Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Is swinging just a lighthearted hobby… or a defining lifestyle choice? In this episode of our swinger lifestyle podcast, we dive into the hobby vs lifestyle debate that’s sparking conversations across the swinger community and beyond. We explore why some couples embrace swinging as a fun, occasional activity — a playful part of ethical non‑monogamy — while others see it as a core relationship identity tied...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Is "reclaiming" in the swinging lifestyle sexy ritual or possessive play? Ed and Phoebe unpack this controversial term, sharing their real experiences and perspectives from within the community. In this episode, we cover: The origins and controversy around the term "reclaiming"How language like "reclaiming" vs "reconnecting" shapes our swinging experiencesThe historical and possessive undertones in lifestyl...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Get real answers to burning questions about STI safety in the swinging lifestyle. Ed and Phoebe break down common myths, honest risks, and practical tips for safer sex at parties, events, and orgies. Why standard STI tests and "full panels" don't cover everythingThe dangers of a false sense of security with recent test resultsReal talk about latency periods, symptom-free infections, and what that means fo...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Curious about what diversity really means in the swinger lifestyle? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe break down the surprising variety you’ll find—and why it’s not what you might expect. The wide range of body types, ages, and preferences within swinger communitiesDifferent styles of parties, play, and consent practices (including substance use and communication)How self-confidence, body image, and social dyn...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples who show a totally different side on a second date, to partners who don’t seem on the same page, we share the signs that made us question, “Is this...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 00:00 - Start 01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out 03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations 06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable 09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change 12:40 - Tip 5: Trust 21:34 - Lets talk about cheating... 22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CA...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different. 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Bo...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and completely unexpected story of how we became swingers. We were nervous, excited, and totally out of our depth at this "Share Your Wife" party with tota...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed door...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals a...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the p...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and ple...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks an...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about ...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your rela...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether y...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're new or seasoned, you'll learn how to interpret subtle cues, handle ambiguous situations, and ensure you're a...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compat...
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the l...