Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

<p>It’s time for a messy <em>kiki</em> about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the <em>kiki</em> as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.</p>

MESSY BONUS: Reflecting On Breakdowns

Brandon shares a story about a previous connection, and they and Sophia discuss the gift / curse of the times we live in. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

11-03
12:37

Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush

Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-30
01:20:33

This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe

World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from?  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-23
01:11:07

MESSY BONUS: Who Puts Your Heart At Ease?

A life-long friendship is hard to find, but so special when you do. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-20
10:54

Sometimes Love Isn’t Broken, It’s Just Not Enough w/ Devere Rogers

Brandon welcomes comedian, actor and bestie Devere Rogers, who comes in hot with a messy take treading in dangerous territory: Brandy and Monica concert tickets—are we being priced out of nostalgia? The love letter to the R&B queens turns into a discussion about the way legacy, value, and accessibility intersect in pop culture. Then a listener wants to know where the line is drawn between liberation and overindulgence, and another needs advice for complimenting their filthy rich lover. Finally, Devere and Brandon make one last mess with a listener stuck in that unsettled place—a relationship that checks every box but still doesn’t feel right. More about Devere: https://www.instagram.com/itsdevererogers  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-16
01:14:16

MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like

New York versus LA d*ck.Where do you all stand on the debate?   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-13
14:05

Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi

Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby!   More about Erica: https://www.ericachidi.com/ Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-09
01:27:58

How Facing Mortality Inspires Better Art w/ Abbi Jacobson

In this delightfully messy episode of Tell Me Something Messy, Brandon and Abbi Jacobson —actor, writer, producer, and co-creator of Broad City and A League of Their Own—(yes, that Abbi) tumble into the Messy Living Room to talk about art, impermanence, and why chasing a single “masterpiece” is overrated. Abbi confesses that not every work has to be your magnum opus, and that there’s health, joy, and a little freedom in making art just for art’s sake. The two also dive into what’s new: Abbi’s latest producing projects and acts of love including Prelude, that last time she partied-partied, and that little mortality thing that keeps creeping up. They discuss how creating without pressure can be a radical act of presence and dive into your Messy Mail.  Anonymously submit a messy story or question at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10-02
01:21:30

Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer

Season Two of Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman is here. Every Tuesday, Brandon invites you into bold, hilarious, and vulnerable conversations that celebrate imperfection and honesty. From Emmy winners to everyday changemakers, guests open up about the messy truths behind identity, relationships, family, career, and self-discovery. With new video episodes and bonus minis every Monday, Season Two promises unfiltered joy, humor, and heart.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

09-26
01:21

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3

Brandon is joined by Dr. Matthew Brinkley and Dr. Emily Nagoski as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-14
01:31:13

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2

Brandon is joined by Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. Vanessa Marin as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-07
01:11:02

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 1

Brandon shares the story of an event that happened to them last September. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-07
47:04

Heauxperlatives: A Season Retrospective

Brandon takes a look back at this season's episodes for some top highlights from guests, Messy Mail, and lessons learned. Look out for Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 (with video) coming this fall! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-17
01:29:50

MESSY MOM BONUS: Friendship w/ Devere Rogers

Brandon is back with more fun and friendship that didn't make it into last week's episode! Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-14
23:25

It's About The Tone w/ Patrik-Ian Polk & Devere Rogers

Acclaimed 'Noah's Arc' creator Patrik-Ian Polk and Brandon's bestie join to talk about life-long friendship, legacy and representation. Plus, Brandon and Devere dive into Love Island and The Ultimatum before sharing their friendship origin story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-10
01:31:25

Silence Shouldn't Be Currency w/ ​Corey O’Brien

Comedian, LGBTQ+ advocate and social media creator, Corey O’Brien, joins Brandon for some truly messy discussion on everything from sucking d*ck to being called a slur during sex. They dive into Messy Mail about leaving a relationship and trusting your gut, then discuss Corey's upcoming LGBTQ+ comedy tour in Republican states.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Corey O’Brien's Red Tour: https://www.coreyobrienonline.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-03
01:16:46

MESSY MOM BONUS: Die With A Smile

Baby, y’all really lit Brandon up about that Grindr profile name and guess what? They’re back with more thoughts. In this first-ever bonus drop, Brandon is giving unsolicited but absolutely correct advice on what your Grindr name should (and should not) be. Spoiler: Die With a Smile ain’t it. But they love you anyway. Let’s get messy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-30
15:19

How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells

The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father.     See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-26
01:16:07

You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela

After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-19
01:01:27

"What You Don't See On My OnlyFans" w/ Taylor Stilson

Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That. BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but it’s just reality.  https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/los-angeles-this-feels-like-a-reality Educate: https://defendandrecruit.org/Support: Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights https://www.chirla.org/get-involved/donate-support/give-today/California Immigrant Policy Center: https://caimmigrant.org/Southern California Rapid Response Network: Los Angeles: 888-624-4752 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-12
01:29:22

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