Tactful Pettiness with Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chappelle

Do YOU still believe in Santa? ... Andrew might. Cody, Andrew, & Ren talk all things holiday memories, Andrew's VERY catholic upbringing, Borrowing children for holiday photos, Does Cody want kids??, THE RULES OF GIFT GIVING, Starting relationships on a holiday, TREE ETIQUETTE, Favorite Christmas Albums, The CORRECT way to pronounce Ariana Grande's name, and why is everyone trying to have sex with Santa?? PLUS: A PSA on Christmas ornaments and thoughts on Christmas Carolers!! Check out our holiday sponsors!! Tactful Pettiness is sponsored by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month! Mint Mobile: Shopping for a new cellular provider? Go to MintMobile.com/petty for your new 3-month unlimited wireless plan for just $15 a month!

THIS WEEK: The guys discuss how very attractive people can do very bad things, Did Cody cry during Wicked? IT'S THE END OF THE ERAS TOUR! Which British girl group stole Cody and Andrew's hearts this year? And what are the best ways to meet a potential fling during the holidays?? PLUS: Cody, Andrew, and Ren compare their Spotify Wrapped info!! Check out our holiday deals!! Quince: Gift luxury this holiday season! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Qualia: Resist aging at the cellular level. Go to Qualialife.com/tactful for up to 50% off and use code TACTFUL at checkout for an additional 15% off. PLUS, Qualia Senolytic is available at select GNC locations near you! Hims: ED is normal! Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/petty 

Bomanizer joins Cody & Andrew to talk about his new show MADE FOR TV and finding love in the age of social media! PLUS: Why Housewives is better when the budget is low, when your online persona involves being into yourself, what doing drag forces you to emotionally confront, Boman's pop star aspirations, the "switch up" and dating AFTER getting famous, Boman's insights on THE ICK, AND A SHOCKING PERSONAL REVELATION!!! Check out our holiday deals!!! Skylight: Frame your memories... digitally! Get $20 off your purchase at SkylightFrame.com/petty Tushy Bidet: Give the gift of practical luxury! Go to HelloTushy.com/Tactful - and let them know that Tactful Pettiness sent you!  Lume Deodorant: Wanna smell fresh? Get 15% off all products with code "Tactful" at LumeDeodorant.com Mint Mobile: Want the best deal in cellular? Get your new 3-month premium wireless plan for just $15 a month at MintMobile.com/petty 

Cody & Andrew share all the things they're grateful for this year including THIS WEEK'S RELEASE OF WICKED, the Delta Sky Lounge, Sabrina Carpenter's bangs, Flo Rida on the Disney Channel, and Cooper Koch's full frontal scene!!! Check out our holiday deals!!! Skylight: Frame your memories... digitally! Get $20 off your purchase at SkylightFrame.com/petty  Lume Deodorant: Wanna smell fresh? Get 15% off all products with code "Tactful" at LumeDeodorant.com  Quince: Upgrade your wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order AND 365-day returns!

When is it okay to fight in a relationship? Cody & Andrew weigh in on when, where, and why you should engage with inevitable conflicts with your partner. PLUS: The guys give their take on Jake Paul vs Mike Tyson, which Paul brother is more attractive, and Cody's surprising opinion about Beyonce's upcoming NFL performance!  We have holiday deals for you!! QUALIA: Resist aging at the cellular level! Go to QualiaLife.com/tactful for up to 50% off and use code TACTFUL for an additional 15% off! PLUS: Qualia Senolytic is available at select GNC locations near you! TUSHY BIDET: Give the gift of practical luxury! Get 10% off your first bidet order when you use code Tactful at HelloTushy.com - Let them know TACTFUL PETTINESS sent you! GOODR: Get the shades Cody wears! Go to Goodr.com/pettiness and use code PETTINESS for free shipping!  MINT MOBILE: Cut your wireless bill to $15 a month at MintMobile.com/petty 

How soon do you take your new boo on a trip? And what are all your travel priorities? Cody & Andrew weigh in! PLUS: Wicked red carpet review, Cody's revelation about Ethan Slater, What are they teaching about Beyonce at Yale?? What do the guys think about prosthetics and full frontal nudity? Andrew recaps his trip to ROATAN! How is a hotel listing like a Grindr profile? AND the last reason you should ever ask Cody to switch seats with you on a plane... Check out our holiday sponsors!! Qualia Senolytic: Resist aging at the cellular level! Go to Qualialife.com/tactful for up to 50% off and use code TACTFUL for an additional 15% off! PLUS, Qualia Senolytic is available at select GNC locations near you! Hims: ED is normal! Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/petty for your personalized ED treatment options! Quince: Upgrade your fall wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Please donate to RedCross.org to help those affected by Huricanes Milton and Helene.

American figure skating icon and Dancing with the Stars season 26 winner, ADAM RIPPON, joins Cody & Andrew to talk LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS... and Adam has some personal experience to share! PLUS: Adam gives some BTS on DWTS, RuPaul's Drag Race, Stars on Mars, and working on a top secret Taylor Swift music video!! We have deals for you!! Qualia Senolytic: Resist aging at the cellular level! Go to QualiaLife.com/tactul for up to 50% off and use code TACTFUL for an additional 15% off. Also available at select GNC locations near you! LUME: Wanna smell fresh? Get 15% off all Lume products with code "Tactful" for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com - AND LET THEM KNOW WE SENT YOU! Mint Mobile: Get your new 3-month premium wireless plan for just $15 a month at MintMobile.com/petty 

THIS WEEK: Is Cody a good texter? How soon do you text back? Are thumbs up emojis cringey? How do you behave in the group chat? and Is there actually such thing as a bad texter... or is he just not into you?! We have deals for you!!! Goodr: Want the same shades as Cody Rigsby? Go to Goodr.com/pettiness and use code "PETTINESS" for free shipping. PLUS: Goodr offers a 30 Day Money Back Guarantee and 100% Satisfaction! Feel Free Classic Tonic: Make the switch to all-natural energy! Go to BotanicTonics.com and use code PETTY for $40 off a 12-pack case! Quince: Upgrade your wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Tactful Pettiness is sponsored by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN BOOOOOS!!! Cody & Andrew discuss the BEST and WORST ideas for couples costumes AND their FAVORITE past Halloween costumes! PLUS: Ren's costume suggestions, a heartfelt PSA to all straight men, What's the hierarchy of Halloween Candy? What's the deal with haunted house actors? Andrew shares how crazy his Halloween birthdays were as a kid, What to do if you're a pillow princess forced into role playing, Cody gives advice on what costumes to AVOID if you're looking to hookup, AND Cody shares his feelings about Moo Deng costumes (much to Andrew's chagrin)! Find some scary good deals below!! Tactful Pettiness is sponsored by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month! Lume: Wanna smell fresh? Use code "Tactful" for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com  Hims: E.D. is normal! Visit Hims.com/petty for your personalized ED treatment options!

What's the upper limit of your dating range? Cody & Andrew talk all things AGE GAPS! Would YOU ever be a sugar baby? Which celebrity couples have notable age gaps? And Andrew shares how an age gap played a BIG role in his family! PLUS: Cody's thoughts on Joker: Folie a Deux, Andrew's obsession with Love is Blind, What to do if you're the cougar in the relationship, and a fun new segment - I'D LIKE TO SPEAK TO THE MANAGER! Check out our amazing sponsors!! Qualia: Resist aging at the cellular level! Go to Qualialife.com/tactful for up to 50% off! Use code TACTFUL at checkout for an additional 15% off. Also available at select GNC locations near you! Cook Unity: Get affordable food crafted by award-winning chefs! Go to CookUnity.com/pettiness or enter code PETTINESS before checkout for 50% off your first week! Feel Free Classic Tonic: Make the switch to all-natural energy! Go to BotanicTonics.com and use the code PETTY at checkout for $40 off a 12-pack case! Quince: Upgrade your wardrobe at Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Goodr: Want Cody approved shades? Go to Goodr.com/pettiness and use code PETTINESS for free shipping!

This episode was recorded on Tuesday September 24th. Tony and Grammy-winning star of the stage and screen, Jonathan Groff, joins Cody and Andrew to talk about his upcoming Broadway musical about Bobby Darin, how Jonathan landed the Hamilton gig and became friends with Andrew, and a rumor that's been going around about him! PLUS: Silent meditation retreats, why Jonathan deletes his texts, doing Spring Awakening and eventually Glee with Lea Michelle, the most scandalous scene from Looking, BTS from Knock at the Cabin, and a Marry F Kill of Jonathan's career! Check out our amazing sponsors!! Hello Tushy: It’s time to ditch toilet paper! Get 10% off your first bidet order with code "Tactful" at HelloTushy.com  Mint Mobile: Cut your wireless bill to $15 a month at MintMobile.com/petty  Cook Unity: Get affordable, chef-made food delivered straight to your door at CookUnity.com/pettiness or use code PETTINESS before checkout for 50% off your first week! Feel Free Classic Tonic: Make the switch to all-natural energy! Go to BotanicTonics.com and use the code PETTY for $40 off a 12-pack case! Mosh Bars: Fuel your body AND your brain! Head to MoshLife.com/tactful to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on the Best sellers Trial Pack!

Doing impressions. Smacking your lips. Not having female friends. Walking on the balls of your feet. Being too obsessed with your family. Having a lockscreen photo of yourself. Cody & Andrew break down ALL THINGS ICKS & RED FLAGS! PLUS, How did Nicole Sherzinger do on Broadway?, Cody shares which article of Sabrina Carpenter's clothing that he found offensive, and will Ren get her money back after Chappell Roan dropped out of a festival she bought tickets for?? Check out our amazing sponsors!! Blissy: Want pillows that are great for your hair and skin? Get 60-nights risk-free PLUS an additional 30% off at Blissy.com/tactfulpod    Factor: Hungry? Head to FactorMeals.com/pettiness50 and use code "pettiness50" for 50% off your first box PLUS 20% off your next month! Quince: Upgrade your fall wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Tactful Pettiness is brought to you by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month! Lume Deodorant: Smell great with Lume! Use code Tactful for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com 

Cody, Andrew, & Ren breakdown all things dating app etiquette INCLUDING How important is location? Should you post a group picture? Is it okay to date a bodega owner? How suggestive should your pictures be? And where is Tinder hiding all the hot people?? PLUS: Andrew goes to Red Rock, Cody & Ren go to Charli XCX and why Cody hates a coffee date and audience participation. Check out our great sponsors!! Cook Unity: Get affordable, chef-made food delivered straight to your door at CookUnity.com/pettiness or use code PETTINESS before checkout for 50% off your first week! Mosh Bars: Fuel your body AND your brain! Head to MoshLife.com/tactful to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on the Best sellers Trial Pack! Blissy: Want pillows that are great for your hair and skin? Get 60-nights risk-free PLUS an additional 30% off at Blissy.com/tactfulpod  Tactful Pettiness is brought to you by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month!   Lume Deodorant: Smell great with Lume! Use code Tactful for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com

Cody & Andrew review the contestants for the upcoming season of DANCING WITH THE STARS! And Cody shares some juicy BTS about his experience on Season 30! PLUS: The guys share their thoughts on the VMAs including the performances from Sabrina Carpenter, Chappell Roan, and Taylor Swift! Check out our amazing sponsors!! Goodr: Need shades? Go to Goodr.com/pettiness and use code PETTINESS for free shipping! PLUS: 30 Day Money Back Guarantee and 100% Satisfaction! Factor: Too busy to cook? Head to FactorMeasl.com/pettiness50 and use code "pettiness50" for 50% off your first box PLUS 20% off your next month! Feel Free Classic Tonic: Make the switch to all-natural energy! Go to BotanicTonics.com and use the code PETTY for $40 off a 12-pack case! Blissy: Want pillows that are great for your hair and skin? Get 60-nights risk-free PLUS an additional 30% off at Blissy.com/tactfulpod Lume Deodorant: Smell great with Lume! Use code Tactful for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com  Don't miss The Golden Girls Deep Dive Podcast, hosted by True Crime Obsessed’s Patrick Hinds and Broadway scene stealer Jennifer Simard, wherever you listen!

Cody & Andrew get into the minutia of Hookups vs Dating including the difference between situationships, friends with benefits, and being exclusive. PLUS: Cody shares his thoughts on Tennis and all the celebrities who watch it, a tribute to James Earl Jones, Jojo Siwa's appearance at New York Fashion Week, Katy Perry receiving MTV's Video Vanguard award, Chappell Roan's adjustment to fame, Which celebrity ghosted Ren?? And what to do when your partner comes out to you? Check out our great sponsors! Cook Unity: Get affordable food crafted by award-winning chefs, delivered straight to your door at CookUnity.com/pettiness or use code PETTINESS before checkout for 50% off your first week! Feel Free Classic Tonic: Make the switch to all-natural energy! Go to BotanicTonics.com and use the code PETTY at checkout for $40 off a 12-pack case! Mosh Bars: Fuel your body AND your brain! Head to MoshLife.com/tactful to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on the Best sellers Trial Pack! Tactful Pettiness is brought to you by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month!

THIS WEEK: When was the last time you took yourself on a solo date? And can it lead to an ACTUAL date? Andrew shares about his time in Nantucket (which is in fact an island), Cody shares why you should never trust him on a boat, Ren shares all about her recent European adventure including a broken wrist at the Eras tour and a Greek fling! PLUS: Andrew shares about the time he was almost KIDNAPPED (as a child), Cody tells why does NOT love going to the movies with Andrew, AND everyone lets their feelings be known about RAYA! Check out our amazing sponsors!! Cook Unity: Get chef crafted meals delivered to your door! Go to CookUnity.com/pettiness or enter code PETTINESS before checkout for 50% off your first week! Liquid IV: Stay hydrated! Get 20% off your first order of Liquid I.V. at LiquidIV.com and use code TACT at checkout! Quince: Upgrade your wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Tactful Pettines is sponsored by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month! Lume: Need better deodorant? Use code Tactful for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com  OneSkin: Take care of your skin! Get started today with 15% off using code Tactful at oneskin.co 

Remember the 2010s?? Cody & Andrew do!! Join them as they breakdown the biggest scams INCLUDING Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos, The College Admissions Scandal, What Color Was the Dress?, The Fyre Festival, and TWO big Oscar kerfuffles!! Check out our great sponsors!!! Mosh: Fuel your body and your brain! Head to MoshLife.com/tactful to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on either the Best Sellers Trial Pack or the new Plant Based Trial Pack.  Factor: Hungry? Head to FactorMeals.com/pettiness50 and use code pettiness50 to get 50% off your first box PLUS 20% off your next month! Blissy: Need pillowcases? Try now risk-free for 60 nights, at Blissy.com/tactfulpod and get an additional 30% off! Quince: Upgrade your wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Liquid I.V. Get 20% off your first order at LiquidIV.com and use code TACT at checkout!

Cody & Andrew continue their journey through cultural moments of the past decades and today they break down the 2000s! Our top 10 scams of the 2000s include a cartwheeling Fergie, Kanye's infamous "I'mma let you finish", Tom Cruise jumping on Oprah's couch, and the unfortunate Janet Jackson nip slip on national TV. PLUS, hear confessions of a shoplifter, a Diana Ross impersonation, and our plea to leave Britney alone! Check out our great sponsors!! Blissy: Need pillowcases? Try now risk-free for 60 nights, at Blissy.com/TACTFULPOD and get an additional 30% off! Goodr: Need a new pair of sunnies? Go to goodr.com/PETTINESS and use code PETTINESS for free shipping! Liquid I.V. Get 20% off your first order at LiquidIV.com and use code TACT at checkout! Mosh: Fuel your body and your brain! Head to MoshLife.com/tactful to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on either the Best Sellers Trial Pack or the new Plant Based Trial Pack.  Quince: Upgrade your wardrobe! Go to Quince.com/pettiness for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!

Cody & Andrew embark on a new journey through cultural moments of the past decades that for a moment seem great and nostalgic, but let's be real, we were scammed! The top 10 scams of the 90s include classics like the Macarena, Milli Vanilli, Now That's What I Call Music, and Beanie Babies. ALSO: Andrew breaks down his 101 Dalmatians themed Christmas Tree and Cody surprises us with his ice skating past. Check out our great sponsors!! Tactful Pettiness is sponsored by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/tactful to get 10% off your first month! Botanic Tonics: Pick between either a sample 2-pack, single time 12-pack, or you can do the monthly subscription and save 33%. Go to botanictonics.com to shop all feel free tonics.  Cook Unity: Want chef-quality meals delivered right to your door? Go to CookUnity.com/pettiness or enter code PETTINESS before checkout for 50% off your first week! Liquid I.V. Get 20% off your first order at LiquidIV.com and use code TACT at checkout! Lume: Need deodorant? Use code Tactful for 15% off your first purchase at LumeDeodorant.com 

It's time to show yourself some self love! Cody & Andrew talk about French pole vaulter Anthony Ammirati's giant pole, why Simone Biles is this week's Petty winner, and why more people need to take hints from Olympic speed walking. PLUS: Thoughts on meditation, retail therapy, journaling, hanging out with the right people, comfort watches, organizing your home, purging things (and people), remembering to fulfill your obligations, setting boundaries with your work... and whether or not Andrew got scammed on the streets of New York. Check out our great sponsors!! Indulge in hydration this summer with Liquid I.V. Get 20% off your first order at LiquidIV.com and use code TACT at checkout! Don't miss The Golden Girls Deep Dive Podcast, hosted by True Crime Obsessed’s Patrick Hinds and Broadway scene stealer Jennifer Simard, wherever you listen!