The Book of Love

Welcome to The Book of Love podcast, where we unravel the mysteries of modern relationships and dating. In this special segment, "Sean's Corner," your host Sean Aucoin, known as the modern-day hitch, delves into candid conversations with an expert in the field. Lloyd Dixon, believes that everyone deserves to experience fulfilling and meaningful connections. Whether you're struggling to find the right partner, facing challenges in your current relationship, or simply seeking to enhance your dating skills, Lloyd is here to provide tailored support and practical advice. Lloyd offers a compassionate and non-judgmental approach, helping clients identify their goals, overcome obstacles, and cultivate healthier relationships. With a wealth of knowledge and experience, Lloyd specializes in areas such as communication skills, self-confidence building, and navigating the intricacies of online dating. Sean and Lloyd explore the motivations behind their journey into coaching, debunking misconceptions about pick-up artists and emphasizing their mission to help men evolve into their best selves. Join us as we uncover the secrets to fostering genuine connections and empowering individuals to attract the love they deserve. Connect with A Single Guy on Instagram @A.Single.Guy to embark on your own journey towards self-improvement in love and life. Tune in to "The Book of Love" podcast for insights, inspiration, and a sprinkle of romance. Website: https://www.getcoachedbylloyd.com/ YouTube: @thesingleguy

Welcome to our 100th episode of the Book of Love! As a special treat, I brought our in house matchmaker Olivia and event coordinator Brittany to open the Book of Love doors and allow you into our office. We discuss their journey of coming onto the Book of Love team, getting on board with our mission of creating a dating culture based on kindness and respect, and create their own unique niche in the Book of Love. We discuss the spark, how to get better quality matches online or from the book of love, how to rock an event and of course lots of laughs along the way.    We have a lofty goal of creating double the amount of couples in 2024 than previous years. You will see this with all our events, lots of matchmaking dates and our new Empower Her program that includes workshops that are going to make dating fun again! To learn more about our services be sure to visit our website: bookoflovecanada.ca

In this episode, we embark on a heartfelt conversation that dives deep into the intricacies of being single and approaching your 30s. Our guest shares their experiences, insights, and strategies for navigating single life, complete with all its ups and downs.    Join us for a candid, insightful, and empowering conversation on single life in your 30s, and discover the beauty and strength that comes with embracing your independence and enjoying the journey of being single!

In this episode, we dive into the world of modern dating and meaningful connections with the fantastic folks behind Blink Date. With their unique approach to matching, we explore the art of making genuine connections in today's fast-paced dating scene. So, join us for a conversation that might just spark your next great connection. It's time to Blink Date and experience the magic of authentic encounters.

Join us as we delve into the world of intimacy, relationships, and personal growth with the remarkable Serena Haines. With her wealth of experience and compassionate approach, Serena sheds light on the complexities of human connections, guiding us toward deeper understanding and fulfillment.    Serena Haines is a renowned Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Coach. Serena has dedicated her life to guiding individuals and couples toward deeper connections and fulfilling intimacy. With years of experience and a profound passion for her work, she's here to help you explore the intricate and beautiful world of human sexuality and relationships. Serena's expertise shines through her guidance, creating a safe space to discuss and understand complex subjects with ease and grace.   Tune in to discover more about Serena's insights and how she can empower your journey to deeper intimacy and stronger connections.

Introducing Boss Talk! A live podcast & networking event hosted by us: Confidence Coach Jess Clerke & Matchmaker Jean-eva Dickie. Join us for an inspiring evening as we dive into our stories of business ownership right here in Halifax! Couple that with a networking event of like-minded individuals, and we have a powerful evening of connection, inspiration and laughter. This is part 1 of 3. Part 2 will be launched on Jess's podcast Selfish Confidence. Here is the link to follow us on our Boss Talk Journey https://jessclerke.com/ In this engaging live podcast event, We will discuss the ups and downs of navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship and experiencing firsthand what it takes to grow a business, not through grants & connections, but through grit, blood, sweat and tears. Be prepared to be inspired as we delve into the struggles we faced, the obstacles we overcame, and the strategies we employed to build businesses in our dynamic but small city. We will provide practical insights and actionable tips for aspiring entrepreneurs and business owners. This live podcast event aims to foster a supportive community where attendees can connect with like-minded individuals, network, and gain valuable knowledge. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a seasoned business owner, or simply curious about the journey of those in business, this is the podcast episode for you. Gain valuable insights to fuel your own entrepreneurial dreams.

This week we welcome back our men's dating coach Sean Aucoin to The Book of Love Podcast. This segment is for our gentlemen listeners and those ladies that would like the male perspective to love and dating. It wasn't until I came to understand how men think, what they value in partnership and how they show love that I was able to transform my dating life.    In this episode Sean takes the time to answer your questions as if you were in a dating coaching session with him. If you are interested in learning more about working 1 on 1 with Sean, feel free to email him at sean.moderndayhitch@gmail.com or take advantage of a FREE 15 minute phone consultation with Sean to learn more: www.bookoflovecanada.ca/coachingformen 

This week we have another Hotline. We answer three questions from our followers.  Q #1: Hello Jean-eva, I need help, my last partner of seven years was a narcissist. It has been three years since that relationship and I started dating six months ago. I met somebody really great but I think it may be too good to be true. I’m not seeing any signs of him being a narcissist but it is going so well. I have this overwhelming feeling to end it. Am I being crazy? Q #2: I went on the best first date last week, he’s so handsome, I was so attracted to him. I felt instant chemistry and we agreed on almost everything we discussed. He walked me to my car and gave me a hug. I said I had a great time and we should do it again and he said me too, let’s do it again! and then we went our separate ways. When I got home I texted him and said I had a great time, thank you so much for dinner, and I haven’t heard from him since. Did I mess it up by sending that text? Did I seem too eager? Also, why would you say let’s do it again and then not reach out and plan something, it’s so rude. I don’t understand, we had so much chemistry  Q #3: I’m an autistic adult and I have a really hard time online dating, I find first dates hard because conversations with me are different from conversations with a neurotypical person and I can never get on a second date. So I added the fact that I’m autistic to my online dating profile, but my matches went down to almost nonexistent. It was the Hinge prompt that said “something you should know about me” and I said “I’m autistic” almost zero matches then I took it off my profile but would tell someone after a few texts and then they would disappear, what should I do? I’m almost about to give up. If you are interested in learning more about the Compound Dating Technique community created in January, feel free to follow the following link to learn more: bookoflovecanada.ca/cdt   What do you think of this advice? Do you agree? Do you disagree? Feel free to share, I would love to hear your thoughts.

This episode we bring on 'amateur matchmaker' Danielle based in Moncton New Brunswick. Host of Never Not Talking Podcast, we indirectly connected through her podcast and connected on love and connecting people.    She tells her story of becoming a matchmaker, and how the journey has continued. We discuss what holds most people back in dating, and how to prevent blocks and habits from holding us back from amazing connections. We discuss the importance of informal matchmakers, nosey aunties and the local busy body. There aren't nearly enough of them and we want to encourage everyone to continue to matchmake their friends!

This week we welcome Alexandra Harbushka. Her life was sent into upheaval when she received a call from her doctor diagnosing her with herpes. After coming to terms with her diagnosis she launched into sharing her story with people just like her, to let them know that their feelings are normal, natural and that they are not victims. She founded Life with Herpes, and online community consisting of:   Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/6AGCqIUk5tC4E1VhDTzG92 Website - https://www.lifewithherpes.com/ Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lifewithherpes Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifewithherpes/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw-XqkVAvdl4QFGUzDcZEZg   All dedicated to shattering the stigma of living with herpes. This episode covers all questions you may have on dating as a single with herpes but also how to react when someone discloses that they have herpes to you.

Our fourth and final part of our series on attachment styles. We talk to a woman who resonates with an avoidant attachment style. We discussed qualities that resonate with her, which was very eye opening. Becoming a brick wall, not being vulnerable, being the busiest person in the world and canceling dates last minute. Filling your calendar so full, no romantic connection can ever have the time to truly get to know you. Are you guilty of this?   What did you think of this attachment style series? Did you learn something about yourself, or even someone you've dated in the past?    If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon. 

Our third episode of our four part series on attachment styles. We talk to a single woman who has done the work to move from an insecure attachment to a secure attachment. Every journey from insecure to secure is different, but it always takes time and hard work. Majority of the population is securely attached, but as single individuals dating, we tend to run into a lot of insecure attached individuals, because an insecure attachment does a great job keeping someone single.    I learned something new with this guest, and how our brain reacts when we are triggered in life. We also discuss how to teach our brain not to react when being triggered. If there is one word that can describe this episode, it would be EMPATHY.   If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon. 

Our second episode of our four part series on attachment styles. We talk to another single man who resonates with an anxious attachment style when dating. We get an insider look into the mindset of a man who is dating while anxiously attached. We will hear stories of neediness, clinginess, putting women on a pedestal, and what I call the "disney effect". This is where anxiously attached individuals specifically will meet someone and then quickly create the story of what their fairy tail life with that person will look like, while that person is still a basic stranger. Media and culture shows women doing this, but men do it too!   We are still looking for someone with an avoidant attachment for episode three of this four part series. If you, or someone you know want to anonymously join us on the Book of Love Podcast to share your story, please email me at jean-eva@bookoflovecanada.ca   If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon. 

Introducing the first episode of our four part series on attachment styles. We start with a single man who resonates with a fearful avoidant attachment style. Avoidant men often get labeled as f&%k boys, narcissists or just jerks. Our guest describes what is going on behind the scenes of dating as a man with a fearful avoidant attachment. He mentions one scenario that described a lot of my personal relationships with men, and it was very powerful to hear the other perspective. Join us for this vulnerable episode from a self aware man. We are still looking for someone with an avoidant attachment for episode three of this four part series. If you, or someone you know want to anonymously join us on the Book of Love Podcast to share your story, please email me at jean-eva@bookoflovecanada.ca If this is your first introduction to attachment styles, I recommend reading the book 'Attached' found at any major book store or Amazon.

I'm so happy to be back. Huge apologies for the impromptu four month hiatus, but I'm excited to be back and excited to answer these questions on our Book of Love Hotline. If you are interested in learning more about the Compound Dating Technique community created in January, feel free to follow the following link to learn more:   bookoflovecanada.ca/cdt   Questions answered on today's hotline:   Q#1 : jean-eva I need help. I am a woman in my early 40’s and I have created an amazing life for myself. I have a high paying career, my own house and car, a great group of friends and I am very happy. My issue is, when I date, I can’t find men at my ‘level’. I meet a lot of great guys, but I have yet to meet someone who makes the same amount of money as me or more (200k+). I have dated men in the past that make less than me and it usually turns into an issue. What should I do?   Q # 2 : I’ve been seeing this woman for about 3 months. She is my dream woman and I can’t believe she is interested in me. Since we started dating we have seen each other about once a week. I like to put together fun dates and we typically spend Saturday night and Sunday morning together. Around the 6 week mark she started asking me if we could see each other more, or if I could maybe text her more throughout the week. She says she feels disconnected from the time we aren’t together. I’m super busy, and don’t always have time to text, plus I really don’t like texting. If I’m being honest I’m also afraid to be spending more time with her. What if we spend too much time together and she gets bored or annoyed by me. I’ve been told by exes that I can be pretty annoying. What should I do?    Q # 3: Dear Jean-eva, I’ve been dating a new guy for a few months now and things seem to be going really well. So well, in fact, that I’m starting to get worried that this is the best I’m going to get and I’m going to miss out because I don’t feel ready to commit. I’ve been hurt before and I don’t want to relive that. How do I tell if this is the right person for me? I don’t want to string him along, but I don’t want to break things off either. Help me! What do you think of this advice? Do you agree? Do you disagree? Feel free to share, I would love to hear your thoughts.  Love, Jean-eva

Hello my amazing Book of Love listeners. This episode is an ode to you. At the end of the year, I was experiencing major burnout. So I took the last two weeks reflecting on my year as a matchmaker. I took some time to reflect on all the couples that were created and wanted to share their unique stories that give us hope for 2023. Each couple taught me a lesson, but these specific couples have unique journeys that created a unique mindset to enter 2023 with. 

Friendships in your 30s are HARD. We're not in high school anymore, this stuff takes work! How do we create meaningful friendships as an adult?  Grab your ticket for the upcoming Girls Night Out Roller Disco Night December 1st from 8PM-10PM www.jessicaclerke.com/events Thank you for listening today! If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend! Or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can send you a message to personally thank you! Check out my website at: www.jessicaclerke.com If you're on instagram, come say hi!! My Personal Account ---> @jess.clerke The Podcast Account ---> @selfishconfidence

This week, we welcome Danielle from Foxlow Boudoir to discuss confidence and boudoir. Danielle has dedicated herself to building women’s confidence with boudoir photography, a growing social media community, and now an on-demand makeup course.   Alongside photographer Jon Davies, she has created a body positive studio in England that celebrates women of all ages, shapes and sizes with empowering boudoir photoshoots. The amazing women you see on their social media range from 21 to 74 years old, and from UK size 6 to 34, reminding us all that beauty and sensuality have no age or size limits!    Now they’ve found another way to help women feel confident every day with a new online course: Makeup Made Easy featuring their studio makeup artist Charlotte Severn. Through a series of on-demand video tutorials, she explains ten key makeup skills with simple language and demonstrations, then five timeless makeup looks that you can adapt to any occasion.   https://www.foxlowphotography.com   TikTok - @foxlowboudoir https://www.tiktok.com/@foxlowboudoir   Instagram - @foxlowphotography https://www.instagram.com/foxlowphotography/   Facebook Group - The Vixens of Foxlow https://www.facebook.com/groups/foxlowladies   Makeup Made Easy Course https://www.foxlowphotography.com/makeup-made-easy Launch Offer - Half Price until 30th November 2022.

This week is a special episode! We have created a new segment called Sean's Corner. Our male dating coach Sean Aucoin takes over the mic to answer questions from both men and women from the male perspective.    He answers questions such as:   1. It's official, being called a creep is my worst nightmare, how do I approach women without being creepy?   2. We had an amazing date, but he said there was no romantic connection. What the heck?!    3. Why are women so flakey online dating?   4. How can you find a man who wants to date instead of just getting laid?   5. If he sends reactions to my stories, is that a sign of interest?   If you have any questions you would like answered on the next Sean's Corner, be sure to email Sean at sean.moderndayhitch@gmail.com

This week's episode of the book of love hotline covers a lot of the most asked questions in dating:   Question # 1 - Why do women get angry when using the term "wifey type"? Question # 2 - Who pays for the first date? Question # 3 - What you should know before dating a single parent & what single parents need to know when dating. Question # 4 - What to do when someone is asking hard hitting questions about relationships on a first date?   If you aren't in the book of love yet, follow the link below to fill out a brief form, and I will be in touch shortly with more details.    bookoflovecanada.ca