Strictly Stalking

Strictly Stalking is a weekly true crime podcast exploring true stalking stories from survivors — in their own words. Every Tuesday, hosts Jaimie Beebe and Jake Deptula cover a unique stalking case by interviewing stalking survivors, advocates, and experts.

S4 / E200 Sharing Custody: Her Stalking Nightmare

Karter is being stalked by her daughter’s father.  When they separated, her ex became obsessed with her and the men she had in her life, even changing careers to match her new husband. Her ex broke into her house and stole her jewelry, harassed her at work, and sent her constant texts containing conspiracy theories, cryptic photos, and bizarre messages. Karter is afraid for her life because he continues to stalk her after he was released from a psychiatric hospital. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Loft - Go to Loft.com and use code STALKING at checkout for 25% off Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast 

11-14
54:21

S4 / E199 Buyer Beware: Stalking Harriett

Harriett was stalked by a car salesman after purchasing a new car. When Harriett bought a new car, she gave her personal information to the car salesman, who used it to stalk her. He commented on her Instagram, texted and called her repeatedly, and even showed up at her house and events she attended. She complained to the dealership and went to the police, but now her stalker is on the run. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Loft - Go to Loft.com and use code STALKING at checkout for 25% off Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com 

11-07
01:01:23

S4 / 198 A Shot In The Dark: Stalking Dasia

In order to save her own life, Dasia shot the man who was stalking her. After two dates with a man, Dasia told him she didn’t want to see him again. He called her repeatedly from blocked numbers, threatened her on social media, and sent people to her house to talk to her. Dasia moved several times and got a restraining order, but the stalker continued to escalate. When the stalker broke into her house, she fought back. GUEST LINKS: Dasia Washington Links: https://stan.store/Dasiadoesit IG: https://www.instagram.com/Dasiadoesit/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dasiadoesit DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com 

10-31
01:12:26

S4 / E197 The Stalker Next Door: Isla Traquair

Isla Traquair was stalked by her neighbor, who was so destructive to her life that she had to move out of her house and even left the country. Isla is also a TV Host and True Crime Investigator and has recently released a new true crime podcast series called “The Storyteller: Naked Villainy”. Isla is here to share her story and describe the lengths she’s had to go through to try to get justice. GUEST LINKS: Isla Traquair IG: https://instagram.com/islatraquair Podcast - “The Storyteller: Naked Villiany” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-storyteller-naked-villainy/id1482159580 DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Progressive - Progressive.com 

10-24
01:16:40

S4 / E196 Twenty Year Terror: Stalking Chanel

Chanel has been stalked for over twenty years by a boy she met in junior high. During college, Chanel reached out to him when his father died. They renewed their friendship, but when his behavior became erratic. she learned that he had been diagnosed with schizophrenia. He was obsessed with Chanel, becoming upset if she didn’t answer his calls, constantly trying to contact her, following her, and carrying wedding rings around so he could propose to her. Chanel got multiple restraining orders across several states, and her stalker was arrested, but she continues to live in fear. SPONSOR LINKS: Loft Use code STALKING at www.Loft.com to get $25 off your full price purchase. Noom Start your free trial today at www.noom.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

10-17
01:09:29

S4 / E195 I See You On Campus: Stalking Jaime

Jaime was stalked by a homophobic stranger in college. After coming out in college, Jaime started getting strange messages from an AOL account pretending to be her girlfriend The messages told her what she was wearing and where she was going, and soon became violent and threatening. Jamie and her girlfriend told school officials, but the stalking didn’t stop. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Progressive - Progressive.com 

10-10
47:12

S4 / E193 Addiction & Stalking

Charlotte was stalked by a man who had been a patient at the rehab clinic where she worked.  Years later, Charlotte saw the man around town, and he asked to meet her for coffee. They became friends and dated briefly, but she immediately noticed a lot of red flags and ended the relationship. He stalked her, and she filed for a protective order, but it only made his stalking intensify. Her stalker caused her to lose her apartment and her job and ultimately forced her to leave the state. GUEST LINKS: DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 

09-26
53:03

S4 / E192 Protecting Women: Stalking Patti Stewart

Patti Stewart was stalked by a man she met online. After briefly dating, she reported him to his Air Force chain of command, but no action was taken. Being stalked destroyed Patti’s business, and her mental health suffered, so she took matters into her own hands and rebounded by helping other women through self-defense training and private investigative services. Patti continues to share her story of healing, as well as tips and advice on staying safe. GUEST LINKS: Patti Stewart / Defense In Heels Defense In Heels - Website https://www.defenseinheels.com/ Defense In Heels - Instagram https://www.instagram.com/defenseinheels/ Defense In Heels - Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc8KjzXcAa9xcpO_OHcuSzw A Woman's Guide to Self-Defense: 5 steps to staying safe forever https://www.amazon.com/Womans-Guide-Self-Defense-self-defense-confidence/dp/B0C7TCPD27 DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com 

09-19
51:21

S4 / E190 Tinder Terror: Stalking Caitlyn

Caitlyn was stalked by her ex-boyfriend. After matching on Tinder, they started dating and moved in together, but it didn’t last. When Caitlyn asked him to move out, he stalked her by showing up at her job, threatening her, and becoming extremely violent.Caitlyn was dating a new man and even went to the police, but that only made her stalker escalate by threatening to kill her new boyfriend and himself. GUEST LINKS: DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ 

09-05
41:40

S4 / E 189 I Will Find You: Stalking Jennifer

Jennifer was stalked by a high school classmate. When Jennifer was fourteen, a classmate sent her notes in class, walked to her house after school, followed her, and called her regularly - but she ignored him. She told her parents and school counselors, but the stalking continued until she moved away. Decades passed, and he suddenly started sending her thousands of messages. She blocked him, but it didn’t help. He blamed Jennifer for his wife leaving him and even came to her city, following her through a grocery store and to her house because his magic eight ball told him to. Jennifer called the police, and before they could arrest him, he had already sent over forty thousand messages to her in seven months. GUEST LINKS: DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com 

08-29
01:10:29

S4 / E186 Escaping A Killer: Caitlin Mathis

Caitlin Mathis was stalked by an ex-boyfriend she dated for a few months. After breaking up, he stalked Caitlin at her University and was banned, but that didn’t stop him, and when he showed up again, she called 911. The stalker was arrested, but soon after being released, he was charged with murder. Caitlin is sharing her story and her path toward healing and advocating for other survivors. GUEST LINKS: Stalking Prevention, Awareness, & Resource Center https://www.stalkingawareness.org/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com 

08-08
46:08

S4 / E185 Trespassing Terror: Stalking Angela

Angela was stalked by a man she barely knew. After exchanging contact information with a security guard in her neighborhood, the man started sending her bizarre messages that she ignored, and neighbors mentioned he was acting strangely. Soon after, Angela found the man’s phone on her property and realized her electric gate’s control box had been tampered with so she called the police, but they couldn’t find him and only took a report. Angela was working from home with her daughter when she saw the stalker on her property and screamed for her husband. The man charged at Angela, and things turned violent quickly. PROMO LINKS: Near Death (Podcast) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/near-death/id1689779166 DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Progressive: Progressive.com 

08-01
01:36:02

S4 / E184 Vengeful Ex: Stalking Samantha

Samantha is being stalked by her husband’s ex-girlfriend. After Samantha found out she was pregnant, her husband told her his ex-girlfriend had been stalking him, his friends, and his family. His stalker constantly blew up his phone, spreading lies about him and making cryptic threats on her social media accounts and blogs. When Samantha’s daughter was born, the stalking escalated, so they went to the police, but that didn’t help.  Samantha asked his ex to stop contacting them, which only ramped up her obsession over the next ten years. Samantha and her husband live in fear of what their stalker will do next, and have been fighting for years in court to get justice. GUEST LINKS: Samantha Halsey TIkTok User Name: samanthahalsey https://www.tiktok.com/@samanthahalsey PROMO PODCAST LINKS: Near Death (Podcast) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/near-death/id1689779166 Dying For Sex (Podcast)  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dying-for-sex/id1495392900 https://open.spotify.com/show/5NIQRzFzGbwhoxEOFVRKQQ Nikki Boyer (Host) https://www.instagram.com/nikkiboyer/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ 

07-25
01:28:05

S4 / E183 Peeping Tom: Nikki Boyer

Nikki Boyer is the creator and host of the podcast "Dying for Sex" and her new series, "Near Death". Nikki is here to tell us about her scary encounter with a Peeping Tom and discuss the differences and similarities between Voyeurism and stalking. Because stalking and Voyeurism are often related offenses involving unwanted attention, we'll also take a dive into similar cases. GUEST LINKS: Nikki Boyer https://www.instagram.com/nikkiboyer/ Near Death (Podcast) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/near-death/id1689779166 Dying For Sex (Podcast)  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dying-for-sex/id1495392900 https://open.spotify.com/show/5NIQRzFzGbwhoxEOFVRKQQ PROMO PODCAST LINKS: Crime Lines (Podcast) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crimelines-true-crime/id1112004494 https://open.spotify.com/show/62jTy4kkN8C9aNhJeLJy3z https://www.instagram.com/crimelines_true_crime/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com 

07-18
48:31

S4 / E182 Unhealed Wounds: Stalking Hedya

Heyda was stalked by a man she met on a dating app. Heyda was doing a live video on TikTok when she was harassed by a user who called her crazy and revealed her parent's address. The harassment continued through TikTok until her stalker eventually revealed themself. Hedya went to the police and hired a lawyer, but it turned into an overwhelming nightmare where she felt re-victimized. Now she is here to share her perspective on surviving a stalker and the emotional, physical, and financial hardships she’s had to manage.  GUEST LINKS: Hedya https://www.tiktok.com/@healingwithhedya https://www.instagram.com/healingwithhedya/ PROMO PODCAST LINKS: Check the Locks https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/check-the-locks-a-true-crime-podcast/id1618014949 https://open.spotify.com/show/54gxLZcvjrVldgV9BV9MEu https://www.instagram.com/checkthelockspod/ https://www.checkthelockspod.com/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive: Progressive.com 

07-11
56:44

S4 / E181 TikTok Terror: Stalking Alona

Alona was stalked by a TikTok user. After Alona commented on an influencer’s tik tok video, several accounts began harassing her and fake accounts were created using her name.  The stalker made outrageous accusations about Alona and her family online, causing issues in her real life. Alona went to the police, but they told her they could do nothing. When the stalker escalated, the police finally got involved, and the truth shocked them all. GUEST LINKS: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com 

07-04
01:10:56

S4 / E180 One Teen’s Terror: Stalking April

April was stalked in her teens by a girl she met in high school.  After breaking up with her boyfriend, April was threatened by a girl who was also stalking her ex. The stalking escalated when the girl started rumors at school, drove by her job, and started fights with her friends. April and her parents went to the police, but because they were minors no action was taken. Since meeting her stalker in high school, April has been stalked for over 20 years. GUEST LINKS: DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Progressive: Progressive.com 

06-27
56:18

S4 / E179 Seeking Shelter: Escaping Her Stalker

Meagan was stalked by a coworker she dated in her twenties When they broke up, he tried to break into her house, wore disguises to follow her, hacked into her accounts, reached out constantly, and blackmailed her into talking to him. The stalking was so terrifying that Meagan moved into a domestic violence shelter with her daughter to hide from him. Even after her stalker was charged and received a suspended one-year probation, it did not stop him from continuing to stalk her. Meagan used her own experiences to build a non-profit that helps victims of stalking. GUEST LINKS: Meagan’s Organization The Fight 4 Light Foundation https://www.facebook.com/Fight4LightFoundation https://www.thefight4light.org/ Sharp Risk Assessment https://www.stalkingawareness.org/sharp/ SPONSOR LINKS: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Progressive: Progressive.com 

06-20
01:07:40

S4 / E178 Dating, Drugs, & Danger: Stalking Brittany

Brittany was stalked by someone she met on a dating app. During the relationship this person abused drugs, became controlling, went through Brittany’s phone, monitored her social media, called constantly, and hid her keys so she couldn’t leave. This person slept outside Brittany’s apartment and removed the locks on her windows to break in at night. When they broke up, the stalking continued until they showed up at Brittany’s house with a gun leading to a standoff with police. GUEST LINKS: Brittany Edwards https://www.tiktok.com/@this_girlbae DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ Progressive: Progressive.com 

06-13
01:05:44

S4 / E177 Underage Stalking: Madeleine Heather

Madeleine Heather was stalked by a co-worker when she was fourteen years old. They started dating, and he became possessive and needy. When their relationship ended, she started getting calls from private numbers; she thought she was being followed, and strange cars were driving by her house. With the help of the police, they discovered her ex was stalking her to create fear. **The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of the sexual assault of a minor. Listener discretion is advised.** GUEST LINKS: Madeline Heather Linktree: https://linktr.ee/ReclaimMePersonal Insta: https://www.instagram.com/madheat_/?hl=en  Personal Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@madheat_  Reclaim Me Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/reclaim-me/id1553022744 Reclaim Me Insta: https://www.instagram.com/reclaimmepod/ Reclaim Me Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/Reclaim-Me-105249598131977  Reclaim Me Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimmepod  Survivor Support Network: https://www.facebook.com/groups/833427647212411  SPONSOR LINKS: The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.comInstagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 

06-06
57:44

Brooke Anderson

um, u don't have to identify yourself when reporting to child services. It says right on the recording when u call u CAN remain anonymous. if u had to identify no one would report.

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Melissa

Dude is super insecure.

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Michy Lee

This is so heartbreaking. I am so sorry you have been targeted by so many predators. You deserved better and deserve better.

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Dianne Porter

I applaud her decision to NOT add another innocent life into this horrible situation. Would have been a lifetime of weaponizing the child..more and more abuse...a happy ending would NEVER be possible.

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ID19811230

This guy was so uniformed. It’s obvious he has not listened to any of your stalking podcasts. The fact that he said the police are very helpful and that it was easy to get an order of protection, shows his complete ignorance. He is victim blaming. He basically said it’s the victim’s fault in the way they present themselves to the police. I’ve never been stalked, never commented on any of these episodes, but I had to say this. Shame on him.

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