THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE

Kate & Liam -- happily married bisexuals and chronic overthinkers -- discuss their personal experience with non-monogamy.

S4 Ep. 09: Erotic Blueprint

In this episode, Kate discusses with therapist & coach Catherine of Expansive Connection how to better understand our sexual preferences. www.ExpansiveConnection.com Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat ...

07-24
01:04:44

S4 Ep. 08: Disappearing Libido

Is it possible to be having the best sex of your life when you're having a whole lot less of it? Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswi...

06-20
58:33

S4 Ep. 06: Our ONLY FANS Experiment (Part 2)

In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- h...

03-20
01:05:21

S4 Ep. 05: Sex & Personality

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ and https://www.https://missjaiya.com/ Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Op...

02-14
01:09:03

S4 Ep. 02: Sacred Sexuality

In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of Mormon Wives," and her friend Bri, a former LDS church member. Together, Lauren and Bri founded the women's support group "Sacred Sluts" to help women break free from shame and reconnect with their sexuality. Find them at SwingingLifestyleCoach.com, and under the same name on Instagram & Fa...

11-13
01:01:07

S4 Ep. 01: European Adventures (Summer 2024)

In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show

10-16
01:23:07

S3 Ep. 09: The Bareback Episode

In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show

07-25
50:15

S3 Ep. 08: Asking For What You Want

In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired -- in the Lifestyle. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show

04-30
53:21

S3 Ep 07: Sex & Drugs

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives. Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Support the show

03-22
01:23:39

S3 Ep. 06: Every Body's Welcome

Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle. Links Cara's Website https://www.thepushfitness.com/ Kate's Women's Retreat webpage https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat All Kate's Links https://katemonogamish.com/my-links The Monogamish Marriage Blog https://themonogamishmarriage.com/ Support the show

02-20
43:08

S3 Ep. 05: Orgies

In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard. Show Links Email us: The MonogamishMarriage@gmail.com Support us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Na...

01-29
01:10:46

S3 Ep. 04: Self-Compassion -- Inner Parts Work with Relationship Coach Catherine

Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring. Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotours.com for more information. Resources Mentioned Expansive Con...

12-19
01:05:55

S3 Ep. 03: Online Dating (Part 2)

Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!). Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA). Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all his hard-won freedom and confidence paid off at PCAP Miami last month. Events mentioned in...

11-13
01:17:44

S3 Ep. 02: Online Dating (Part 1)

In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings. Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications. Links: Sapio Tours Small Group European travel for non-monogamous couples hosted by Kate & Liam: https://sapiotours.com L...

10-10
01:10:41

S3 Ep. 01: Lifestyle Travel Stories

Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023. Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.com If you're interested in any of the other excellent trips mentioned, please see the following websites fo...

09-07
55:34

S2 Ep. 08: Boundaries - The Multiamory Interview

In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,, https://www.multiamory.com/ Support the show

07-28
50:14

S2 Ep. 07: Fantasies

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami. https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QRhLdb7aV7fIlHscBugXf?si=R1wqLreLQD2sbei-ffqpew Never have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here! Support the show

05-11
59:52

S2 Ep. 06: Betrayal

This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman. A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree. Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. OPEN DEEPLY Podcast (on Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xGf...

04-05
01:02:36

S2 Ep. 05: Coming Out To Our Families

In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much? Support the show

03-02
58:58

S2 Ep. 04: Erections

In this episode, Liam tells the story of his erection struggles in group sex situations, and how he eventually conquered them. Let's just say that Kate is deeply worried. Important Links: Support us on Patreon... https://Patreon.com/kate_and_liam Hypnotism... https://www.sanfranciscohypnotherapy.com/ Naughty Gym Adventure Travel... https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-adventure-trips Room 77 Events... https://room77life.com/events77-mex...

01-20
01:14:08

P p

I can't take these two anymore

06-23 Reply

P p

this podcast has gotten incredibly boring

06-01 Reply

HiM

Hi, happy to write the first comment, we are a couple from LA!

10-16 Reply

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