Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

<p>It’s time for a messy <em>kiki</em> about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the <em>kiki</em> as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.</p>

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3

Brandon is joined by Dr. Matthew Brinkley and Dr. Emily Nagoski as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-14
01:31:13

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2

Brandon is joined by Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. Vanessa Marin as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-07
01:11:02

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 1

Brandon shares the story of an event that happened to them last September. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

08-07
47:04

Heauxperlatives: A Season Retrospective

Brandon takes a look back at this season's episodes for some top highlights from guests, Messy Mail, and lessons learned. Look out for Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 (with video) coming this fall! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-17
01:29:50

MESSY MOM BONUS: Friendship w/ Devere Rogers

Brandon is back with more fun and friendship that didn't make it into last week's episode! Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-14
23:25

It's About The Tone w/ Patrik-Ian Polk & Devere Rogers

Acclaimed 'Noah's Arc' creator Patrik-Ian Polk and Brandon's bestie join to talk about life-long friendship, legacy and representation. Plus, Brandon and Devere dive into Love Island and The Ultimatum before sharing their friendship origin story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-10
01:31:25

Silence Shouldn't Be Currency w/ ​Corey O’Brien

Comedian, LGBTQ+ advocate and social media creator, Corey O’Brien, joins Brandon for some truly messy discussion on everything from sucking d*ck to being called a slur during sex. They dive into Messy Mail about leaving a relationship and trusting your gut, then discuss Corey's upcoming LGBTQ+ comedy tour in Republican states.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Corey O’Brien's Red Tour: https://www.coreyobrienonline.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

07-03
01:16:46

MESSY MOM BONUS: Die With A Smile

Baby, y’all really lit Brandon up about that Grindr profile name and guess what? They’re back with more thoughts. In this first-ever bonus drop, Brandon is giving unsolicited but absolutely correct advice on what your Grindr name should (and should not) be. Spoiler: Die With a Smile ain’t it. But they love you anyway. Let’s get messy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-30
15:19

How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells

The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father.     See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-26
01:16:07

You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela

After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-19
01:01:27

"What You Don't See On My OnlyFans" w/ Taylor Stilson

Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That. BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but it’s just reality.  https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/los-angeles-this-feels-like-a-reality Educate: https://defendandrecruit.org/Support: Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights https://www.chirla.org/get-involved/donate-support/give-today/California Immigrant Policy Center: https://caimmigrant.org/Southern California Rapid Response Network: Los Angeles: 888-624-4752 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-12
01:29:22

Your Healing Is Not Dependent On Their Response w/ Lena Waithe

Famed actor and screenwriter Lena Waithe joins Brandon to talk about a sensitive subject for them both: Being brought up in households that don't support who you are. Lena has some amazing insight into what it means for parents to be curious and in community with their children. And it all stemmed from a game of This or That.  Mother Hunger: https://bookshop.org/p/books/mother-hunger-how-adult-daughters-can-understand-and-heal-from-lost-nurturance-protection-and-guidance-kelly-mcdaniel/16265503?ean=9781401960858&next=t Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: https://bookshop.org/p/books/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents-lib-e-how-to-heal-from-distant-rejecting-or-self-involved-parents-lindsay-c-gibson/16712089?ean=9781626251700&next=t Paris Is Burning: https://www.amazon.com/Paris-Burning-Dorian-Corey/dp/B0B8SXCPCJ?dplnkId=9ecd168f-6a18-498c-964d-b1f3b2ef2aaa&nodl=1 Master of None: Thanksgiving: https://www.netflix.com/title/80049714  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06-05
01:29:38

You Can Grieve Correct Decisions Too w/ Dr. Raquel Martin

Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

05-29
01:25:42

Reconfiguring What Happiness Looks Like w/ Trace Lysette

Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

05-22
01:27:19

Are You Being Loved Well? w/ Traci Thomas

Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

05-15
01:29:23

Do Vers Tops Really Exist?! w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle

Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

05-08
01:27:55

Conversations Are Like Baking Bread w/ John-Michael Bond

Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

05-01
01:30:41

Ask Messy Mom

In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

04-24
01:03:35

I'm Star Bottom w/ Willam

Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

04-17
01:09:16

Leave Feeling Joy w/ Joel Kim Booster

Actor, writer and comedian Joel Kim Booster discusses his triple name and shares a PLETHORA of messy stories. Plus, Brandon and Joel Kim Booster dig into messy mail which leads to discussion on some funny findings on monogamy.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

04-10
01:30:29

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