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Author: Ashlynn Mitchell

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Have you been through an affair, or struggle with healing a shattered or disconnected relationship?

Each week we will share our 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal & addiction leaving you with HOPE for change no matter your circumstance.
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When we started this journey we had no idea, where it would lead.  Although we have never taken a stand as to what should happen with a relationship after infidelity, we have strived to keep ours together.  Today's announcement was incredibly difficult and highly concerning for you our audience.  And we feel it was now time to open up with a most intimate challenge that we have reached a place to share finally.    We still believe in the principles we have taught all along if you need help you can go to?  Go to https://beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough
Brannon and Ashlynn discuss the lenses we all use in life to see things.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
What is over functioning?  Is it a thing?  Brannon and Ashlynn discuss this rarely mentioned but important topic.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
Brannon and Coby discuss this one skill that is overlooked and underrated in recovery.  Simple but yet not easy.   HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ASHLYNN!!!!!  She is giving everyone a 30% discount on Beyond Betrayal for a limited time! Click the link below for that discount! https://www.Beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
There is another identity that is deep within each human and that is a sexual identity.  How can a woman learn to be sexually empowered after she experiences betrayal?  What does that look like?   HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ASHLYNN!!!!!  She is giving everyone a 30% discount on Beyond Betrayal for a limited time! Click the link below for that discount! https://www.Beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
Brannon and Coby discuss this topic that allows individuals to connect to themselves even when things are hard.  Being able to know one's self enough to connect to the pain and yet still ask questions is a big deal and an effective skill in recovery.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
Brannon and Ashlynn talk about recovery demanding we grow and learn to respond rather than react but how is that done?  Does this apply outside of the arena of addiction and betrayal?  Yup.  Listen to understand why.     DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
How do I recognize I'm overwhelmed?  Does the feeling of overwhelm show up before I meltdown?  How can I recognize it in future and what can I do to help myself get through it?   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat...
Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby talk about the different ways that partners advance in recovery and the various speeds and what impact that can have and what it means.     DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share their perspectives and vicarious experience on this topic.  Many men have reached out having been betrayed by their female partners with either porn, masturbation or infidelity.  This heart breaking but very real topic is more common than anyone would care to consider. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
It takes varying degrees of courage to disclose acting out but it does feel bette when shared but when the betrayed partner hears the news and are crushed.  It is a crazy dichotomy but how is it navigated?   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Garrett Jonsson is the podcast producer and a public presenter for  Fight the New Drug, an organization that is raising awareness about the harmful effects of porn using only science, facts and personal experiences.  He shares his journey of recovery which includes 30 marathons in 30 days followed by riding his bike over 3,800 miles across The United States to raise awareness of the effects of porn.  It is an unorthodox story of recovery and is beautiful at the same time.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Sex Then vs. Sex Now

Sex Then vs. Sex Now

2021-01-0550:162

Acting out sexually was Coby's way of dealing with stress but having sex with his wife Ashlynn didn't yield the same result.  Sex with Ashlynn was a disconnecting and selfish act for Coby because he had no idea what his own sexuality was about, let alone what sex with his partner was.  This episode will talk about sex then vs sex now.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Click here: beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Knowing which recovery efforts are counterfeits and which are not isn't as straight forward as one would think.  Coby, Ashlynn, and Brannon share their experience with this principle.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Not knowing if you are screwing up your kids is something that freaks out Coby, Ashlynn and Brannon.  This episode brings light to a key concept to help parents do better simply by knowing better.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Cameron Browne is a licensed therapist who specializes in addiction and betrayal trauma and he also uses trauma therapy, EMDR and ART, to help patients heal from their wounds.  Coby and Ashlynn share their experience with using ART, accelerated resolution therapy, to move through their wounds that have caused them to stay stuck in behaviors they don't want.   Brannon has also done EMDR, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, for years and also shares his thoughts on the the subject.   Cameron Browne is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor with 9 years of experience practicing therapy.  He has a passion for helping people recover from trauma and believes that unresolved trauma is at the root of many mental health issues.  This passion for treating trauma has led him to become trained in several trauma-focused therapies.  He is trained in Neurofeedback, EMDR, and has advanced training in Accelerated Resolution Therapy. Cameron currently has a private practice in Lindon, Ut. In his free time, he enjoys sports, movies, music, and outdoor activities including hiking, boating, golfing, and fishing. He enjoys spending time with his wife of 12 years and his three kids.  He can be reached at: utahtraumacare.com   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Today's podcast is a controversial topic, but one that is becoming more and more at the center of healing from mental and emotional illnesses and challenges.  Today we have a frank and honest conversation about with our our guest "Javier".  We hope to provide you a save place to learn about Ayahuasca and Huachuma and other plant medicines that can possible help in your healing.
Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share insights and their own experience with balancing a healthy relationship when things did not start out that way.  Coby shares his perspective on the relationship he had with his own Mother and what impact it had on his marriage.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Jessica joins Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon to share her experience of hope and healing.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby all share thier take on how essential it is to keep reality front of mind when considering where our partner is in their recovery.  This episode discusses one key piece that could get in the way of reality.   DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?  Go to beyond-enough.com/step1 BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens!  Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal  Check out our Course Shattered Trust to Thriving Intimacy here... www.shatteredtothriving.com And subscribe to the podcast here... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Connect with us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/betrayedaddi... Connect with us on Instagram: http://Instagram.com/_beyondenough https://www.instagram.com/brannon_pat... https://www.instagram.com/ashlynnandcoby
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Comments (19)

Firefly9187

Thank you! I just found your podcast. What a blessing 😭💜

Feb 26th
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laz

I have just started listening to the podcasts and was over joyed to find one that is positive and as couple you are still together... then BOOM early on you discuss a relapse after 29 months...... this has gave me the fear..... you seemed to gloss over the relapse...im Interested how this could happen when you both seemed on such a positive path and how did you, as the betrayed partner get over this again? How did you feel? how can you still trust him? This is what i need to learn...to trust again. it scares me xx

Nov 18th
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matt desilva

I am happy to have found your content via a mention on a Gottman relationship blog post.

Apr 2nd
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Ben Woodd

I did not understand that at all. I feel frustrated because Dr Rob is obviously a really experienced guy and ashlynn and Brannon were raving about what he was saying but I feel totally confused. Brannon, please can YOU do another podcast to explain what prodepency is.

Feb 29th
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Erin Collingwood

How long was their in-house separation?

Jan 26th
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Kristin King

Is this further down the line in recovery? For example if a wife says she doesn't feel safe and the husband blows up and asks why? According to him, he is safe so now he'll just shut down since she's "not feeling safe"?

Oct 8th
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Dianna P

5:14

Sep 21st
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Afton McElroy

Hi, I am curious if you have an episodes the address how if you are not dealing with the root of the sex addiction you may infact only replace it with another addiction rather than truly recover. My husband has been through treatment for pornography addiction (he does struggle with getting deep and true understanding of himself but he is not acting out anymore). I'd say his drinking has increased to unhealthy levels over the last year's and more so since treatment. When I ask him if he could set up healthy limits for himself he gets extremely angry, defensive and goes into victim mode. He thinks because he isn't actually drunk it doesn't count as an issue, even though it's 3 days a week he often drinks 8-12 drinks over the span of the day. and also drinks 2-3 most week nights. I hope that if he hears it from somewhere else he might start to understand that he is using the same behaviors as when he was deep in his sex addiction as a result of not truly working through things with the sex addiction. The concepts you teach are applicable in changing your life no matter the addiction type. He loves your podcasts so I'm thinking I could direct him towards a specific episode if one exists? thanks 😊

Aug 31st
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Cindy Lee

this sounds like saanon

Jul 26th
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Kenice Whitaker

Where can I learn more about "daily's?"

Apr 24th
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Janette Jones

I like this podcast so much except this one. The main point is great but the message is lost at times because the experts terminology (ex: play the victim card") includes shaming of the betrayed. These terms ARE minimizing and if that person has a story that they have not been able to be healed from, saying they are "playing" is tantamount to saying they are pretending, lying, exaggerating, or whining. But then maybe I am just triggered. lol

Mar 26th
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Janette Jones

This is the 1st time I listened to you. I am amazed at the parallels that addiction and betrayal trauma have to personality disorder (narcissism) and how it destroys relationships.

Mar 19th
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platinumforChrist

what classifies as a relapse?

Jan 12th
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Dan Huff

By far the best recovery podcast. I've heard over 150 other episodes from other podcasts, but there is more useful content here than the others. especially for couples.

Jul 19th
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Perla

Thank you so much for these podcasts they are saving my lif

Jul 3rd
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Kara Bagley

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Mar 30th
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Robert Windler

love this podcast.

Nov 9th
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Josh Telecsan

where did episodes 1 & 3 go?

Oct 12th
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