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Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
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Send us a text In this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe). So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe? In this episode, I’m joined by Milla Impola, condom and lube expert from ONE® Condoms, to talk about what really goes down behind the scenes — from STI safety and...
1Send us a text Not all orgasms are created equally. There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds du...
Send us a text Most people talk about threesomes like they’re either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here’s the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally’s work has been featured in The New York Times, and she specializes in helping couples explore their ...
Send us a text If she’s not coming and your first thought is “she’s just hard to please” — it’s time to rewrite the script. Arousal isn’t guesswork. It’s science you can feel with your hands. In this video, I’m breaking down the real physiological signs of arousal — including vaginal tenting, pelvic floor engagement, and breath/body shifts — so you can learn to read her body like a map and build the kind of orgasm she doesn’t forget. You’ll learn: ✨ How to recognize when her body is ope...
Send us a text Curious about the hotwife lifestyle? 🔥 In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Hot Wife and Wifey Ambassador Serenity Cox to break down one of the most talked-about relationship trends right now. We cover what it really is, how couples build trust and set boundaries, and what to know if you’ve ever been curious about exploring it. This conversation is all about consent, connection, and real-world relationship dynamics. Whether you’re partnered, curious, or jus...
Send us a text Submission isn’t weakness. It’s power offered—not power lost. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive. This isn’t about topping from the bottom. It’s about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant. We’ll explore: 🖤 How powerful submissives shape the rhythm of a scene 🫧 Using breath, body ...
Send us a text What if locking it up could actually unlock better sex? Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that’s helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with her partner. Together, we’re breaking down: 🔒 What male ...
Send us a text What if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come? Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you’ve seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you’re just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking out, fumbling it, or killing the mood. You’ll learn: 💥 W...
Send us a text What happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn’t hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or finally become safer and more accessible? In this Kinktober special, I’m joined by Amanda Dames, kink educator, coach, and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast. Together we explore: ✨ How TikTok & social media helped normalize kink ✨...
Send us a text Ready to heat things up this October? 🎃🔥 Forget haunted houses—this Kinktober is about unlocking new thrills in the bedroom. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks you can explore right now, with a fun challenge for each one. Here’s what you’ll learn: ✨ The science behind why spanking and impact play feel so addictive ✨ How chastity and tease/denial hack your brain’s reward system ✨ Why Dom/Sub dynamics buil...
Send us a text Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and explore the many solutions men can try. From lifestyle shifts and breathwork to cutting-edge sexual health tech, we dig into how you can last longer, reduce performance anxiety, and actually enjoy sex without the pressure. Because let’s be rea...
Send us a text Ever feel like you and your partner just aren’t speaking the same sexual language? You’re not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Research at Arya and PhD researcher at the University of Washington, to unpack the Erotic Persona Framework—the 4 sexual archetypes that explain why routine sex fizzles, why desire misfires, and how to finally sync with your partner. We cover: 🔑 The 4...
Send us a text Most men think oral sex is about fancy tongue tricks or lasting as long as possible. But here’s the truth: the #1 mistake isn’t about your technique — it’s about what you’re missing. In this episode, I break down: ✨ The biggest oral sex mistake men make (and why it ruins connection) ✨ Common myths that sabotage you — like the dreaded “lizard flick” move 🦎 ✨ How to use your mouth and your hands together (with consent) to actually tune into her body ✨ Wha...
Send us a text If they finish… then shut down, this episode is for you. Today we break down dismissive-avoidant attachment in the bedroom—why someone can crave the physical but avoid the intimate—and what actually works to make connection (and foreplay/aftercare) easier. I’m joined by Dr. Sam Zand, holistic psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at Better U, and founder of Anywhere Clinic. We cover: How dismissive-avoidant shows up in flirting, foreplay, sex, and aftercareWhy intensity ≠ intimac...
Send us a text Curious about butt stuff but don’t know where to start? You’re not alone. In this beginner-friendly guide, I sit down with Tim Lagman, certified sex educator and host of Sex Ed With Tim, to break down how to make backdoor play fun, safe, and yes—seriously pleasurable. Together we cover: ✅ How to warm up the right way ✅ What lube + toys make it easy and enjoyable ✅ Tips to keep things sexy (not awkward) ✅ How to let go of shame and actually enjoy it This ...
Send us a text Want to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You’ve been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you from your partner. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’ll show you 3 science-backed moves you can use tonight to control your arousal, boost her orgasms, and turn ordinary sex into the kind she replays in her head for days. Here’s what you’ll lea...
Send us a text What’s the “right” size to satisfy a woman? How often should you really be having sex—or masturbating? And is it weird if you’re into something like ball-busting? Today, I’m joined by certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein to tackle the most-searched, most-avoided questions men have about sex, performance, and pleasure. We’re breaking down the myths, the science, and the real answers you won’t get from late-night Googling—no shame, no judgment, just straight talk (and ma...
Send us a text Before you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she’s already turned on and fully invested when you get to the bedroom. ✅ The psychology & science of building anticipation ✅ Step-by-step moves that work without crossing her boundaries ✅ Common mistakes men make that kill her desire instantly Whether you’v...
Send us a text Looking for sex positions that actually feel good—not just the ones you see in magazines or corn? In this episode , I’m joined by therapist, and author Suzannah Weiss to break down the truth about what makes a sex position great—for your body, your pleasure, and your real life. Whether you're dealing with size mismatches, limited flexibility, queer pairings, or past discomfort in bed, this conversation is packed with insights, adaptations, and expert advice that actually work...
Send us a text Most people think the secret to the female orgasm is a technique. But the truth? The biggest mistake is a mindset. In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason she’s not finishing—and it’s probably not what you think. You’ll learn: The real science behind female orgasmWhat turns her OFF (even when she loves you)How to use sound, breath, and feedback to get her deeply turned on4 surprising ways to increase HER pleasure—and your own This episode will help you become a...
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