The BPD Bunch

SEASON 6 AIRING NOW! The BPD bunch is a talk show, featuring a panel of 17 people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️‍🩹

Self-Care Secrets: The Borderline Personality Disorder Struggle - The BPD Bunch S6E10

In our last episode of season 6, Xannie, Carys, Céline, Jack, Darren, and Solène discuss the complexities of self-care for those living with Borderline Personality Disorder. The Bunch share personal stories, challenges, and strategies that reveal the often misunderstood relationship between self-care and BPD. Whether you're struggling with symptoms or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and a community of understanding. Don't miss out on the wisdom shared as we explore how to prioritize yourself without guilt. Like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated on our journey together!Friday we’ll be back to share some of the aspects of self-care that we still struggle with. Hit that subscribe button to stay connected!🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ABC PLEASES Skill:A - Accumulate Positive Experiences: Engage in activities that bring you joy or satisfaction. Look for small moments of happiness throughout your day.B - Build Mastery: Focus on developing skills or completing tasks that enhance your confidence. Achieving small goals can boost your self-esteem.C - Cope Ahead: Prepare for future challenges by thinking through potential situations and how you can handle them effectively. Planning ahead can reduce anxiety.P/L - Physical ILlness: Take care of your physical health by attending to any medical issues or illnesses. This helps ensure your body is in good shape to support your emotional health.E - Eating: Maintain a balanced diet and ensure you’re getting enough nutrition. Proper eating habits can positively influence your mood and energy levels.A - Avoid Mood-Altering Substances: Stay away from drugs, alcohol, and other substances that can negatively impact your mood or emotional stability.S - Sleep: Prioritize getting enough restful sleep. Good sleep hygiene is crucial for emotional regulation and overall well-being.E - Exercise: Engage in regular physical activity. Exercise can help reduce stress and improve your mood.S - Screen Time: Be mindful of your exposure to screens and how it affects you________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work as clinicians in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

05-21
49:50

BPD & Structure: The Battle Within - Are You Losing Control? - The BPD Bunch S6E9 (PATRON'S VOTE)

THANK YOU to our BPD Besties on Patreon for voting on this topic and joining us behind the scenes during filming! We always have a blast with you.In this episode, Xannie, Jay, André, Georgette and Katja share personal stories, struggles, and insights about the impact of BPD on their ability to maintain a structured life. The Bunch cover both extremes; the difficulties that come from being overly rigid with structure, as well as the struggles to maintain any structure at all.Whether you’re battling BPD yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode is packed with relatable experiences and valuable advice that may just change your perspective. Don't miss out on this emotional journey filled with laughter, hard truths, and important takeaways. Check out the shortcut to Lena's intro video to see what Xannie was referencing!Friday we’ll be back to share our top tips for maintaining structure. Hit that subscribe button to stay connected!May 21st we'll be back to talk about BPD & Structure. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

05-14
44:01

BPD and Self-Sabotage: Are You Standing in Your Own Way? - The BPD Bunch S6E8

In this candid episode, Xannie, Carys, André and Katja discuss the struggle of self-sabotage faced by many living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The Bunch share their personal stories and experiences, exploring the emotional turmoil that leads to self-destructive behaviors. Discover how these patterns impact relationships, careers, and self-worth. If you or someone you care about is navigating the complexities of BPD, this episode is a must-watch. Hit that subscribe button for more insights and support in your journey toward healing!Friday we’ll be back to talk about how we've learned to recognize self-sabotaging behavior. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you can join us as we unravel these captivating stories!May 14th we'll be back to talk about BPD & Structure. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________Skills mentioned in the episode:STOP Skill:S - Stop: Pause and take a moment to halt whatever you’re doing. This helps prevent impulsive reactions and gives you time to think.T - Take a Step Back: Move away from the situation physically or mentally. This helps you create space to gain perspective and calm your emotions.O - Observe: Notice what’s happening around you and within you. Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations without judgment.P - Proceed Mindfully: After taking a moment, decide how to respond in a thoughtful way. Use the information you gathered to make a choice that aligns with your goals and values.ABC PLEASES:A - Accumulate Positive Experiences: Engage in activities that bring you joy or satisfaction. Look for small moments of happiness throughout your day.B - Build Mastery: Focus on developing skills or completing tasks that enhance your confidence. Achieving small goals can boost your self-esteem.C - Cope Ahead: Prepare for future challenges by thinking through potential situations and how you can handle them effectively. Planning ahead can reduce anxiety.P/L - Physical ILlness: Take care of your physical health by attending to any medical issues or illnesses. This helps ensure your body is in good shape to support your emotional health.E - Eating: Maintain a balanced diet and ensure you’re getting enough nutrition. Proper eating habits can positively influence your mood and energy levels.A - Avoid Mood-Altering Substances: Stay away from drugs, alcohol, and other substances that can negatively impact your mood or emotional stability.S - Sleep: Prioritize getting enough restful sleep. Good sleep hygiene is crucial for emotional regulation and overall well-being.E - Exercise: Engage in regular physical activity. Exercise can help reduce stress and improve your mood.S - Screen Time: Be mindful of your exposure to screens and how it affects you________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

05-07
47:52

BPD in TV & Movies: Unmasking the BPD Traits of Anakin and Jinx - The BPD Bunch S6E7

Join Xannie, André, Hak Ja and Mo as we explore the complex characters of Anakin Skywalker from Star Wars and Jinx from Arcane through the lens of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). We dive into their emotional struggles, impulsive behaviors, and the devastating impact of their relationships. This two-part series not only highlights the traits of BPD as depicted in popular culture but also offers relatable insights for those affected by similar challenges. Whether you’re struggling with BPD yourself or supporting someone who is, this discussion is packed with empathy, understanding, and a deep connection to the characters we love. Friday we’ll be back to talk about Lila West from Dexter and Jessica from Jessica Jones. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you can join us as we unravel these captivating stories!May 7th we'll be back to talk about BPD & Self Sabotage. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

04-30
40:00

Surviving BPD & Sexual Assault - The BPD Bunch S6E6

What happens when the pain of trauma from sexual assault collides with the struggles of borderline personality disorder (BPD)?Join Xannie, Katja, Madhurima and André in this vulnerable episode as we discuss the harrowing experiences of individuals living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) who have faced the trauma of sexual assault. With raw honesty, the Bunch share their stories, revealing the complexities of their emotions, the challenges of healing, and the importance of community support. This episode is a safe space for those who feel isolated in their struggles, offering insights and encouragement. If you or someone you know is navigating these difficult waters, tune in to discover that you are not alone. Note: While we will discuss the emotional impact and experiences related to these issues, we will not go into graphic detail about the assaults themselves. April 30th we'll be back to talk about BPD in TV and Movies. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

04-23
01:01:07

BPD & Non-Therapy Tools for Recovery - The BPD Bunch S6E5

Are you searching for effective ways to manage symptoms of borderline personality disorder (BPD) outside of traditional therapy?Join Xannie, André, Solène, Raf, Georgette and Melanie as they share their personal journeys and practical tips. Discover how everyday activities—like yoga, creative pursuits, and learning from life experiences—can play a vital role in your healing journey. Whether you're struggling with BPD or supporting a loved one, this episode is packed with relatable stories and invaluable insights. Friday we'll wrap up this conversation, sharing how peer and community supports have helped us on our recovery journeys. April 22nd we'll be back to talk about BPD & Sexual Assault. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

04-16
47:26

BPD & Autism: The Untold Connection! - The BPD Bunch S6E4

What if the emotional struggles you face with BPD are connected to undiagnosed autism?Join Xannie, Carys, and special guests Toni and John, as they share what it’s like to live with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Autism, or both! This discussion unravels the nuances of living with both diagnoses, exploring how they manifest in daily life, emotions, and relationships. Whether you’re struggling with BPD, Autism, or know someone who is, this episode aims to shed light on common experiences and provide valuable insights. Friday we'll wrap up this conversation, sharing how we manage our various diagnoses in social settings, like parties.April 9th we'll be back to talk about BPD & Non-Therapy Tools for Recovery! Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________Criteria for an Autism diagnosis (in layman's terms):A. Ongoing difficulties with social communication and interaction in different contexts, shown by problems with:- Responding to others emotionally or socially.- Using body language and facial expressions to communicate.- Making and keeping relationships (romantic or platonic), and understanding social cues.B. Restricted, repetitive behaviors, interests, or activities, shown by two of the following:- Repeating certain movements, using objects in a repetitive way, or repeating phrases.- Wanting everything to stay the same, sticking to routines, or following strict patterns in behavior.- Having very specific interests that are much more intense than what is typical.- Being hyper- or hypo- reactive to things you see, hear, or feel in the environment.C. Symptoms need to appear in early childhood, but may not be fully noticeable until later when social situations become more challenging, or they might seem less obvious because of learned coping strategies.D. These symptoms must significantly impact multiple areas of daily life, such as in social situations, work, or other important areas.E. These issues cannot be explained better by a general intellectual disability or global developmental delay. Autism and intellectual disabilities can occur together, but for a diagnosis of both, social communication skills must be lower than expected for the person's overall development.________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

04-02
53:26

What No One Tells You About BPD in the Family - A Sibling's Perspective - The BPD Bunch S6E3

Do you have a sibling living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Join us in this heartfelt episode where siblings share their raw and emotional journeys navigating the complexities of living with BPD. Jack and his siblings, Derrick, Grant, and Alicia; Mo and her brother Shawn; and Madhurima and her sister Madhuja share how BPD has impacted their relationships, the struggles they've faced, and the powerful moments that brought them closer together. Whether you're living with BPD or have a loved one who is, this discussion is packed with insights, support, and inspiration. Friday we'll wrap up this conversation, sharing our best coping skills for managing sibling relationships with BPDApril 2nd we'll be back to talk about BPD & Autism! Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

03-26
54:43

Revenge and BPD: The Dark Side of Emotions Revealed! - The BPD Bunch S6E2

Do you ever feel the overwhelming urge to “get even” when you’ve been hurt? Join Xannie, Céline and Georgette as they explore the often unspoken feelings of revenge and vindictiveness that can accompany BPD. With raw honesty, they share personal stories and insights on how past experiences shaped their responses to hurt and rejection. If you've ever felt the urge to retaliate or hold a grudge, this video is for you. Tune in to understand the driving forces behind these emotions and find healthier ways to cope.  Friday we'll wrap up this conversation, sharing our best tips for managing the urge for revenge effectively. .March 26th we'll be back to talk about BPD & Sibling Relationships! Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW!  https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

03-19
48:02

BPD in The Psych Ward: Stories of Psychiatric Care - The BPD Bunch S6E1

The BPD Bunch is BACK! Xannie, Hak Ja, Jay and Mo discuss their personal experiences with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and the psych ward. They share stories of their admissions, the emotions leading up to seeking help, and the relief and anxiety that come with entering inpatient care. Our conversation will cover topics such as:Can you go to the psych ward for BPD?Is inpatient bad for BPD?What to expect when admitted to a psych ward?When does someone with BPD need to be hospitalized?How long do you stay in a mental hospital for BPD?Does BPD need inpatient treatment?Friday we'll wrap up this conversation, talking about how the psych ward has been helpful for managing crises.March 19 we'll be back to talk about BPD & Revenge! Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW!  https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

03-12
41:11

The Hidden Pain of Loneliness in BPD - The BPD Bunch S5E9

Xannie, Madhurima, Hak Ja and Jack explore the complex relationship between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and loneliness. The Bunch share their personal stories of feeling disconnected in a crowded room and the emotional turmoil that accompanies BPD. Discover how these feelings of isolation can spiral into deeper struggles and the efforts to find connection and understanding. Whether you’re experiencing the challenges of BPD or supporting a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights and relatable experiences. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode that could help you or someone you care about on this journey.December 11th we'll be back, to answer the question “Can BPD go away?”. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

12-04
33:43

BPD & Empathy - The BPD Bunch S5E3

In this episode, Xannie, Katja, Jack, Madhurima and Jay explore the complexities of empathy for those of with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The Bunch discuss cognitive and affective empathy, the importance of recognizing personal limits, and how to offer support to others without losing yourself in the process. Come back on Friday as we wrap up this topic, with a discussion on the "Borderline Empathy Paradox." October 23rd we'll be back with a new discussion topic, BPD & Seasonal Affective Disorder. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ Terms from this episode: Schizotypal Personality Disorder: This is a mental health condition where a person might feel very different from others. They may have unusual thoughts, beliefs, or behaviors, and they might struggle with forming close relationships. People with this disorder often feel uncomfortable in social situations and can seem odd or eccentric to others. The DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) STOP Skill - a technique used to help individuals manage overwhelming emotions and distressing situations. STOP is an acronym that stands for:Stop - Pause and take a moment to recognize your current state.Take a step back - Create distance from the situation to gain perspective.Observe - Notice your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings without judgment.Proceed mindfully - Decide on your next steps based on the awareness you've gained.The STOP skill encourages individuals to take a moment to breathe and assess their emotional state before reacting impulsively. By using this skill, they can make more thoughtful and effective decisions in challenging situations, ultimately fostering emotional regulation and healthier responses.Checking the Facts - a DBT skill designed to help individuals assess the reality of a situation and challenge distorted thinking patterns. This skill involves examining the facts surrounding a distressing thought or emotion to determine if it is based on reality or assumptions. It encourages individuals to ask questions like: What is actually happening? What evidence supports or contradicts my thoughts? By clarifying the facts, individuals can reduce emotional distress and make more informed decisions. This process helps combat cognitive distortions, leading to a more balanced perspective and improved emotional regulation. ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

10-16
41:51

BPD in Men vs Women - The BPD Bunch S5E1

The BPD Bunch is Back! Xannie, Jack, Mo, Jay, Hak Ja and André discuss how borderline personality disorder presents in Men and Women. Xannie and Jay start by sharing some of the research, to answer questions like: Is BPD different in men than women? How does BPD present in males? What are the symptoms of BPD in women? What is the prevalence of borderline personality disorder in women? Why is BPD misdiagnosed in men? Then the group discuss their personal experiences of BPD and how that intersects with their gender. Come back on Friday as we wrap up this topic, with a discussion on BPD/Gender misconceptions we'd love to challenge! October 9th we'll be back with a new discussion topic, dealing with BPD at School. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ References: Leichsenring, F. et al. (2024). Borderline personality disorder: a comprehensive review of diagnosis and clinical presentation, etiology, treatment, and current controversies. World Psychiatry, 23(1), pp.4-25. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.1002/wps.21156 Qian, X. et al. (2022). Sex differences in borderline personality disorder: A scoping review. PLoS One, 17(12), pp.1-18. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9803119/ Sansone, R.A., & Sansone, L.A. (2011). Gender Patterns in Borderline Personality Disorder. Innovations in Clinical Neuroscience, 8(5), pp.16-20. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3115767/ Zimmerman, M., & Gazarian, D. (2014). Is research on borderline personality disorder underfunded by the National Institute of Health? Psychiatry Research, 200, pp.941-944. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25446463/ ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

10-02
40:29

The BPD Bunch S4E8: BPD & Grief

In this week's episode, join Xannie, Carys, Madhurima, Raf, and Solène as they delve into the profound subject of grief while living with borderline personality disorder (BPD). They share their most impactful personal experiences of grief and discuss the connection between BPD symptoms and the grieving process. They also reveal their top tips for navigating grief when living with BPD. Come back Friday for a minisode on grieving what we‘ve lost as a result of having BPD! Next week we’ll be back for our last episode of the season, on BPD & Social Media. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

05-30
37:39

The BPD Bunch S4E6: Splitting in BPD Explained

Join us in this captivating episode as Xannie, Mo, Darren, Céline, and Katja delve into the experience of splitting in Borderline Personality Disorder. The Bunch discuss what splitting is, how it affects their emotions, and the duration of its impact. They also open up about the significant challenges they've faced due to splitting and offer words of encouragement to those currently struggling. Stay tuned for Friday's episode where they'll reveal their top tips for managing splitting in BPD. Don't miss out on this insightful journey towards resilience and growth! About our Sponsor:Emotions Matter, is a non-profit organization founded in 2025 with a mission to support, educate and advocate for people impacted by borderline personality disorder.Join Emotions Matter at their 6th Annual Walk for BPD on Sunday June 2nd in NYC. You can come in person or join the walk virtually!Emotions Matter depends on financing from the BPD Walk to continue offering its programs at no cost to people with BPD.  Your gift will allow people to get free support when they need it most. More about Emotions Matter: https://emotionsmatterbpd.org/Register for the Walk for BPD: https://givebutter.com/c/WalkforBPD2024 Next week we’ll be back for a conversation about BPD & Disordered Eating. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

05-15
36:38

The BPD Bunch S4E5: Apologies with BPD - Struggles, Stories and Solutions.

In this episode, Xannie, Hak Ja, Jack, Melanie, and Mo come together to discuss the challenging topic of making amends when living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). They openly share their personal struggles with apologizing, recount stories about their experiences with making amends, and provide valuable insights and tips for effectively managing the apology process. Join them on this journey of growth, understanding, and learning as they shed light on the complexities of living with BPD and offer guidance for navigating the path towards healing and reconciliation. Come back on Friday for a minisode about the concept of self forgiveness in the context of making amends! Next week we’ll be back for a conversation about Splitting. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

05-01
41:07

The BPD Bunch S4E4: BPD & Impulsivity with Money

Join Xannie, Katja, Hak Ja, Jack, Lena, and Georgette as they open up about their personal experiences with BPD and impulsive spending. The Bunch share their raw stories, shedding light on the challenges they face and the impact it has on their financial well-being. They also provide valuable tips and strategies for effectively managing their finances. Learn from their experiences and discover practical advice to help you navigate your own financial journey. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of BPD and impulsivity with money! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

04-24
39:17

The BPD Bunch S4E3: How to Keep Friends When You Have BPD

Get ready to dive into the world of friendships and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)! Join Xannie & Rebekkah, Madhurima & Shoi, Jay & Georgia, and Katja & Kay as they share their incredible stories. Discover how these pairs of BFFs met and how BPD has influenced their unique bonds. They'll also reveal their top tips for managing friendships when BPD is in the mix. Join us for an insightful and uplifting conversation that will leave you with a renewed understanding of the strength and beauty that can be found in friendships, even when faced with challenges. Don't miss out on this heartfelt journey! Come back on Friday for a minisode: “Can two people with BPD be friends?“ Next week we’ll be back for a conversation about BPD and impulsivity with $ . Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

04-17
44:26

The BPD Bunch S4E2: What is a BPD Episode?

Join Xannie, Mo, Raf, Carys, Solène, and Georgette as they dive into a discussion on BPD episodes. With insights from therapist Lena, they work to define what a BPD episode is, and explore what these episodes look like for them. They also discuss the different contexts that activate a BPD episode, and what others can do to help! Discover strategies to support and empower those experiencing BPD episodes in this insightful and eye-opening discussion. Come back on Friday for a minisode: “How to survive a BPD episode“ Next week we’ll be back for our BPD BFFs episode . Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

04-10
40:01

The BPD Bunch S4E1: The BPD Favorite Person

The BPD Bunch is back!! Join Xannie, Alex, Georgette, Madhurima, Jay, and Katja in this exciting episode as they dive deep into the concept of the favorite person (FP). Alex kicks off the discussion by explaining what exactly an FP is. Together, they explore the impact of an FP relationship on BPD symptoms and how it can influence other relationships. Plus, don't miss out on their invaluable tips for effectively managing the attachment to an FP. Get ready for an insightful and engaging conversation that everyone can relate to! Come back on Friday for an FP minisode: “How Do I Know If I Have a Favorite Person?“ Next week we’ll be back to discuss what a “BPD Episode” is. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tears on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨  🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch  Episode terms (the ones we mentioned but didn’t expand on) 1. Schizotypal personality disorder: Schizotypal personality disorder is a psychological condition where a person experiences eccentric thoughts, behaviors, and difficulties in social interactions. Individuals with this disorder may have peculiar beliefs, unusual perceptual experiences, and struggle with maintaining close relationships. 2. "Checking the facts" (DBT skill): "Checking the facts" is a useful skill from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that encourages individuals to examine and validate the accuracy of their thoughts and perceptions. By carefully questioning and gathering evidence, this skill helps people challenge their assumptions, minimize distortions, and make more informed and rational decisions. It promotes a balanced and objective perspective, leading to healthier and more effective problem-solving. ________ About Us:  The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.  Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

04-03
38:47

Elizabeth McCoy Hamilton

I have BPD. I give people in my relationship heck. I try to make them leave me cause I know they will anyway. So if I make the relationship h

10-21 Reply

Juliane^^inspired

I haven't listened yet, I searched and found, and admittedly fear finds its way in. I am both daughter and mother to amazing women with BPD, and I want to reshape my role as the hated one. I want to be able to love her, as my mom just passed in August, and not be seen ( and used as) the one who gets to be ignored and outcast at any given moment. I need help, tips, a guiding light to be both a loving mother and a human who doesn't belive for a second that I deserve sub par treatment. Hoping.

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