Claim Ownership
The Angry Therapist Podcast
The Angry Therapist PodcastSubscribed: 4,177Played: 307,030
Subscribe
© 2024
Description
John Kim is The Angry Therapist, delivering self-help and therapy in a shot glass - street level 3 x week roughly ten minutes an episode. With one longer interview or conversation on Mondays.
820 Episodes
Reverse
Today, John shares his reflections on moving to Costa Rica with his family. He discusses the challenges and joys of adapting to a new environment, travels and lessons learned, and the importance of community, and the value of embracing new experiences and the beauty of simplicity.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John dives into the complexities of parental influence on adult relationships, particularly focusing on 'mommy issues' in men. He reflects on his own experiences with his parents, discussing how the emotional dynamics with his mother and father shaped his understanding of love, connection, attachment, and more.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John and Lair discuss the implications of vulnerability for men, the experience of living in Costa Rica, and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity and shame. They talk about how men often struggle with expressing their emotions and the societal pressures that contribute to this, and emphasize the need for compassion towards oneself and others to foster deeper connections.
Find out more about Lair HERE
Follow Lair on Instagram HERE
Buy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HERE
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John explores the allure of chaotic relationships, the transition to stability, and the need for growth in love. He also discusses the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our past experiences, how they shape our romantic lives, and more.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John reflects on the illusion of permanence in life, the necessity of letting go, and the invitation to love and live bravely. He emphasizes the urgency of embracing change, pursuing authenticity, recognizing the fleeting nature of time and to act on their desires without delay, and more.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John explores the often misunderstood aspects of relationships and intimacy, emphasizing that while the initial spark is exciting, true intimacy develops over time through curiosity, emotional closeness, and embracing discomfort. He challenges listeners to cultivate a 'slow burn' in their relationships, focusing on continuous exploration and connection rather than chasing fleeting highs.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John explores procrastination beyond its traditional association with laziness. He examines how it can serve as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth, offering a fresh perspective on how to integrate it productively into our lives.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John speaks with Adi Jaffe, PhD, to discuss his new book, Unhooked, complexities of addiction, and the necessity of building resilience in relationships. They emphasize how shifting one's perception can lead to a more positive outlook on life, the importance of embracing challenges as transformative experiences, the often-overlooked concept of success addiction, and much more.
Find out more about Dr. Adi Jaffe HERE
Read Dr. Adi Jaffe's new book, Unhooked, HERE
Find freedom from addiction with IGNTD HERE
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John explores the complex relationship between creativity and suffering, the impact of addiction on creativity, the influence of generational patterns, and the importance of healing. He also emphasizes that creativity can thrive in a state of aliveness rather than chaos, advocating for a shift from crisis-driven creation to one rooted in curiosity.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John Kim talks about grief, community support, and the emotional challenges that come with big life transitions. He reflects on the importance of grounding oneself in everyday activities and how technology alters our perception of reality.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John discusses how trying to suppress thoughts can often lead to their resurgence and offers practical strategies for managing intrusive thoughts. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging thoughts without judgment and provides actionable steps to help listeners navigate their inner thoughts more effectively.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John explores the connection between love and the nervous system through the lens of Polyvagal Theory. He discusses how understanding the four states of the nervous system—ventral vagal, sympathetic, dorsal vagal, and play—can enhance emotional connection and emphasizes the importance of co-regulation, self-care, and creative actions to foster a deeper bond with partners.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John shares his personal journey following the devastating loss of his home in a fire. He discusses the challenges of life after loss, finding temporary housing, and new life directions. He reflects on the importance of authenticity in rebuilding one's life and the necessity of processing your emotions.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John hares the three key principles that have significantly impacted his life: seek nectar, love hard, and resist nothing. He emphasizes that joy is something we must actively produce in our daily lives, love is a powerful force that should be extended beyond ourselves, and resistance often indicates the areas where we need to grow.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John shares his insights on what to look for in a partner, emphasizing the importance of 'ability' in building a meaningful relationship. He discusses the significance of creating a safe space for differences, building trust, the necessity of evolving together through life's challenges, and more.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John and Lair explore the evolving concept of masculinity, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, emotional processing, and the need for male friendships. They also discuss the challenges men face in expressing emotions and the societal pressures that often lead to unhealthy competition, isolation, and more.
Find out more about Lair HERE
Follow Lair on Instagram HERE
Buy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HERE
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John shares his personal experience of losing his home to a devastating fire. He reflects on the significance of home, not just as a physical space, but as a representation of his journey and the memories created within its walls. He also expresses deep gratitude for the support he received from friends and strangers alike, highlighting the strength of human connection in the face of adversity.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John talks about how daily life things (such as traffic or getting a tooth pulled) can set you down a negative thought spiral. He discusses the importance of gratitude, the power of intentional thinking in everyday challenges, and how to reframing negative thoughts.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John talks with Yue and Julie, hosts of the podcast 'Datable' and authors of the book 'How to Be Datable,’ about the complexities of modern dating, how cultural differences come into play, and the evolution of relationships in the digital age. They also dive into evolving definitions of love, the challenges of healthy relationships, share practical advice for becoming more dateable, and much more.
Learn more about Yue and Julie and their new book How to Be Datable HERE
Listen to their podcast Dateable HERE or anywhere you get your podcasts.
Follow Yue and Julie on Instagram @dateablepodcast and dateablepodcast.com
You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, John answers a listener's question: what should I be doing if I'm going through a break up I can't get over? He discusses the significance of looking inward, building a life beyond relationships, the value of social connections, and more.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE
Follow John on Instagram HERE
Find out more about John HERE
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Top Podcasts
The Best New Comedy Podcast Right Now – June 2024The Best News Podcast Right Now – June 2024The Best New Business Podcast Right Now – June 2024The Best New Sports Podcast Right Now – June 2024The Best New True Crime Podcast Right Now – June 2024The Best New Joe Rogan Experience Podcast Right Now – June 20The Best New Dan Bongino Show Podcast Right Now – June 20The Best New Mark Levin Podcast – June 2024
Download from Google Play
Download from App Store
United States
The wife was cringe to me and the husband passive asl
Not sure what my opinions on his wife are. I don’t trust her haha.
First half horrible advice
First 6 minutes is pure garbage you'll finally got on topic after
I've been a psychologist for over 15 years and I find John Kim incredibly helpful, both personally and professionally. This episode is totally on point. Couldn't have said it better myself. 😎
My second daughter is 11 weeks right now as I'm listening to this. Her sweet sounds are warming my heart. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and appreciation. Congrats to you and Vanessa! I look forward to more posts relating to sweet Logan. My girls are also half Asian!
What sleep program did you use??? Desperate have an 18 month old we've tried programs so far! Or if you can let me know what you did! thank you in advance!!
“Stop digesting content and start putting it to practice”. Was you speaking directly to me in that one?
I think you have explained the difference between self-care and self-comfort when your describing your vision board. Thanks for the insight on how to get started.
"ohn Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler." your name got messed up in the description
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Putting thoughts into words is definitely the most difficult thing to do. And you make it sound so easy. Thank you 🙂
I'm 42. I decided not to have kids but in saying that I'm a late developer and only finishing my hons degree this year. best of luck . stay curious about your fucking feelings 👍
This is gold. thank you.