To join our January Inspired Love session, click here. Ever been in a situationship? Of course you have! Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake. They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value. It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relationship was for, the purpose it served in your life, and being able to recognize when it's run it's course and extract the value from it. When you do this, every "situationship" you find yourself in will be short lived, incredibly valuable, and accelerate your journey toward the right person. When you don't know how to do this, these relationships become highly destructive and crushing to your worth and value. I hope you enjoy this exciting discussion as we break down the situationship and how to use it to empower yourself and accelerate your growth.
To join our January Inspired Love session, click here. If the love you were seeking didn’t arrive this year, this episode is for you. Not to explain why. Not to tell you what you did wrong. Not to convince you that “everything happens for a reason.” Just to remind you of something most people forget when things don’t unfold the way they hoped. If you’re ending this year feeling tender, disappointed, reflective, or unsure how to carry yourself into the next one, this is a simple message from the heart, meant to help you exhale. No advice. No strategy. No fixing. Just a reminder that wherever you are right now, it's ok to be you. With love and best holiday wishes, thanks for listening this year. Shane
Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love Program What if the thing you’ve been calling “love” your whole life… wasn’t actually love at all? What if the intensity, the longing, the fear of losing someone, the obsession with being “enough,” the way your entire body lights up when a man chooses you — and collapses when he doesn’t — wasn’t about love… …but about something far older, deeper, and more painful? In this episode, we’re exploring a pattern almost every woman carries yet almost none ever name. A pattern so woven into your relationships that you don’t even know you’re doing it. A pattern that shapes who you chase, who you tolerate, how you attach, and why you stay. And the real question isn’t: “Why do I love him so much?” It’s: “Why do I fall apart when I’m not chosen?” What happens when that spell finally breaks? What do you find on the other side of the chase — in the quiet space where the illusion falls away? And what does love feel like when it’s no longer built on fear? Listen closely. This one may change the way you understand every relationship you’ve ever had.
Click here to learn more about joining the 2026 Inspired Love Program If you've ever wondered exactly what it is that calls for a man's devotion, respect, commitment, and trust, the answer is in this episode. There is a lot of information in the mainstream culture right now and most of it is honestly very disempowering for women in their relationships with men. In this episode, we'll debunk the common myths that are perpetuated by supposed alpha males and dating "gurus" and break down the seven timeless principles that signal feminine power, worthiness, and move a man toward the deepest levels of devotion. These 7 power codes are a cheat sheet for what the highest caliber of men respond to but even more than that, they are the ways that a woman honors herself in relationship with men and signal to her own unconscious that she is worthy of love and devotion. And truthfully, that's a much bigger flex than any man's approval. Tune in and see which ones you embody most and which you're still growing toward. This is sure to be an enlightening and inspiring listen.
To Book Your Discovery Call for The Inspired Love Program, click here. Most people know my work. Very few know the worldview underneath it. In this episode, I’m opening the door to the part of my life I rarely talk about — the part that shaped everything I teach, everything I love, and everything I’ve built. I’m sharing the real spiritual journey behind my work… the revelations, the breakdowns, the corrections, the contradictions, the experiences that shattered me and the ones that rebuilt me. Not the polished version. The actual one. If you’ve ever sensed that there’s something deeper behind the way I explain relationships, love, purpose, and healing… you’re right. And today, I’m finally naming it. This isn’t religion. It’s not dogma. It’s not “believe this or else.” It’s the path I walked to remember who I am — and the lens that opened everything in my life. If you’ve felt the pull toward something deeper but didn’t have the language for it… you’re going to feel this one. And make sure you listen to the end — I have something special for those of you who want to step into this work with me in the new year.
Women everywhere swear men have lied to them. But what if that’s not what actually happened? In this episode, I'm breaking down the 10 statements men use most often that leave women overthinking, spiraling, or holding onto hope… and revealing the real meaning beneath them. Not the feminine interpretation. Not the emotional projection. The actual male coding behind the words. You’ll learn why most men aren’t lying to you at all—why the masculine recoils at deception—and why women still end up feeling blindsided, disappointed, or misled. The truth is simpler and more shocking: men speak in emotionally safe half-truths, and women fill in the blanks with meaning that was never there. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why did he say that?” or “What did he mean?” this episode will change the way you hear men forever. This isn’t about blaming men or shaming women. It’s about decoding the disconnect—so you finally stop confusing ambiguity for intimacy.
We’ve entered an era where men have stopped approaching women—and not because they’ve lost interest. They’ve been taught to stay quiet, to avoid being “creepy,” to hide their attraction in the name of respect. The result? A generation of people starving for real connection while pretending they don’t care. In this episode, we breaks down why modern dating feels so disconnected—and how you can reclaim the lost art of meeting people in real life. I’ll reveal the unspoken cultural agreements keeping men silent, why women now hold the key to invitation, and the simple energetic cues that open the door to real connection again. If you’re ready to step out of the apps and back into the wild, this episode will teach you how.
Many women believe that if a man doesn’t know how to love her, he isn’t the one. But what if that’s exactly why so many women end up with men who stop showing up—who pull away, disconnect, or go emotionally flat after the spark fades? This episode isn’t about control. It’s about awakening the part of a man that wants to rise for you… and the part of you that knows how to call it forward. If you’ve ever wondered why love starts hot and turns cold—or why your devotion isn’t met with his—you’re going to hear something today that changes how you see men, and speaks to what real feminine power looks like in relationship.
Modern culture tells men to be softer, safer, and more sensitive—until we lose respect for the very men who listen. In this episode of Shane’s Diary, I share my personal journey of reclaiming my masculinity after years of suppressing it to be “good.” From growing up under the shadow of a hyper-religious mother who called every masculine impulse sinful, to living with a father who embodied its most toxic extremes—I learned to distrust my own nature. When I found spirituality, I thought peace meant weakness and gentleness meant goodness. I became the “nice guy.” I lost my fire. And it almost cost me my marriage. This is the story of how I got it back. Of what it really means to be a conscious man in a world that tells men to be more like women. And why reclaiming your masculine power isn’t dangerous—it’s divine.
Every woman wants to know if the man she’s falling for is ready for something real. But what if the signs you’ve been taught to look for are wrong? In this episode, we deep dive on what readiness for commitment actually looks like in a man—why he can love you deeply and still not choose you, and what shifts everything when he finally does. This one might challenge what you think you know about love, timing, and what makes a man stay. But when you really get it, it will change everything.
Everyone talks about feminine energy — but few truly understand what draws a powerful man toward a powerful woman. You’ve heard that men want softness, that women should “stay in their feminine,” that polarity is the key to love. But what if that’s not the whole truth? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the deeper dynamics between masculine and feminine energy — the ones most people get wrong — and reveal what truly separates a woman who keeps attracting boys from one who inspires devotion in men. It’s not what you think. And by the end, you’ll understand why the women who seem effortlessly magnetic aren’t playing a role… they’re embodying something most people never master.
From the moment a man meets you, he is reading your energy. Often within minutes, he knows whether you’re partner energy or pleasure energy… and what he senses has nothing to do with your looks or achievements. In this episode, we explore the real reason men stop seeing a woman as “high value” — even when she is. You’ll learn how a man’s subconscious conditioning shapes the way he engages, why he’ll entertain a connection for pleasure long past its expiration date, and how your refusal to self-betray instantly changes how he sees you. This isn’t about playing games or being perfect — it’s about energetic truth. Because being desired is easy. Being chosen… is something else entirely.
Click here to learn more about the Inspired Love Program and book your intro call. In this episode I share my personal story coming from a broken home, no model for healthy relationships, and devastating heartbreak, to a long healing journey that led to creating the loving, conscious relationship I have with my wife today. Each month I'm dropping another entry of Shane's Diary where I share personal insights into the man behind the message. I hope you enjoy this entry and see a path to conscious love for yourself as I tell the story of mine.
Click here to take the quiz and learn your Relational Blueprint type If you've ever felt that Attachment Theory doesn't quite explain everything, then you're intuitively tuning into something that most people are ignoring. We as individuals are so much more complex than the label of "anxious" or "avoidant." Underneath every anxious woman is someone who secretly avoids love through pushing, pursuing , and proving. And underneath every avoidant man is someone who gets so anxious around intimacy, that he has to withdraw from it. Attachment theory gave us some important perspective but in this episode I want to honestly speak about the important things it doesn't address and introduce a new Blueprint system I've been developing that fills in the gaps where attachment theory fails. This one will be powerful. Enjoy!
Why are so many women drawn to the very kind of men who leave her feeling unseen, unsettled, and unsatisfied? She knows he’s pulling away. She knows it’s costing her peace. And yet—something inside her keeps reaching for him. In this episode, we go into the hidden magnet behind that attraction. Not in the way you’ve heard a hundred times before, but in a way that could shift how you see yourself, men, and love—forever. This isn’t about blame. It’s about freedom. By the end of this episode, you'll learn how to break the addiction and magnetize him back toward you. Whether you still want him or not, you'll be choosing now.
Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love Program We all know the ache of attachment—the deep longing for connection, the fear of losing it, the emptiness that follows when it slips away. But what if there’s more to it than just childhood wounds or relationship patterns? What if attachment itself is pointing to something far deeper? In this episode, I take you beneath the surface of human love and longing to explore the hidden root of why we crave so much, hurt so deeply, and search so endlessly. It may not be what you expect. And if you’re open, it could change the way you see love forever.
To Learn More About the Inspired Love Program, Click Here I'm back with my second diary entry. In this episode I share about my journey of living with a repressed shadow and how I learned to integrate it in a healthy way. From the extreme religious repression of my mother to the unchecked ego of my father, I share how I internalized the idea that I was unworthy of God's love from a young age. I was broken open by my experiences through jail, addiction, career failure, and my wife's cancer journey to finally love all of myself and heal the internal self-hatred that had created chaos and conflict in my life around me. The full story inside. Happy listening!
Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love Program It’s one of the deepest cries of the human heart: “How could you leave me?” We’ve all felt it—the shock, the grief, the ache of not being chosen. But here’s the truth most people never consider: real love would never ask that question. In this episode, I’m pulling apart the difference between the ego’s demand to hold on and love’s willingness to set free. We’ll look at why clinging to someone who doesn’t want to stay drains your energy, and how releasing them might be the doorway to the love that does want you. This isn’t about denying the pain. It’s about discovering the freedom on the other side of it.
Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love Program It’s almost universal. The wound of needing to be chosen runs deep in the hearts of women everywhere—showing up in ways most don’t even realize. In this episode, we break it down. Why this wound exists. Where it begins. How it silently shapes the way you love, trust, and show up in relationships. And most importantly—we’ll talk about what it takes to finally free yourself from it. This isn’t about pointing fingers or shaming your story. It’s about naming the truth that’s been holding you back… and stepping into the freedom that’s been yours all along.
Grab your spot in The Conscious Love Challenge here. You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind. But what if that’s not the whole truth? In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so out of balance today. It’s not a defense. It’s not an attack. It’s an invitation. To listen deeper. To see what you’ve been missing. And maybe, to change the way you see the men in your life—forever.