear, regret, and the power of small, consistent actions. We talk openly about the pressure of life stages, the myth of “doing it all,” and how every decision—especially those made in fear—comes with trade-offs. We explore why consistency (streaking!) matters more than chasing the big, flashy reward and why looking back only makes sense when we honor the realities we faced at the time. The takeaway: You are the pilot. The small, daily choices are your course corrections. Listen in, reflect, and ask yourself: What would I tell myself five years ago? What small action can I take today to shape who I want to become?   00:00 – 01:00 | Opening Reflections: Graduation & the Freshman Question Jeffery introduces the theme after attending his son’s high school graduation. 01:00 – 03:30 | From Struggling Reader to Confident Presenter A proud parenting moment sparks reflection on growth over time. 03:30 – 06:00 | Senior Advice That Still Applies in Adulthood Life lessons shared by graduates—about worry, involvement, and fear of judgment. 06:00 – 09:00 | What Would I Tell Myself Five Years Ago? A personal look at major life changes and the perspective they bring. 09:00 – 12:00 | Fear-Based Decisions vs. Intentional Choices How fear shapes choices—and why recognizing trade-offs matters. 12:00 – 15:00 | The Illusion of “Having It All” The myth that you can choose everything without consequence. 15:00 – 18:00 | Looking Back with Realism, Not Regret Why it’s easy to forget the pressure of past moments and question good decisions. 18:00 – 21:00 | The Value of Mentors and Experience How to use hindsight and foresight to navigate choices better. 21:00 – 24:00 | The Graduation Theme: It’s the Pilot, Not the Plane The power of intentionality—and aviation metaphors—for life direction. 24:00 – 27:00 | Course Correction and the Power of Streaking Why small, consistent actions are your best navigation tools. 27:00 – 30:00 | Don’t Chase the Promise—Do the Work Recognizing substance over hype, especially in career decisions. 30:00 – 33:00 | Vegetables vs. Cotton Candy: The Work of Consistency The contrast between lasting value and quick wins. 33:00 – End | Final Takeaways and Sign-Off Jeffery and Jami summarize the lessons and invite listeners to live intentionally and keep streaking. If today’s episode resonated with you—if you’ve ever looked back and wished you’d stayed consistent with something that mattered—then the MyStreaks app is for you. It’s a simple, powerful way to build the life you want through small daily actions. Whether you’re working on becoming more present, more healthy, more creative, or more faithful, MyStreaks gives you the structure to stay intentional, track your progress, and keep going—especially when life gets busy. Download the app today and start a streak that shapes your future.

In this powerful episode of the Streaking Podcast, we sit down with leadership coach and adventurer Kurt Wuerfele, PCC, who joins us from beautiful Valencia, Spain. Kurt brings wisdom, warmth, and a bit of humor as he shares how leaders can go from overwhelmed and burned out to energized and deeply connected—with their purpose, their people, and themselves. We explore: Why awareness is the first step to meaningful change How limiting beliefs sneak in and what it takes to let them go What “energy levels” really mean—and how they affect everything from team meetings to your parenting in the grocery store The difference between default energy and intentional energy (with a light bulb analogy you won’t forget) Why a quick win can reignite belief and how streaks create momentum The art (and grace) of receiving feedback How leaders can bridge the gap between "carpet walkers" and caregivers—especially in mission-driven healthcare Kurt also shares how his journey through coaching, international travel, and even backpacking the Great Wall of China shaped his approach to leadership and life. If you’ve ever wondered how to turn insight into lasting impact, this conversation will leave you inspired—and ready to streak with intention. Bonus: Learn how the MyStreaks app can help you track simple wins, reflect daily, and become the leader you were meant to be.

In this episode of the Streaking Podcast, Jeffery and Jami dive into what they’re calling The Clorox Effect—the surprising science behind why cleaning the toilet might actually feel better than playing a video game or petting a puppy. They explore the neuroscience of task completion, the Zeigarnik Effect, and why your brain loves a good checkmark. From streaks that keep your inbox under control to sticky-note walls that track daily wins, this episode is packed with relatable laughs, eye-opening insights, and practical ways to find joy and momentum in the everyday mess of life. 00:00 – Welcome to the Clorox Effect Jeffery and Jami introduce the surprising idea that cleaning might be more satisfying than leisure—and they’re not selling cleaning products. 02:15 – The Science Behind the Scrub The Clorox study: EEGs, dopamine, and why scrubbing toilets beats petting puppies (for some people). 04:35 – The Zeigarnik Effect Explained Why your brain clings to unfinished tasks—and how servers in a café inspired a psychological breakthrough. 06:58 – The Trash Can Parable A parenting moment reveals how we notice what’s not done more than what is—and what that says about memory and motivation. 09:22 – Why Checking the Box Feels So Good The dopamine hit of completion, and how streaking transforms task lists into sources of joy. 11:50 – Sticky Notes, Cork Boards, and Visual Wins Jami’s real-life Post-it wall—and how moving a note from “to-do” to “ta-da” boosts motivation. 14:12 – Redefining ‘Just Checking the Box’ Why we should embrace, not shame, the satisfaction of small daily wins. 16:41 – The 10-Email Inbox Streak Jeffery shares his 9-year streak of inbox management and why it’s one of his most satisfying routines. 19:02 – Jami vs. the Email Monster Jami opens up about her email anxiety, FOMO, and how ChatGPT helped her build a life-changing system. 21:22 – From Overwhelm to Order Practical email folder systems that calm the mind and make action easier—and fun. 23:41 – Finding Peace in Process Apollo 13, moving houses, and the truth about embracing life’s repeating messes. 26:04 – Visual Progress for Character Growth How streaking gives shape and recognition to invisible wins like patience, kindness, and presence. 28:18 – Morning People, Bed Making, and Mutual Grace A lighthearted discussion on streaks, marriage, and why it’s okay to check the box—even if it’s on the bed. 30:40 – Final Thoughts: You Did It How to savor the satisfaction of done, track your progress, and start your own streak in the MyStreaks app. Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’  

What really makes a life healthy, happy, and long? In this powerful episode, Jeff and Jami explore a decades-long Harvard study shared in Charles Duhigg’s Supercommunicators—and how its surprising findings on connection, vulnerability, and deep relationships reshape the way we think about success. Through candid reflections on independence, emotional self-protection, and the evolving nature of friendship, Jeff shares a vulnerable moment of transformation. This episode is a love letter to the power of staying connected—with your spouse, your children, your community, and even yourself. Whether you’re chasing a goal or chasing your own peace, you’ll walk away inspired to build deeper roots. Mentioned: Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg The Harvard Grant Study (1937–present) Jeff’s streak to connect with one child daily Share your story with us: jeffery@mystreaksapp.com or jami@mystreaksapp.com And as always… Keep Streaking.

Summary In this episode, Jeff and Jami discuss the common misconceptions surrounding parenting teenagers, emphasizing that the teenage years can be enjoyable and fulfilling. They explore the importance of self-change in parenting, the need for candid communication, and recognizing each child's individuality. The conversation highlights the significance of sharing knowledge and navigating challenges together, ultimately fostering a supportive environment for teenagers to grow and practice life skills. Takeaways Teenagers can be some of the most enjoyable years for parents. Self-change is crucial in parenting; we can't control others. Teenagers need to practice life skills while at home. Candid communication fosters trust and understanding. Recognizing individuality in children is essential for effective parenting. Knowledge sharing is a parent's responsibility. Navigating challenges together strengthens relationships. Candid conversations should happen naturally, not just in formal settings. Motivation behind parenting actions should be love, not need for approval. Children want to be good and make informed decisions. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Teenagers: A Misconception 02:52 The Joys of Parenting Teenagers 06:13 Self-Change: The Key to Parenting 09:05 Practicing Life Skills During Teenage Years 11:53 Candid Communication with Teens 15:01 Recognizing Individuality in Children 17:57 The Importance of Knowledge Sharing 21:11 Navigating Teenage Challenges Together 24:07 Candid Conversations: The Path to Understanding 27:02 Motivation Behind Parenting Actions 29:57 Key Takeaways for Parenting Teenagers Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’

Summary In this episode of the Streaking Podcast, Jeffery Downs and Jamie discuss the introduction of challenge streaks in the My Streaks app. They explore the different types of streaks—lifetime, time of life, and challenge streaks—and how challenge streaks provide a flexible way for users to engage in personal development without the pressure of long-term commitment. The conversation highlights the social aspect of challenge streaks, the science behind motivation through social media, and personal experiences that illustrate the effectiveness of these streaks in fostering consistency and intentionality in life. Takeaways Challenge streaks are a new feature in the My Streaks app. They respond to user feedback and aim to enhance the streaking experience. Streaks can be categorized into lifetime, time of life, and challenge streaks. Lifetime streaks are intended for activities you want to maintain for life. Time of life streaks are specific to a certain period in your life. Challenge streaks allow users to try new activities without long-term commitment. Social media can enhance motivation through shared challenges. Mirror neurons play a role in motivation and behavior mirroring. Challenge streaks can be done individually or in groups for added accountability. The app allows users to keep streaks after completing challenges. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Challenge Streaks 10:10 Defining Challenge Streaks 20:13 The Social Aspect of Challenge Streaks 25:59 Personal Experiences with Challenge Streaks Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’

Summary In this episode, Jeff and Jami discuss the concept of motivation, particularly focusing on how it can be an inhibitor to personal growth. They explore the nature of motivation as a feeling, the importance of taking action regardless of motivation, and how consistency and intentional living can lead to success. The conversation emphasizes the need to define personal success and the value of building habits through streaking, ultimately encouraging listeners to take small, actionable steps towards their goals. Takeaways Motivation is often seen as a feeling that can be fleeting. Waiting for motivation can lead to mediocrity in actions. Taking action can create motivation rather than waiting for it. Success is subjective and can be defined by the individual. Consistency in actions can compound over time, leading to growth. Building habits through small, laughably simple actions is effective. External opinions should not outweigh internal validation of success. Momentum can help overcome periods of low motivation. It's important to evaluate what success means personally. Streaking can be a useful tool for maintaining motivation and consistency. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Motivation and Inhibitors 04:24 Understanding Motivation as a Feeling 10:02 The Role of Action in Motivation 19:09 Defining Success and Personal Growth 27:13 Building Consistency and Intentional Living Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’

Summary In this conversation, Brian Simmons shares his journey from teaching to founding Evergreen Coaching, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence and individual focus in coaching. He discusses the challenges of recognizing and supporting the 'invisible middle' in both education and leadership, and how mindset shifts can help individuals leverage their perceived weaknesses into strengths. Brian also highlights the significance of building trust in coaching relationships and the role of thoughts in shaping emotions and actions. In this conversation, Brian Simmons and Jeffery Downs explore the intricate relationship between thoughts and emotions, emphasizing the importance of intentional reflection and emotional awareness. They discuss the role of spirituality in understanding emotions, the process of finding the right coach for personal growth, and the impact of AI on coaching. The conversation concludes with a focus on aligning actions with one's purpose and deep why. Takeaways Brian's diverse professional background informs his coaching approach. The importance of individual focus in teaching and coaching. Many individuals feel invisible in group settings, especially in education. Coaching should help individuals recognize their strengths, not just fix weaknesses. Building trust is essential for effective coaching relationships. Mindset shifts can transform perceived weaknesses into strengths. Understanding the neutrality of circumstances can help manage emotions. Thoughts directly influence feelings and actions. Most people desire growth and just need guidance on how to achieve it. The balance between the pain of change and the pain of staying the same is crucial. The way we think impacts how we feel. Emotions are often a result of subconscious thoughts. Intentional reflection can help identify the thoughts behind emotions. Spirituality can provide insights into our unconscious thoughts. Finding the right coach involves connection, coachability, and trust. AI can enhance coaching but cannot replace human connection. Clarity often comes after taking action. Aligning actions with a deep purpose is crucial for growth. Daily reflection on emotions can lead to greater self-awareness. The journey of personal growth requires intentional effort. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Brian Simmons and Evergreen Coaching 02:17 Brian's Journey: From Teaching to Coaching 04:53 The Impact of Teaching on Coaching Philosophy 08:47 Recognizing the Invisible Middle 12:24 Mindset Shifts: Leveraging Strengths 16:25 Building Trust and Acceptance in Coaching 20:37 Understanding Feelings and Thoughts 24:37 The Neutrality of Circumstances 25:33 The Connection Between Thoughts and Emotions 29:12 Intentional Reflection and Emotional Awareness 33:14 The Role of Spirituality in Emotional Understanding 38:31 Finding the Right Coach for Personal Growth 41:56 The Impact of AI on Coaching 48:46 Aligning Actions with Purpose Live an intentional and start Streaking power by the MyStreaks App! MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books.   Keep Streakin’

Summary In this episode, Jeffery Downs explores the phrase 'You can do hard things' and its implications for personal growth and resilience. He discusses various types of hard challenges, including physical, emotional, and those imposed by others. The conversation emphasizes the importance of distress tolerance and how facing hard tasks can lead to long-term success and personal development. Jeffery shares personal anecdotes and insights on how to approach hard things with a positive mindset, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth.   Takeaways The phrase 'You can do hard things' serves as a motivational tool. Hard challenges can be physical, emotional, or imposed by others. Acknowledging the difficulty of a task can reduce its power over us. Distress tolerance is crucial for long-term success. Doing hard things can change who we are and who we can become. It's important to differentiate between hard things we choose and those we don't. Facing hard tasks can lead to personal growth and resilience. Consistency in facing challenges is key to developing a strong character. Embracing discomfort can lead to greater opportunities. Setting small, manageable goals can help in tackling hard tasks. Chapters 00:00 Exploring the Meaning of 'You Can Do Hard Things' 06:05 Different Types of Hard Challenges 12:02 The Hard Things We Don't Choose 17:46 The Importance of Distress Tolerance 24:08 Applying Hard Lessons to Personal Growth Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’

In this episode, Jeff and Jami discuss the concept of confidence as an inhibitor to progress. They explore the idea that confidence is often perceived as a prerequisite for action, but in reality, it is the courage to take action that leads to confidence. Through personal anecdotes and examples, they illustrate how ignorance can sometimes propel individuals forward, while the pursuit of confidence can lead to inaction. The conversation emphasizes the importance of starting where you are and embracing the messy journey of learning and growth.   Takeaways You don't need confidence, you need action. Confidence is an outcome, not an input. Don't wait for confidence to start; just get started. Ignorance can sometimes be a blessing in disguise. Courage is essential for moving forward. Confidence develops through experience and action. You can't reach your goals without starting from where you are. The journey to success is often messy and requires patience. Finding joy in the process is crucial for growth. Replace the need for confidence with the courage to act. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Inhibitors of Progress 03:12 The Myth of Confidence 06:01 Ignorance vs. Experience 08:45 The Role of Courage in Action 12:02 Learning Through Experience 14:55 Confidence as an Outcome 17:51 Building Confidence Through Streaking 21:10 Conclusion and Next Steps Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’

Summary In this episode of the Streaking Podcast, Jeff and Jamie explore the insights from Evie Pampouris' TED Talk on overcoming fear and building resilience. They discuss the concept of not needing confidence to succeed, the importance of recognizing one's worth, and the impact of isolation on personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the value of connection and the idea that everyone contributes to a collective treasure of worth, encouraging listeners to take action and embrace their value without comparison. Takeaways Overcoming fear is essential for building resilience. Confidence is often seen as a barrier to success. Recognizing that you're not special can alleviate feelings of isolation. Everyone has inherent worth, regardless of comparison. Connection with others enhances personal value. Isolation leads to loneliness and greater mental health issues. Action is necessary to build confidence, not the other way around. Each person's contribution adds to the collective value. Insecurity can be combated by recognizing the value in others. The journey of personal growth is enriched by shared experiences. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Fear and Building Resilience 02:46 Understanding the Inhibitors to Success 06:06 The Isolation Trap and Its Impact 08:58 The Value of Connection and Worth 11:49 The Treasure Chest Analogy: Everyone's Value 15:10 Combating Insecurity Through Action 18:03 The Role of Confidence in Taking Action 20:51 Conclusion: Embracing Value Over Specialness Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books. Keep Streakin’

Summary In this conversation, Jeff and Jami discuss the challenges of maintaining streaks in personal development and the importance of accountability, grace, and flexibility. They explore the concept of streaking, the different types of streaks, and how to approach them with a mindset focused on activity rather than time. The discussion emphasizes the significance of Q2 activities for growth and the need to give oneself grace in the pursuit of consistency. Takeaways Streaking can be challenging due to the need for accountability. Making activities laughably simple can help overcome initial resistance. There is value in consistency and the compound interest of activities. It's important to allow for flexibility and grace in maintaining streaks. Different types of streaks exist: lifetime, time of life, and challenge streaks. Q2 activities are crucial for long-term growth and should be prioritized. Investing in growth prevents emergencies and keeps life manageable. Measuring success by activity rather than time can lead to better outcomes. Taking breaks doesn't mean abandoning streaks; it can be a reset. Focus on the activity itself, as time will take care of itself. Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting and Catching Up 05:46 Finding Balance in Accountability 11:52 Understanding Different Types of Streaks 19:01 Investing in Growth and Consistency 28:06 Conclusion and Next Steps Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books.   Keep Streakin’