Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction ____________________________________________________ In the movie Scarface, Al Pacino’s character famously lays out a ‘blueprint for getting women’: first you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the woman. It’s a paradigm that many men buy into. And to a degree, it’s true. However, if you’re here, then you’re probably not interested in the kind of relationship that you need money or power to attain. You’re seeking abundance, y...
Episode 8 – Perspective and Choosing Curiosity ____________________________________________________ Any true seeker—and if you're reading this, then you probably are one—will go through life in a series of phases. Jordan is currently embarking on a new chapter himself. In today’s episode, he shares how he actually lost sight of the original intentions for his big life change and found himself caught up in the weeds of planning and logistics. Zan's response is nothing short of transformativ...
Episode 7 – Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth ____________________________________________________ Many men come to Ars Amorata to overcome a lingering feeling of deficiency in their life force. They want to meet women, but when they go out, they hit a wall. Or, they engage with a woman, but as things get physical, they somehow lose her. In today’s episode, Zan gives us a rare look inside his mind when he’s out in the world. What makes his energy grow as the night wears on, rather t...
Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols ____________________________________________________ Many of you have been asking… so here it is: Today, Jordan helps us discover the pearl of great price: exactly what Zan does to keep himself youthful, vibrant and energized–not just in body, but in spirit! It is well-known that Zan keeps himself up-to-date with technology, and his dedication to health is an extension of his curiosity. From his weekly workout routine to his strictly adhered-to diet,...
Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship ____________________________________________________ Last week, Zan and Jordan discussed how a relationship can be a powerful vehicle for growth, and looked at some of the ways that we might draw inspiration from tradition and the sacred to create relationships that ground us in what matters most. In today’s conversation, Zan and Jordan look at the nuances of ‘evolutionary relationships’, and explore what we can do practica...
Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’ _____________________________________________ A viewer asked for our thoughts on relationships and the ‘evolution of consciousness’. I have never heard Zan mention these words, so I was curious to get his take. On my side of things, an ‘evolutionary relationship’ – a way of framing intimacy with my woman as a place where we challenge each other and grow – has long been a core value of mine. No-one will ever see you as your woman...
Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past) ____________________________________________________ At some point, every man on this journey has to ask himself: do I truly like women? Even the most ardent lover has a place in his heart where he’s been wounded and thus closes off. And if, on the whole, you don’t really like women all that much, it will be hard for your relationships to have much positive feeling. “So how do I grow empathy for women,” asked one of ...
Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation (Or, how to always know what your lover will do next) ____________________________________________________ Many of our listeners have asked over the years, how do I see another person more deeply? How can I understand how a particular dating or social dynamic is going to unfold? These are good questions—but most people ask themselves the wrong ones. Their curiosity is laced with agenda: how can I swing this in...
Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave ____________________________________________________ You heard that right... Friend Zone Pro Just like the iPhone Pro: a bigger, more complex, and more expensive form of friend-zone, with extra applications to keep you locked in. As we get older, the nuances of the ‘friend zone’ start changing. And we’re seeing a whole host of new, creative ways that men today are using to get some of their desires m...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Searc...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search of...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search o...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search o...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Six of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search of ...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search of...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Three of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search o...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search of ...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search of th...
A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love __________________________________________________ Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV "In Search of th...