The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast

Bomber and Belle give a recap of their experiences at Secret Hideaways in Florida. They also talk about the greatness of portraying true Black culture in porn and share why they will be ending the show this year.

As part of our Black N Sex, Black History Month series we are happy to feature Black & Kinky DC, who host events, educational classes and safe spaces for BIPOC individuals in the kink community. Find Black & Kinky DC on IG at blackandkinky_DC or fetlife at fetlife.com/groups/21427 POCKLE.org for more resources for BIPOC kinksters Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

As part of our Black N Sex, Black History Month series we are happy to feature Gabrielle Alexa Noel. Check out at Website: https://gabalexa.com/ Twitter: @gabalexa Full table talk episode on Polyamory: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=904644817023031 IG:https://www.instagram.com/gabalexa/ You can buy her book: How to Live With the Internet and Not Let It Run Your Life https://www.amazon.com/How-Live-Internet-Your-Life/dp/1922417033 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

In this episode we sit down with Aspen, a sexy erotic dancer, to talk about pole dancing. Check her out at: Heartfeltmovement.com IG: Only_aspen511_ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

We are honored to have Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses on the show to talk about their expo of Black sex positive content creators, educators and performers. They discuss some of the work they do in providing critical opportunities for collaboration in the Black community in Phoenix AZ. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp For more information about Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses, check out the links below. https://www.facebook.com/omgoddesses20 https://www.omgoddesses.com/ https://twitter.com/omgoddesses https://www.instagram.com/omgoddesses20/

Belle and Bomber discuss a few things that ya'll hope gets left in 2022 as we settle into the new year. We talk about claims about judgement free zones, slut shaming, and whether we should leave all inhibitions behind. Mentions in this episode. Check out Kendra's youtube channel if you want to see what's out there in the dating world https://www.youtube.com/@KendraGMedia. Check out her interview with Parish; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCTZdYRUuiU&list=RDLVTCTZdYRUuiU&start_radio=1&rv=TCTZdYRUuiU&t=33 Learn more about Parish on IG @plateofpleasure Hitlist: Sheria Irving Lori Harvey Recommended books; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson The Heart of Dominance: a guide to practicing consensual dominance Anton Fulmen The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp Patreon: www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

Topic: Belle and Bomber talk about their sexy highlights of 2022. But this year had some bullsh*t come with it too. Mentions Bulls & Queens Podcast Livin the Suite Life podcast Wanderlust Swingers Two hot wives Check out our Black n Sex series of 2022: Black Queens Vs. Black Bulls featuring Bulls and Queens Podcast Duchess Cashmere Meshai from Expansive Connection Jehn from Monogamish Pod JA from the I Hearddd podcast

Belle and Bomber talk about their recent experiences attending two very different Lifestyle Halloween Parties. They also meet up with a newbie couple and realize how rusty they are in popping cherries. Bomber talks about how Black lifestyle parties they have attended have not taken advantage of the limitless Black cultural themes available. The sequel to the classic Black Panther was dope and we talk about how Lupita and Angela out did themselves in terms of acting and overall sexiness. Mentions: Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Two hot wives: https://2hotwives.com/2hotwives-podcast/ep/ Coastal lovers: https://www.instagram.com/coastalloversdmv/ Wanderlust swingers: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about triads with two wives one man Hitlist: Jamie Clayton https://www.them.us/story/hellraiser-2022-review-jamie-clayton-pinhead Ram Charan https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ram_Charan Mentions Swingtown blog:https://blog.swingtowns.com/polyamory/adding-third/ Nypost article: https://nypost.com/2022/10/08/nyc-judge-rules-in-favor-of-polyamorous-relationships/ Portah family: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CjWzYxMoxGc/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Check out Coastal Lovers Next Party: aj4rose.yapsody.com Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

In this episode the Belle and Bomber discuss their thoughts on why so many Black veterans and military personnel are in the lifestyle. We talk to ATL and Chi, who both retired from the Airforce, on their lifestyle journey. Hitlist Tanerelle: https://tanerelle.com/ Steve Toussaint: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0869750/?ref_=tt_cl_t_9 Mentions: Duchess Cashmere: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cashmere-room/id1519835706 Swinging Flamingos: http://www.swingingflamingos.com/ Urban Swingers: https://www.instagram.com/urbanswingersxls/?hl=en

Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle share reasons why people dont shoot their shot in the lifestyle. Hitlist: Tati Grabrielle: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm6616259/ Tyler lepley: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4495842/ Mentions The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362 Swinger university: https://swingeruniversity.com/ Monogamish Marriage: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-monogamish-marriage/id1586549659 Duchess Cashmere: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cashmere-room/id1519835706 Swinger help: https://swingershelp.com/swinging-tips-for-shy-women/ Average Swingers: http://www.averageswingers.com/as151-shroomed/ Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

Show notes— Topic of the day: Swinger tunnel vision, multi-orgasmic men and why Black people don’t like “c*ck” If only we all had the attention scale and span of the Belle. The Bomber certainly does not and he knows he is not alone. Swinger tunnel vision is when you are focused on a single experience or goal in a way that blocks reason, caution and the recognition of alternative opportunities. The Benefit is that you can really get what you want out of a lifestyle experience that you tried really hard to get. The cost is that you may come off rude and may close yourself off from other experiences that could have turned out so much better. Hitlist: Usher: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up8ODGFWgFg May Calamawy: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2790595/ From Moon KNIGHT not Moon Light like I said on the show. Mentions Tribe Chat: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCosg3Ug0sTKTF8XW9nmhLNw The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362 Lovers and Friends Podcast on Male Egos: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS85SGdqTV9ycg/episode/ZTRkNGU0MDEtYmIxMi00NzJiLWJjYmUtNjQ4OWViNDc0ZTVj?hl=en&ved=2ahUKEwi-46Hgv_34AhUsEmIAHWWED6gQjrkEegQIAxAI&ep=6 Urban Swingers: https://www.facebook.com/urbanswingersxls/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

Show notes Topic of the day: Orgasms on the dance floor, belle goes commando and other PCAP color pop madness. Belle and Bomber talk about what they learned after attending Podcast-a-Palooza for the third time. Facebook Fuckshit: What happens when your husband leaves you for your sister. If you want all the details from PCAP, sign up for our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Urban Swingers Cabin Fever Linktr.ee/urbanswingers PCAP content creators referenced: Wanderlust swingers: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/ Average Swingers: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/average-swingers/id537110554 Casual Swingers: https://casualswinger.com/ 4 our play: https://4ourplay.com/ 2 Hot Wives: https://2hotwives.com/ Bed hoppers: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Swinger University: https://swingeruniversity.com/ Life of Spice: https://www.tiktok.com/@life_of_spice?lang=en Tequila that you can sip: https://tequila3030cristalino.com/ Hitlist Stephanie Hsu https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3513533/ Joel Kim Booster https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5527841/?ref_=tt_cl_t_1

Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about where podcast-a-palooza sits in the limitless lifestyle events you might be considering attending. They also go into the gray areas of consent in the lifestyle and beyond. Hitlist: June Diane Raphael & Alexis Floyd Show notes— Episode shoutouts: Tribe Chat: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCosg3Ug0sTKTF8XW9nmhLNw Wanderlust Swingers: https://beacons.ai/wanderlustswingers Ask: Building a culture of consent by Kitty Stryker We gotta thing podcast: https://wegottathing.com/ S.T.O. The Smoker’s Lounge: https://anchor.fm/smokethisova Swinger University: http://swingeruniversity.com Swinger help survey: surveymonkey.com/r/JK55M2F Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky PCAP https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BNK Past PCAP RECAPS https://soundcloud.com/bomber-belle/episode-63-podcast-a-palooza-encore-recap?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing https://soundcloud.com/bomber-belle/episode-58-pcap-recap-cake-farting-and-just-for-dinner?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about their house party experience with the Two Hotwives podcast and have a chat with Urban Swingers about their lifestyle parties in Detroit. Diary of a Mad Black Woman scene https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OT8IJX6yZj4 Come with us to PALM SPRINGS FOR PCAP!!! Purchase your tickets here-- https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BNK Episode shoutouts: Two Hot Wives: https://2hotwives.libsyn.com/34-house-parties-revisited Urban Swingers: https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Furbanswingers&e=ATOLDkyod6XKlsaBcgQlswUrYGUEt2QLMzyhhInb59h9j0uXO7EmMbHbfkKRShgxbB4HtlcxjjyKCLtT&s=1 Amour getaways: https://www.amourgetaways.com/ Monogamish Marriage shopping in Cap D’ Agde buying fruits with t*ts out. |https://twitter.com/Monogamish1/status/1508482158884708355?s=20&t=ppVY6P2X9pF99qUqLBP0iw Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Wanderlust Swingers Cap D’ Agde review https://www.swingingdownunder.com/podcast/podcast-capdagde/ https://www.spicymatch.com/events/28349/ Bulls & Queens podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-bulls-queens-swinger-podcast-doc-8qrIaQNe9u7/ We gotta thing podcast: https://wegottathing.com/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

Topic synopsis: Belle and Bomber talk about Desire Riviera Maya, reflecting on the experience, culture and demographics. They also lend their perspective to the question of why Black people are not occupying this luxurious resort. Hitlist: Simone Joy Jones Zoe Kravitz Podcasts referenced: By the bi podcast Desire Episodes https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/27764/btb-136-desire-resort-full-recap-part-1-by-the-bi/ That couple next door Desire episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-29-desire-riviera-maya/id1106517231?i=1000404716197 Podcast-a-palooza Desire RM https://www.desire-resort.com/?gclid=CjwKCAjwoduRBhA4EiwACL5RP9bSrK9HFdkdwVhedFFnFvctwn7UJEH02-SthrMcZiHTZkVOClSgbRoCjnEQAvD_BwE Desire Forum http://desiremexico.com/phpbb/index.php Temptations https://www.temptation-experience.com/ Cap d’Agde nude town in France https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2015/aug/27/naked-city-cap-agde-sun-swingers-shoplifting Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp Twitter

Doc Chocolate & Karamel are a professional black married couple based out of Las Vegas, Nevada … who have been exploring the swinging and open relationship lifestyle since 2016. In this dynamic duo, Doc is the goofy half & Karamel is the sexy half, as they have fun & laughs twice a month with their co-hosts, exploring the kinky side of the bull, hotwife, cuckold & black lifestyle world. Twitter @bullsandqueens website https://bullsandqueens.com/ Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

Meshai is dually licensed and certified in both Trauma Therapy and Sex Therapy. She believes in the power of living as one’s authentic self, and the freedom that comes from changing perspectives. She loves putting the puzzle pieces together of a individual or couple's sexual energy and aiding them in positive and explorative movement. Her coaching work implements creative synergy, openness, self-expression, and the confrontation of challenges through self-determination. She helps individuals from diverse populations move forward with their goals while being fully aware of how trauma can affect the whole person. Meshai works with a coaching practice called Expansive Connection. Which is a team of coaches that are ready to support individuals, couples, and more-somes on their life journey. Where we seek to support you as you grow mentally, physically, and emotionally. We bring a variety of experience to provide an integrative, holistic and collaborative approach to relationship coaching...free from judgment and focused on goals. Meshai's relationship and mindfulness coaching and consulting does not fall under the scope of her license. Website: www.expansiveconnection.com Instagram @expansive.connection.coaching Twitter: @expanconnect

J.A. J.A. is your spicier version of a closeted lover of all things dating, sex and…filth. She aims to bridge the gap between those who are curious about topics that have been considered taboo, for too long, and the very people who lead lives that might include activities of which the masses may be afraid. You can hear her pretend (devilish chuckle) to be unaware of topics like swinging, bdsm, dating practices and more on I Hearddd Podcast which can be found on Apple, Spotify, and most other platforms that offer podcasts. Instagram: @iheardddpodcast website: Ihearddd.com Buy your tickets to Podcast-a-palooza: https://podcast-a-palooza.com/

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