Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, I’m super excited to chat with H. Alan Scott, a talented writer, comedian, and podcaster you might know from Newsweek's The Parting Shot and *Out on the Lanai. We’ll explore the world of podcasting, talking about how to find your voice and connect with your audience. H. Alan will share his journey from writing to comedy and how he uses humor to tackle some pretty serious stuff. So, tune in for a fun and inspiring conversation that might just spark your own creative journey! Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:02:04 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:10:26 - Starting Out as a Writer 00:11:16 - Tackling Serious Topics 00:17:03 - Finding Inspiration 00:19:30 - Connecting with Your Audience 00:21:13 - Navigating Social Media 00:23:26 - Hate Watching 00:25:49 - Owning Mistakes and Knowing When You're Wrong 00:26:15 - Finding Laughter and Humor in Everything 00:28:15 - The Internet's Impact on Perception 00:30:57 - Understanding the Neurospicy Spectrum 00:33:51 - Navigating Mental Health: Depression & Anxiety 00:34:40 - Comedy & Mental Health, Punching Down vs. Up 00:39:28 - Waiting Tables at the Improv 00:41:06 - You Don’t Need To Speak To Everyone 00:43:12 - Out On The Lanai 00:44:07 - Live Shows and Which Golden Girl Are You? 00:48:51 - Tips for Aspiring Podcasters 00:51:53 - Confronting Imposter Syndrome 00:52:46 - Structuring Your Podcast 00:56:57 - Engaging with Trolls 00:01:02 - Fight Me Show Links: Max on You’re Making It Worse Check Out H Alan: Instagram Website Check Out Max Emerson: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today we’re joined by the fabulous Betsy Volk, a model and adventurer whose journey is as inspiring as it is exciting. At just 27, Betsy has been navigating the modeling world since she was 16, moving from the Midwest to Los Angeles and traveling the globe while embracing her authentic self as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we explore her experiences in the fashion industry, her adventurous lifestyle, and her journey of self-discovery—from her early days with Abercrombie to her candid reflections on coming out and personal growth. Whether you're a budding model or just seeking connection and inspiration, this episode is packed with insights and real talk you won't want to miss! Sponsored By: Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Max’s Patreon Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:40 - Who the Hell Are You? 00:07:37 - Starting Out in the Modeling Industry 00:08:33 - Abercrombie Modeling 00:09:25 - How Agencies Work 00:10:40 - The Abercrombie Campus 00:14:59 - Betsy & Max's Adventures 00:15:47 - Max’s Crashpads & Bicoastal Living 00:20:02 - Betsy's LA Move 00:24:35 - International Travel 00:28:05 - Promoter Dinners 00:30:41 - Coming Out 00:31:44 - Pride Campaign 00:35:15 - Living in London 00:37:36 - Model Housing and Drama 00:39:47 - Advice for Young Models 00:41:37 - Social Media and Modeling 00:42:44 - Staying Grounded 00:44:01 - TikTok 00:46:28 - Betsy’s F*ckboy Era 00:48:25 - Room Raiders 00:49:39 - FIGHT ME! Check Out Betsy: Instagram Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In this episode, I’m pleased to welcome back my partner, Andres, as we answer your questions about relationships. We’ll discuss a range of topics, from the nuances of polyamory to the importance of communication in love. I’ll address your questions—like what makes us the cutest couple ever—while we explore the challenges of navigating relationships, including wedding and family planning. So, grab a snack or a stress ball, and join us for an insightful conversation about love, connection, and personal growth. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:15 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:06:40 - Polyamory 00:07:09 - Taking a break 00:08:10 - How long have we been together? 00:08:42 - Family planning 00:09:19 - Wedding planning & love at first sight 00:12:13 - How we met 00:14:36 - First date 00:19:02 - Falling in love 00:22:37 - Secret to a long relationship 00:24:48 - What we love about each other 00:26:11 - Favorite position in bed 00:27:07 - Scam accounts and catfishes 00:28:16 - Relationship challenges 00:29:04 - Handling conflict in relationships 00:33:06 - Finding time for each other 00:36:12 - Fight Me! Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Check out Andrés: Linktree Art Instagram Tik Tok Patreon Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome back to another episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Brandon Rogers, a comedian and YouTube sensation with over 10 million followers. We explore his journey in sketch comedy, the challenges of virality, and the importance of queer representation in media. From his iconic characters to his award-winning series Blame the Hero, Brandon shares insights on burnout, personal growth, and the creative process behind his work. Tune in for a lively discussion that’s as entertaining as it is enlightening! Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:56 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:08:06 - Video virality and career goals 00:09:45 - Burn out in entertainment 00:13:10 - Queer representation in media 00:17:20 - Appealing to the straights 00:18:37 - Growing up closeted 00:22:02 - Max’s…family dynamic 00:25:24 - Brandon’s first videos and core memories 00:29:21 - Are we in a simulation? 00:31:08 - Hot Banana Stud 00:32:05 - Brandon’s connection to the Cecil Hotel 00:36:12 - Comedy writing 00:39:01 - Know where the line is 00:41:34 - Keeping up with the content monster 00:45:08 - The evolution of youtube 00:46:17 - Helluva Boss & John Waters 00:49:45 - Billboards on Sunset Blvd 00:52:16 - Class Acts 00:53:48 - Fight Me Sponsored By: Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Max’s Patreon Join today and make the internet more colorful Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Check Out Brandon: Class Acts Youtube Instagram Facebook Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re exploring the vibrant world of creative vision with the talented Henry Jimenez. At just 24, Henry has made waves in fashion and celebrity photography, using his art to challenge norms and advocate for social change. Join us as we discuss his journey from a young boy in Comalcalco, Mexico, to a dynamic force in Los Angeles, touching on topics like colorism, identity, and the power of storytelling. Whether you’re an aspiring creative or just looking for inspiration, this episode is packed with insights and advice you won’t want to miss! Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:48 - Who The Hell Are You 00:09:01 - Henry’s backstory 00:11:05 - Colorism on TV 00:12:36 - Photographing celebrities 00:13:16 - Mexican heritage and living in LA 00:15:26 - Machismo, homophobia, and coming out 00:17:53 - Religion 00:21:54 - Feeling like an outsider 00:23:51 - Henry coming out to his mom 00:29:15 - Max’s coming out story 00:31:08 - Henry’s childhood and triggers 00:33:40 - Max’s father 00:35:21 - Artistic vision and Henry’s Angels 00:36:59 - Feeling beautiful 00:38:33 - Growing up in the panhandle 00:41:19 - Colorism around the world 00:42:45 - Collaboration 00:44:35 - Advice for aspiring creatives 00:45:09 - Ignoring the haters 00:46:38 - What’s next for Henry 00:47:50 - Fight me Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Check Out Henry: Instagram Tik Tok Youtube Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome to today’s Ask Me Anything episode, where I tackle the intriguing questions you've sent me on Instagram! From my shoe size (a surprisingly popular topic) to the mystery of Sarge's backup food guy, we’ll cover it all. We’ll also discuss coming out in theater school, dealing with bullies, navigating dating apps, and even how to escape an alligator attack! Get ready for a fun mix of curiosities, confessions, and some relationship advice. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:03 - Shoe Size? 00:01:25 - Sarge 00:01:46 - Traveling 00:03:46 - Coming out in theater school 00:08:08 - Bullying 00:09:13 - When to come out 00:09:55 - How to run away from an alligator 00:10:50 - Social media & boundaries 00:13:31 - Dating apps 00:18:48 - Finding “the one” 00:20:25 - Relationship Advice 00:21:16 - Marriage 00:21:35 - Therapy 00:21:44 - Writing and publishing 00:22:40 - Bottoming 00:23:33 - Max’s Underpants 00:23:55 - Financial advice 00:24:58 - Diet 00:25:34 - Only Fans 00:26:55 - The future 00:27:13 - Skincare Routine 00:28:01 - Adoption 00:28:40 - Fight me! Show Links: Hot Sissy Max’s Underpants Hooked Movie Only Fans, Self-Love, Burnout, Celebrity Glam + Queer Advocacy | Kyle Krieger Adoption, Surrogacy, + Being Gay in the US Army | Andrés Camilo Max’s Patreon Andre’s Instagram Andre’s Patreon Coming Out Resources: The Coming Out Handbook (The Trevor Project) Coming Out - GLSEN Prep Resources: Learning Resources - PrEP PrEP Action Kit Sponsored By: Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Check On Max Emerson: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Spencer Hunt, better known as Spencewuah, a TikTok sensation famous for their "Daily Scream" series. Join us as Spencwuah shares the highs and lows of stardom in the digital age, the unofficial 6th borough, and the time someone used their photos to catfish. Stay tuned for dating horror stories, chaotic meet and greets and advice for aspiring content creators. Also…I think my house is #haunted? Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:31 - Who the hell are you 00:09:29 - Rise to chaotic tik tok fame 00:14:23 - Catfishing & number leak 00:16:05 - The unofficial 6th burrough & New Jersey 00:22:07 - Florida vs Jersey 00:23:01 - Ghosting & cat parenting 00:27:11 - The Daily Scream & working at Starbucks 00:32:45 - Haunted House 00:33:41 - The REAL Spencewauh Hunt 00:35:28 - Meet & greets 00:39:28 - Content creation 00:42:14 - Tik Tok fame 00:43:24 - Cancellation, fake tweets, internet fame 00:48:49 - Being authentic on social media 00:53:07 - FIGHT ME! Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Check Out Spencewuah: Tik Tok Instagram Youtube Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Welcome back to another episode! Today, we’re thrilled to host Kyle Krieger, a Los Angeles-based celebrity hairstylist to a beloved online personality with over 2 million followers. Kyle discusses sustainable creativity, sharing insights on how he balances his creative passions with self-care, handles burnout, and remains grounded. We also explore his advocacy for LGBTQ+ causes and his unique approach to creative projects, including his work on OnlyFans. Tune in for a candid conversation about creativity, self-love, and community connection! Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:16 - Who the hell are you? 00:07:27 - Starting as a content creator 00:09:00 - From celebrity hair styling to content creation 00:11:29 - Struggling with self esteem 00:14:10 - Handling burnout 00:20:55 - Staying grounded 00:23:44 - Refilling your cup 00:25:20 - The limitations of creative projects 00:29:39 - Picking projects to pursue 00:31:36 - Queer advocacy 00:33:22 - Connecting with community 00:38:58 - Creative control and Only Fans 00:40:41 - Committing to Only Fans 00:45:18 - Boundaries & Only Fans 00:47:44 - FIGHT ME! Sponsored By: Black Lotus Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Patreon Get your exclusive access Puori Go to Puori.com and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Check Out Kyle: Instagram More Kyle Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Ep. #2 In this episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know, I'm thrilled to welcome my fiancé and incredibly talented guest, Andrés Camilo. We’ll explore his fascinating journey from growing up in Medellín to serving as a US Army Veteran, and how he channels his experiences into his visual art and social media presence. Today, we’re tackling the complex topic of family planning—covering everything from surrogacy and adoption to the ethical and emotional aspects involved. Whether you're considering parenthood yourself or just here to learn more about Andrés, this episode is packed with insights and personal reflections. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about love, creativity, and building a future together. Timestamps: 00:01:28 - Who the hell are you? 00:06:18 - Andrés’ backstory and art 00:09:21 - Military experience 00:14:33 - Authenticity and social media 00:15:59 - Storytelling & the creative process 00:18:42 - Creating reels and tiktoks 00:20:20 - Advice for aspiring artists 00:21:53 - Important relationship conversations 00:23:58 - Deciding we are ready for children 00:24:58 - Surrogacy 00:32:22 - Do your research 00:33:26 - Interviewing with different agencies 00:37:14 - Ethics and communication 00:41:39 - The adoption process 00:44:57 - Matching with a birth mother 00:46:18 - Waiting to get matched 00:49:36 - Preparing for parenthood 00:50:26 - Tips for family planning 00:53:16 - FIGHT ME! Adoption Resources: https://menhavingbabies.org https://www.helpusadopt.org/ https://www.adopthelp.com/ Sponsored By: Puori Go to Puori.com and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Check out Andrés: Linktree Art Instagram Tik Tok Patreon Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
Ep. #1 Welcome to the debut episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know, I’m thrilled to welcome the remarkable Dr. Eric Cervini, author of The Deviant’s War. We explore Queer American history, uncovering the pivotal figures and events that have shaped our community. Dr. Cervini shares insights from his award-winning book and Emmy-nominated docu-series, The Book of Queer. Tune in as we discuss everything from early LGBTQ+ activism to gay rights and wrongs, and discover how these moments continue to influence us today. Topics Discussed: 00:01:46 - Who the hell are you? 00:05:35 - Balancing all your career aspirations 00:06:37 - Dr. Eric Cervini 00:07:23 - From Texas to Harvard 00:08:22 - Spanish & french lesson 00:09:07 - Political activism 00:14:52 - Texas campaign incident 00:16:54 - Gay representation 00:19:51 - Harvey Milk 00:21:24 - The Mattachine Society 00:25:25 - The history of Pride parades 00:27:14 - Frank Kameny 00:31:45 - The Dowdy Trial 00:36:57 - Allstora & book publishing 00:43:39 - The Book Of Queer 00:47:05 - Queer Historians 00:49:29 - Akhnaten & gay villains 00:50:21 - Queer role models throughout history 00:54:18 - Neurodivergence throughout history 00:56:29 - The importance of intersectionality 00:58:48 - Ways to get involved 01:01:53 - FIGHT ME! Sponsored by: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Check out Eric Cervini: Website Instagram Allstora The Deviant’s War The Book Of Queer Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson