The Adoption Diaries

<p>Highs, lows and everything in between for Mr and Mrs M as they navigate their journey to start a family through adoption. </p>

27 Applying for the Adoption Order

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M describe their recent house move, and how they applied slightly earlier than expected for the Adoption Order. Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

09-01
19:30

26 Another Court Hearing...or 2!

In this (very belated) episode, Mr and Mrs M share how the updates in the court proceedings progressed and were communicated with them. Another court hearing (or two) occurred and various meetings took place. They also have some family news to share! Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

07-21
36:48

25 Still Waiting...but at least we know why now!

In this episode Mrs M gives a mini-update to explain some of the delays. Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

05-05
06:21

24 Birth Family Meeting, CLA Review and an Update

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share about their first meeting with birth family, unusually before the adoption order has been granted. They also share where they are in the legal process as well as about a CLA review that they hosted in their home. If you would like to get in touch to share your experience, ask questions or simply to say hi, email us at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

04-23
43:41

23 Matching Panel

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M describe the medical advisor meeting that took place before matching panel, as well as all the paperwork that needed to be completed. They also share what happened on the day of matching panel itself, how they felt, and the outcome. We love to hear from our listeners. Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

04-23
42:22

22 First Birthday, First Christmas and Contact Ends

In this episode Mr and Mrs M share how Baby M's first birthday went, what they did to celebrate and things they needed to take into consideration. They then move on to share about how Christmas was very different from previous years, and things to consider if you are new adopters during the festive season. Lastly, they discuss the ending of contact between Baby M and his birth family, and what the plans are going forward for both direct and indirect contact. Please get in...

01-14
43:49

21 The Final Court Hearing

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share about their meeting with the court appointed guardian for Baby M. They also share how they have been getting on during the week of the final court hearing, and the final outcome. Get in touch with us at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

12-17
35:05

20 Interim Court Hearing, Adoption Toddler Group, Cocooning and Meeting the Family

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share about a recent court hearing for Baby M's case. Due to the court hearing falling on a Tuesday, there was no contact that day which meant that Mrs M and Baby M attended our Local Authority's 'Adoption Toddler Group'. Mr and Mrs M also share about how they found cocooning, what it is, why do it and how it worked out for them. Plus, the lovely post-cocooning joy of introducing Baby M to family. Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail....

11-25
35:31

19 Settling In, Contact, Back to Work and Mental Load

In this episode, Mr & Mrs M share how it has been to settle into life as a family of 3. This includes: Contact arrangements with birth parents and the intricacies that come with that. Mr M goes back to workAppointments, meetings and admin for EP carers Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

11-12
49:45

18 The Judge's Decision

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share the next part of their adoption journey, including the outcome of the court hearing. Did Baby M arrive home? Listen in and find out! We love hearing from you. Please get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

10-21
43:54

17 A Quick Update

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share the outcome of the viability assessment and how they have felt over the past month of waiting. Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com Leave us a nice review to spread the word!

10-07
15:01

16 An Update On Our Link & Life Story Training

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M give the listeners an update on the progress of their adoption journey. Plus they share about a training morning that Mrs M went on about 'Life Story Work'. Get in touch with us at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com Thanks for listening!

09-30
31:20

15 We've Been Linked!

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M discuss a meeting they had the day after their approval panel when their link with a child became official. They also explain what they have been doing to prepare themselves for the imminent arrival of this little child. And there's a plot twist... Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

09-16
26:25

14 Approval Panel

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share their experience of Approval Panel: how they prepared, who was there, what they asked and how it felt. They also reveal the outcome! Get in touch with us at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

09-02
30:51

13 Bonus Breaking News Episode

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M share about an exciting phone call with their social worker, and the very rapid sequence of meetings they will be having after their approval panel. Please do get in touch with us at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

08-15
21:53

12 Review Of Stage 2, Top Tips & An Exciting Update!

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M reflect back over Stage 2 of the adoption process and discuss what they would recommend for other prospective adopters and their supporters. You'll also get to hear some exciting news! Get in touch at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

08-12
33:53

11 Matching, Another Network Event & Family Finding Begins!

In this episode of 'The Adoption Diaries', Mr and Mrs M share their experience of the infamous and very long 'Matching Meeting', the last of their home visits with their social worker. They also share about a Network Event, a sibling pair that stole their hearts, and the beginning stages of their Family Finding process. Books (both available on Kindle) mentioned are: Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders: Parenting a child with an invisible disability - Mary Mather, Julia Brow...

07-29
45:01

10 Home Visits 4-7, Self Care Plan & Early Permanence Workbook

In this episode of the Adoption Diaries, the M's are back from their holiday, and they have finished their Home Visits! They take the listeners on a deep dive into the content of the following visits: Visit 4: Lifestyle, Health and Self-Care (including the Self-Care Plan) Visit 5: Neighbourhood, Community & FinancesVisit 6: Journey/Motivation to Adopt & Early Permanence (including the Early Permanence Workbook) Visit 7: Contact In this episode, Mr and Mrs M...

07-15
46:34

09 APT 3 & 4 and the Sibling Saga

In this week's episode, Mr and Mrs M share their thoughts on APT 3 & 4 (their final 2 full days of training before the "on-the-job" type). They also discuss their uncertainties around whether to adopt one, or two children. This video was mentioned in the podcast, and is highly recommended: PAC UK "The Missing Piece": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIekzgTRpI8 Please get in touch with us to share your adoption story, questions and comments at adoptiondiairiespod...

07-01
35:38

08 Stage 2 Begins! Home Visits 1-3

In this episode, Mr and Mrs M discuss how they felt and what happened when they first met their Stage 2 social worker. They discuss their first 3 home assessment visits which were: Visit 1: Initial Home VisitVisit 2: Relationships, Support Network & IdentityVisit 3: One-To-One MeetingsAlso, they share the date of their Approval Panel...so get excited!! Get in touch with Mr & Mrs M to share your comments, questions or stories at adoptiondiariespodcast@gmail.com

06-17
29:48

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