The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast
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Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.
Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.
Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.
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#101 The podcast is changing! Does that mean less content? Nope. It means more real talk, raw stories, and deeper insights than ever. In this episode, we're sharing why the format is shifting, what’s ahead for the YouTube and audio versions, and exciting updates like the Kink Bundle and my upcoming book. Don’t miss it—subscribe and share! ➡️ Sign up for our newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup ➡️ Access our community: https://domsubliving.com/community ➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: http...
#100 Think kink is simple? After 100 episodes, we're revealing 10 hard-earned lessons that go beyond floggers and fantasy. ✅ Subscribe and grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow From tackling judgment to finding community, discover truths that shape real D/s dynamics and mental health. Don’t miss this milestone episode of raw stories, freebies, and celebration! ➡️ Free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap: https://domsubliving.com/follow ➡️ Show notes and more: https://dom...
#099 DDLG isn’t just cute outfits and bedtime routines—it’s a deep, powerful dynamic that blends nurture, structure, and trust. 💕 Grab your free DDLG starter list at https://domsubliving.com/ddlg In this episode, we're breaking down what being a babygirl, little, or middle really looks like, plus the differences between DDLG and DDBG. Listen now and join the conversation. ➡️ Free DDLG starter list: https://domsubliving.com/ddlg ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/099 ✅ Grab your ...
#098 Spankings aren’t cutting it anymore. 👉 Grab the free punishment list at https://domsubliving.com/punish In this episode, we're sharing 5 Dom/sub punishment ideas that actually work—yes, even for masochists. From writing lines to orgasm denial, we're breaking down what to use, when to use it, and why some punishments backfire. Don’t miss #3—it changed everything. ➡️ 30+ punishment ideas: https://domsubliving.com/punish ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/098 ✅ Grab your free ...
#097 Is kink your secret superpower? In this fun and fearless interview, Alesandra joins actress and comedian Amy Vorpahl to talk BDSM 101, living unapologetically kinky, and what it really means to be a Dom or sub in everyday life. Listen now! ➡️ Amy's website: https://www.amyvorpahl.com ➡️ Join Amy's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/amyvorpahl ➡️ Follow Amy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vorpahlsword/ ➡️ Free kink resources: https://domsubliving.com/free ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifes...
#096 If you're a Dom—or trying to be one—don't screw this up. 🎯 Take the free quiz: https://domsubliving.com/fakedom We're revealing the top 5 signs of fake Dominants, from skipping consent to using fear instead of leadership. You'll learn how to spot red flags and what real D/s dynamic should look like. Doms (and subs), listen up! ➡️ Fake Dom quiz: https://domsubliving.com/fakedom ➡️ Dom Sub Training course: https://domsubtraining.com ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/096 ✅ Gr...
#095 Does your dynamic feel off? If your Dom/sub relationship feels stuck or stale, this episode breaks down the 7 hidden habits that keep real D/s dynamics strong — for years. From rituals and contracts to community and mindset, this is what no one tells you. ➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/095 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow
#094 Are BDSM teachers getting it wrong? ✅ Join the All Access Pass at https://domsubliving.com/allaccess We're exposing 10 harmful myths most BDSM educators still teach — from punishment-first training to ignoring a Dom's emotional needs. If you've ever felt like you're doing BDSM “wrong,” this is the truth you’ve been waiting for. ➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/094 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at ht...
#093 “Am I too new? Too awkward? Not ‘dominant’ enough?” If you've ever felt like a fake or imposter in BDSM, you’re not alone. We're sharing how to build confidence, stop self-doubt, and finally feel like a “real” Dom or sub — even without a partner. Tune in now to start owning your role with confidence. ➡️ Join the free bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/093 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow
#092 Think you need a partner to explore BDSM? Think again. Learn how to build skills, rituals, and confidence as a Dom or sub—solo. Avoid beginner mistakes and prep for your ideal dynamic. Ready to start your journey? Join our free Bootcamp! ➡️ Free Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/092 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow
#091 “I don’t make love—I f*ck. Hard.” 📝 Get your free BDSM contract at https://domsubliving.com/contract Is Fifty Shades of Grey really that bad… or are we just mad it opened the door for millions? In this deep dive, we're breaking down what it got wrong (and very wrong), what it got right, and why it still matters. Hit play and get ready to move beyond fiction. ➡️ Free BDSM contract template: https://domsubliving.com/contract ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/091 ✅ Grab your ...
1#090 What if training your sub could feel more like bonding with a dragon than shouting commands? 👉 Grab the free “How to Be a Good Dom” Quick Start guide at https://domsubliving.com/dominant We're sharing real-world ways to build trust, create habits that stick, avoid common Dom mistakes, and adjust training styles for every type of sub. Strengthen connection, not control. ➡️ Access the free Dominant Quick Start Guide: https://domsubliving.com/dominant ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubl...
#089 “I don’t play submissive—I live it. Every day.” 🔥 Grab your own TPE blueprint: https://domsubliving.com/blueprint In this behind-the-scenes episode, Alesandra from Dom Sub Living shares what a real 24/7 Total Power Exchange looks like—from morning rituals and daily protocols to mistakes, resets, and the small things that keep her dynamic thriving. ➡️ Total Power Exchange Blueprint: https://domsubliving.com/blueprint ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/089 ✅ Grab your free BD...
#088 Does Total Power Exchange mean giving up everything—or just giving with intention? ✨ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community We're answering the top 10 questions we get asked most about TPE, from burnout and boundaries to parenting, protocol, and sex. ➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/088 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow
#087 Are your darkest desires really that dangerous? 👉 Download the free checklist of 50 kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklist We're breaking down 10 taboo kinks—from pet play to CNC to pregnancy—and ranking them from safe to seriously risky. Find out which ones are more common than you think—and which ones even seasoned kinksters get wrong. ➡️ Free checklist of 50 kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/087 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Li...
#086 “Do you really live like that every day?” In this episode, we're sharing a special interview from the Kink Your Way podcast with Leann Herron. We talk about BDSM as a lifestyle, growing a kink business, breaking shame, and what it’s really like behind the scenes. ➡️ Check out 'Kink Your Way': https://kinkyourway.com ➡️ Explore our online courses: https://domsubliving.com/courses/ ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow
#085 Think BDSM isn’t built for ADHD or autism? Think again. 🎁 Get free scripts, tools & aftercare tips at https://domsubliving.com/free We're sharing how neurodivergent kinksters can thrive—without masking, burning out, or giving up. Learn how to customize your dynamic, avoid ableism, and support your unique needs in kink! ➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/085 ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap a...
#084 Is it still dominance if it’s gentle? 🎁 Grab the free quick-start guide to become a better Dom: https://domsubliving.com/dominant Turns out, soft domination isn’t weakness—it’s an intentional, emotionally intelligent way to lead and surrender. In this episode, we're exploring what gentle domination really looks like, why it’s trending in the BDSM community, and how soft Doms are rewriting the rules of control, discipline, and connection. ➡️ Free Dominant quick-start guide: https://domsub...
#083 What if therapy isn't the only way to heal — and sometimes, it's not even the best way? 👉 Grab free resources at https://domsubliving.com/free. In this episode, we're sharing why BDSM can offer healing in ways traditional therapy sometimes can't. We cover surprising insights even therapists are exploring, the hidden harm of for-profit therapy, and a powerful scene that cracked open years of trauma. Ready to explore healing on your own terms? ➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://d...
#082 Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget? 🎁 Want step-by-step worksheets and real scene examples to put these ideas into action? Check out our “Scene Creation Mastery” (only $9!) at https://domsubliving.com/scene-creation-mastery/ In this episode we're sharing 5 simple and powerful BDSM scene ideas you can use tonight—no fancy gear or prep required. From voice-only command scenes and sensory deprivation with household items, to secret service ritua...
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