Talking Kinky - The Kink Chronicles

Would you really want to know every sexual fantasy your partner has? Pippa is back...This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Pippa get into dangerous territory: the fantasies we have, the secrets we keep, and whether total honesty is always a good thing.What if the person appearing in your partner’s fantasy is someone you both know? What if it’s your best friend? Is confessing that desire a sign of trust and intimacy, or the kind of honesty that can never be unheard?Tom and Pippa debate where openness ends and oversharing begins, why fantasy doesn’t necessarily mean intention, and whether couples should have the right to keep part of their erotic imagination completely private.And they’re not quite on the same page.Some fantasies are exciting to share. Others might change everything. So… do you really want to know?

Is the foundation of your intimacy being sabotaged by your lack of effort to create a space for intention and connection?In the opening episode of Season 13, Tom sits down with Pippa from Intimate Spaces to explore the fascinating intersection between interior design, intimacy, kink and self-expression.We talk about what it means to create a space specifically designed for pleasure and play, from subtle, beautifully designed rooms where everything has a hidden purpose, to more adventurous spaces built around the things their owners genuinely enjoy.Pippa shares how she approaches conversations that many people might initially find difficult or embarrassing, how good design can make intimacy feel more natural, and why creating an intimate space doesn't have to mean turning your bedroom into a dungeon.It’s a conversation about design, desire, discretion and the freedom that comes from creating a space in which you can truly be yourself.Whether you're simply curious, dreaming about your own private play space, or wondering just how far bespoke interior design can go, this is a fascinating way to begin Season 13 of Talking Kinky.Discover Intimate Spaces:https://www.intimatespaces.co.uk/Talking Kinky, real conversations about kink, intimacy, relationships and the people who make this extraordinary world what it is.

Taryn helps Tom understand women’s pleasure in a bit more detail...In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom is joined by Taryn, a somatic sex and relationship coach and founder of Alive With Pleasure, to challenge some of the most persistent myths surrounding women’s pleasure. Why are so many men taught to focus on performance rather than connection? Why is penetration so often treated as the main event? And how can couples communicate their needs without criticism, embarrassment or fear of ruining the mood?Taryn explores the importance of slowing down, listening to the body and creating the emotional safety that allows genuine desire and pleasure to emerge. The conversation also covers lubrication, body shame, orgasm pressure, asking for what you want and why great intimacy is less about technique and more about curiosity, presence and communication.An open, honest and deeply insightful conversation for anyone who wants to better understand pleasure, connection and the realities of women’s intimate experiences.Discover Taryn’s work: www.alive-withpleasure.com/

Sexsomnia: When Your Body Has Sex While You're Asleep - Tom meets Lacey a living breathing Sexomniac.What happens when your body becomes sexual while your mind is completely asleep?In this fascinating and deeply personal episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Lacey, who lives with sexsomnia, a little-known sleep disorder that can cause people to engage in sexual behaviours while asleep, with little or no memory of the events afterwards.Lacey shares her journey of discovering she had sexsomnia, the impact it has had on her relationships, the confusion and embarrassment that often accompanies the condition, and how she learned to navigate intimacy while living with a disorder that many people have never even heard of.Together, Tom and Lacey explore:What sexsomnia actually isHow it differs from sleepwalking and other parasomniasThe challenges it creates in relationshipsConsent, communication, and safety considerationsCommon triggers and treatment optionsThe emotional impact of living with a misunderstood conditionThe surprising science behind sleeping and sexual behaviourThis episode shines a light on a condition that sits at the intersection of sleep, sexuality, psychology, and human relationships. Whether you're hearing about sexsomnia for the first time or have personal experience with it, this conversation is eye-opening, educational, and surprisingly relatable.As always, Talking Kinky approaches the topic with curiosity, humour, compassion, and a commitment to helping people better understand the wonderfully complex world of human sexuality.Because sometimes the most surprising things happen when we're fast asleep. Lacey can be found here on Instagram

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom steps into the provocative world of the Mozambican professional dominatrix, Mistress Martina, for a raw and revealing conversation why her male clients love pain, humiliation, and domination. (Tom gets a provocative offer at the end of the episode, the question is will he take it?)Together Tom and Martina explore the psychology, pleasure, and power dynamics behind BDSM, uncovering how trust, consent, and control shape some of the most intense fetish experiences. From dungeon realities to emotional transformation, this episode delivers an unfiltered look into the art of professional domination. It’s a cracker !