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Welcome to "The Blueprint," a podcast hosted by Jason Smith. The Blueprint is all about ditching your old plans so you can become the version of you that you always dreamed of being. The purpose is to help you improve your relationship with yourself and achieve high levels of personal growth. In each episode, Jason will guide you through different techniques and strategies to overcome your insecure attachment style, boost your self-confidence, and prioritize your health and fitness while diving into personal development.

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Nick Pollard, Born in April of 1980, is a world-renowned coach and speaker specializing in People Pleasing, Codependency, and Addiction. With over 50 million views on his social media channels, Nick has become a thought leader in personal growth and change. He ranks in the top 10% of coaches worldwide. Nick had a (in his own words) less-than-ideal childhood. His father was an alcoholic, workaholic, se* abuser. The latter would later push Nick to his psychological end, which landed him in a hospital in 2009. After that, Nick struggled mightily to hold his life together but could not (or so he felt) battle the mounting demons and turned to drugs and alcohol to solve the problem. It did not solve the problem, and roughly 9 years later, a change had to be made. Nick willingly checked himself into rehab, and the PeopleDisPleaser was born. Since then, Nick has traveled the world, learning and helping others and communicating his journey. His love for seeing people grow and the "light bulb go on and then explode" is what he credits, his drive. Nick has been very successful in business, forming and selling many companies. His first entrepreneurial venture, at age ten, was door sales for his car wash company that would later net him enough money to buy fireworks for the Fourth of July. "My parents said we did not have any money. I knew that was a lie, but I went anyway. I have made my own money since." If you ask Nick what he feels the key to success is, he would say, "Do the work. It is not fashionable or even slightly pretty. Just do the work." He enjoys walking on the beach, working out, and traveling. When he is not on the road, he spends time with his two cats, Azula and Zuko, reading, and working. https://www.instagram.com/thepeopledispleaser/ To connect with Jason click the link below! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
In this enlightening episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes the inspiring Candace Harmony, a passionate speaker and advocate for self-love and faith-driven living. Candace shares her journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a beacon of light for others through her work on social media and her focus on helping truck drivers maintain a healthy lifestyle. Key Topics Discussed: Discovering Self-Love Through Faith Candace discusses the importance of self-love rooted in faith. She emphasizes that understanding who you are and who created you is crucial for true self-love and confidence. Overcoming Life’s Challenges With personal anecdotes, Candace talks about overcoming significant obstacles and how her faith has been a guiding force. She likens herself to a "streetlight" for others, aiming to be a source of hope and guidance in their darkest times. The Power of Authenticity Both Candace and Jason delve into the idea of authenticity and the courage it takes to be yourself. Candace stresses the importance of knowing that everything you need is already within you and that you don’t need external validation to be your true self. Living with Purpose Candace shares insights on finding one’s purpose not by changing external circumstances, but by focusing on internal growth and standing firm in one’s current position with faith and trust in God. Guidance for the Journey of Self-Discovery Candace provides practical advice for those struggling with self-doubt and seeking permission to be themselves. She encourages listeners to stop looking for permission from others and instead learn to trust themselves and their own journey. Equally Yoked Relationships Discussing relationships, Candace explains the concept of being "equally yoked" with a partner. She highlights the importance of being with someone who is spiritually aligned and equally committed to personal and collective growth. Fitness and Faith Candace talks about her unique fitness journey and how it led her to focus on helping truck drivers with their health and wellness, emphasizing the importance of caring for oneself physically as part of overall spiritual well-being. Candace’s New Ventures Introducing her upcoming program, "Wellness at the Well," Candace speaks about creating a community focused on thriving in every area of life through biblical principles, ensuring participants are not just surviving but truly living fulfilled lives. Quotes to Remember: “Our life is our gift from God. What you do with your life is your gift back to Him.” “You are not supposed to love anybody with all your heart. You're setting yourself up for failure because they were never qualified or created to be able to handle all of your heart.” Synopsis: In this heartfelt episode, Jason Smith and Candace Harmony explore the depths of self-love, faith, and purpose. Candace shares her personal journey of transformation, highlighting how she overcame significant life challenges through her unwavering faith and determination. Her message is clear: true self-love begins with understanding your divine creation and purpose. Candace’s story is a testament to the power of authenticity, faith, and resilience. Listeners will be inspired to embrace their imperfections, stand firm in their faith, and love themselves deeply. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, seeking permission to be your authentic self, or wanting to find your purpose, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for your journey. Connect with Candace Harmony: Facebook: Candace Harmony TikTok: Candace Harmony Instagram: Candace Harmony Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
The Blueprint Podcast with Jason Smith and Guest Anna Axiotis (aka The Moody Therapist) In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Anna Axiotis, also known as The Moody Therapist, to discuss the complexities of attachment styles, emotional healing, and the impact of social media on personal growth. Anna shares her journey from being a casual social media viewer to becoming a content creator and therapist who uses her platform to discuss mental health, relationships, and attachment dynamics. The conversation dives deep into Anna’s experience with attachment styles, particularly avoidant and anxious attachments, and how understanding these styles can help individuals form healthier relationships. Anna discusses her approach to therapy, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and compassion in overcoming shame and trauma. Jason and Anna explore the challenges and benefits of being vulnerable online, including the potential for both positive and negative feedback from the audience. They also discuss the importance of taking time for oneself, through practices like relationship fasts and chosen solitude, to better understand personal needs and desires. Show Notes: Introduction Jason and Anna introduce each other, reminiscing about how they connected on social media and the common interests that brought them together. Anna’s Journey on Social Media Anna describes her transition from a social media viewer to a content creator and therapist, sharing personal stories that resonated with a wide audience. Discussion on the impact of her first viral post and how it led to her niche in mental health and therapy on platforms like TikTok. Understanding Attachment Styles Deep dive into attachment styles, particularly anxious and avoidant attachments, and their impact on relationships. Anna explains the importance of recognizing and working through attachment issues to form secure and healthy relationships. The Power of Vulnerability and Compassion Exploration of how vulnerability and compassion can help heal past wounds and reduce feelings of shame. Jason and Anna discuss how sharing personal experiences can create a sense of freedom and community support. Navigating Social Media Feedback The duo talks about the highs and lows of receiving feedback on social media and its effects on mental health. Strategies for managing negative comments and staying true to one’s message. The Concept of Relationship Fasts and Chosen Solitude Anna shares the benefits of taking a break from romantic relationships to focus on self-growth and self-discovery. The importance of maintaining individuality within relationships and avoiding the trap of codependency. Practical Advice for Attachment Healing Tips and strategies for moving from insecure to secure attachment styles, including self-soothing techniques and the importance of setting boundaries. Discussion on how to engage with partners about personal triggers and the importance of creating a safe space for open communication. Closing Thoughts Jason and Anna emphasize the importance of continuous self-development and growth in relationships. Anna shares details about her upcoming breakup/divorce journal, designed to help people process emotions and heal after a relationship ends. How to Connect with Anna Axiotis Follow Anna on TikTok: @AnnaDoesTherapy and Instagram: @TheMoodyTherapist Information about Anna’s upcoming guided journal for breakups and divorces, including its launch date coming soon! Connect with Jason here. Listen now to gain valuable insights on attachment styles, emotional resilience, and the power of vulnerability in building stronger, more fulfilling relationships! Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
Content Warning: This episode contains discussions about mental health, social media burnout, abusive relationship dynamics, and references to trauma. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Mark Groves, widely known as "Create the Love," and co-author of Liberated Love, written alongside his wife, Kylie McBeath. Mark shares his transformative journey from being a prominent social media influencer to stepping back from the demands of digital platforms. He opens up about the psychological toll of constant content creation, the manipulative nature of social media algorithms, and his decision to prioritize mental health and authentic expression over online metrics. Mark discusses the profound impact of his break from social media, likening the dynamics of platform algorithms to an abusive relationship. He delves into the importance of boundaries, both in digital and personal spaces, and highlights how he navigated his departure from major social media platforms while still maintaining meaningful connections with his audience. The conversation also explores the foundational principles behind Liberated Love, focusing on the themes of self-awareness, relational patterns, and the journey toward more conscious, liberated love. Mark and Jason discuss the role of men's groups, personal growth, and the transformative power of initiating authentic conversations in relationships. Listeners will gain insight into the importance of stepping into one's true self, the challenges and rewards of breaking free from codependent behaviors, and the value of setting boundaries in all forms of relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in personal growth, relational healing, and the journey toward a more authentic life. Show Notes: Introduction and Connection: Mark Groves and Jason Smith introduce the episode, highlighting their connection through mutual acquaintances like Sabrina Zohar and their shared journey in the self-development space. The Social Media Hamster Wheel: Mark shares his experiences with social media burnout, the decision to step back from content creation, and the psychological effects of constantly engaging with digital platforms. Comparison to Abusive Relationships: A discussion on how social media platforms manipulate user engagement through algorithms, drawing parallels to abusive relationship dynamics and the importance of reclaiming personal power. Liberated Love and Authentic Relationships: Mark discusses the themes of his book, Liberated Love, co-authored with his wife, Kylie McBeath. The conversation focuses on breaking free from codependent patterns, embracing authenticity, and fostering conscious relationships. Men's Groups and Healing: The importance of men's groups in personal growth and healing is explored, with insights into how these spaces support the development of healthier attachment styles and emotional expression. The Sacred Pause and Moving Forward: Mark explains the concept of a "sacred pause" in relationships—a period of intentional separation and self-reflection that can lead to deeper understanding and growth, either individually or together. Personal Evolution and Surrender: A reflection on the process of letting go of old identities, embracing new paths, and the continuous journey of self-discovery and authenticity. Closing Remarks and Where to Find Mark: Mark shares where listeners can find his work, including his podcast, courses, and his book, Liberated Love. Links: Mark Groves Podcast Create the Love Website Liberated Love - Book Link Mark Groves on Instagram Tune in to this enlightening conversation and discover how to navigate the complexities of modern relationships, social media, and self-expression with authenticity and integrity. Connect with Jason and Sign up for The 21 Day Self-Love Challenge and more!  https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  The Antares Society: 12 Weeks of Men's Coaching Starts September 17th, 2024 follow the link below to learn more! Sign up now and get 50% OFF until August 31st, 2024  Don't miss this offer!  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
Shayla Kummer is a distinguished Metaphysician and Conscious Business Coach, dedicated to empowering individuals to align with their Highest Calling. As the founder of Lionessencee, Shayla specializes in guiding clients toward personal mastery and spiritual actualization, enabling them to launch impactful brands and businesses that resonate with their true purpose.  With a self-made entrepreneurial spirit, Shayla is on a mission to inspire and uplift humanity, creating a ripple effect of positive change across the globe. She has cultivated a vibrant online community of over 180,000 followers across social media platforms, and her coaching services have reached clients in 14 different countries.  Shayla holds a Bachelor's degree in Metaphysics, combining her academic background with her passion for personal development and spiritual growth. Through her work, she provides the tools and insights necessary for individuals to embrace their unique gifts and make the meaningful impact they are destined to create on this planet.   Connect with Jason below!  https://stan.store/Jbirdfit     Disclaimer:  The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.   Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.   https://988lifeline.org/ 
Understanding Disorganized Attachment with Talia Bombola, LMFT | The Blueprint Podcast Description: In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes licensed marriage and family therapist Talia Bombola to discuss the complexities of disorganized attachment. Talia provides a deep dive into this often misunderstood attachment style, drawing from her extensive training in psychoanalysis and her therapeutic practice. Key Topics Discussed: Introduction to Disorganized Attachment: Talia explains the origins and characteristics of disorganized attachment, referencing the foundational research of Mary Ainsworth and John Bowlby. Impact of Childhood Experiences: A detailed exploration of how chaotic and alarm-inducing interactions with primary caregivers shape disorganized attachment, highlighting the prevalence and consequences of such experiences. Behavioral Manifestations: Understanding the unique push-pull dynamics in relationships and the psychological defenses that individuals with disorganized attachment develop to cope with childhood trauma. Comparison with Other Attachment Styles: Differentiating disorganized attachment from avoidant and anxious attachment styles, focusing on the absence of consistent caregiving models and the resulting relational patterns. Challenges in Relationships: Discussing the difficulties faced by individuals with disorganized attachment in forming secure, healthy relationships and the potential for relationship sabotage driven by unresolved trauma. Therapeutic Approaches: Insight into effective therapeutic strategies for managing and healing disorganized attachment, including the importance of therapy in achieving earned secure attachment. Personal and Relational Growth: Emphasizing the significance of self-awareness and therapeutic support in overcoming disorganized attachment and fostering healthier relational dynamics. Join Jason and Talia as they navigate the intricate world of disorganized attachment, providing valuable perspectives for anyone looking to understand this attachment style better, whether for personal insight or professional development. Subscribe & Follow: Don’t miss out on future episodes of The Blueprint Podcast! Subscribe and follow us on YouTube for more expert insights and engaging discussions. Connect with Us: Host: Jason Smith Guest: Talia Bombola, LMFT Social Media Links: Follow The Blueprint Podcast on Instagram, and Facebook. Contact Us: Have questions or topics you’d like us to cover? Reach out through my Stan Store! Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Jack Donovan, author of The Way of Men and A More Complete Beast, and founder of the men's group Order of Fire. The conversation kicks off with a recommendation from Jason's online friend, Ray Gardner, who introduced him to Jack's work. Jason shares how reading The Way of Men resonated with his own experiences of seeking purpose and understanding one's place in the world. Jack and Jason delve into the concept of "Vesperance," a term that encapsulates the wistful recognition of a past era and the anticipation of an unknown future. They discuss how the events of 2020 have left many feeling disoriented and the importance of adapting to the constantly shifting landscape. Jack draws parallels from classical philosophy, sharing insights from his studies of Plato and Socrates, and emphasizes the perennial nature of societal upheaval. The discussion shifts to practical aspects of self-improvement and masculinity. Jack introduces the idea of finding purpose and meaning in life, even in a world that feels increasingly chaotic. He stresses the importance of focusing on what can be controlled within one's sphere of influence and the value of male peer groups in providing validation, identity, and a sense of belonging. Jack also talks about the philosophy behind his men's group, Order of Fire, which aims to create a supportive community where men can develop and thrive. He shares the group's core rituals and the significance of having a personal system of values that guide one's actions. Join Jason and Jack for an insightful conversation that explores the dynamics of masculinity, the impact of societal changes, and the journey towards self-actualization. Connect with Jason below! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Jimmy Rex, author of Be One and founder of the men's group "We Are The They." This episode dives deep into Jimmy's journey from a successful real estate career to creating a transformative community for men. Key Highlights: Comedy Beginnings: Jimmy shares how he started his journey with stand-up comedy in Utah and how those experiences helped shape his public speaking skills. Inception of "We Are The They": Learn about the origins of Jimmy's impactful men's group, the inspiration behind it, and the unique challenges he faced while building and evolving the community. Experiences and Lessons: Jimmy discusses his real estate career, his time spent doing undercover work to combat sex trafficking, and how these intense experiences led him to a deeper purpose. Creating Be One: Insights into Jimmy’s book, Be One, where he discusses the importance of integrity, being a good man, and how to cultivate deep, meaningful relationships. Challenges and Solutions: Jimmy and Jason explore the common struggles men face, the importance of finding the right community, and practical steps for overcoming personal obstacles and achieving growth. Manifesting Success: Jimmy shares a remarkable story of manifesting a giant hammerhead shark during a retreat, emphasizing the power of intention and belief. Daily Habits for Happiness: Practical advice on the daily habits that contribute to happiness and well-being, and the significance of a supportive community. The Importance of Integrity: The episode underscores the importance of integrity in personal and professional life, how to recognize and address out-of-integrity behaviors, and the value of true friendships. Guest Information: Jimmy Rex: Follow Jimmy on Instagram @mrjimmyrex for more insights and updates. Check out his podcast, The Jimmy Rex Show, and watch his documentary on YouTube. Don’t miss his book, Be One, available now. Host Information: Jason Smith: Follow Jason for more episodes of The Blueprint Podcast where he brings on experts, authors, and thought leaders to discuss personal growth, relationships, and achieving your full potential. Subscribe and Listen: Tune in to The Blueprint Podcast on Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with others who are on their journey to becoming their best selves. https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
Episode Overview: The Blueprint Podcast with Host Jason Smith and Guest Talia Bombola, LMFT Episode Title: Understanding the Difference Between Avoidant Attachment and Narcissism with Talia Bombola Guest: Talia Bombola, LMFT - Every Tuesday, Talia joins us to answer questions from social media. Overview: In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith is joined by Talia Bombola, LMFT, to delve into the nuances between avoidant attachment and narcissistic personality disorder. Talia clarifies that avoidant attachment is not a diagnosis but a response pattern rooted in childhood experiences with primary caregivers. She contrasts this with narcissistic personality disorder, a clinical diagnosis characterized by ego-syntonic traits where the individual often lacks self-awareness about the distress they cause others. Talia explains that avoidant attachment develops when a child's needs are inconsistently met, leading to a self-reliant mindset and emotional distance from others. This attachment style is malleable and can change over time with effort and proper support. On the other hand, narcissistic personality disorder is marked by a lack of empathy and accountability, with individuals typically unaware of their harmful behaviors. Talia highlights the difficulties in treating malignant narcissism and the potential for some individuals with narcissistic traits to seek change, albeit rare. Jason and Talia also touch on the misconceptions proliferated on social media about narcissism and the importance of accurate diagnosis by trained professionals. They discuss the empowerment that comes from understanding one's attachment style and making conscious choices in relationships. Key Points: Avoidant Attachment: A response pattern from inconsistent childhood caregiving, leading to self-reliance and emotional distance. It is not a clinical diagnosis and can change over time. Narcissistic Personality Disorder: A clinical diagnosis with ego-syntonic traits, lacking empathy and accountability. It is challenging to treat, especially malignant narcissism. Social Media Misconceptions: Highlighting the importance of accurate diagnosis and the misinformation prevalent on social media. Empowerment Through Understanding: Encouraging self-awareness and conscious decision-making in relationships. Join us for an enlightening discussion that will help you navigate your relationships with greater clarity and compassion. Tune in every Tuesday for more insights from Talia Bombola on The Blueprint Podcast. https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith talks with Kavita Ajwani, a men's relationship coach from Dashing Date. Kavita shares her journey from running a speed dating company to becoming a dedicated coach for growth-minded men seeking love. She discusses the challenges men face in dating, such as confidence issues and the proper use of dating apps. Kavita explains her transition from event planning to coaching, emphasizing the importance of rebuilding confidence from within and maintaining a positive mindset. She offers practical advice on creating a strong dating profile, balancing online and in-person interactions, and confidently approaching women. Kavita introduces the "Y plus 1 method" for clear communication, helping reduce anxiety and build trust in early-stage dating. The episode also delves into self-awareness, encouraging men to reflect on past relationships to identify and change unhelpful behaviors. Kavita and Jason discuss red and green flags in dating, highlighting the significance of honoring commitments and rescheduling canceled dates as signs of genuine interest. This episode is packed with actionable insights and strategies for men looking to improve their dating experiences and build meaningful connections. Connect with The Blueprint Community below!  https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Disclaimer:The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/ 
Welcome to another episode of The Blueprint Podcast with your host, Jason Smith. In this episode, Jason sits down with Dr. Kelly Brogan, the author of The Reclaimed Woman.Jason kicks off the episode by sharing a serendipitous moment where he stumbled upon the documentary Heal, featuring Dr. Kelly Brogan, just as he was preparing for this interview. This synchronicity sets the stage for a deep and engaging conversation.Dr. Kelly Brogan dives into her background, detailing her journey from a conventional psychiatrist to embracing holistic practices after her own health crisis. She shares her personal transformation story, including her diagnosis of Hashimoto’s thyroiditis and how dietary changes led to her recovery. This experience led her to challenge the allopathic medical system and become a passionate advocate for naturopathy and lifestyle changes.The conversation takes a turn into the dynamics of family and the integration of masculine and feminine values. Kelly, influenced by her law enforcement family background, discusses the importance of these dynamics in personal development. She also explores the concept of victim consciousness, emphasizing the transformative power of taking ownership of our own suffering and seeing ourselves in those we blame.Kelly introduces the practice of Family Constellation therapy, explaining its impact on her understanding of relationships and personal dynamics. She highlights the significance of offering belonging and acknowledging all family members, including those excluded or forgotten, to heal ancestral wounds.The episode also delves into empowering relationships. Kelly shares insights from teachers like Laura Doyle on improving romantic relationships through respect and support. She stresses the importance of seeing your partner’s potential and allowing them the freedom to make mistakes without judgment.Parenting is another key topic, with Kelly offering advice on raising children with respect for their individuality and sovereignty. She emphasizes giving to children without expecting anything in return and allowing them to make their own choices, fostering a healthy and supportive environment.Jason and Kelly then discuss the societal challenges facing men and women today, touching on the war on masculinity and femininity. They highlight the need for men to heal with men and women to heal with women to restore natural dynamics and complementary relationships.As the episode concludes, Kelly shares her excitement about her upcoming book, The Reclaimed Woman, and its companion program, Reclaimed, launching on July 8th. She invites listeners to join her on this transformative journey.To connect with Dr. Kelly Brogan, visit her website at kellybroganmd.com.https://www.kellybroganmd.com/Check out her podcast, Reclamation Radio, for more insightful conversations. Don’t forget to grab a copy of The Reclaimed Woman, available on June 25th, and consider joining the Reclaimed program starting July 8th.https://www.kellybroganmd.com/booksFinally, Jason invites listeners to join his communities. The Blueprint is a space for everyone focusing on healing the relationship with yourself, while The Antares Society is a men's community dedicated to networking, support, and brotherhood.The Blueprint Communityhttps://www.skool.com/the-blueprint-community-8998/aboutThe Antares Society Men's Grouphttps://www.skool.com/the-antares-society/aboutThank you for tuning in to The Blueprint Podcast! Stay tuned for more insightful conversations and remember to embrace your journey of self-discovery and growth.Disclaimer:The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/
In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, I sit down with Britt Frank, a licensed neuropsychotherapist and trauma specialist, to explore the many facets of personal growth, self-healing, and relationship dynamics. Britt brings her wealth of knowledge to the table, sharing profound insights from her books, The Science of Stuck and The Getting Unstuck Workbook. We discuss practical ways to navigate anxiety, trauma, and disordered thinking, providing listeners with actionable steps to apply in their daily lives. Our conversation delves into the importance of self-education, breaking unhealthy patterns, and understanding attachment styles. Britt emphasizes the significance of confronting and transforming one's inner narrative to achieve lasting change. Whether you're struggling with feeling stuck or seeking to deepen your understanding of secure attachments, this episode is packed with strategies to help you reclaim your personal power and foster healthier relationships with yourself and others. Tune in for a deep dive into the transformative journey of self-discovery and healing. https://www.scienceofstuck.com/  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/   
Ep. 77 Steve Bourdo

Ep. 77 Steve Bourdo

2024-05-2857:25

In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes TikTok sensation Steve Bourdo, who boasts over 420,000 followers. Steve, a dedicated father and everyday man, delves into his unexpected rise on TikTok, which began as a way to combat loneliness during the early days of COVID-19. His candid stories range from humorous family antics to deep relationship advice, especially surrounding co-parenting post-divorce. Steve opens up about the transformative experiences of his two divorces, sharing the emotional challenges and personal growth that followed. He emphasizes the importance of facing emotions head-on, a philosophy he sums up as "you have to feel it to heal it." This raw and honest dialogue explores how vulnerability and self-reflection have been crucial in overcoming life's obstacles and improving family dynamics, especially in co-parenting. Listeners will find value in Steve's journey from heartache to healing, providing a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of community support in times of personal turmoil. Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
In this engaging episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Brianna DiOrio, a dynamic voice in the realm of integrative medicine and personal development. Known for her thought-provoking content on social media, Brianna shares insights into the complexities of modern relationships, drawing from her extensive background in health, wellness, and life coaching. The conversation delves into the impact of social media on relationship dynamics, the nuances of dating in the digital age, and Brianna’s unique approach to content creation that blends personal experiences with professional knowledge. The episode is a deep dive into how we build and sustain relationships, the challenges individuals face, and the personal growth that accompanies our interactions with others. Whether you’re navigating the dating world or seeking to deepen existing relationships, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice to enhance your relational toolkit. Brianna DiOrio is a dynamic expert in integrative medicine, a clinical nutritionist, and a holistic life coach, recognized for her vibrant approach to health and wellness. With a PhD in Integrative Medicine and a background as a NASM certified personal trainer, she brings a unique blend of scientific knowledge and practical wisdom to her work. Brianna is deeply passionate about educating and empowering individuals to take charge of their health through holistic and functional practices. Her approach is centered on understanding the interplay between mental, physical, and emotional health, which she communicates engagingly through her social media platforms and her podcast, "Brianna Approved." Whether it’s debunking health myths or providing nuanced perspectives on wellness, Brianna’s content is both informative and transformative, encouraging her audience to live their healthiest lives. https://www.briannadiorio.com/  https://www.instagram.com/briannadiorio/  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/ 
Julie Menanno (MA, LMFT, LCPC) is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples. She also provides insight and advice for couples at @TheSecureRelationship on Instagram, with over one million followers. She founded and runs the Bozeman Therapy & Counseling clinic, and The Secure Relationship Coaching. She lives in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband and six children. Jason and Julie kick off the conversation by discussing the beauty of Bozeman, Montana, and the unique experiences that come with living there. They delve into Julie's professional journey, her passion for helping couples build secure attachments, and the inspiration behind her book, "Secure Love." The discussion covers a range of topics, including the impact of childhood attachment on adult relationships, the challenges posed by technology in maintaining healthy attachments, and the different attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized. Julie provides insights into how these styles manifest in relationships and offers practical advice for individuals struggling with attachment issues. Julie also addresses the common tendency for people to label themselves with attachment styles and the potential pitfalls of using these labels as permanent identifiers. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's behaviors and feelings in relationships and working towards healthier patterns through self-awareness and communication. Throughout the episode, Julie shares personal anecdotes and professional experiences that highlight the complexities of human emotions and relationships. She underscores the importance of vulnerability and resilience in building and maintaining healthy connections with others. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of attachment theory, practical tools for improving their relationships, and the reassurance that perfection is not the goal. As Julie poignantly concludes, "Go be imperfect," reminding us all to give ourselves grace in the journey of self-discovery and relationship-building. Tune in to this insightful episode for valuable relationship advice and a candid conversation about the power of secure attachment. Secure Love: (US Version) https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Secure-Love/Julie-Menanno/9781668012864(UK Version) https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secure-Love-Create-Relationship-Lifetime/dp/1529902967/?maas=maas_adg_8DB247C73AC7406FC4472B1FB42F4B47_afap_abs&ref_=aa_maas&tag=maasWebsite:https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thesecurerelationship/ Sign up for 6 Weeks of Group Coaching Starting in June!  Learn more here! Use Discount Code: "Attached" at checkout!  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
Sensitive Content Warning: This episode contains discussions on sensitive topics including mental health, historical events, and personal and societal challenges related to attachment theory. Some content may be emotionally impactful as it addresses complex issues such as relationship dynamics, mental health struggles, and societal changes. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find topics of mental health distressing. The views expressed by the guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Blueprint Podcast or its hosts. In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith engages in a deep dive with guest Adam Lane Smith, an expert in attachment theory. Adam shares his personal journey from grappling with attachment issues in a challenging environment to choosing a career in therapy to help others overcome similar struggles. He emphasizes the critical importance of attachment theory in understanding and addressing broader social problems. Adam elaborates on the prevailing misconceptions within the academic sphere regarding attachment theory, underscoring its foundational role in building healthier societal structures. He discusses his encounters with leading experts and integrates cutting-edge research into his practice, reinforcing attachment theory’s relevance across various interpersonal connections. The conversation also explores the dire state of attachment in today’s youth, with Adam highlighting alarming statistics about the prevalence of insecure attachments. He stresses the urgency of addressing these issues to prevent further societal deterioration. Adam’s narrative is rich with historical context, connecting past societal shifts to current attachment challenges. He discusses the impacts of significant events like World Wars and the Industrial Revolution on family dynamics and societal health, offering a comprehensive perspective on the developmental origins of current attachment styles. This episode not only illuminates the critical implications of attachment theory but also serves as a call to action for listeners to reflect on and improve their own relational dynamics. Adam's deep expertise and passionate advocacy for understanding and addressing attachment issues make this a compelling and educational listen. Youtube:  www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/about/  Instagram: instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/adamlanesmith   Email: support@adamlanesmith.com TikTok:   tiktok.com/@attachmentbro Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
Welcome to Talia Tuesday's on The Blueprint Podcast, Today's episode is a solo episode where I answer questions during a recent live on social media about love, relationships, and attachment styles.  https://www.instagram.com/taliabombola/  https://www.instagram.com/the.blueprint.podcast/  https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/  https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  https://jbirdfit.lpages.co/  https://coachingwithtaliainc.simplero.com/events/hvY9iSdD2tRajz7k  Enjoying our show? We'd love to hear from you! Your feedback means the world to us. Please take a moment to rate and review The Blueprint Podcast on your favorite podcast platform. Your reviews help us grow and reach more listeners like you!  Don't forget to share the love on social media too! Share a screenshot, tag us, and let your friends know why they should tune in. Together, let's spread the inspiration and empower more people on their journey to success. Thank you for being part of The Blueprint Podcast community! 💙 The Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Donny Mallin, the dynamic force behind Crucible Fitness, to share his journey and insights on building a fitness community with Nathan Mansfield grounded in faith and camaraderie. This episode dives into how Crucible Fitness fosters a unique environment where relationships thrive without the barriers of awkwardness, a testament to the community's strength and shared values. Donny opens up about his transition from law enforcement to fitness coaching, reflecting on his lifelong passion for fitness and how personal faith has played a crucial role in shaping his new path. The duo discusses the importance of teamwork and the seamless integration of new members into the Crucible community, highlighting the immediate cohesion and shared vision among the group. Listeners will gain insights into how Donny's faith influences his leadership style, the entrepreneurial spirit driving Crucible Fitness, and the personal transformations that happen when people engage in a supportive and goal-oriented fitness community. This episode is not just a story of fitness entrepreneurship but a deeper look at how personal connections and shared values can create powerful community impacts. Link up with The Crucible's 8-Week Fitness Challenge Get Your FREE Ebook! Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
Sensitive Content: Please be aware that this podcast episode discusses topics like mental health, trauma, and addiction, which may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. We handle these subjects with care and aim to provide valuable insights, but please consider your own comfort and well-being before listening. If you find the content distressing, feel free to skip this episode. Thank you for your understanding. Join host Jason Smith on The Blueprint Podcast for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, the renowned author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy." In this episode, Dr. Glover dives deep into the misconceptions of the "nice guy" stereotype and discusses the psychological framework that underpins it. He explores how men can overcome people-pleasing behaviors and reclaim their authenticity. Listeners will gain insight into why the "nice guy" persona is problematic, how it affects relationships, and the steps to take to develop more honest and fulfilling connections with others. Dr. Glover shares practical advice and strategies for men who want to transform their lives by being assertive, direct, and genuine. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels trapped by the need to constantly appease others at the expense of their own happiness and well-being. Tune in to discover how to embrace your true self and lead a life that's aligned with your values and desires. Whether you're struggling with the "nice guy" syndrome yourself or you know someone who is, Dr. Glover's expert insights and Jason's thoughtful questions provide the blueprint for personal growth and empowerment. Listen to The Blueprint Podcast for this transformative discussion and start your journey towards genuine self-improvement today! Be sure to rate and review the show to help us grow!  https://www.drglover.com/  https://integrationnation.net/landing-page  Join my 6-Weeks of Group Coaching!  https://jbirdfit.mykajabi.com/offers/Djz2umEo  Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.  https://988lifeline.org/
Welcome to Talia Tuesday's on The Blueprint Podcast, where we dive deep into the realms of confidence and assertiveness with our host, Talia Bombola. As a licensed marriage and family therapist and a specialist in confidence and assertiveness, Talia brings a wealth of expertise and insights to our discussions. Join us each Tuesday as we explore practical strategies, personal anecdotes, and empowering advice to help you cultivate the confidence and assertiveness you need to thrive in all aspects of life. Get ready to unlock your full potential and build the life you desire with Talia as your guide. Let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment together. https://www.instagram.com/taliabombola/  https://www.instagram.com/the.blueprint.podcast/  https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/  https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  https://jbirdfit.lpages.co/  https://coachingwithtaliainc.simplero.com/events/hvY9iSdD2tRajz7k  Enjoying our show? We'd love to hear from you! Your feedback means the world to us. Please take a moment to rate and review The Blueprint Podcast on your favorite podcast platform. Your reviews help us grow and reach more listeners like you!  Don't forget to share the love on social media too! Share a screenshot, tag us, and let your friends know why they should tune in. Together, let's spread the inspiration and empower more people on their journey to success. Thank you for being part of The Blueprint Podcast community! 💙 The Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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