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In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign explore what it looks like for women to decenter men in everyday life and relationships. Decentering men is not a single action but a result of prioritizing women's autonomy and needs while deconstructing patriarchal norms. This episode breaks down practical steps, mindset shifts, and the empowering outcomes of putting yourself first. But first, in Tea Time, they respond to a listener voicemail about women taking their husbands’ last names, discuss the US Border Patrol monitoring drivers and detaining pregnant women seeking reproductive health care, female MAGA influencers facing backlash for feminist stances, and a woman proposing to her boyfriend of 14 years. Later, in Mailbag, they answer a listener question about whether women need to be the ones approaching men romantically.   🎧 This episode examines how women can prioritize themselves, navigate relationships with awareness, and embrace empowerment without guilt.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: What decentering men looks like in practice Why prioritizing women’s needs is essential for empowerment How societal expectations pressure women into traditional roles Surveillance and threats to women’s autonomy Celebrating choices in relationships without losing identity Using self-discovery and boundaries to navigate dating and partnerships   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Border Patrol monitoring US drivers and detaining those with ‘suspicious’ travel patterns https://apnews.com/article/immigration-border-patrol-surveillance-drivers-ice-trump-9f5d05469ce8c629d6fecf32d32098cd Georgia dismisses maternal mortality committee after ProPublica investigation https://www.cnn.com/2024/11/21/health/georgia-maternal-mortality-committee-propublica MAGA influencer hit with right-wing backlash over feminist comments https://www.rawstory.com/maga-influencers/ Lizzy B on centering men as its own punishment https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrkQPsHJ/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence https://a.co/d/dkAQZ9A Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:15 Listener Voicemail: Should Wives Take Husbands Name? 09:15 Surveillance and Privacy Concerns in Texas 19:28 Proposing To BF of 14 Years 30:14 MAGA Influencers Accused of Feminism 37:57 What Does Decentering Men Actually Look Like? 45:18 The Result of Decentering Men 55:15 Should Women Embrace Selfishness? 01:02:57 Finding Worthy Partners 01:14:00 Checklist for Decentering Men 01:26:57 Mailbag: Do Women Need To Approach Men Romantically? 01:45:31 Poll Results: Modern Witch Hunts   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign dig into the cultural lie that women can “have it all,” breaking down how this expectation was built for women to fail. From impossible workplace standards to the emotional labor of relationships, the hosts unpack how patriarchal systems shape what women are told to value and why more women are redefining success on their own terms. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss far right podcaster Andrew Wilson losing control when confronted with his wife’s messy past, MTG resigning from Congress, and the latest chaos inside the Trump Administration. Later, in Tea or Trash, they react to trending social media to decide if it’s…you guessed it: Tea Or Trash!   🎧 This episode examines the myth of balance, the cost of unrealistic expectations, and why true empowerment comes from prioritizing personal wellbeing over patriarchal approval.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why the idea of women “having it all” is built on patriarchal expectations Andrew Wilson’s hypocrisy and the policing of women’s choices How political decisions impact women in female dominated fields Ongoing misogyny in politics and media How women are redefining success, autonomy, and personal safety Why rejecting patriarchal norms is necessary for real empowerment   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Far Right Podcaster Loses It After Woman Points Out His Wife Had 3 Kids With Different People https://www.complex.com/life/a/backwoodsaltar/far-right-podcaster-loses-it-heated-interview Donald Trump’s New Bill Doesn't Classify Nursing as a Professional Degree for College Students, Sparking Outrage https://people.com/nursing-is-not-a-professional-degree-under-president-donald-trumps-new-bill-11855209 What to know about why MTG is resigning https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2025/11/22/why-is-marjorie-taylor-greene-resigning/87417995007/ Trump Told a Woman, Quiet, Piggy, When She Asked Him About Epstein https://www.theatlantic.com/newsletters/2025/11/trump-comments-denigrating-women-reporters-pattern/684974/ Single Moms: Less Housework, More Leisure Than Married Moms https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201906/single-moms-less-housework-more-leisure-than-married-moms Death of young welder resonates with women in the trades across U.S. https://www.fox9.com/news/young-welder-death-amber-czech-resonates-women-trades Taylor Swift suspected stalker arrested for allegedly breaking into her New York City apartment again https://abcnews.go.com/US/taylor-swift-suspected-stalker-arrested-allegedly-breaking-york/story?id=61532972   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:11 Andrew Wilson's Crash Out and Hypocrisy 08:49 Department of Education's Classification Changes 13:17 Marjorie Taylor Greene's Resignation 18:30 Trump Calls Woman Reporter Piggy 25:49 Can Women Have It All 36:31 The Reality of Women's Work and Sacrifices 44:06 The Impact of Male Centering on Women 55:42 Men Can't Have It All Either 01:10:17 Tea or Trash 01:25:55 Poll Results: Embracing Your Villain Era   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign  sit down with special guest Therese Lee to unpack her new series, Witches, Whores, and Rebels, which explores how history repeats itself whenever powerful systems begin to break down. Again and again, women become the targets. From early witch hunts to modern political scapegoating, Therese examines how economic collapse, social panic, and patriarchal control create the same cycle throughout time. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into a new app that lets users talk to AI avatars of deceased loved ones, churches lashing out after being exposed for refusing to help starving babies, and Megyn Kelly defending behavior no one expected her to defend. Later in the Mailbag, a listener asks whether child free women secretly worry they may regret their choice.   🎧 This episode draws a clear line between today’s political climate and the centuries of misogyny and economic control that shaped it, revealing how modern attacks on women mirror the past in chilling ways.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why women are always targeted during political and economic collapse How witch hunts were rooted in economics, ownership, and control The connection between modern misogyny and historical scapegoating AI technology and the ethical concerns around digital necromancy How religious narratives still influence motherhood, family, and women’s autonomy Why more women are rejecting traditional roles and choosing independence   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: New app lets users talk to AI avatars of deceased loved ones https://www.dexerto.com/entertainment/black-mirror-becomes-reality-new-app-lets-users-talk-to-ai-avatars-of-deceased-loved-ones-3283056/ The Rise of the Single Woke (and Young, Democratic) Female https://www.aei.org/articles/the-rise-of-the-single-woke-and-young-democratic-female/ Caliban and the Witch by Silvia Federici https://www.worldofbooks.com/products/caliban-and-the-witch-book-silvia-federici-9781570270598?sku=CIN1570270597G New Study Shows Black Women Are Among The Most Educated Group In The United States https://www.essence.com/news/new-study-black-women-most-educated/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Therese Lee https://linktr.ee/theresehlee Witches, Whores and Rebels https://thereselee.com/witches-whores-rebels/ Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 02:40 Exploring AI and Digital Necromancy 08:16 Churches Angry At Being Exposed 20:38 Megyn Kelly Defends Pedophilia 28:44 Witches, Whores, and Rebels 43:50 Dehumanization and the 19th Amendment 54:41 Education and Women's Empowerment 01:01:22 The Role of Women in Dismantling Patriarchy 01:15:33 Mailbag: Child Free Regret 01:36:55 Poll Results: Escaping Religious Patriarchy   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest Amarachi, a viral “villain era” dating coach who’s redefining what it means for women to date on their own terms. Together, they unpack how embracing your so-called “villain era” isn’t about being heartless — it’s about rejecting people-pleasing, prioritizing your happiness, and refusing to apologize for your standards. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down the Democrats caving to Trump on the government shutdown, Trump getting booed mercilessly at an NFL game, a woman’s viral experiment calling churches to see if they’d feed a starving baby, and a New York Times opinion piece asking if women “ruined” the workplace. Finally, in This You?, they read a viral Reddit post from a woman ready to divorce her husband over a birthday gift — and you might just take her side.   🎧 This episode challenges outdated dating dynamics and reminds women that setting boundaries, demanding effort, and embracing your so-called “villain era” is actually the key to self-respect and emotional freedom.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The “villain era” mindset and what it really means Why women should stop apologizing for having standards How to spot and reject one-sided relationships The truth about effort, reciprocity, and emotional labor Detachment as a tool for empowerment and healing Why setting boundaries is the ultimate act of self-love   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Democrats rage after 8 cross the aisle and join Republicans in vote to end shutdown: ‘Senseless surrender’ https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/us-politics/democrats-chaos-senate-deal-shutdown-schumer-house-b2861865.html Trump Boo’d At Commanders Game https://www.reddit.com/r/sports/s/8mDpqHBP5J Woman Calls Churches To See If They’ll Feed Starving Baby https://www.newsweek.com/nikalie-monroe-church-call-experiment-starving-child-poverty-snap-benefits-11022815 New York Times Article – Did Women Ruin The Workplace? https://archive.is/UqFuP AITAH for divorcing over my birthday gift? https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1ot1zeh/aitah_for_divorcing_over_my_birthday_gift/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Amarachi! https://www.tiktok.com/@amarareyal Check Out Lisa’s Blog On This Episode! https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line — your message might be featured in a future episode!   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment — a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:40 Dems Cave To Trump 09:10 Crown or Clown: Trump at the NFL Game 15:27 Will Churches Feed Starving Babies? 26:02 Did Women Ruin The Workplace? 32:24 Welcome Amarachi! 35:01 The Villain Era: Empowering Women 42:56 The Dangers of Settling in Relationships 51:04 The Importance of Discernment 01:01:47 The Illusion of Male Friendships 01:16:20 The Villain Era: Empowerment or Manipulation? 01:27:57 This You? Divorce Over B Day Gift 01:50:15 Poll Results: What Happened To The “Girl’s Girl?”   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack how religion has long been used to control women, and how deconstructing those beliefs can lead to empowerment and freedom. They dive into how patriarchal interpretations of faith shape women’s roles, self worth, and choices, and what it takes to spiritually and emotionally reclaim your voice. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the world’s first AI government minister, Mariah Carey’s controversial new Christmas ad, the viral Erika Kirk and JD Vance controversy, and Vogue’s piece asking if having a boyfriend is embarrassing in 2025. Finally, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener seeking strategies to safely reject men without backlash or danger.   🎧 This episode explores how women can challenge patriarchal systems within religion, break free from spiritual guilt, and find empowerment through critical thinking and self-trust.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: How religion reinforces the patriarchal The hidden ways women internalize religious control The Adam and Eve story and its cultural impact on women Deconstructing faith and redefining spirituality for yourself Strategies for rejecting men safely and confidently How curiosity and critical thinking lead to freedom   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: World’s First AI Minister is “Pregnant” With 83 Offspring Government Announces https://futurism.com/artificial-intelligence/rama-diella-albania-pregnant   Mariah Carey's New Ad Isn't Spreading Christmas Cheer For Folks Online https://www.thelist.com/2016096/mariah-carey-christmas-sephora-ad-backlash/   The General Strike 2025 https://generalstrikeus.com   Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now   Erika Kirk’s Comment About JD Vance and Her Late Husband Charlie Kirk Breaks the Internet https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/erika-kirk-jd-vance-her-030446893.html   Final Judgment Issued in Justin Baldoni’s Countersuit Against Blake Lively https://www.eonline.com/news/1424538/justin-baldoni-misses-deadline-to-appeal-blake-lively-countersuit-dismissal   Portland faith leaders speak out in solidarity against ICE, National Guard deployment https://www.kptv.com/2025/09/30/portland-faith-leaders-speak-out-solidarity-against-ice-national-guard-deployment/   Going to church could help you live longer, study says https://edition.cnn.com/2016/05/16/health/religion-lifespan-health   Praying Allows People to Believe They Are Doing Something Useful https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-brain-food/202206/praying-allows-people-believe-they-are-doing-something-useful   This Christian Minister Doesn’t Believe in God — And She’s Not the Only One https://www.vice.com/en/article/this-christian-minister-doesnt-believe-in-god-and-shes-not-the-only-one/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Witches, Whores, and Rebels by Therese Lee https://thereselee.com/witches-whores-rebels/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line — your message might be featured in a future episode!   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment — a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:40 Albania Has AI Government 09:47 Mariah Carey’s Controversial Ad 15:42 The Vogue Article: Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing? 31:59 Religion and the Patriarchy 52:03 Creation Narratives and Gender Equality 59:20 The Consequences of Knowledge and Curiosity 01:13:13 Religion as a Tool for Control 01:22:13 Deconstructing Religious Narratives and Patriarchy 01:27:23 Mailbag: Navigating Rejection Safely 01:43:33 Poll Results: Beware The Emotional Vampire!   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the cultural shift around the term “girl’s girl”. Once a symbol of loyalty and sisterhood, now sometimes used as an insult. They explore what happened to “girl code,” how patriarchy and social media pit women against each other, and what real female solidarity looks like in 2025. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the viral TikTok “EBT Lady” on SNAP benefits expiring, the backlash to Megan Thee Stallion’s new single “Lover Girl,” and Jameela Jamil’s viral claim that studios are “dumbing down” TV shows for distracted scrollers. Later, they play a Patreon-voted round of “Therapy or the Void?” featuring the characters of Friends.   🎧 This episode asks the question: Have women stopped having each other’s backs or are we just redefining what it means to be a girl’s girl?   🎙️ Topics Discussed: How “girl’s girl” went from compliment to insult The online policing of women and performative feminism Megan Thee Stallion as a modern “girl’s girl” icon How patriarchy thrives by dividing women The importance of solidarity over competition Why confidence and self-love are the ultimate rebellion   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: SNAP Runs Out of Money Nov. 1 — Here’s What That Means https://www.npr.org/2025/10/28/g-s1-95189/snap-food-stamps-government-shutdown-november Megan Thee Stallion Calls Out Her Haters as “Bots” https://www.rap-up.com/article/megan-thee-stallion-paid-online-hate-campaign Jameela Jamil on TV Shows Being “Dumbed Down” https://youtube.com/shorts/Lh09JO0MoME?si=dc4MHqsZKeYxTjhZ   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Watch Weapons https://www.imdb.com/title/tt26581740/ Check out Therese Lee’s channel! https://www.youtube.com/@theresehlee Lisa’s Blog: “What Happened To The Girls Girl?” https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-142530837   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:05 The EBT Lady Controversy 13:01 Megan Thee Stallion’s New Single 18:38 TV Shows for Scrollers: A New Trend? 26:32 The Evolution of the “Girl’s Girl” 31:23 Performative Feminism 42:15 Women in the Patriarchy 48:23 Policing Women: The Dangers of Judgment 59:43 Confidence and Male Validation 01:09:28 The Power of Women Supporting Women 01:16:13 Therapy Or The Void? Friends Edition 01:38:50 Poll Results: The Cool Girl Myth   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.  

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign sink their teeth into the world of emotional vampires — the people who drain your peace, your joy, and your energy. They explore how to recognize these emotional leeches, the red flags of covert narcissism and drama addiction, and how to protect your energy with healthy boundaries and self-awareness. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the new “full bush” underwear from Skims, Mackenzie Scott’s major donation to Black cultural preservation, the viral $5.5K “alpha male” bootcamp that’s more parody than power, and Mike Vrabel’s viral feminist gesture during NFL press conferences. Later, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener question about why some men deliberately retraumatize their partners in relationships. 🎧 This episode exposes the traits of emotional vampires and gives you the garlic, mirror, and wooden stake to protect your peace. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: How to recognize emotional vampires in relationships and friendships Narcissists, drama magnets, and energy drainers How emotional exhaustion affects women’s mental health The power of boundaries and emotional detachment Why centering yourself is the ultimate act of self-preservation Signs of covert manipulation and how to protect your energy ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: SKIMS Is Selling ‘Full Bush’ Underwear https://people.com/kim-kardashian-addresses-attention-around-new-skims-full-bush-faux-pubic-hair-underwear-11832419 MacKenzie Scott Triples Down on DEI With $40 Million Donation https://fortune.com/2025/10/15/billionaire-mackenzie-scott-dei-40-million-donation-african-american-cultural-heritage-fund/ $5.5K Bootcamp to Turn ‘Soft Men’ Into ‘Alpha Males’ Goes Viral https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15191027/David-Cohodes-5500-alpha-male-bootcamp.html Mike Vrabel Explains Why He Gives Female Reporters the First Question https://awfulannouncing.com/nfl/mike-vrabel-explains-first-question-press-conferences-female.html Millions Attend ‘No Kings’ Protests Across the U.S. https://time.com/7326801/no-kings-protests-near-me-trump/ 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Vampire in Brooklyn https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114825/ 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at https://www.patreon.com/audacitea ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show! 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:20 Skims “Full Bush” Underwear 11:18 Mackenzie Scott’s Philanthropy 15:00 Alpha Male Bootcamp: A Comedy of Errors 22:43 Mike Vrabel’s Microfeminism 25:57 No Kings Protest 29:54 What Are Emotional Vampires? 31:15 Types of Emotional Vampires 49:40 Setting Boundaries in Friendships 01:12:27 Recognizing and Avoiding Emotional Vampires 01:15:53 Mailbag: Men Intentionally Re-Traumatizing You?? 01:32:46 Poll Results: The Performance of Masculinity 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the “Cool Girl” archetype; the effortless, chill, low-maintenance woman who always puts men’s comfort first. They explore how this myth was built to serve patriarchy, how it pressures women to suppress their emotions and identity, and why rejecting it is a radical act of self-love. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss Ayesha Curry’s viral comments about not wanting marriage or kids, the Texas State Fair backlash over price gouging, and a man who went viral for buying a life-size Henry Cavill doll. Later, in Tea or Trash, they debate the ethics of cosmetic surgery and authenticity in the age of performative empowerment.   🎧 This episode dives into the Cool Girl archetype — how patriarchy rewards female self-erasure, how women perform to earn male approval, and why true empowerment begins with authenticity.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The origins and cultural impact of the Cool Girl archetype How patriarchy teaches women to perform for the male gaze Ayesha Curry and public discourse on marriage, motherhood, and autonomy Authenticity vs. the “low-maintenance” performance Why women’s self-worth must exist beyond male validation The intersection of feminism, beauty culture, and self-acceptance   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Ayesha Curry Says She Didn’t Want To Get Married Or Have Kids https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/stephen-curry-supports-ayesha-amid-145811878.html Viral Social Media Posts Spark Debate Over State Fair of Texas Attendance and Costs https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/state-fair/viral-posts-spark-debate-over-state-fair-of-texas-attendance-costs/287-4994d76c-ddb1-45af-9f93-61ebab6ec5e0 Man Buys Anatomically Correct Henry Cavill Doll https://www.queerty.com/man-buys-a-life-size-silicone-anatomically-correct-henry-cavill-doll-immediately-goes-viral-20251008/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: When Did You Realize That Being the “Cool Girlfriend” Was a Load of Sh*t? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/127umam/when_did_you_realize_that_being_the_cool/?share_id=y5PhlxBUsXiMss2yaLSNy&utm_content=2&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 05:46 Ayesha Curry “Didn’t Want Marriage Or Kids” 13:55 Texas State Fair: Price Gouging and Public Reactions 18:40 Man Buys Anatomically Correct Henry Cavill Doll 25:38 Understanding the “Cool Girl” 33:06 The Dynamics of Female Competition 38:36 The Performance of Being a Cool Girl 43:52 The Exhaustion of Cool Girl Expectations 49:43 Authenticity in Relationships 50:50 The Cool Girl vs. Trad Wife Dichotomy 56:30 The Consequences of Being a Cool Girl 01:06:09 Recognizing Your Worth 01:11:30 Empowerment Through Self-Love and Healing 01:14:38 Tea or Trash: Cosmetic Surgery 01:29:58 Tea or Trash: Feminism in Advertising 01:32:38 Poll Results: Surplus Men   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome back special guest The Public Offender to unpack what it really means to perform masculinity, and how this performance shapes men’s behavior, women’s safety, and the structure of society itself. Together, they explore how cultural scripts of “manhood” are reinforced by patriarchy, peer pressure, and media, and how redefining masculinity could free everyone from toxic expectations. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts cover Trump’s attempt at a military takeover of Portland, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s divorce, Janae’s viral diss track aimed at Nicki Minaj, a listener comment asking whether decentering men actually centers them, and a Tea VIP voicemail seeking advice about her son’s father. Later, in the Mailbag segment, they tackle a listener question about handling a brother-in-law’s inappropriate text messages.   🎧 This episode pulls back the curtain on the performance of masculinity — how men perform toughness for other men, the social cost of emotional repression, and how redefining manhood benefits everyone.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The cultural performance of masculinity and its social consequences Male identity, emotional repression, and societal expectations Patriarchy’s influence on relationships and gender dynamics How peer groups reinforce toxic masculine norms Feminism, empathy, and the path to redefining manhood Navigating harassment, boundaries, and accountability   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Trump Slams Federal Judge, Whom He Appointed, for Blocking National Guard Deployment in Portland https://tinyurl.com/mvw3p7vh Keith Urban’s ‘Cocaine Clause’ Set to Land Him Millions as Nicole Kidman Files for Divorce https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/keith-urban-cocaine-clause-prenup-nicole-kidman-divorce-b1250581.html Janae Releases Nicki Minaj Diss Track https://www.tiktok.com/@janae.alea/video/7557571706492161310   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: The Performance of Masculinity: Beyond Postures and Gestures https://davidnjohnson.com/men/the-performance-of-masculinity-beyond-postures-and-gestures/ Follow The Public Offender https://linktr.ee/publicoffender   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:15 Trump Attempts Portland Military Takeover 05:55 Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban Divorce 11:50 Janae Releases Nicki Minaj Diss Track 12:28 Is It Impossible To Decenter Men? 18:56 Tea VIP Voicemail: Anger Towards Men 26:07 Welcome Back, The Public Offender! 31:03 Race, Class, And Masculinity 36:14 Scripts of Manhood and Societal Expectations 41:18 Men Hate Femininity 52:21 The Influence of Male Peer Groups 01:03:05 The Patriarchy's Grip on Society 01:13:24 Cultural Differences in Women's Solidarity 01:21:56 Escaping the Patriarchy 01:33:44 Mailbag: Sexual Harassment From Brother-In-Law 01:50:00 Poll Results: Decoding 'Manspeak'   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

What happens when a society has more men than women who want to partner with them? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the concept of “surplus men” — those left out of relationships, social life, and purpose. They explore how this imbalance impacts dating, marriage, politics, and even global stability. From radicalization to authoritarianism, the hosts reveal why surplus men pose one of the most overlooked social challenges of our time. But first, in Tea Time, they cover Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes being banned from YouTube (again), a shocking mass catcalling event in Spain, Suffolk County’s “Top 10 Deadbeat Dads” list, and a listener comment on why women stay in relationships with men. Later, they break down a Reddit case study of a husband controlling his wife through finances.   🎧 This episode digs into the ripple effects of male loneliness, societal unrest, and why women’s independence is changing the dating landscape worldwide.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The global rise of “surplus men” and why it matters Male loneliness, violence, and radicalization How skewed sex ratios shape politics and stability Why marriage has historically “pacified” men Finding purpose outside relationships with women Financial control and power dynamics in modern marriages   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes Taken Off YouTube Again https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/alex-jones-nick-fuentes-youtube-ban-covid-b2833859.html Spanish Students Stage Mass Catcalling Event https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/300709146/spanish-students-stage-mass-expletiveridden-catcalling-event Top 10 Deadbeat Dads in Suffolk County https://www.yahoo.com/news/10-worst-deadbeat-dads-suffolk-234139974.html A Surplus Of Men, A Deficit Of Peace https://kar.kent.ac.uk/11430/1/surplus_men_IS_article.pdf Women Continue To Outpace Men In College Enrollment and Graduation https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaeltnietzel/2024/08/07/women-continue-to-outpace-men-in-college-enrollment-and-graduation/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Everything Is Tuberculosis by John Green https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Tuberculosis-Persistence-Deadliest-Infection/dp/0525556575 Lisa’s blog on Surplus Men: https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-140381730 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:05 Alex Jones & Nick Fuentes Banned From YouTube Again 07:40 Mass Catcalling Event in Spain 14:55 Top 10 Deadbeat Dads 18:35 Can You Decenter Men While In A Relationship? 28:15 Surplus Men: Understanding the Crisis 39:02 The Reality of Surplus Men 49:48 Political Implications of Surplus Males 58:10 Why Are There Surplus Men? 01:06:15 Evolution and Identity Crisis in Men 01:11:12 How To Not Be A Surplus Man 01:18:17 This You? Husband Withholds Finances 01:35:24 Poll Results: Why Women Lose Themselves In Relationships   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Have you ever heard a man drop some bizarre terminology when talking about women? Words that sound more like a conspiracy than a conversation? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign break down the language of the “Red Pill” and decode the toxic phrases that reveal insecurity, misogyny, and control. They unpack where this manspeak comes from, why it’s dangerous, and how women can recognize the red flags early. But first, in Tea Time, they get into Jimmy Kimmel’s cancellation controversy, Cardi B’s pregnancy announcement, and the latest rapture conspiracy making the rounds online. Later, in Mailbag, they answer a listener’s question: can men and women really be just friends if attraction is in the mix?   🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the hidden meanings in Red Pill language, reclaiming confidence in conversations with men, and raising sons who reject misogynistic scripts.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: What “Red Pill” terminology really means Misogyny hidden in everyday language How to respond to manspeak and red flag phrases Emotional intelligence as a tool for raising better sons Why women should center their own goals and independence   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Jimmy Kimmel Returns To Air https://www.npr.org/2025/09/24/nx-s1-5551277/jimmy-kimmel-live-abc-back-on-air-glen-powell-fcc-trump Cardi B Is Pregnant https://www.vogue.com/article/cardi-b-is-pregnant-stefon-diggs The Rapture Is Coming? https://www.iflscience.com/how-is-the-world-is-going-to-end-tomorrow-according-to-conspiracy-theorists-80898 A Third of Male University Students Say They Would Rape a Woman if There Were No Consequences https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Read Lisa's Blog On Decoding Manspeak https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-139748719 Reverse Red-Pill Your Sons In Advance https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMdvDXQ8/ Adolescence https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMdvDXQ8/ The Will To Change by Bell Hooks https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-will-to-change-bell-hooks/1100306349   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 02:44 Jimmy Kimmel and Cancel Culture 08:17 Cardi B’s New Album and Personal Life 13:12 Rapture Tok and Religious Psychosis 22:42 Intro To Red Pill Terminology 31:07 Debunking Misconceptions About Masculinity 38:50 Dehumanization and Misogyny in Language 50:02 Emotional Intelligence and Logic 01:12:54 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys 01:18:24 Mailbag: Can Men and Women Be Platonic Friends? 01:40:14 Poll Results: Being Hot & Having Fun   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Have you ever felt like you're losing a piece of yourself in a relationship? Like the 'you' before your partner slowly fades away? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign are diving deep into why so many women find themselves in this exact situation, exploring the subtle shifts and societal pressures that lead to a diminished sense of self when partnered. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the latest NBC poll revealing Gen Z’s gender divide on what success means, Epstein’s infamous birthday book, and the heartbreaking story of an elderly man scammed by Meta’s flirty AI chatbot. Later, the hosts debut a brand new game called Therapy or the Void, putting characters of Sex and the City to the ultimate test.   🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the patterns that erase women’s individuality and finding the tools to prioritize independence, self-worth, and authenticity in relationships.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why women minimize themselves to fit societal expectations Sacrificing dreams and identity for partners Media’s role in romanticizing unhealthy relationships Gen Z’s gender divide on defining success How women can reclaim independence and self-worth   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: NBC Poll: Gender Divide Among Gen Z on Defined Success https://www.nbcnews.com/video/shorts/nbc-poll-finds-big-gender-divide-among-gen-z-247116357733 Epstein’s Birthday Book https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/see-epsteins-full-birthday-book-with-alleged-personal-messages-from-trump-clinton-and-others Meta’s Flirty AI Chatbot Invited a Retiree to New York. He Never Made It Home https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/meta-ai-chatbot-death/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Stop Waiting For Your Hypothetical Husband https://youtu.be/6CiOm04JNVc?si=J55QZuGauIuIB0Ns Untamed by Glennon Doyle https://www.amazon.com/Untamed-Glennon-Doyle-Melton/dp/1984801252 Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés https://tinyurl.com/3ncrc22k Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes https://www.mahoganybooks.com/9781476777092?searchid=0&search_query=The+year+of+yes   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome & Tea Time! 04:17 Gen Z Gender Divide on Success 11:33 Epstein’s Birthday Book 15:36 Elderly Man Dies Trying To Cheat With Chatbot 22:46 Why Women Lose Themselves in Relationships 31:10 Reframing Women's Roles and Personal Success 43:55 The Career-Driven Woman 48:00 Sacrificing for Others: The Patriarchal Script 54:49 The Impact of Gender Expectations 01:03:09 Living Life on Your Own Terms 01:10:11 Therapy Or The Void: Sex & The City 01:33:14 Poll Results: Passport Bros   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Amber Akilla! Amber is a DJ, online personality, and unapologetic advocate of living authentically. In this epsiode, Amber shares her philosophy of being hot and having fun, centering confidence, independence, and self-acceptance as tools for empowerment. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down Judge Judy’s advice that women should always have their own money, Ciara adding Russell Wilson’s last name to Future Jr, how men are currently ruining nightlife, and Druski’s viral NASCAR appearance. In Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating men’s expectations of women in public conversations.   🎧 This episode is all about embracing joy, confidence, and authenticity, and how women can decenter the male gaze to build lives filled with fun, creativity, and power.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Amber Akilla’s philosophy of being hot and having fun Why women should always keep financial independence Nightlife and how male behavior changes women’s experiences Exercise, movement, and dance as self-care beyond weight loss Decentering men and embracing authentic confidence Living authentically and learning from failure   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Ciara Adds Russell Wilson’s Last Name to Son https://www.vibe.com/news/entertainment/ciara-added-wilson-to-son-futures-last-name-years-ago-1235106568/ Men Are Ruining Nightlife! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6nkywHc/ Druski Goes Viral https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/druski-faces-backlash-whiteface-nascar-183429728.html   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: FREE EBOOK: The Shopping List Your Mother Owes You by Mide Yussuff https://dunnmade.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/the-list-your-mother-owes-you-by-mide-yussuff-1-flat-1.pdf   Beauty Fades, Dumb Is Forever: The Making of a Happy Woman by Judy Sheindlin https://a.co/d/caB4MIz   Follow Amber! @AmberAkilla everywhere   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus "Crumpets" segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:09 Judge Judy’s Advice For Women 08:34 Ciara Changes Son’s Last Name 13:42 Men Are Ruining Nightlife! 22:26 Druski’s Whiteface at NASCAR 24:47 Welcome Amber Akilla! 27:30 Amber’s Journey and Philosophy 31:04 Defining Being Hot and Having Fun 41:30 Movement and Exercise as Self-Care 52:20 The Balance of Consumption and Contribution 01:00:59 Living Authentically: Advice for Young Women 01:10:16 Decentering Men, Self-Perception and Confidence 01:17:28 Embracing Failure and the Journey 01:24:54 Mailbag: Forced Politeness In Shared Spaces 01:36:30 Poll Results: The "Manosphere" Algorithms   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen expose the dark underbelly of the “Passport Bros” movement, where Western men travel abroad seeking relationships with women in countries that often have less gender equality and opportunity. From exploitation disguised as romance to the illusions of “traditional” femininity, the hosts unpack how patriarchy and colonial fantasies intersect in this disturbing trend. But first, in Tea Time, they celebrate Gwen turning 30, react to a Seaworld mime trolling husbands who won’t carry their wives’ bags, and debate a viral claim that women fought to go 50-50 in relationships. In Feminist Herstory, they spotlight Giulia Tofana, one of history’s most infamous poisoners, and what her story reveals about women’s fight for autonomy in oppressive systems.   🎧 This episode calls out how men flee accountability at home only to recreate cycles of exploitation abroad — and why feminism’s fight against gender inequality is global.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why “Passport Bros” exploit global power imbalances The link between sex tourism and gender inequality How men project insecurities and seek control in relationships Why financial independence is crucial for women everywhere Feminist Herstory: Giulia Tofana and resistance against patriarchy   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Mime At Seaworld Keeps Shaming Husbands To Carry Their Baby’s and Backpacks Instead Of Their Wives https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNX9pHpgiGD/ Deadly trend of ‘Passport Bros’ lured by honeytraps and murdered for cash https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/30671055/deadly-passport-bros-traps-murdered-cash-drug-kill-men/ Đổi Mới https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Đổi_Mới ‘The White Lotus’ Is Reigniting The Conversation Around ‘Passport Bros’ https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a64387699/what-is-a-passport-bro/ Mail Order Brides https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mail-order_bride Cyntoia Brown Released After 15 Years In Prison For Murder https://www.npr.org/2019/08/07/749025458/cyntoia-brown-released-after-15-years-in-prison-for-murder Giulia Tofana https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Giulia_Tofana   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Dr. Potter - Stand with a Surgeon Facing Retaliation https://www.gofundme.com/f/stand-with-a-surgeon-facing-retaliation The Passport Bros Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/thepassportbros/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus "Crumpets" segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 05:15 Gwen Turns 30! 14:04 Mime Trolls Dads at Seaworld 19:02 Should Feminists Go 50-50? 29:22 Passport Bros 43:04 Anything But Personal Responsibility 52:12 The Mail Order Bride Phenomenon 56:15 The Dark Side of Passport Bros 01:12:18 Feminist Herstory: Giulia Tofana 01:30:49 Poll Results: The Motherhood Trap   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign pull back the curtain on the “Manosphere”, the digital rabbit hole pulling young men into misogyny through algorithm driven feeds. From TikTok trends to YouTube pipelines, they explore how social media is shaping worldviews and fueling a growing crisis in how boys and men see women, relationships, and themselves. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss viral clips about women in male dominated fields, Offset blaming his failed marriage on Cardi B not cooking, and Kevin Hart’s ill fated race against an ex NFL player that landed him in a wheelchair. In the Mailbag, they respond to a therapist telling her client that patriarchy “doesn’t exist anymore.”   🎧 This episode unpacks the algorithmic mechanics of radicalization, the rise of online misogyny, and what it means for the next generation.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: How social media algorithms funnel boys toward misogynistic content The manosphere’s impact on relationships and gender expectations The role of resilience and socialization in women’s survival strategies Radicalization of young men online versus women’s experiences of propaganda Why feminism is still seen as a threat, and how to respond to denial of patriarchy The importance of women maintaining financial and personal agency   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Women In Men’s Fields by MichellesPublicDiary https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6qtafTY/ The Internet Is Absolutely Roasting Offset For Blaming His Failed Marriage On Cardi B Not Cooking https://www.buzzfeed.com/mychalthompson/offset-cardi-b-not-cooking-lyrics-backlash Kevin Hart challenged an ex NFL player to a race, ended up tearing his lower abdomen and is in a wheel chair now https://www.aol.com/dumbest-man-alive-smith-dwayne-085306255.html The Dad Is Totally To Blame For The Half Marathon Mom “Ignoring” Her Kids https://www.scarymommy.com/parenting/mom-ignores-kids-marathon-tiktok Social media algorithms ‘amplifying misogynistic content’ https://www.theguardian.com/media/2024/feb/06/social-media-algorithms-amplifying-misogynistic-content Girls are developmentally equivalent to boys who are 4 to 6 weeks younger in developmental terms https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1119278/ We unleashed Facebook and Instagram’s algorithms on blank accounts. They served up sexism and misogyny https://www.theguardian.com/technology/article/2024/jul/21/we-unleashed-facebook-and-instagrams-algorithms-on-blank-accounts-they-served-up-sexism-and-misogyny How algorithms, alpha males and tradwives are winning the war for kids’ minds https://19thnews.org/2025/06/internet-culture-algorithms-alpha-males-tradwives/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: 'It stains your brain': How social media algorithms show violence to boys https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c4gdqzxypdzo   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus "Crumpets" segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 02:50 Women in Male-Dominated Fields 10:20 Offset Complains Cardi B Didn't Cook 21:31 Kevin Hart In Wheelchair After Race 32:25 The "Manosphere": Algorithmic Rabbit Holes For Young Men 38:39 The Intersection of Biology and Socialization 45:07 Ego Death and Resilience in Women 55:03 Radicalization and the Influence of Social Media 01:23:22 Mailbag Segment: Patriarchy Doesn't Exist? 01:39:12 Poll Results: The Rise Of Conservatism   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen  ask the question, "Is motherhood a choice, or is it a trap we're all expected to fall into?" For generations, society has pushed a narrative about women’s ultimate purpose. But what if that narrative isn’t just outdated, but actively harmful? This episode unpacks the uncomfortable truth about the “choice” to be a mother. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss a new Chinese pregnancy robot expected to give birth by next year, how Medicaid cuts will impact the elderly, and Trump’s military takeover of Washington D.C. To close things out, they review the film Hidden Figures and dive into what was fact, what was fiction, and what Hollywood left out.   🎧 This episode explores how cultural expectations around motherhood shape women’s choices, identities, and freedoms.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The pressure women face from family, culture, and media to become mothers The myth of the “biological clock” and baby fever Child-free women navigating stigma and judgment The propaganda of parenthood and glamorization of motherhood Eldest daughter syndrome and the hidden burdens of parentification Workplace and systemic challenges faced by mothers   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Medicaid Cuts Will Devastate Nursing Home Residents https://medicareadvocacy.org/issue-brief-medicaid-cuts-will-devastate-nursing-home-residents/ Hospital Layoffs Escalate—Impact Spreads from Support Staff to Nurses https://nurse.org/news/hospital-nurse-layoffs-us-healthcare-trends/#:~:text=Hospitals%20and%20long%2Dterm%20care,changes%20in%20federal%20reimbursement%20rates. Marriage age in the United States https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_age_in_the_United_States Who Is Legally Responsible For Elderly Parents? Filial responsibility laws https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filial_responsibility_laws Trump Takes Over Washington D.C. with National Guard https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgv1pmypdyo 20 officers came to arrest man charged with throwing sandwich at a police officer in DC https://www.cnn.com/2025/08/13/politics/man-sandwich-dc-felony-charged 'Pregnancy robot' that will give birth to live baby expected to be released next year https://www.ladbible.com/news/technology/china-artificial-womb-pregnancy-robot-702891-20250818 The Myth of the Biological Clock https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-marriage-of-equals/201906/the-myth-of-the-biological-clock The Flo period-tracking app sold user data to Meta and Google https://www.theverge.com/news/753469/meta-flo-period-tracker-lawsuit-verdict Federal Jury Convicts Former Reality Television Personality for Downloading and Possessing Child Sexual Abuse Material https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/federal-jury-convicts-former-reality-television-personality-downloading-and-possessing-child Eldest Daughter Syndrome: What It Is And 12 Signs To Look For, According To Experts https://tinyurl.com/nb9v3bj9 The Matilda Effect (Men Stealing Credit From Women’s Inventions and Accomplishments) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matilda_effect   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Kelley Daring TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@kelleydaring Regretful Parents Reddit – https://www.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/ Fence Sitter Reddit – https://www.reddit.com/r/Fencesitter/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening Bonus video segments and behind-the-scenes blogs A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 02:20 Medicare Cuts and Their Impact 08:27 DC Takeover and Political Tensions 13:47 Pregnancy Robots 23:29 Baby Propaganda 29:10 Debunking Baby Fever and Biological Clocks 31:47 Religious and Political Influences on Motherhood 34:57 The Mommy Algorithm On Social Media 43:20 The Myths of Motherhood and Personal Fulfillment 57:59 The Struggles of Regretful Parents 01:04:55 The Propaganda of Parenthood 01:14:01 Eldest Daughter Syndrome and Parentification 01:18:20 Concerns About Population and Resources 01:21:07 Film Review: Hidden Figures 01:37:15 Poll Results: Men's Mental Health Crisis?   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Nikita, also known as "Bimbo University" online. Nikita helps unpack the recent rise of conservatism and its attempts to subjugate women and roll back hard-won rights. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into Halle Berry's ex-husband's latest comments about their divorce, a new male birth control pill, and the Kids Online Safety Act. In the closing Mailbag segment, they respond to a listener asking how to spot performative "feminist" men in the dating pool.   🎧 This episode takes a hard look at how the conservative right is becoming more mainstream at the expense of women’s liberation and what women can do to stay empowered.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The rise of conservatism and its impact on women's rights Performative feminism and uneven expectations in relationships Male birth control advancements and reproductive responsibility Cultural and religious influences on gender dynamics Financial independence and empowerment for women How to identify genuine versus performative feminist allies   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Fans Defend Halle Berry After Ex Reveals He Divorced Her Because She Didn't 'Cook or Clean’ https://tinyurl.com/s6zbmamx Side-effect-free male contraceptive pill achieves milestone in its human trial https://newatlas.com/society-health/male-contraceptive-pill/ US-funded contraceptives for poor nations to be burned in France, sources say https://www.reuters.com/legal/litigation/us-funded-contraceptives-poor-nations-be-burned-france-sources-say-2025-07-24/ Kids Online Safety Act https://www.congress.gov/bill/119th-congress/senate-bill/1748/text#toc-iddab2bfcc-2bf2-4548-87dd-edd2cff4c0ec Gov. Website ‘Glitch’ Removes Trumps Least Favorite Part Of Constitution https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/trump-least-favorite-part-constitution-deleted-1235401874/ Smithsonian removes references to Trump's impeachments from 'Limits of Presidential Power' exhibit https://abcnews.go.com/US/smithsonian-removes-references-trumps-impeachments-limits-presidential-power/story?id=124271509 From 2011 - Pizza is a vegetable? Congress says yes https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/pizza-vegetable-congress-says-yes-flna1c9453097 The Christian nationalist pastor with ties to Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth https://www.cnn.com/2025/08/08/politics/video/christian-nationalist-doug-wilson-pam-brown-digvid The Current US National Debt is $36.8 Trillion https://www.justfacts.com/nationaldebt.asp#:~:text=36.8 Trump could bail out private equity companies by letting them loot your retirement plan https://www.levernews.com/your-401-k-is-billionaires-next-bailout-scheme/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Bimbo University! https://linktr.ee/nikitadumptruck   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening Bonus video segments and behind-the-scenes blogs A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 01:43 Halle Berry's Ex-Husband 08:00 Male Birth Control Pill 16:11 Children's Safety and Education 23:24 Welcome Nikita aka Bimbo University 25:33 The Rise of Conservatism: Historical Context 35:28 The Intersection of Religion and Conservatism 48:17 Economic Policies and Their Impact on Society 01:07:52 Mailbag: Spotting Performative Feminism 01:26:50 Poll Results: Pick-Me Dating Advice   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen take on the conversation around men’s mental health and how outdated expectations of masculinity contribute to loneliness, isolation, and emotional underdevelopment. They unpack how this crisis impacts women too, from the extra emotional labor placed on them to the ways male disengagement shapes modern relationships. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into the drop in U.S. birthrates, Ashanti calling out Nelly for sleeping through their baby’s cries, and a Patreon VIP voicemail exploring why women are so drawn to true crime. Then, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating a misogynistic and racist workplace.   🎧 This episode examines how conversations about men’s struggles often leave women carrying the burden, and why dismantling outdated gender scripts is essential for everyone’s well-being.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: How outdated masculinity fuels the male loneliness epidemic The emotional labor burden on women in men’s mental health conversations Pornography’s link to men’s mental health struggles The role of patriarchy in male isolation and stagnation Why emotional growth is essential for modern masculinity True crime as a survival tool for women   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Birth Rates: Most US Women Still Want Kids, but Half Aren't Sure They Can https://www.newsweek.com/usa-birth-rates-prospective-mothers-uncertainty-2087825   What is baby formula made out of anyway? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infant_formula#:~:text=Manufacturers%20state%20that%20the%20composition,are%20allergic%20to%20other%20proteins.   Ashanti calls Nelly out for sleeping through their baby's cries at night https://www.buzzfeed.com/leylamohammed/nelly-parenting-comments-ashanti-backlash   What is a Passport Bro? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passport_bro#:~:text=Passport%20bro%20is%20a%20neologism,US%20if%20they%20wanted%20one.   Why the True Crime Audience Is Predominantly Female https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wicked-deeds/202306/why-the-true-crime-audience-is-predominantly-female#:~:text=Key%20points%20*%20Many%20female%20true%20crime,may%20not%20be%20so%20terrifying%20after%20all.   When Did Patriarchy Begin? 6,000-7,000 Years Ago https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20230525-how-did-patriarchy-actually-begin#   Beef Prices Hit Record Highs in June. What’s Going On? https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/finance/why-is-beef-so-expensive#:~:text=Beef%20prices:%202014%20to%202025,per%20pound%20in%20the%20U.S.&text=Grocery%20price%20inflation%20overall%20is,should%20you%20spend%20on%20groceries   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Listener MJ Explains The Gen X Experience With Porn: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8kXM1bx/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening Bonus video segments and behind-the-scenes blogs A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 01:40 The Plummeting Birthrate 07:10 Breastfeeding Challenges 11:32 Nelly Sleeps Through Baby Screaming 16:32 True Crime and Women 26:33 Men's Mental Health: A Burden on Women 34:52 Porn's Effect On Men 46:20 Patriarchy: Historical Context 50:54 Bad Markers Of Masculinity 54:28 Generational Differences in Male Identity 57:08 The Consequences of Exploitation 01:06:50 Loneliness in Men 01:15:30 Women’s Response 01:21:13 Mailbag: Navigating A Misogynistic Workplace 01:43:18 Poll Results: Consent, Coercion, and Control   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen break down the most harmful dating advice women get from so-called “Pick-Me” mentors, and why being “chosen” should never be your goal. From Auntie wisdom at family gatherings to viral advice from online coaches, we unpack the hidden misogyny behind it all. But first, in Tea Time, we discuss Slim Thug’s fixation on Megan Thee Stallion, Uber’s mounting legal problems, the 4chan users hacking of the Tea App, and the five Canadian hockey players acquitted in a high-profile sexual assault case. Then, in Feminist Herstory, we spotlight Catherine the Great.   🎧 This episode is a deep dive into the dating “advice” designed to keep women small, compliant, and afraid of being alone - and why rejecting that fear is your first step toward freedom.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The dangerous myth of “being chosen” How Pick-Me culture punishes self-respecting women The emotional cost of dating advice from male centered women Why staying single is always better than dating a terrible man How dependency on men sabotages women’s futures What Catherine the Great can teach us about power and survival   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:   Slim Thug Calls Speculation That He's Interested in Megan Thee Stallion 'Stupid' https://www.complex.com/music/a/jaelaniturnerwilliams/slim-thug-calls-rumors-that-hes-interested-in-megan-thee-stallion-stupid Sovereign’s Video On Slim Thug and Megan Thee Stallion https://youtu.be/i0PbSTP_Srw?si=X1CIIYCaKKLTm8-q Man Sentenced to Life in Prison for Brutal Murder of Mom-of-Four Uber Driver https://people.com/man-sentenced-life-in-prison-murder-uber-driver-11728872 Rideshare Lawsuit for Assault in Uber & Lyft (July 2025) https://www.sokolovelaw.com/personal-injury/sexual-abuse/uber-lyft-rideshare-assault/ Uber Sexual Assault Lawsuits https://www.lawsuit-information-center.com/uber-sex-assault-lawsuit.html Hackers Leak 13,000 User Photos and IDs From the Tea App https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna221139 Man Smashes Wife’s Car To Keep Her From Going Through His Phone https://www.tiktok.com/@thereal_beverly/video/7531563693096619277 Gulabi Gang – Female Vigilante Group in India https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulabi_Gang Cats Listening To Neighbors Argue https://www.tiktok.com/@sierra.knell/video/7483444770736655662 Five Ice Hockey Players Found Not Guilty in Canada Sexual Assault Case https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cn0qlwnyy70o.amp Human Development Index https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_Human_Development_Index The Egg Decides Which Sperm Fertilizes It https://www.news-medical.net/news/20200611/The-egg-decides-which-sperm-fertilizes-it.aspx   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: We Need A Reckoning https://bluecactuspress.com/product/we-need-a-reckoning/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening Bonus video segments and behind-the-scenes blogs A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 02:10 Slim Thug’s Obsession With Megan Thee Stallion 04:52 Uber’s New Feature and Safety Concerns 10:57 The Tea App Hacked 17:48 5 Hockey Players Found Not Guilty 24:58 Pick-Me Dating Tips Exposed 35:07 Standards and Non-Negotiables in Relationships 50:08 The Dangers of Dependency on Men 01:04:23 Choosing vs. Being Chosen in Dating 01:07:44 Feminist Herstory: Catherine the Great 01:20:52 Poll Results: Male Dating Coaches   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen unpack the real meaning of consent, how women are taught to compromise it, how coercion often masquerades as choice, and why detachment can be a radical act of protection. But first, in Tea Time, we discuss the Epstein client list and how the right wing dropped it like a hot potato, the viral “Coldplay Couple” controversy, and how public shaming culture disproportionately targets women. Then in our Mailbag, a listener writes in about confronting misogyny from their gay male friends, and we talk about how patriarchy shows up across all sexual orientations.   🎧 This episode is a deep dive into emotional self-defense, how consent is framed in culture and relationships, and why power is always the elephant in the room.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why consent isn’t just about yes or no — it’s about power How coercion is normalized in dating and media The Coldplay Couple and the pitfalls of online vigilante justice Surveillance culture and the myth of moral purity Misogyny in queer spaces and the politics of emotional labor   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Jeffrey Epstein is splitting MAGA. Will he sink Trump and Republicans? https://thehill.com/opinion/white-house/5409084-epstein-client-list-trump-maga-fight/ What is a Lolita Girl? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita_(term) Epstein had bizarre painting of Bill Clinton in dress, heels in townhouse https://nypost.com/2019/08/14/epstein-had-bizarre-painting-of-bill-clinton-in-dress-heels-in-townhouse/ The Panama Papers https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Panama_Papers The Coldplay concert affair captivated the internet. But is it time to move on? https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2025/07/21/ceo-coldplay-concert-couple-affair-obsession/85305715007/ Cierra Ortega, booted off ‘Love Island,’ addresses racist slurs https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2025-07-10/love-island-former-contestant-responds-after-racist-post Buzzfeed’s ‘Tasty’ Slammed For Tone-Deaf Joke About ‘Love Island USA’ Contestant Chelley https://www.vibe.com/news/movies-tv/buzzfeeds-slammed-love-island-usa-joke-chelley-1235085384/ Marital rape in the United States https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape_in_the_United_States   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Look Into The Art Of Detachment 11 Powerful Ways To Master The Art Of Detachment To Live An Unbothered Life https://www.yourtango.com/self/powerful-ways-master-art-detachment-live-unbothered-life#:~:text=Letting%20go%20doesn't%20have%20to%20be%20scary.&text=The%20art%20of%20detachment%20is,a%20person%20on%20the%20backburner.   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening Bonus video segments and behind-the-scenes blogs A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 01:34 The Epstein Files and Political Accountability 06:25 The Impact of Wealth and Power on Justice 13:19 "Coldplay Couple" Witch Hunt Hurts Women 16:28 Is Vigilante Justice Bad For Society? 29:40 Introduction to Consent 34:01 Entitlement and Approaching Women 41:11 Commenting On Women's Clothing 45:50 Pornography's Effects On Consent 49:44 Historical Context of Consent and Entitlement 55:18 The Right to Say No 01:07:35 Blue Balls Isn't A Thing 01:12:00 The Calm Abuser 01:15:27 The Burden of Female Sexuality 01:19:25 Men's Lack of Responsibility in Sexual Pleasure 01:23:58 The Prize Mentality in Relationships 01:27:25 Mailbag: Misogyny In Gay Men? 01:40:15 Poll Results: Power Protects Predators   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.