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Author: Mike Frazier, MD

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Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

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So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.Instead, try…Responding with kindness…Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...Or just saying “no.”And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike Ready to be a DOER of what you’re learning and not just a HEARER and READER? Get ready to join Strong Men Strong Marriages. It’s the risk-free way to increase the intimacy in your marriage. It’s only available to email s...
I'd like to recommend the Jordan Harbinger Show. Jordan is a husband and father, and his show has recently featured some fascinating guests. Hope you enjoy checking it out.
When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…Get mad back…Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLcoDr. Mike Ready to be a DOER of what you’re learning and not just a HEARER and READER? Get ready to join ...
Relationships are built by…Talking to peopleSpending time togetherDoing things togetherTo build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.Choose 1 to do this week.And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike Ready to be a DOER of what you’re learning and not just a HEARER and READER? Get ready to join Strong Men Strong Marriages. It’s the risk-free way to increase the intimacy in your marriage. It’s only available to email subscribers, so share with your friends and have the...
Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage…Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win…But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts?In fact, you just feel resentful?Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard)So you can find joy, healing and love NOW in your life and marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike Ready to be a DOER of what you’re learning and not just a HEAR...
Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt.By you.Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart.Apologize.And stop doing it.As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart.Let me know how it goes.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.(Lorena new links here)https://youtube.com/shorts/U3zdkBBU-JU (Lorena new links here)Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, prof...
How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To YouIf you feel like roommates in your marriage…If you’re getting one-word answers from your wife…If you feel disconnected emotionally and sexually…Your wife has closed her heart to you.How do you get it to open back up, so you have the connection, looks of love and physical intimacy you want?Learn in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally succe...
There’s something important to your wife that isn’t important to you.Maybe it’s the way towels are folded. The way counters are wiped. Leaving the toilet seat up.Instead of dismissing this as stupid…See this as a chance to serve her in her language.Put the toilet seat down.Not as a way of “caving in,” but as a way to speak love to her in her language.Let me know how it goes!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, profes...
As high achieving Christian men, we like to be right.And, it’s important to be right in some things, particularly in our work.But, when we focus on being right in our marriage…And our wife being wrong…We create disconnection, lack of trust, and low intimacy.Learn what to do instead…To create deep connection, intimacy and the look of love in your marriage…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professi...
Now we know that the easy way to feel more love for your wife, your kids, yourself and everyone…Is to PLUG INTO the Kingdom of God that is at hand… meaning AVAILABLE right now.Pray to plug in and feel it…Think of Jesus a few extra times today…Imagine Jesus with you…And let me know what kind of difference you feel.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. [Lorena new links here]https://youtube.com/shorts/EaYEZ3b_PyM [Lorena new links here]Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a...
Do you feel like you’re trying SO HARD to be a good husband and father?Do you feel like you’re putting every effort you can in… but it just doesn’t seem like enough?Your wife doesn’t appreciate it, or you keep it up for a while… then fail?Well, there’s GOOD NEWS.You don’t have to try so hard!There’s a power you can start plugging into TODAY that will make it MUCH easier to be the kind, loving, strong husband and father you want to be.Learn what it is on today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Me...
When you tell your wife it’s dumb that something’s important to her that isn’t important to you…Like putting down the toilet seat, cleaning your glass, organizing the pencils, etc…You create distance and show your wife you don’t really care.That you can’t be inconvenienced for her sake.This makes her feel like you don’t really prioritize her… and she’s right.Today, find a way to do something that she cares about and do it…Even if it’s not important to you.Show that because she’s important to ...
When was the last time your wife looked at you with the Look of Love?You know the one.The one where you just KNOW she adores you.If it’s been a while…Today’s episode will teach you how to get it back.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your ...
The invalidation triple threat is when you:Tell your wife she’s wrong to think that wayTell your wife she’s wrong/immature to feel that wayTell your wife she shouldn’t be hurt by you acting that way/justifying your actionsDoing this over and over is what KILLS marriages.So, stop killing your marriage TODAY.Doing this could very well save your marriage.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally suc...
This may be the MOST IMPORTANT podcast I have done.I will have already incorporated it into the Strong Men Strong Marriages program.The truth is…I was closer to the end of my marriage than I realized.RECENTLY!And now things are on a trajectory to MUCH more joy and happiness.It’s already happening.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible ...
This week, when you get angry…Leave and do some exercise.That’s it.Keep it simple.Let me know how it goes.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. Ready to be a DOER of what you’re lear...
If you ever…Yell at your wife or kids…Make aggressive or threatening comments to them…Or get physical with them in any way…This episode is for you.If your wife has said she “doesn’t feel safe” with you… this episode is for you.High achieving men often have a temper. I’ve had issues and this episode is one for me for sure.You’ll learn simple steps to release your anger in a healthy way (without burying it), set a good example to your kids, and build more communication, safety and intimacy.DO N...
If you’re asking your wife to apologize because you’re right and she’s wrong…You probably won’t get very far.She’ll probably dig in and tell you why YOU are wrong and SHE is right.Instead, share how what she did HURT you.And ask her to apologize so you can feel like she cares and you’re on the same team.This requires emotional STRENGTH to make yourself known in this way.And, it’s MUCH more likely to create more intimacy.Let me know how it goes by replying to this post!Watch on YouTube here.&n...
If your wife blames you for her problematic behavior…Like infidelity, overspending, being mean or rude, not following through on her responsibilities…It can be VERY frustrating.Why can’t she just apologize?Why won’t she take ownership of her actions and change?Learn what will help her take ownership…And end your frustration…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, m...
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