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Jo talks about confidence in the lifestyle, and ways to increase your confidence in and out of the bedroom
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Send us a textChad recently sort of hosted an impromptu party at our friend's house while they were out of town, and apparently, it was a great time! Today, we talk about why, and we talk about planning things versus letting them just play out.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! ...
Send us a textDisappointment is bound to happen, even in the LS. It happens when things don't work out the way you want them to, and you're left dealing with those emotions. In today's episode, Jo talks about disappointment, some causes and situations, and then she talks about tips for managing disappointment, and some ways to avoid it in the future.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming...
Send us a textLast week, Jo talked about people finding themselves in "natural" D/s dynamics. Staying on the D/s thought train, this week, Jo talks about how thoughts and emotions are ALSO in a D/s dynamic. Thoughts are the Dom (usually); they are in control, or they think they are, and emotions are the sub, the more submissive ones that do as they are told. Or, that's how we WANT to believe. But just like in any kind of D/s dynamic, it's REALLY the sub that has control, and in our bitchy lit...
Send us a textIn this episode, Jo talks about basic Dom/sub relationship dynamics, and how they can and often do show up in everyday vanilla relationships. She talks about the benefits that could come from embracing a more structured D/s dynamic.The video referenced in this episode:What Submissives REALLY Want from their Dominant (youtube.com)Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Ou...
Send us a textIf you are already an overthinker, the LS can kick your bitchy little brain into overdrive. In today's episode, Jo talks about overthinking and gives some tips to help you manage it.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Straff...
Send us a textThis is a short mini episode about self-love, and the things that get lost, the things that hide and keep you from the happiness and healing you are seeking.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757Book a free ...
Send us a textToday, Jo interviews Lisa, who has a different Lifestyle why. Lisa has some medical issues that affect her sexually, so she and her husband use the lifestyle to not just enhance their relationship, but to ensure that sexual needs are met.There is no one right way, or one right reason. This episode highlights the many dynamics that are possible, and is a reminder that sometimes, that guy that plays alone really IS for real. Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision b...
Send us a textLet's talk about sex (baby, let's talk about you and me....).Today, Jo is talking about getting better at sex, about being more CONFIDENT about sex.Sex obviously plays a big part in the Lifestyle, and we ALL want to believe that we are good at sex. So today, Jo talks about what she believes make someone good at sex and offers tips for getting better.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist fo...
Send us a textHey everybody! Chad had his YouTube debut!Chad was asked to be a guest on the Open Bedroom Podcast with Jennifer Kaylo. She interviewed Chad and her partner, Scott, in her episode, "Husbands of Podcasters."So today, Chad talks a little bit about that experience, and then we share the episode.Check it out!https://youtu.be/vy2y7qwolIw?si=mCikaTBVs9hVIafQSupport the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist ...
1Send us a textAging is something that a lot of people struggle with. Especially in the LS, where so much emphasis is placed on sex appeal and physical appearance.But you CAN be confident as you age. That's what this episode is all about.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! S...
Send us a textYou have a good relationship. And now, you want to enhance your relationship by getting into the LS. You want to bring that added excitement, that extra spark. But NOT at the expense of your relationship.Basically, you're worried about f-ing up your relationship. That's what today's episode is all about.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (&...
Send us a textIn this episode, Jo talks about slowing down in your flirting game. Or, what she likes to call drive by flirting. It's when you don't focus your attention on someone for a long period of time, but you keep coming back to flirting with them throughout the evening.It can be a super helpful tool for people who struggle with being put on displace.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the u...
Send us a textThis week, Jo is talking about slowing things down. It's pretty likely that one, or both, of you will want or need to slow things down at some point in your LS journey. And that's ok. It's an important part of building trust in your relationship so that eventually, you both WANT to move forward again.It's important to remember to honor the feelings of both people during this time; the person NOT wanting to slow down is just as important as the person that DOES want to slow down....
Send us a textChad and Jo went to Michigan to check out a party, and they share their thoughts and experiences with you today.Plus, during that trip, Jo talks to three lovely ladies, who share their thoughts with you about the lifestyle.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! Size la...
Send us a textJo may be a coach, but that doesn't make her immune to some a-hole thoughts, and the fears that she's not good enough.Today, Jo gets vulnerable and shares her journey for processing and managing those a-hole thoughts.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! Size large or...
Send us a textDisclaimer...Jo is high, and she rambles like a MOFO when she's high. You've been warned! Today, Jo is celebrating 100 episodes. And in celebratory fashion, she got stoned and recorded this episode.Probably not the best idea, but what's a celebration without some bad decisions! So, I present to you, Episode 100, Jo is Celebrating!Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming ...
Send us a textApparently when you get stoned, you forget stuff. Who knew??Just a little bonus of a few things I forgot because I was in celebration mode, aka rambling high mode.Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:Sign Up (theconfidentswinger.com)Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757Book a...
Send us a textWe all know the Golden Rule, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Or, treat others the way you would want to be treated. It's a great concept.I took it a slightly different route with the Golden Pineapple Rule. Treat others the way THEY want to be treated.This celebrates and honors people's differences. Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Yo...
Send us a textWhen you're feeling wonky, it's helpful to have some tools for managing those feelings. This is a tool you can use. It's called Give 5, and it's designed for you to ask yourself what you need in that moment, and to give it to yourself. To focus on that giving energy, out of love for yourself. Support the Show.Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by SlynkNew music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir ErshovJoin the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their...
Send us a textI recently started a new job, and I couldn't help but notice the similarities between being uncomfortable in starting a new job and being uncomfortable in new LS events. So many people REALLY try to avoid feeling uncomfortable, because it's hard. But, LIFE is uncomfortable!Today, I give you some tips for dealing with uncomfortable situations when you are in them, when you are neck deep in the uncomfortable weeds. AND, I give you some tips for learning to GET comfortable with BEI...
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