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Each week we explore the nuances of the crazy dating world and how to create a conscious relationship from within it. I’m sharing true to life insights and experiences from my journey and how I’ve created the loving and committed partnership I have today.
I answer your questions and have live discussions with members of the community so I can support you in your specific situation and I bring in experts and people who know they’re stuff so we can all learn from their perspectives.
Thanks for taking a look and I hope you feel supported and loved as a part of The Conscious Love Show Community.
I answer your questions and have live discussions with members of the community so I can support you in your specific situation and I bring in experts and people who know they’re stuff so we can all learn from their perspectives.
Thanks for taking a look and I hope you feel supported and loved as a part of The Conscious Love Show Community.
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From the moment a man meets you, he is reading your energy. Often within minutes, he knows whether you’re partner energy or pleasure energy… and what he senses has nothing to do with your looks or achievements.
In this episode, we explore the real reason men stop seeing a woman as “high value” — even when she is. You’ll learn how a man’s subconscious conditioning shapes the way he engages, why he’ll entertain a connection for pleasure long past its expiration date, and how your refusal to self-betray instantly changes how he sees you.
This isn’t about playing games or being perfect — it’s about energetic truth.
Because being desired is easy.
Being chosen… is something else entirely.
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In this episode I share my personal story coming from a broken home, no model for healthy relationships, and devastating heartbreak, to a long healing journey that led to creating the loving, conscious relationship I have with my wife today.
Each month I'm dropping another entry of Shane's Diary where I share personal insights into the man behind the message. I hope you enjoy this entry and see a path to conscious love for yourself as I tell the story of mine.
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If you've ever felt that Attachment Theory doesn't quite explain everything, then you're intuitively tuning into something that most people are ignoring.
We as individuals are so much more complex than the label of "anxious" or "avoidant."
Underneath every anxious woman is someone who secretly avoids love through pushing, pursuing , and proving. And underneath every avoidant man is someone who gets so anxious around intimacy, that he has to withdraw from it.
Attachment theory gave us some important perspective but in this episode I want to honestly speak about the important things it doesn't address and introduce a new Blueprint system I've been developing that fills in the gaps where attachment theory fails.
This one will be powerful. Enjoy!
Why are so many women drawn to the very kind of men who leave her feeling unseen, unsettled, and unsatisfied?
She knows he’s pulling away.
She knows it’s costing her peace.
And yet—something inside her keeps reaching for him.
In this episode, we go into the hidden magnet behind that attraction. Not in the way you’ve heard a hundred times before, but in a way that could shift how you see yourself, men, and love—forever.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about freedom. By the end of this episode, you'll learn how to break the addiction and magnetize him back toward you.
Whether you still want him or not, you'll be choosing now.
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We all know the ache of attachment—the deep longing for connection, the fear of losing it, the emptiness that follows when it slips away.
But what if there’s more to it than just childhood wounds or relationship patterns?
What if attachment itself is pointing to something far deeper?
In this episode, I take you beneath the surface of human love and longing to explore the hidden root of why we crave so much, hurt so deeply, and search so endlessly.
It may not be what you expect.
And if you’re open, it could change the way you see love forever.
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I'm back with my second diary entry.
In this episode I share about my journey of living with a repressed shadow and how I learned to integrate it in a healthy way. From the extreme religious repression of my mother to the unchecked ego of my father, I share how I internalized the idea that I was unworthy of God's love from a young age.
I was broken open by my experiences through jail, addiction, career failure, and my wife's cancer journey to finally love all of myself and heal the internal self-hatred that had created chaos and conflict in my life around me.
The full story inside. Happy listening!
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It’s one of the deepest cries of the human heart: “How could you leave me?”
We’ve all felt it—the shock, the grief, the ache of not being chosen.
But here’s the truth most people never consider: real love would never ask that question.
In this episode, I’m pulling apart the difference between the ego’s demand to hold on and love’s willingness to set free. We’ll look at why clinging to someone who doesn’t want to stay drains your energy, and how releasing them might be the doorway to the love that does want you.
This isn’t about denying the pain. It’s about discovering the freedom on the other side of it.
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It’s almost universal.
The wound of needing to be chosen runs deep in the hearts of women everywhere—showing up in ways most don’t even realize.
In this episode, we break it down.
Why this wound exists.
Where it begins.
How it silently shapes the way you love, trust, and show up in relationships.
And most importantly—we’ll talk about what it takes to finally free yourself from it.
This isn’t about pointing fingers or shaming your story. It’s about naming the truth that’s been holding you back… and stepping into the freedom that’s been yours all along.
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You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind.
But what if that’s not the whole truth?
In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so out of balance today.
It’s not a defense. It’s not an attack.
It’s an invitation.
To listen deeper.
To see what you’ve been missing.
And maybe, to change the way you see the men in your life—forever.
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I'm officially a father to a beautiful little girl and as I step into this new chapter of my life, I wanted to add something new to the podcast.
Once monthly, I'm going to do a Shane's Diary episode where I take a pause from the regular content and share personal reflections, stories and insights from my journey to let you get to know the man behind the message and give you glimpses into how I embody the work in my personal life and witness my own process of evolution.
In this episode, I talk about crossing the threshold into fatherhood, my thoughts on raising a girl, my relationship to my own parents, trauma, addiction, jail time, and the journey I've taken to be ready to nurture a soul in her human experience.
Thank you for listening and I hope you enjoy this peek behind the curtain.
Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.
You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or inconsistency, and how to break the cycle. Together, we’ll uncover the deeper connection between self-worth and the types of partners we attract—and how healing our inner patterns can transform our love lives.
We’ll also dive into practical strategies for recognizing emotionally available partners and redefining what chemistry means in a way that aligns with your long-term goals for love. If you’re ready to move beyond the surface and attract a partner who shows up with kindness, consistency, and vulnerability, this episode is for you!
In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally. This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship. What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you? And what can you be flexible about? The answers might surprise you!
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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need.
We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own emotional well-being in these situations. I’ll also share how to set boundaries, communicate your needs, and decide whether to invest further in the relationship or move on. If you’ve been feeling uncertain about how to respond when he goes quiet, this episode will help you navigate the situation with confidence and self-respect.
In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner. Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person.
In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone. In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an individual sense and how to choose the partner that's right for you specifically.
In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a question that many people with anxiety face: How to stop my anxiety from ruining a relationship? If you’ve ever found your anxiety taking over in a relationship, causing overthinking, insecurity, or unnecessary conflict, this episode will help you gain control and find peace.
I’ll share strategies for managing anxiety in a relationship, how to communicate your feelings without overwhelming your partner, and how to build trust and security with both yourself and your partner. We’ll also dive into understanding how anxiety stems from past experiences and how to reframe those fears to create healthier dynamics. If you’re ready to stop letting anxiety dictate your relationships and start fostering love, calm, and connection, this episode will give you the tools to create more balance and harmony.
You’ve felt it—that slow fade, the sudden shift in energy, the uncertainty that creeps in when a connection that once felt promising starts to feel… off.
You start wondering if you’re asking for too much. You question whether to speak up or stay silent. And deep down, you just want to feel chosen without having to chase.
This is the moment when we unconsciously sabotage connection the most.
This episode is for anyone who’s tired of overthinking, tired of pretending you don’t care, tired of trying to “play it right” while your deeper truth goes unspoken.
If you’ve ever found yourself in the grey zone—unsure whether to wait, reach out, pull back, or move on—this conversation will meet you right there. Not with rules or strategies, but with clarity, truth, and the kind of self-respect that doesn’t flinch in the face of uncertainty.
In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the challenge of standing out in modern dating—especially in the world of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt lost in the sea of profiles or wondered how to make a meaningful connection in a swipe-happy world, this episode is for you.
I’ll share practical strategies on how to present your authentic self, write a profile that attracts the right kind of attention, and navigate the virtual dating world with confidence. We’ll also explore how to shift the focus from superficial connections to deeper, more meaningful conversations that lead to real relationships. Whether you’re new to online dating or have been navigating it for a while, this episode will offer you the tools to stand out and attract the love you truly deserve.
You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?
In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that comes from fear of not being chosen. You’ll discover the signs that his uncertainty isn’t about timing—it’s about incompatibility—and how every day you spend in limbo teaches him how to value you.
Most importantly, we’ll talk about what it takes to choose yourself with confidence, release the fantasy of “one day,” and create space for a relationship that’s ready for you now.
If you’ve ever felt trapped between hoping he’ll step up and fearing you’re wasting your time, this conversation will bring the clarity and courage you’ve been searching for.
In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity.
I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly means to be chosen, and how to evaluate whether waiting aligns with your needs and desires. We’ll discuss how to honor your worth and set boundaries, while also learning how to move forward with or without him. If you’re stuck in limbo and unsure whether to keep waiting or walk away, this episode will offer the tools to make a decision that honors your heart and your future.
You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.
And then… it happens again.
You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming.
But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shrinking. Questioning yourself. And you’re back in something that feels hauntingly familiar.
This episode is for the woman who thought she was past this.
Who’s asking herself:
– Why am I still attracting this?
– What am I missing?
– How did I not see this coming?
I’ll show you why your self-trust might not be broken at all—and how attracting a familiar pattern isn’t always a sign of failure. In fact, it might mean you’re finally ready to break it.
This isn’t about blame. This is about clarity, compassion, and claiming your power—again.
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