The Dude and The Dapper Chap

Join Jeremy (the Dude) and Paul (the Dapper Chap) as they compare notes on life and talk about nothing.

Season 3 - episode 1 - Out of the blue!

Well, well, well, looky here - we are back with a NEW episode (and you all thought we’d abandoned you forever). Now, we make no promises about how frequently we will do this but here we are. This may be the greatest comeback since Paula Abdul got the American Idol gig.  We are back to share with you all the details about an epic day and, as is standard, we ‘discuss’ who is absent from work the most (hint it’s not the Chap). Different year, same gaslighting… Also is there a difference between a trip and a vacation? Enjoy this out of the blue episode. Hopefully they will be back more regularly...who the heck knows? As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom   

03-10
23:36

Season 2 - Episode 21 : Who are we kidding....

...when we thought we could commit to a regular schedule!  I think we just need to embrace the fact that we do these rather sporadically, and thank you for hanging in there with us. This time we get caught up with what's been going on these past few weeks.  We chat about our them parks adventures, the dudes attempts at a side hustle and the return on in person dining at the BK Lounge. Also we chat about whether it's okay to be a mama's boy (it's all about healthly boundaries) and answer a few more what would you do questions. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #mamasboy #realtionships #boundaries #Burgerking #utahjazz #inpersondining

05-29
40:50

Season 2 - Episode 20 : Normal service will now be resumed (maybe...)

What can we say, it's been REALLY busy!  We are no longer going to make any promises about how frequently we will be doing episodes, but we do hope it will be more frequent than every three months. But, we are back with another podcast for your listening pleasure.  This time we chat about everything from how gross (one person opinion...) PB&J is to how some folks are dealing with the mask mandates, and pretty much everything in between.  Thanks for sticking with us!   SPOLIER: As a followup, the Dude got a new left air pod pro - so we can all breath a sigh of relief :) As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #PB&J #jamsandwich

03-15
37:28

Season 2 - Episode 19 : Our 50th Episode, and Merry Christmas!!

Welcome to the 50th episode of this podcast, that's over 25 hours of the two of us chattering about nothing - which in fairness, was what we promised from the get go!  Thanks for listening and don't worry, there is plenty more to come in 2021. This week we get into another debate about the British monarchy (the Dude could find himself hanged for treason, if the Queen were ever to listen).  Also hear all about the Dude's latest week in isolation and how he passed the time.  Lastly, if you have kids listening, maybe stop the episode around time stamp 28 mins!  We veer slightly away, only slightly, from our normal PG13 content! Anyways...Merry Christmas to all and here's to 2021 being better than 2020. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #thecrown #factorfiction #themonarchy #longlivethequeen #covidED #covidsideeffects

12-25
41:42

Season 2 -Episode 18 : Benedict Arnold, A British Hero?

Welcome to another episode!  This time we discuss the age old question about whether or not Benedict Arnold was actually the true hero - hahaha, guess who is on which side of that one!  Also we discuss the return of the McRib, how much money it would take for us to put on weight (a lot) and whether we'd be up for 'destroying' someone online - with the promise of anonymity. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #benedictarnold #allamericanhero #ortraitor  #returnofthemcrib #paidtoputonweight

12-14
40:09

Season 2- Episode 17 : It's Election Day 2020...

...don't worry though we steer clear of too much political chat (aside from the Dapper Chap's run in with some political campaigners).  This week we get caught up on all the fun of the last month or so.  Hear about the Dude yelling at some poor missionaries - who were simply doing the Lord's work - and his merciless hunting trip (RIP to the poor deer). Also the Dude is in charge of the questions this week so let's see if he does better with his selections than the Dapper Chap.  All in all, join us for the usual mix of lighthearted fun and stories (and just a smidgen of us teasing each other!). As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #missionarywork #politics #elections2020 #hunting #hunterlife #jerky

11-08
39:11

Season 2 - Episode 16 : The one we forgot to upload....

Our dear listeners, I don't quite know what to write for the episode description as I may have forgotten to upload this from a few weeks back!  So join us, and we can all go on a journey together and discover what this episode is about.  Hopefully it's a bit fun and makes you smile, if not just skip ahead as I am uploading another one right now ! Sincerely, The Dapper Chap :) As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions

11-08
38:25

Season 2 - Episode 15: A new puppy and weiner whistles...

Yes, you read that right...one of us got a new puppy (along with a free parasitic infection)!  Also hear all about our run in with the Oscar Meyer Wiener Mobile as well as our other shenanigans from the past few weeks! This week we talk about where we draw the line between killing a butterfly and killing a cat (it's less morbid than it sounds...).  Also we try and decide if we want to work less for the same money or work the same for more money, and lastly we need your help to settle the age old question of 90210 vs. Buffy the Vampire Slayer - please let us know where you land on this very important debate!! As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #instagood #youtube #buffy #90210 #oscarmeyer #weinermobile #weinerwhistles #dogsofinstagram #newpuppy #dadlife #workinghard #makingbank

09-18
40:55

Season 2 - Episode 14: Would the Dude really give up a child?!?!

We are back for a new episode (both podcast and video - find on you tube at The Dude and The Dapper Chap)! This week we ask three more questions, one of which relates to the title click bait title of this weeks episode.  You'll have to listen to find out in what circumstances the Dude would abandon a child.... We also chat about where we would time travel to (turns out we are both heavily influenced by Back to the Future - all three parts). As well as what constitutes cheating when it comes to helping kids out. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #instagood #youtube #timetravel #switchedatbirth

08-13
33:22

Season 2 - Episode 13:1,000 downloads!

Hello and welcome to the latest episode of the podcast.  We reached 1,000 downloads of this fun little escapade earlier this week so join us as we work toward the next 1,000!  Thank you, thank you for the support.     Also for the very first time you can watch the video version of the podcast on our new youtube channel (thanks Alex!): CLICK HERE   This week we talk about the Dude's birthday, the heartbreak that is losing a family dog and give some shoutouts.  Also we discuss our questions from the 'big book o'questions', join us to hear what they are (they may involve ghosts, heroin and masseuses...)   As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #instagood  

07-24
38:04

Season 2 - Episode 12: 2 years later...

We are so delighted to present our new episode!  After quite the break, and a number of false restarts, we are back at it.  This episode comes exactly two years to the day after our very first episode was posted.  Join us as we talk about our meteoric rise to...nothing, but join us anyway. This time we tackle hard hitting questions such as, would you cut off your hand to save you from any future illness and would we buy a firearm if our neighbors all had one.  Also we talk about the switch up happening with Splash Mountain at Disneyland. It was so nice to record again and we had a few requests for a new episode, so we hope you enjoy listening as much as we did recording this, socially distant, episode!   As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #wouldyourather#dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #life #bookofquestions #instagood

07-03
37:38

Season 2 - Episode 11: The latest from the Dude and the Dapper Chap!

Well it's been a while!  If you had been thinking that we had abandoned the podcast then you would be wrong.  This whole COVID-19 business really threw a spanner (or a wrench if you are American) in our podcast schedule.  Join us on this episode as we get caught up with what's been going on over the past couple of weeks and share our experiences of these interesting times.  Also please know that social distancing was employed during the recording of this episode, in fact it was hard to even find a time to record this as we have barely seen one another in person for the past few weeks!  Enjoy and we will be back soon, stay safe. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #coronavirus#covid-19 #socialdistancing #pandemic #normalservicewillresumeshortly #newnormal

04-26
31:20

Season 2 - Episode 10: Will the Coronavirus wipe out the podcast?

I certainly hope that it won't but you never know.  Good news though as both the Dude and the Dapper Chap have both been to Costco and stocked up.  One of us (I wonder whom) even stocked up on ammunition! The good news is that if you do end up self isolating there are now 40 episodes of this podcast that you could re-listen too, I can't think of anything better... This week we chat about nothing including the true meaning of the word 'sure' and what the heck is Tik-Tok all about?!?!.  As usual we have a great "Am I the A Hole", involving a Dad slightly freaking out at his daughter's sleepover - I should add that neither of us is the Dad in the story. Lastly tune in for, yet another, story of the Dude being told he looks super young - this time he claims he was mistaken for a friend of his 14yr old daughter bahaha. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #coronavirus #preppers #doomsday #contagion #panicbuying #overreacting #delusional #sure #wordmeanings

03-04
32:07

Season 2 - Episode 9: Live from the carpool

I know, I know, we really need to get our crap together and start recording more often. Due to some, not very interesting, reasons we are having a hard time finding time to record (which is odd because we literally spend 40+ hours a week together). Anyway to rectify that conundrum we decided to record an episode on our way home from work. Join as we catch up on what's been happening in our world and talk about a new reddit thread we found, "Am I The Karen?" Let us know times you have been the 'Karen". The Dapper Chap has been a 'Karen' at least twice recently - once with Honda and the other time with Justice (yes, the tween clothing store). The Dude is in Vegas as this is typed and I bet you, he has pulled some 'Karen' moves during that trip! Edit: We both know many fine 'Karens' and there are also plenty of folks (of all genders) who act the same way :) As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #carpool #Karen #beingakaren #justice #honda #catchup #shortandsweet #carpoolpodcast #AITK #notjustkarens #whatsthemaleversionofakaren? #maybeajeremy?

02-18
18:35

Season 2 - Episode 8: Just like Bruce Willis, we are back with a vengence.

Happy, belated, New Year from your favorite (?) podcasters.  After a couple of vacations and a busy holiday season we found time to record the latest episode.  It's great to be back and, as usual, we have some stories to share.  Join us as we hear all about how the Dapper Mama got hit on in Costco, a $3,000 puppy and a great "Am i The A Hole".  Also let us know what you think in the great debate; Top Gun vs. James Bond, and last but not least we give a shout out to our number one fan - is it you?!?! As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #jamesbond #topgun #maverick #bondvscruise #boxoffice #highestgrossing #petstore #puppystore #costco #flirting #$3000dog #cockerspaniel #rigidinflatbaleboats #whalewatching #sandiego #danielcraig #notimetodie #newyearnewepisode

01-20
35:20

Season 2 - Episode 7: Happy Holidays from the D and the DC!

It's that special time of year - yes, that's right - it's the time of year when everything has a holiday special and this podcast is no different!  Welcome to a very special episode, ok so i'm exaggerating, this is just a regular episode where we talk a little bit about the festive season, but hopefully we still make you chuckle a little.  This week we get some updates from the Dapper Papa (also known as bezzer), the Dapper Chap shares an amazing Burger King hack and we chat about the perils of old dogs.  We also share some great AITA stories including a crazy family gift exchange story involving $1000 gifts.  As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom#burgerking #fastfoodhacks #bezzer #ChickenParm #Burgerkinghack #haveityourway #holidayspecial

12-17
38:17

Season 2 - Episode 6: The Dapper Chap finally pulls his weight.

At last - after riding on the coattails of the Dude for the past year or so the Dapper Chap finally does his share on this episode of the podcast. Also it's time for a confessional from one of us (cough, the Dude) about a nasty habit involving nose debris and a car seat. We share our perspectives on the upcoming Real Housewives of Salt Lake (bahaha) and why we don't know whether we can trust Chick-Fil-A.  All in all a whole lot of what we do best; talk about nothing! As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #pullyourweight #doyourshare #reliefbandit  #realhousewives #badhabits #chickfila #nosedebris #coattails #realhousewivesofsaltlakecity

11-25
35:37

Season 2 - Episode 5: The curious case of the couple in the parking lot....

Join us this time around as we talk about our amazing Halloween costumes (hint: he was not a bull), how GPS trackers actually work and the Dude makes the case that he is the fittest 44 yr old in the world.  We discuss the amazing story of a parking lot, a couple and some social media posts from Mrs Dude.  Also we dish out our take on fancy toilet paper, calling out crappy husband behavior and why we have broken up with McDonalds (it is a sad time).  Lastly the Dapper Chap is eagerly awaiting a response from the Hart brothers (listen to the episode and you'll find out what response we are talking about). As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom #halloweencostumes #mcdonalds #mcdonaldsapp #fitat44 #bestlooking #aita #gpsfail #aloeveratoiletpaper #rendezvous #parkinglotmeetups #hairline #brothers

11-11
37:04

Season 2 - Episode 4: It's on, scares vs. awkward situations

Episode 4 is here for your perusal and as usual we dish out some advice, are you an a-hole for expecting guests to tidy up after themselves (or their dog and what's the best way to stalk your teenager's crushes.  Also get the latest on the the Dude's jury service, find out why we think Dirty Dancing is problematic (the movie, not the dance style),  and some terrible customer services involving a forgotten car.  And finally, although the Dapper Chap tried to call a truce on embarrassing him the Dude is having none of it. As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #wise #pearlsofwisdom#dirtydancing #problematicmovies #scaringyourfriends #americasfunniesthomevideos #awkwardsituations #dealingwithteenagers #houseproud #clutteredhouse #juryduty #badcustomerservice #theyforgotmycar

10-14
35:38

Season 2 - Episode 3: Someone actually 'asked the Dads'!

Welcome to the 3rd episode of our glorious 2nd season!  This week someone (thanks Beth) actually used #askthedads to ask for our opinion on a situation.  Now the ball is rolling don't hesitate to get in touch and ask for our, often questionable, advice or ramblings on a subject.  Find out which one of us thinks they would be a good lead in a rom-com, who thinks they'd be a great boyband member, who thinks they'd be a awesome cop and who thinks they'd be a stellar ambassador!  In short this is the episode where we think pretty highly of ourselves - what's new i hear you cry. We will be back in two week.  For now enjoy the episode and remember to use the #askthedads to get in touch! As always you can follow us on twitter @dudeanddapper and on Instagram @thedudeandthedapperchap #newepisode #advice #dadadvice #advicefromdads  #ahole #dadsgivingadvice #podcast #dadcast #reddit #dadsdishingoutadvice #advice #advicecolumn #deardads #atleastweareentertained #podcaster #podcastlife #podcastshow #applepodcasts #podcastersofinstagram #media #funny #wise #pearlsofwisdom #alternatecareer #careeradvice #boybands #makingtheband #policeofficergoals #romcom #romcomlead #ambassador #consulate #wethinkweareawesome #actor #ifihadmytimeagain #whenigrowup #bethisthebest #whatsthewordyourwifehates

10-01
30:10

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