The Ace Couple

Asexual married couple Courtney and Royce talk about all things Asexuality. By discussing queer culture and history, we’ll explore the topics of life, love, and sex through an Ace lens. Full transcripts and show notes on theacecouple.com.

Ableist Language (Part 4)

The final installment...for now.

11-12
01:01:25

Ableist Language (Part 3)

OK. Phobia story time...

11-05
01:02:12

Ableist Language (Part 2)

Royce is trying very hard to keep episodes around or under an hour, so here is episode 2 of...4? Maybe?

10-29
01:03:23

Ableist Language (Part 1)

The start of an important, yet contentious conversation. Please be nice! We put these episodes off for literal years, because historically some of you have been EXTREMELY not nice about this topic.

10-22
58:47

"The Ick"

Yet another type of romantic and/or sexual feeling that we will simply never understand...

10-15
01:00:34

Ketamine Part 2: Health insurance adding insult to injury

Ketamine can be a life-saving treatment... It can also be prohibitively expensive. And only fellow chronically ill Americans will believe the audacity of our health insurance company revealed in a series of phone calls we've had this month.

10-08
51:03

Ketamine

A life-saving drug.

10-01
51:48

Bicentennial Man and humanizing characters through sex

Analyzing a 25 year old robot movie that bombed in order to make a point about sexuality, humanity, and asexual media representation because we simultaneously love and hate it.

09-24
01:04:22

Asexual Representation on Broadway: Maybe Happy Ending

Imagine a year where the Tony award winning best play and musical were both asexual??? Maybe Happy Ending might not be as elegant or explicit as Purpose in that regard, but honestly....please just let me have this?

09-17
56:13

r/AmITheAsshole? Asexuality Edition #7

Wow somehow we haven't done an AITA yet in 2025..let's fix that!

09-10
51:40

Yet another healthcare rant...

Courtney is fighting doctors again.

09-03
01:10:40

Making fun of famous quotes about marriage, family, & home life

Reviewing and adding our Asexual commentary on quotes about Marriage, Family, & Home Life from the book Oxymoronica: paradoxical wit and wisdom from history’s greatest wordsmiths.

08-27
41:01

Asexual Representation on Broadway: Purpose Review

2025 Tony award winning play, Purpose, is a triumph of the stage which prominently features asexuality as one of its core themes.

08-20
01:50:20

Making fun of famous quotes about sex, love, and romance

Reviewing and adding our Asexual commentary on quotes about Sex, Love, and Romance from the book Oxymoronica: paradoxical wit and wisdom from history's greatest wordsmiths.

08-13
40:36

The conspiracy theorist dating app advertising "unvaxxed sperm"

Courtney went undercover on the anti-vax dating site, Unjected...

08-06
55:21

Courtney, the ordained minister

Courtney is now an ordained minister of the Church of Gnome and she is ready to officiate your Ace wedding (or other important life event)!

07-30
30:17

Weird Allo Reality Shows 4

TWO weird allo show episodes in one year?? Oh, how we spoil you! Today we talk about Pop the Balloon, Million Dollar Secret, and Sneaky Links: Dating After Dark.

07-23
01:23:32

Living with someone with EDS

July is disability pride month. We've already talked about Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome from Courtney's perspective a lot, so here's Royce's perspective as an EDS spouse.

07-16
01:01:44

The history of Cake in the Asexual community

Cake has been the most consistent symbol for Ace Pride over the last 20 years- let's explore why!

07-09
41:39

AI is a TERF

(...and also a Nazi)

07-02
01:23:21

Laura Darnell

34: the tech bro city state is laughable but the thought of a tiered membership based government is absolutely terrifying

05-29 Reply

Laura Darnell

6.44 "fertilization president" 🤢

05-29 Reply

Laura Darnell

tots heard the "god designed you for a purpose/ humans are designed to work/ lack of work I bad" fairly consistently in church growing up

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Amy3422

A bit disappointed to hear such an ambivalent response to the woman whose husband raped her.

11-02 Reply

Amy3422

I'm so glad to see meaningful chat about legal discrimination against aro & ace people. It's true that the community can over-emphasize representation to the neglect of other issues.

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