The Backdoor Podcast

You commented… so we responded. 👀😂 In this episode, we dive into our hate comments—the good, the bad, and the downright unhinged. Episode 17 is all about clearing the air, roasting ourselves a little, and having fun with the internet’s loudest opinions.   Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnZcFnbGdIzuHL1q_vRMkCv_ThhwK92rpX7FL2GtE2CRjkbqsNm1ZKKE3NaFc_aem_I0ksatrJFfl1sKW7yXRQJg

In this episode, we’re taking you all the way back — how we started on TikTok, what really helped us blow up, and the unexpected journey that led to our viral “Exposing” series. From awkward first posts to hitting the For You Page, we break down the highs, the lows, and the moment we realized people love hearing the juicy secrets guys and girls are hiding. 👀   We’re also answering some of your biggest questions: What made us start exposing people? Did anyone ever get mad? 👀 And what’s next for the series?   If you’ve ever wanted the uncut story behind our TikTok glow-up and how we built our brand around raw honesty, secrets, and a little bit of chaos… this episode is for you.   Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnZcFnbGdIzuHL1q_vRMkCv_ThhwK92rpX7FL2GtE2CRjkbqsNm1ZKKE3NaFc_aem_I0ksatrJFfl1sKW7yXRQJg

Why Toys Belong in the Bedroom. Breaking the stigma, especially in long-term relationships. Let’s talk about something that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly: sex toys. And more importantly, why they absolutely belong in the bedroom, especially for couples in long-term relationships.   🧠The BZZZZ Theory The stronger the vibe, the better the connection. It’s simple. When partners explore new ways to experience pleasure, it deepens intimacy, communication, and trust. Toys don’t replace your partner — they amplify what’s already there. They introduce curiosity, play, and fun — things every relationship can use more of, especially over time.   ❌Real Talk: Men Feeling Intimidated   Let’s squash this outdated mindset. Some men worry toys are “competition.” But that thinking is stuck in the past. A toy is a tool, not a threat. It’s not about performance — it’s about partnership. When men embrace toys as part of a shared experience, it opens the door to more pleasure for both partners, and a stronger emotional bond.   Especially for Long-Term Couples Over time, routines settle in.   Life gets busy. That first-fire passion? It’s still there — it just needs a spark. Toys are one of the easiest and most effective ways to reignite that connection. It’s not about fixing something that’s broken — it’s about evolving together.   Bottom Line: Toys aren’t taboo — they’re a bridge to better communication, deeper pleasure, and lasting connection. Whether you’ve been together for 5 years or 25, it’s time to stop seeing toys as “extra” and start seeing them as essential. Because when the vibe is strong, so is the relationship.🔥   Follow us on social media:https://link.me/thestephandkayls?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnZcFnbGdIzuHL1q_vRMkCv_ThhwK92rpX7FL2GtE2CRjkbqsNm1ZKKE3NaFc_aem_I0ksatrJFfl1sKW7yXRQJg

Lets talk about being intimate... In todays podcast we dive into how we separate our intimate time and how we prioritize being intimate not only for the camera! We answer questions about wether or not we record things for ourselves that we NEVER share and talk about how long it took us to get comfortable on camera in every type of way.   Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnZcFnbGdIzuHL1q_vRMkCv_ThhwK92rpX7FL2GtE2CRjkbqsNm1ZKKE3NaFc_aem_I0ksatrJFfl1sKW7yXRQJg

Real talk on budgeting, saving and investing as influencers, content and adult creators - especially with a baby now in the picture. Do you talk about money with your partner? How do you split things? Let's break it down.   Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnK9X_YDQlCrc7dxW8-Sk2Se7GrK4SqlUh6TD20S7DivdFHk68DuN3X8XKHFA_aem_ycDxeliceXpNtsEb4SGb6Q

Steph crashes out on this episode👀 Today's episode is a deep dive into digital legacy, future conversations and how we plan to navigate explaining our jobs to our kid/s one day.   Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnK9X_YDQlCrc7dxW8-Sk2Se7GrK4SqlUh6TD20S7DivdFHk68DuN3X8XKHFA_aem_ycDxeliceXpNtsEb4SGb6Q

Have you ever thought about why family vlogs are bad? Join us as we dive into the ethics, the money and the madness behind family influencers, child content creators and "kidfluencers." Hear our take as adult content creators as we explore how kids are often exploited in the name of "Family Vlogs" or viral fame because there are many family vlogging problems.   Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/stephandkayls

You've heard about the honeymoon phase but what happens after that? In this episode, we're getting real about how the "spicy bedroom time" changes in long term relationships. Spoiler, it's not always spontaneous kitchen-counter action. From unmatched libidos to "not tonight, I'm tired.... again" We laugh and get honest about keeping the spark alive when life keeps throwing laundry, kids and work stress in your bed. Literally.   follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/stephandkayls

In this episode, we’re diving into the juicy, unfiltered questions we get asked as influencers—no topic is off-limits. From controversial opinions to the dirty secrets behind the glitz and glam of social media, we’re answering the questions you’ve always wanted to know but were too afraid to ask. Brace yourselves for some honest truths, shocking confessions, and maybe a few laughs along the way! Tune in for a real conversation about the highs and lows of the influencer world.   Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/stephandkayls

What would you do if you found out your friends were secretly subscribed to your OnlyFans? In this episode, we dive into the awkward, hilarious, and maybe even flattering reactions to discovering familiar faces in your subscriber list. Plus, we explore the world of role-playing in relationships- how it can spice things up, break routine, and bring partners closer. From unexpected OF drama to stepping into new personas in the bedroom, this episode is all about navigating the unexpected in modern relationships.   Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/stephandkayls?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=5c375909-ee4a-4360-bdf9-6c666170ba40

Behind every perfect post and viral video, there's a side of content creation the internet doesn't see. In this episode, we uncover the truth about influencers who fake their lifestyles for engagement, the pressure to keep up appearances, and the hidden struggles that come with chasing online fame. From staged moments to secret breakdowns, we explore what it really takes to succeed in a world where authenticity is often just another performance.   Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/stephandkayls?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=5c375909-ee4a-4360-bdf9-6c666170ba40

Things are getting spicy in this episode as we dive into the unfiltered world of backdoor adventures and bold requests! From the awkward asks to the unexpected yeses, we're breaking down the taboos, sharing wild stories, and keeping It real. Buckle up-it's about to get dirty!   Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/stephandkayls?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=5c375909-ee4a-4360-bdf9-6c666170ba40

In this episode, we dive into some of the most debated topics in relationships-why do dudes spend so much time in the bathroom? Is arguing healthy or toxic? And how does 🌽 impact a relationship? We break it all down with real talk, personal stories, and unfiltered opinions. Tune in for laughs, insights, and maybe even a few hard truths!   Follow us on social media: stephxkayls.com

Thinking about adding a third person to the bedroom? In this episode, we dive into the why, the how, and everything you need to know about introducing a new dynamic into your intimate life. From communication and boundaries to finding the right person and making it work for everyone involved, we’re breaking down this exciting yet delicate topic with honesty and insight. Tune in for tips, advice, and real talk on keeping the spark alive while exploring new experiences.   Follow us on social media: stephxkayls.com

Are bedroom toys a fun way to spice things up, or can they be too much? In this episode, we dive into the world of trying new things in the bedroom, exploring how toys can enhance intimacy, when they might be too much, and how to communicate boundaries with your partner.   We'll discuss: -How to introduce toys into your relationship -What's too much? Finding balance in the bedroom -Exploring fantasies vs. staying in your comfort zone -Communication tips for trying new things   Have you ever wondered if toys could improve your love life? Or do you feel unsure about where to start? Let's talk about it!   Follow us on social media: Stephxkayls.com

DEEP DIVE on today's episode of The Backdoor Podcast! 🎙 In this we dive into the spicy world of content creation while explaining how much content creators really make. From being broke to seeing our life change in a positive way. This episode is for you! Tune in and join us as we get real about what it's really like behind the scene of creating and parenting. Follow us on social media: Stephxkayls.com

Welcome to the very first episode of The Backdoor Podcast! 🎙 In this debut, we dive into the spicy world of content creation while navigating the crazy rollercoaster of becoming first-time parents. From balancing late-night shoots to those sleepless nights with a newborn, we're spilling the tea on the highs, the lows, and everything in between. This episode is for you! Tune in and join us as we get real about what it's really like behind the scene of creating and parenting. See more of us & follow us on socials: stephxkayls.com