Bonfire

Why is it that when women display their vulnerabilities and downplay their strengths, they are “relatable” and “brave,” but when they proudly embody their power and skills they are alienated? In this little shorty of an episode, Rachel and Suzanne discuss power, self-confidence, and nude photo shoots. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You don’t always know exactly when the time is right to make a big move - when to leave a job, when to change careers, when to have kids. No one is going to tell you whether or when to make those decisions in your life. But Rachel and Suzanne sure have a lot of experience doing it for themselves, and in this episode they’ll give you a few guidelines to follow to help along the way. Heads up - sometimes betting on yourself means you end up recording an entire podcast with a wet tile saw in the background. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Five years ago (!!), Rachel and Suzanne did an episode all about their (not so secret) inner selves - the person who comes out during moments of pressure or stress; their inner hulk. Everybody has one - and you likely know exactly who yours is. In this updated version of that episode, they dive back in to help you understand what to actually do when your hulk comes out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re leading a team or running a company, how and when to communicate on issues can be the most crucial and difficult decision you make. Whether you’re taking a stand on a cultural issue, or delivering a piece of difficult news, it can sometimes feel like entering a minefield. But don’t worry, Rachel and Suzanne have set off plenty of mines before and they’ve got strategy for days. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This one’s for those of you who may just be getting to know us… or for listeners who have been waiting, hoping, asking for Rachel and Suzanne to finally lift the curtain already. Just a little start-of-summer get-to-know-ya treat. Enjoy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether you are ready for your hot vax summer or you are hiding under your covers, the prospect of re-entry means a reckoning for us all. What does it mean to come back to your life - and what would you rather leave in the Before Times? In this episode, Rachel and Suzanne talk about taking stock of your life and how to figure out what is better left behind. It’s bespoke, baby. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rachel and Suzanne are the poster children for change - they know better than most that you can’t just “set and forget” your identity. But how do you know if you’re in the right place for right now? Stay tuned for a recipe to help yourself become more yourself, over and over again. And listen up for some bonus branding advice along the way.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We've all heard the mantra "no excuses" - but Rachel and Suzanne know, it's not that simple. When you just can't get something done, making excuses feels really bad (and PSA: everyone knows when you're doing it), so we're giving you an alternative. You’ll never have to make excuses again. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special two-part episode, Rachel and Suzanne explain why in any argument, the solution is never just to "hug it out." In part two, they show you exactly how best to resolve a major argument with someone you care about by delving into the painful memories of the worst fight they ever had, and how they worked through it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special two-part episode, Rachel and Suzanne explain why in any argument, the solution is never just to "hug it out." In part one, they share their stories of past interpersonal conflicts and breaches of trust, and why the only way out of a disagreement is through. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone has little micro pockets of free time throughout their day, but how you choose to use them says a lot about you. If you're a Rachel, you refuse to work at all during those little bits of free time. If you're a Suzanne, you have your entire day planned out, down to the minute. Rachel and Suzanne examine their own time management habits, and help you figure out how to better use your micro pockets and enjoy your day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Boundaries and ultimatums: what's the difference? Is there one? In this episode, Rachel and Suzanne ponder why boundaries are so important in any relationship, and reflect on past ultimatums set with friends and family. They discuss when its best to set boundaries, as well as the warning signs that tell you its time to issue an ultimatum. Most importantly, Rachel and Suzanne help YOU learn how to set healthy boundaries and use ultimatums effectively at work and in your life. (Book reference: Caste by Isabel Wilkerson) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Make sure to tune in every other Wednesday for all new episodes of "The Big Payoff" with your favorite best friend/business partner duo: Rachel and Suzanne! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As quarantine has taught us, it can be hard to maintain healthy habits and be productive when you are the only person around to hold yourself accountable. You kind of have to be your own boss, especially for those who work from home. But what kind of boss are you to you? This episode, Rachel and Suzanne realize they are terrible bosses of themselves, and talk through how to care for yourself AND hold yourself accountable in order to be a more productive and happy person. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do when you've got too many things demanding your attention at once? How will you get everything done, and done well, when there are a million other things on your to-do list? This week, Suzanne and Rachel lay out three ways to approach your schedule in order to get everything done to the best of your ability, each of which involves making some choices. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Last episode, Rachel and Suzanne discussed catastrophic thinkers, and how to respond to their fear of the worst case scenario in a productive way. But what happens when catastrophe actually strikes? What do you do when you when s*** hits the fan and you feel like you've lost all control? Never fear! Rachel and Suzanne are here with a six-step solution to help you wait out the chaos and find the light at the end of the tunnel. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know that person in your life who always goes to the worst case scenario as soon as there's a problem? That coworker or friend (or in Rachel's case, mother) who immediately catastrophizes any situation? Rachel and Suzanne discuss how to spot a "catastrophic thinker," and give you tips for how to respond to them in a way that's productive for everyone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When Rachel locked herself out of her closet this week, she unexpectedly learned an important life lesson. Instead of coming in hot with an answer, her handyman actually solved her problem by asking her questions. Rachel and Suzanne discovered that the “let’s figure this out together” approach is actually way more effective than aiming for, “I’ve got your answer!” Also, Suzanne is a Diplo fan now? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you navigate a dystopian existence? Rachel and Suzanne are delineating the Before from the After times in the only way they know how: by asking the best questions. Here are four questions you should never leave home without (in addition to your mask). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Toddlers need their parents’ help navigating their wild emotional swings… but if you are finding yourself in these tumultuous times having trouble with your own wild emotions, it’s time to learn how to work through it on your own. Suzanne and Rachel discuss how to parent yourself through moments of crisis. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.