Suburban Sex with Remy and Addy

We continue our KK conversation and learn what gets her going with the Brazilian lover…and it’s not what you’d expect. Then we attempt to get him on the show and make an interesting discovery about his side hustle!

The crew welcomes KK back to the show! Addy and Brad regale her with tales of our recent trip to Cancun and our very favorite resort.Yes, THAT resort from ep. 6 (“Lady in the street but a freak at the beach”).

On tonight’s episode of Suburban Sex, we face off around the topic of how flirtation looks in a modern relationship, the varying needs of men and women, and finally which sex has it easier in the bedroom? Did the guys take this one or did Addy take them down?

We’re back! It’s our first episode of Season 2 and we’re catching you up on all our life changes that kept us away. Cross country moves, job changes, and major surgery got in the way - not to mention our already busy lives with kids. Life be life’n. But, we’re settling in, dusting off those overpriced mics and bringing you back into our saucy bedroom talk. Remy’s wife, Reagan, joins us to kick off this new season where we talk: sex toys, life and … feet?! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com Send us a love note at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com

Part 2 with Rene encourages us to think about the quality of our orgasms. Addy was on the edge of her seat for this one, as so often moms feel like they have to carve out time and mental energy for sex but don’t take the time to fully enjoy what a gourmet orgasm could offer. That’s right, ladies - we want gourmet all the way!  https://goodmenproject.com/author/rene-schooler/ https://medium.com/@kwcoachingpress https://www.yourtango.com/experts/kendal-williams https://www.facebook.com/reneschooler11?mibextid=LQQJ4d  Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com  Send us a love note at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com

Settle in for a two-part series with a local sex coach: Rene. Check out her websites below. She’s a 20 year established sex coach who has worked with over a thousand couples, writer of hundreds of articles/blogs, and author of an upcoming book “Empowered, But Empty.” In this first part with Rene, we hear what vanilla couples can learn from polyamory couples in the way of open communication and trust. But there’s a dark side to everything; and we get curious about the drawbacks Rene found from the polyamory lifestyle and how that’s shaped her current monogamous relationship today. But wait … there’s more! Check out part 2 to hear about the quality of sex: “both partners actually getting into each other not just getting off on each other.” https://goodmenproject.com/author/rene-schooler/ https://medium.com/@kwcoachingpress https://www.yourtango.com/experts/kendal-williams https://www.facebook.com/reneschooler11?mibextid=LQQJ4d  Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com  Send us a love note at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com

Brad and Addy talk about their adventures in California wine country for their 10th wedding anniversary, including a smoking hot Corvette and a yoga yurt. Anything goes when you’re on a vacation without kids! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com  Send us a love note at  TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com

We’re back….   And we have a random assortment of topics, pulling from listener letters and Facebook mom group #drama. Who else wants to know all about our underwear choices? Listen in to hear who loves to see that thong-thong-thong-thong-thong!  Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com  Send us a love note at  TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com  Link to palm toy https://www.palmpower.ca Link to me undies  https://www.meundies.com

We start with *just the tip*, then go into a “When Harry Met Sally” segment on whether men and women can really be friends. Remy’s wife Reagan joins the conversation to round out our perspectives and share their conversation starters to set healthy boundaries with friends of the opposite sex. Listen in for how many times Reagan sings a little diddy for us; bonus points for our listeners who send us an email with the total number of times she sings a tune at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com  Send us a love note at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com

What exactly makes someone fun in bed? You know it when it’s good and you sure as hell know when it’s bad. But what’s the secret sauce? Join us in a thought provoking conversation about the skills that make sex most impressive. That is, if Hot Tub Brad will let us finish it…he’s in a hurry because he knows he’s getting laid after the show ;) Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

How well do you know your partner? How well do you even know yourself? Get naked and take some sexy quizzes with us (ok, you don’t have to get naked for this)! We’re sharing our answers and learning more about what makes us tick - both in and out of the bedroom. #themoreyouknow  Quiz Links: https://carnalcalibration.com https://bdsmtest.org https://enneagramuniverse.com Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

This week we discuss how we deal with conflict in our relationships and how it affects our sex life. The guys ask Addy for tips on how husbands can get more action, then they weigh in on their favorite grooming habits (yes, these men are actually going to talk about smooth balls)! We get Brad to open up more than we ever expected, so tune in for all the dirty secrets! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

Winter’s back, as our “Lifestyle Doula”, gently walking us through the process of what it's like in the (swingers) lifestyle. NOT because we’re recommending it, but simply to open up the conversation (before you open up your marriage). We talk about her experience as a unicorn (single woman joining a couple), attending global swinger clubs (that’s right, I said “global”) and more! She brings her confidence and big D energy to her relationships AND to our PART 2 episode!  She even goes back to the basics: reiterating the baseline turn ons that us mamas talked about before, like doing the dishes and taking the mental load of kids/responsibilities from your wife to make more mental space for sex.  If you missed the quiz last time: https://bdsmtest.org  Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

We get a little lesson in kink from a divorced suburban mom. It’s not what you think, this underworld of kink… they walk among us! Our girl Winter stresses the importance of communication and trust to make it work, and ironically she’s found that her kink partners have better communication than her marriage ever did! She’s myth-busting BDSM and makes it all seem less scary - no, really! It may not be for everyone but aren’t you even just a tiny bit curious? Check out the links below to take a quiz with your partner to explore each of your own kinks - then TALK about it together! https://badgirlsbible.com https://bdsmtest.org https://fetlife.com Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

This week we talk all about solo play. We all do it, especially when our partners aren’t around or in the mood. But instead of keeping it to ourselves, we get real about how we like it, when we do it and how often it happens. We also discuss how men and women think differently about self pleasure. Lastly, we confess whether or not we openly discuss self pleasure with our partners. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

History buffs: unite! Who’s interested in hearing the history of the vibrator? Addy ran “extensive research” (aka watched movies) to drop some knowledge on the interesting beginnings of what has become so mainstream in the bedroom (ok - HER bedroom). Then hear how Brad and Addy attempt a role play, acting as strangers, during their stay-cation. Did Brad have enough game to eventually get Addy home with him? Listen in to find out! Fun Movies: Hysteria (2011 - Maggie Gyllenhaal) - https://shorturl.at/siYTK Kinsey (2004 - Liam Neeson) - https://shorturl.at/BD6rt Fun Vibes: Mini Microphone - https://shorturl.at/WQR53 Hitachi Magic Wand - https://shorturl.at/3j7qK Massage Gun - https://shorturl.at/0Jq0t Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

We’re riding the coattails of the Hawk Tuah Girl: reminiscing about our drunken 20’s to get in the mindset of this new phenomenon. The 40 year olds in us think it’s the modern pornification of America, but you tell us where it came from. Any spitters out there? Then we join in on the fun with more “would you rather” questions - the sexy suburban version.  Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

Our friend Josh gives it to us straight about not being straight - married to a woman for 25 years before he came out of the closet. Now he’s living his best life and has great wisdom (and crazy stories) to share that you won’t want to miss! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

Mistress Monroe joins us to discuss her new obsession: smutty, dirty books. She reads her daily dose of smut and romance which has turned her last year into the best sex of their 13 year marriage! Read that again.  Her genres build up in dirtiness that empower her to talk more about sex and ask for what she wants. Her list of lustrous books are below to help you get revved up. Keep reading, my friends! Monroe’s Recommendations in order of spice:  Tame: Strictly Business by Carrie Elks Dear Grumpy Boss by Julia Wolf Puck Pact, Heart Trick, and Odd Man Rush by Kristin Grenata (the male/female/female book she mentions) Mid level just based on trigger warnings. Spice can be high but the characters are not amoral: Irresistibly Broken by J.Saman (the butt sex book) Part of a 5 book series. High spice and/or high trigger warning books - characters do what it takes to get the girl even if it’s severely questionable: The Pucking Wrong Number by C.R. Jane. This is the hockey book based in Dallas. Part of a 4 book series.  Not Yours to Keep by Ella Jacobs (explores Dom/Sub relationships) Pretty Little Tease, Pretty Little Killer, and Pretty Little Monster by AJ Merlin (the series with serial killers) Reverse Harem options: Rebel Bloom is an author I read a lot in this space. Very cheesy but she has a lot of good reads for spice but light. Puck One Night Stands by Emma Foxx (4 in the series) Double Pucked by Lauren Blakely All of the trigger warnings: Blood Ties Series by A.K. Rose. There are 9 books - the first is titled Mine. It is very dark so know what you’re getting into. Restraint fun:  https://a.co/d/aT09YTw Booty fun:  https://shorturl.at/A2kQw Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

Remy’s fabulous wife, Reagan, joins the show as we discuss the husbands’ least favorite topic: sexual ruts and dry spells. Booooooo! But, hey - that’s reality. We dig into the theory that men want sex to feel like everything is okay and women don’t want sex until everything is okay. Sound familiar? Listen in to hear how we see a light at the end of every dry spell tunnel.  Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com