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Join Tania and Manpreet Singh as they dive deep into the beautiful traditions and modern realities of Sikh Punjabi weddings! What We Cover:Pre-Wedding Traditions: Understanding the Roka ceremony and its significanceThe Sacred Anand Karaj: Why couples should study the Laavan before their wedding dayWedding Ceremony Etiquette: Proper conduct according to the Rehat MaryadaPersonal Wedding Stories: Our own wedding experience and lessons learnedModern Wedding Scene: Today's grand celebrations vs. traditional valuesInterfaith Marriages: Navigating religious considerations in Sikh weddingsFamily Traditions: The importance of involving women in ceremony rolesConnect With Us! - Like this video if it helped you understand Sikh wedding traditions - Subscribe for more cultural discussions - Share your wedding experiences in the comments

In this episode, Manpreet Singh and Tania Kaur dive deep into one of the most misunderstood topics in our community - the crucial differences between Sikh culture and Punjabi culture.Breaking Down Misconceptions - Why these two cultures are often confused but are fundamentally differentThe Non-Conformist Spirit - How Sikh culture encourages challenging the status quo vs. Punjabi culture's emphasis on community approvalGender Equality Issues- Examining male dominance in Gurdwaras and how it contradicts Sikh principlesFood & Spirituality - The truth about Sikh dietary practices and why vegetarianism isn't a requirementPolitical Engagement- Why being politically active is a Sikh duty, not something to avoidRaising Fearless Kids - How to instill authentic Sikh values in the next generationKey Takeaways:✅ Sikh culture is universal and open to all, regardless of background✅ True Sikhi encourages questioning authority and standing up for what's right✅ Cultural practices have often overshadowed authentic Sikh principles✅ Understanding the difference helps preserve the revolutionary spirit of SikhiHot Takes Alert! 🔥We discuss some controversial topics including:- Women's roles in Gurdwara leadership- The alcohol vs. vegetarianism confusion- How Punjabi ego has influenced Sikh institutions- Why being "nice" isn't always the Sikh way Join the Conversation:Do you agree with our perspective? Have you noticed these cultural conflicts in your own community?

Join us for an honest conversation about parenting two young girls (ages 3 and 6) in a Punjabi household, navigating the beautiful chaos of multicultural family life!What We Cover:Daily Life & Discipline - Real talk about handling conflicts without punishment-based methodsScreen Time Reality - Why one-size-fits-all limits don't work for every familyCharacter Over Grades - Prioritizing social skills, kindness, and emotional intelligenceCultural Identity - Blending American and Sikh traditions while preserving heritageLife Skills - Teaching money values, charity beyond Gurudwara, and age-appropriate responsibilitiesOur Philosophy: We believe in raising good humans first - respectful, emotionally intelligent kids who embrace both their American and Sikh identities. We focus on communication skills over perfect grades, work with natural inclinations, and trust the parenting process.Whether you're navigating multicultural parenting, academic pressures, or looking for authentic conversations about raising confident, kind kids - this offers real insights from parents in the trenches!

Join us on this vulnerable and heartwarming episode as we take a trip down memory lane, sharing the romantic Punjabi poetry and Rumi lines we exchanged while dating! From Facebook comments to text messages, we're revealing the poetic courtship that started our love story.What You'll Hear:The famous Waris Shah line that caught her attention on FacebookHow Punjabi poetry became our unique way of expressing loveThe power of Rumi's Sufi poetry in modern romanceClassic Punjabi songs and their romantic meaningsWhy poetic courtship stands out in today's dating world"Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along." - RumiWhether you're looking for romantic inspiration, want to learn about Punjabi culture, or just love hearing real love stories, this episode is for you! We get vulnerable, share some laughs, and hopefully inspire others to embrace the beauty of poetic expression in relationships.

In this episode, we dive deep into the often challenging topic of finances in relationships, especially within the Punjabi community. We share our personal journey of managing money as a couple, discussing everything from combining accounts to setting financial goals together.- The importance of financial conversations before marriage- Why we believe in combining finances as a married couple- Cultural perspectives on money management in Punjabi families- The balance between saving, investing, and enjoying your money- The declining culture of charitable giving in the community- Different approaches to defining success beyond material possessionsShare your thoughts in the comments: How do you and your partner handle finances? What money conversations do you wish you'd had before getting married?#punjabi

In this episode, we finally share the complete story of how we met, fell in love, and navigated the challenges of bringing our traditional Punjabi families together. From our first awkward introduction at a birthday party (that neither of us wanted to attend!) to Facebook friend requests, late-night messages, and the memorable "enamored" text that started it all.Listen as we discuss:- The unexpected party where we first met but barely spoke- How our Facebook conversations turned into something deeper- The cultural challenges we faced with traditional Punjabi families- That one moment when we briefly broke up (and got back together a day later!)- Meeting each other's families for the first time (awkward questions included!)- How our shared Sikh values helped bring our families togetherThis isn't your typical "love at first sight" story - it's a real journey about finding courage, respecting family traditions, and recognizing when something is meant to be. A reminder that true love doesn't always follow the Hollywood script, but sometimes creates an even more beautiful story.

In this heartfelt conversation, we open up about our 13-year marriage journey, sharing how we met at a birthday party in 2010, our year of getting to know each other before our "Roka" (pre-engagement), and the beautiful reality of building a life together.We discuss:- The expectations we had going into marriage and how reality compared- Why the "50/50" marriage advice is flawed (and what works instead)- The dangers of keeping score in relationships- How we've adapted to each other's different personalities- Our secret to having minimal arguments in 13 years- Why public disagreements damage relationshipsWhether you're newly married, considering marriage, or have been together for decades, this conversation offers honest insights about maintaining that "honeymoon phase" long after the actual honeymoon ends.

Join us as we dive into the world of Punjabi culture with our latest podcast episode! We answer questions from ChatGPT about what makes us Punjabi, our biggest cultural clashes, and how we balance tradition with modern life. From our favorite Punjabi songs and artists to our go-to comfort foods and how we handle nosy aunties, we dish out the laughs and the real talk. Whether you're marrying into a Punjabi family or just curious about the culture, we've got you covered.Tune in for laughs, cultural insights, and a celebration of all things Punjabi! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share!

We discuss the challenges facing Gurdwaras today and why younger generations are increasingly disconnected from these important Sikh community centers. We share nostalgic memories of attending Gurdwaras as children, from running through the halls to participating in family events, and explore how the experience changes as we grow older.The discussion tackles controversial topics including:What makes a Gurdwara meaningful beyond just attendanceThe disconnect between traditional practices and modern relevanceWhy youth participation is declining and what might bring them backOur vision for what Gurdwaras could become: true community centers with libraries, gyms, medical facilities, and moreWe also examine the tension between maintaining traditions and creating spaces that truly engage today's Sikh community. Join us for this honest conversation about preserving the spirit of Sikhi while adapting to contemporary needs.#punjabi

Join hosts Tania and Manpreet Singh as they share their candid experiences and insights about living with in-laws after getting married. In this heartfelt conversation, they discuss the challenges and rewards of joint family living from both the bride and groom's perspectives.They explore the delicate balance of adjusting to new family dynamics, communication challenges in Punjabi households, and navigating different expectations around household routines, personal space, and family traditions. From awkward movie-watching moments to kitchen dynamics and decorating dilemmas, they share how they managed these adjustments with patience and understanding.#punjabi

Join us as we reminisce about our experiences growing up as children of Punjabi immigrants in America. From our families' journeys arriving in the 1980s to building communities in Richmond Hill, Queens, we share the unique perspective of being raised between two cultures.In this episode, we discuss:The central role of the Gurdwara in creating community bondsFamily traditions and weekend routines that shaped our childhoodsThe excitement of American fast food as special treatsOur parents' incredible work ethic and sacrificeThe cultural emphasis on education and comparisons with other childrenHilarious household rules about electricity, water usage, and ACHow we view parenting differently with our own children todayWhether you're from an immigrant family or interested in multicultural perspectives, this episode offers authentic insights into the Punjabi-American experience.

Join Manpreet and Tania as they dive into the complexities of the modern Panjabi dating scene!In this candid and hilarious podcast, we break down:- The challenges of dating within Panjabi culture- Why having unrealistic expectations is killing your love life- The impact of dating apps on real-life connections- Cultural pressures around marriage and relationships- Tips for finding genuine love (hint: it's not about the perfect biodata!)Controversial takes, real experiences, and laugh-out-loud moments guaranteed!Relationship advice from two people who've been there, done that, and found love.Drop a comment below: What's YOUR experience with dating in the Panjabi community? We want to hear your stories!

Join us for a candid conversation about the cultural obsession with having a son (Munda) in Panjabi families. We explore the double standards that come with it, from the pressure to have a boy to the differing expectations for boys and girls growing up. Manpreet and Tania share their personal experiences and observations, discussing how these cultural norms affect relationships, marriage, and family dynamics.

Join us for our first podcast episode as a Panjabi couple living in America! We discuss our experiences growing up in different cultural backgrounds within the Panjabi community, exploring topics like:Cultural differences between City and Pindu communitiesLanguage and identityCommunity and and the Sikh FaithTune in for an honest and insightful conversation about our shared heritage and personal experiences. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes!