Talking Kinky - The Kink Chronicles

In this first part of a two-part deep dive into role play, Tom and Isabelle unleash their inner beasts as they explore the raw and untamed world of primal play. From chasing, wrestling, growling, and clawing, to predator-and-prey dynamics, this kink taps into something ancient, instinctive, and deeply erotic.What makes primal play so electrifying? Why do some people crave being the hunter while others revel in being the hunted? Tom and Isabelle pull apart the psychology, the thrill, and the boundaries that make this kink both exciting and safe. Expect laughs, honest reflections, and a candid exploration of how letting go of “civilized” sex can create some of the most powerful connections.Join us as we sink our teeth into the wild side of desire—this is just the beginning of our primal adventure, with part two coming next episode.

Connect to Spark (no its not an electrostim episode) , Tom and Isabelle get real about the role of connection in lasting relationships. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, newly dating, or navigating the ups and downs of intimacy, connection is the foundation stone that keeps love alive.No connection = No desire, No desire = No intimacy, No intimacy = NO KINK!In this heartfelt episode, they share stories, insights, and practical tips on how connection shapes desire, trust, and intimacy and why it’s the piece so many couples overlook.There is also a small cameo of 30 Days of Connection, the team's guided programme of curated daily activities, including some kink, that are designed to help couples reignite passion, rebuild intimacy, and rediscover each other, one day at a time.If you’ve ever felt the relationship spark slipping, this episode will remind you how to find it again.

In this episode, Tom & Isabelle are stirring the pot with a little Vanilla & Spice. Discussing what happens when one partner is kinky and the other isn’t? How do you navigate the differences without losing intimacy or connection? We’ll dive into the challenges, the joys, and the creative ways couples can bridge the gap between different sexual appetites. And that’s not all—today we’re also tackling the big, brave step of coming out kinky. Whether it’s to a partner, friends, or even yourself, we’ll unpack the fears, the freedom, and the community waiting on the other side. Honest, funny, and full of heart—this is one conversation you won’t want to miss.

In this revealing and witty episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore the world of sissification — a kink that blends elements of feminization, role-play, and erotic power dynamics. With their trademark mix of curiosity, humour, and non-judgement, they unpack where fantasy meets identity, the psychology behind the practice, and how it plays out in both consensual kink and lifestyle choices.From the allure of silky lingerie and stockings to the deeper emotional and psychological layers, the hosts cover safety, consent, and the importance of clear boundaries in sissification play. They also highlight popular online communities where enthusiasts connect, share, and learn — including FetLife’s Sissification & Feminization groups, SissyKiss, and Reddit’s r/sissies — showing how these spaces help people explore and express their kink in a supportive environment.Whether you’re a curious newbie, an experienced player, or simply fascinated by the psychology of transformation, this episode offers insight, empathy, and a few laughs along the way.

We’re kicking off Season 10 with a bang — or should we say, a boot — as Tom and Isabelle slide into the world of foot and stocking kinks. From silky nylons to wrinkled soles, this episode toes the line between fascination and fetish, with the usual mix of humour, warmth, and open-minded curiosity you’ve come to love from Talking Kinky.Why are feet such a common turn-on? What is it about a pair of sheer stockings or a cheeky arch that stirs up desire? And how does one navigate foot play, from massage to worship, in a way that feels sexy, safe, and consensual?Tom shares a rather memorable moment with a pair of hold ups, while Isabelle offers insight into why feet and legs are such a rich landscape of erotic potential. Whether you're a seasoned sole-lover or just foot-curious, this episode is a playful and respectful journey into one of the most popular (and misunderstood) kinks around.

In this bold and revealing episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom sit down with the extraordinary Colin Richards – intimacy coach, somatic sex engineer, and the man behind some of London’s exclusive sex parties.Colin opens up about the intersection of power, pleasure, and presence, sharing his journey from therapist to sensual facilitator, and what it really takes to help people unlock their erotic potential in a safe, conscious, and playful way.We discuss the art of creating exquisite group experiences, the dynamics of intimacy coaching, the importance of consent and somatic awareness, and what truly separates performative kink from embodied intimacy.Whether you're curious about elite sex parties or looking to deepen your connection in the bedroom, this episode is packed with insight, real talk, and a few jaw-dropping stories.Find Colin online:Website: www.intimacymatters.co.ukInstagram: @intimacymatters

In this thought-provoking episode, Tom and Isabelle discuss the state of sex education — or the lack thereof. They explore how porn has become the default sex educator for many young people, why pleasure, consent, and diversity are still missing from mainstream curriculums, and what a truly inclusive and empowering sex education could look like.With humor, honesty, and a healthy dose of frustration, your favourite co-hosts examine the long-term effects of abstinence-only teaching, the role of parents, and how the digital age is shaping sexual understanding (and misunderstanding). They also share real-world examples, including the moving story of a rape survivor, to illustrate the importance of comprehensive and compassionate sex education.Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault, including the mention of a rape survivor’s experience, which some listeners may find distressing.

This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle are diving lock-first into the world of chastity – where pleasure, power, and patience collide. Whether you're curious about caging the cock, padlocking panties, or just want to understand why anyone would voluntarily hand over the key to their orgasms… this one’s for you.We explore the history of chastity devices (yes, they go way back), the psychology behind denial and control, and the kinky thrill of being locked up—with or without release. From long-distance key-holding dynamics to orgasm control in established couples, we're unpacking how chastity can be both torturous and tantalising.Plus, we chat about the different types of devices for men and women, safety tips, hygiene (yes, please), and how to negotiate a chastity scene with trust and communication at the core.Expect laughs, confessions, and more than one “blue ball” reference as we tease out all the juicy details of this fascinating kink. Who’s holding the key to your pleasure?

This week, Tom and Isabelle are getting handy as they dive into the wonderfully wide world of masturbation. From solo pleasure to mutual play, from women’s clit-orientated routines to penetrative fantasies, this episode unzips the myths, mess, and magic of self-touch.Whether you're into edging, exploring your G-spot with toys, or jacking off with an audience on Chaturbate, this one’s for you. The duo discuss the rise of video-led guided masturbation, group play, kinkier turn-ons like being told what to do, and even some good old-fashioned 'me time' with your favourite imagination.With humour, heat, and hard truths, they’ll cover:Clitoral, penetrative, and combo orgasms for womenThe psychological power of mutual masturbationMasturbation in long-term relationshipsMasturbation as kink (yes, watching counts)And why it’s totally normal to talk about itPlus, your listener confessions, the latest research on who’s doing what and how often, and Tom’s attempt to explain “ruined orgasms” without blushing.So dim the lights, charge your toys, and get ready to embrace the most loyal lover you’ll ever have: yourself.

Are you gagging for some pleasure? Well this week, Tom and Isabelle clamp down on one of kink’s more intense — and often misunderstood — turn-ons: gagging. But not just one kind. Oh no, they're looking closely at two sides of the gagging coin — the physical act of being gagged with toys, tools, or hands, and the visceral reaction of gagging from being made to swallow... things or stuff .From ball gags and bite bars to forced oral scenarios and the psychology of submission, your favourite co-hosts explore the delicate dance between power, breath, and pleasure. Whether it’s about sensory deprivation, drool, dominance, or deep-throat thrills, they’re talking safety, satisfaction, and starter tips for anyone curious about losing control in the best possible way.Plus, Tom reads a particularly juicy passage from Exhibit by RO Kwon — a novel so drenched in desire and psychological surrender it practically begs to be discussed. And yes, he read it cover to cover on a plane to and from New York while trying not to blush too hard at 30,000 feet.With their usual humour, honesty, and a mouthful of research, Tom and Isabelle take listeners into the world of gagging kinks — where silence is golden, and drool is definitely in fashion.

"Stretch Me Baby, One More Time"In this deliciously daring episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle go deep—literally—as they explore the world of stretching orifices. From anal acrobatics to vaginal veneration, they dive into the why, the how, and the holy-wow of people who love to push the limits of what goes in (and sometimes what comes out).Our curious co-hosts chat about the joys and risks of insertions, gape play, and using toys of truly intimidating sizes. They cover safety, lube, warm-up routines, and what to never put in your body (hint: that Buzz Lightyear toy is not designed for re-entry). There's also a look at some real-life ER stories that prove why reading the label matters.Whether you’re a beginner curious about plugs or a seasoned stretcher eyeing your next challenge, this episode will have you wincing, laughing, and learning in equal measure. Expect honest talk, anatomical truths, and just the right amount of smut. Not for the faint of sphincter.

In this episode of Talking Kinky, co-hosts Tom and Isabelle charge headfirst into the tantalising world of dominance and submission with none other than Victoria the founder of For Play Chocolate & For Play Academy https://forplayacademy.com Victoria is also an intimacy coach with a flair for the fierce and fabulous. From leather boots to psychological power dynamics, they explore what it really means to take—or give up—control in the bedroom.Victoria shares insights from her coaching and learnings from various "Power Play" workshops, discusses the appeal of being a Dominatrix, and breaks down the fine line between performance and authenticity in power exchange. Whether you're curious about D/s for the first time or already live for the crack of a well-timed command, this episode is a playful, provocative deep dive into the erotic power of surrender and control.You can contact Victoria on https://forplayacademy.com

In this cracking opening episode of Talking Kinky Season 9, Tom and Isabelle are diving groin-first into the steamy, chaotic, and often misunderstood world of group sex. From the seductive swirl of an orgy to the high-intensity logistics of a gangbang and the rhythmic thrill of running a train — they are breaking it all down with their signature mix of sass, smarts, and curiosity.What makes these multi-partner encounters so damn hot? How do they differ in dynamics, power play, and appeal? And how does someone like Bonnie Blue manage to have sex with 1,000 men (yes, really — and we have the article to prove it)?We’ll also explore:The psychological turn-ons of being one-of-many (or the centre of it all)Risks, rules, and red flags to look out forHow to find your way into the scene (clubs, forums, code words, and etiquette)The subtle difference between consent and chaos when it comes to planning group playThis episode is hot, hilarious, and honest — and whether you’re just kinky-curious or a group play connoisseur, there’s something for everyone in this crowd.Press play, grab protection, and let’s talk kinky.

This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle go deep — and we mean deep — into the world of oral ass play. That’s right, we're talking rimming: who’s doing it, why it feels so good, and how to explore it safely, cleanly, and consensually across all orientations. From anatomy and biology to prep tips, hygiene hacks, and yes, even anal bleaching, nothing’s off limits. Whether you’re a curious first-timer or a backdoor connoisseur, like Tom, this episode delivers everything you need to know — with plenty of laughs, real talk, and listener confessions along the way.Get ready to loosen up… spread your cheeks and tune in.

This week on Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom are taking it outside—literally—as they dive into the wild world of sex outdoors. From secluded woodland romps and cheeky beach encounters to the quiet thrill of balcony play or garden quickies, they explore what makes alfresco intimacy so exhilarating—and sometimes risky.IMPORTANTTom brought his puppy to work, so you may hear a puppy whining in the background, the puppy was having separation anxiety from Tom but we have done our very best to engineer the sound out, but it was the puppy's first time in the studio.So expect laughs, puppy sounds, real talk, and practical guidance as your favourite kinky co-hosts unpack everything from the turn-ons of exhibitionism and connection to nature, to the crucial differences between public sex, outdoor sex, and indecent exposure. They break down legal grey areas in the UK and beyond, offer tips for staying safe and respectful, and share listener stories that range from steamy to awkward.Whether you’re a seasoned outdoor adventurer or just outdoor-curious, this episode will give you all the sexy, smart, and legal low-downs you need to play in nature with confidence and consent.

Every relationship goes through seasons — and when the passion cools, it’s not a sign to give up; it’s an invitation to reconnect. In this episode, Tom and Isabelle explore why the spark fades over time and share practical, sexy, and surprising ways to bring it roaring back.From the power of emotional intimacy to playful kink and rediscovering each other’s desires, they offer real talk and actionable ideas to help you turn up the heat.Whether you're craving more excitement, deeper intimacy, or just want to feel that spark again, this conversation will leave you fired up and ready to reconnect.

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle slip past the velvet rope and into the world of sex parties — where curiosity, consent, and connection are always on the guest list. Green, Red or Amber wrist band...Sir and Madam..?Whether you're a wide-eyed newbie or a seasoned swinger, this candid conversation explores what really happens behind closed doors.From house rules to hot tubs, dress codes to playroom etiquette, your favorite kinky co-hosts break down the dos, don’ts, and delightful surprises of the scene. They’ll also chat about what makes a great sex party, how to navigate nerves, and why communication and consent are the real turn-ons.So, are you curious? Come with an open mind, and let's talk about what it really means to say yes to the 'sex play' party.

Let’s talk about it — the question that lingers in bedrooms and relationships everywhere: Are we having enough sex? In this revealing episode, Tom and Isabelle get honest about desire, frequency, and the silent pressure many of us feel around how much sex we “should” be having.From long-term relationships to fresh flings, mismatched libidos to shifting seasons of intimacy, your favorite kinky co-hosts break down the myths, the stats, and the emotional truths behind sexual frequency. They explore what “enough” really means, why comparison kills joy, and how communication—not performance—is the real secret to satisfaction.Whether you're doing it daily or haven't done it in months, this episode reminds us that when it comes to sex, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—only what’s right for you.

In this sizzling episode of Talking Kinky, your favorite duo Tom and Isabelle jump headfirst into their kinky mailbag to answer your kinkiest, quirkiest, and most curious questions. From first-time fantasies to deeper looks into taboo desires, no topic is off limits. With their signature blend of insight, humour, and zero judgment, they’re here to decode, de-stigmatize, and maybe even dare you to try something new. Got a question for next time? Slide into those DMs—we're just getting started.

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom are enjoying the waves of pleasure as they wade into the wet and wonderful world of female ejaculation, also known as squirting. What is it exactly? Is it pee, is it real, and why does it matter? From the science to the sensation, the myths to the magic, your favorite co-hosts break down the mystery behind these waves of bliss with curiosity, humor, and plenty of honest conversation.Whether you've experienced it, are intrigued by it, or are just plain mystified—this episode is all about understanding the power, pleasure, and potential of female ejaculation. Grab your popcorn, take if you are driving, adjust your headphones, settle in, and let’s get soaked in knowledge.