The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Whether your marriage is on the brink of divorce or you want more playfulness and passion, The Empowered Wife Podcast with New York Times Bestselling Author Laura Doyle will help you have the best possible relationship. Thousands of listeners credit The Empowered Wife Podcast for saving their marriages. Guests share deeply personal stories of recovering from affairs, addiction, and abandonment by using the 6 Intimacy Skills™. Listeners rave about the relatable methods Laura shares. A reviewer writes, "This podcast has been a game-changer for my marriage. Laura Doyle's insights are unmatched, making this the best marriage podcast I've ever listened to." When you listen, you're joining a community of women who believe having a great marriage is important. Because it is! Subscribe to The Empowered Wife Podcast and start living your best relationship today!

311: 5 Easy Ways One Spouse Can Transform A Bad Marriage And Prevent Divorce

Do you feel like you're carrying your whole marriage on your back?  Ros did. She looked after the house, shuttled the kids to their activities, juggled work—protecting her husband's time and energy—while he slipped further away. Their relationship became all logistics and no heart. Their home became quiet and business-like. Ros found herself exhausted and resentful, apologizing before bed without even knowing why. She felt lonely in the very marriage she worked so hard to build. Then she tried one small shift and it cracked open a doorway she didn't think existed. Today there's warmth, playfulness, and dancing in the kitchen. Her husband shows up without being asked, and their home is filled with laughter and joy. If that kind of transformation feels impossible right now, you've got to hear Ros's story. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/3IW8NTn

11-04
01:12:50

310: When He Threatens to Leave: Why? + What to do

Cameron's biggest fear was losing her husband—and he knew it. So when he'd threaten to leave, it was both terrifying and hurtful. After one big blowup, he packed his bags and said he was going to his home country, and this time she knew he meant it. Cameron was blocked, shut out, and completely hopeless. But then she discovered two keys that transformed their relationship and stopped the threats forever. Today, that same husband made a financial sacrifice that brought her to tears and stepped up to take care of her like never before. Her marriage is fun and playful, and she can't stop talking about the Skills. If your husband threatens to leave, you'll want to hear exactly what Cameron did—and the two keys that transformed everything. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4hqhfXM

10-28
01:17:01

309: How To Find Peace In The Middle Of A Marriage Crisis

Gretchen was devastated when her husband announced he was divorcing her—in front of all five kids. She knew he meant it because they had always promised their kids that divorce would never be part of their story. From there, things only got worse. Tension was thick, nerves were frayed, and they couldn't take a walk around the neighborhood without fighting and leaving in opposite directions. They tried marriage counseling, but they'd leave fighting so badly they'd have to pull the car over. He decided to stay as roommates until the kids graduated. Then he was gone. One night after another blowup, Gretchen got out of the car at a red light and walked home. She Googled "why does my husband hate me" and finally found hope. Today, her marriage is peaceful, connected and intimate. They take long car rides talking for hours—or sitting in peaceful silence. Her husband is always making her laugh, and divorce is off the table. If you're living like roommates and your husband has one foot out the door, Gretchen's story will show you exactly what she did to find peace and restore intimacy in the middle of a marriage crisis. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/46xoMQN

10-21
01:13:05

308: #1 Thing To Rekindle Love In A Marriage

Bee never knew what would set her husband off. There was no affection and lots of fighting. The hurtful words kept coming until she just hardened up completely. After one particularly scary explosion, Bee packed up the kids and left. She filed for divorce in secret.  But then her best friend texted her at midnight after Valentine's Day about a podcast. Bee binged it all night and tried something the very next day. Now they giggle together, he takes the kids to the park every morning while she swims with dolphins at the beach, and there's plenty of affection. Hear exactly how Bee single-handedly rekindled the love and created the safety she'd been craving. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here:https://lauradoyle.co/4gjEuSs

10-14
01:30:23

307: How I Cured My BPD & OCD—with These Skills (Not Therapy)

Adeline's mental health struggles destroyed every relationship she touched. She had Borderline Personality Disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and chronic suicidal ideation. No matter what the treatment, the prognosis was the same: No cure, just manage it for life. After yet another hospitalization, she moved across the country to start over. Then she met her dream man who accepted her exactly as she was—even the scary parts—and she thought her life was turning a corner. But after a painful betrayal, this too fell apart. It seemed like her mental illness would torture her forever. Desperate, she tried something no therapist had ever suggested and uncovered what was really going on. Today? She's CURED. No therapy. No suicidal thoughts. No self-harm. Her best friend literally forgot she ever had a diagnosis. If you've been told your mental health struggles make a healthy relationship impossible, Adeline's story will give you hope. She shares exactly how she turned it around—so you can too. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4mSDDdu

10-07
01:03:57

306: What to Do if Your Husband is Addicted to Porn

Jessica was in agony about her husband's porn addiction. No matter what she tried, she couldn't get him to stop lusting over other women. The more she ached for his affection, the further he withdrew, and it seemed like divorce was the only way out. But then Jessica discovered something in a movie theater that changed everything. Now she has a fairytale marriage where her husband reserves special treatment just for her, he turns his chair away from attractive women, and she gets pursued instead of doing the chasing. If your husband seems addicted to porn and you think he'll never change, Jessica's story will show you exactly how she cured her husband's addiction and got the devoted man she always dreamed of. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4gizDRI

09-30
01:03:52

305: Can Accountability Heal a Broken Marriage

After escaping ten years of physical abuse and infidelity in her first marriage, Kelly's second marriage was falling apart too. Her new husband had zero sex drive, refused to take her on date nights, and drank wine every weekend until he turned cold and distant. One desperate night, Kelly actually got in her car to leave, but found she couldn't go through with it. Then a neighbor knocked on her door with what Kelly calls a miracle. Today, that same husband can't keep his hands off her, and she says her marriage is "the most beautiful, intimate, loving, respectful, connecting relationship." Kelly's incredible transformation will give you the courage to try one more time—and the tools to make it work. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4npi3On

09-23
01:08:16

304: We Separated, Then This Saved Our Marriage

Caitlin never knew what would trigger their next explosive fight and send her husband packing. Dog poop in the backyard. Honey on chicken nuggets. Even ten days after her C-section with a toddler, he was ready to bolt again. Marriage counseling made things worse, and after their final blowup, Caitlin was done fighting for him. But when a coworker slipped her a book recommendation, everything changed. Today, that same man calls her multiple times a day, looks for ways to lighten her load, and tells her "I didn't know we could be this happy." They've gone almost a year without a single leaving episode—the longest stretch in their six-year relationship. If you're separated or your husband keeps threatening to leave, Caitlin's story will show you the path from crisis to connection. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/3VmYvhr

09-16
01:04:08

303: Should I Leave My Husband?

Jamie wasn't in love with her husband anymore. After 23 years of marriage, she felt trapped by what seemed like a life sentence—divorce wasn't an option, but staying was making her miserable. Then everything exploded during a walk when her husband said something that shocked her into making a decision. Jamie finally got off the fence, but choosing her marriage was just the beginning. She had to learn how to win back a husband who was trying to protect his own heart.  Today, Jamie describes her husband as the wind beneath her wings and says her marriage is "happy, connected, easy and fun". She credits her husband for supporting her through the hardest season of her career to win Australian Midwife of the Year, complete with fireworks shooting from the stage. Discover how Jamie went from wanting to leave to thriving as a team—and how you can too. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4mtcbDy

09-09
01:16:09

302: How To Save Marriage On The Brink Of Divorce

No matter how much Kate did to fix her marriage, it was never enough. Her husband kept calling her "selfish," so she gave more—got a master's degree with an infant on her lap, took a second job, and made sure he had nothing to do around the house. But the fights kept getting worse. After one midnight screaming match that woke the children, her husband said something that shook her. Kate started Googling divorce attorneys, but instead found a book that changed everything. Now her husband takes her out on dates twice a week, built her a dream office in two days, and sends her love songs about his "hot wife." She went from doing everything to doing so much less—and getting so much more. If you're exhausted from trying to make your relationship work, Kate's story will show you there's another way.   Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here:https://lauradoyle.co/4mdMVRs

09-02
01:18:53

301: How Do You Respect a Husband You Don't Trust?

Angie's husband came to America not speaking English, so of course she had to help him with everything—navigating websites, polishing his resume, even taking pictures of groceries so he wouldn't buy the wrong thing. But working 80 hours a week as a medical resident while mothering her husband crushed any attraction she once felt for him. When a therapist suggested she may have married the wrong guy, Angie spent months in agony on the fence, seriously considering divorce. Then she discovered there was another way. Today, that same "incapable" husband works in tech support, handles all their finances, and does more childcare than she does. Angie went from wanting to leave to feeling so grateful it moves her to tears. If you're convinced your husband just isn't capable and you can't see how the skills could possibly apply to your situation, Angie's transformation will show you exactly how to go from resentment to respect. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4oHntFU

08-26
59:16

300: How to Get Your Husband Back After Divorce

Nicole's husband didn't just threaten divorce. He actually followed through. Papers signed. Settlement money handed over. Everyone at church told her to give up, but Nicole kept going and found cheerleaders who supported her anyway. Even when she got zero—and I mean zero—response. Now, she and her husband live in their dream house, where he calls her 'sexy' and takes her on romantic rides. Their kids have no idea their parents were ever legally divorced. If you've ever thought it's too late for your marriage, Nicole's story will give you hope and a roadmap home. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/3UbhB9T

08-19
01:31:54

299: I Thought My Husband Was a Narcissist

Grace's husband was hiding bottles around the house, giving her lists of rules to follow, and threatening to leave for "a woman who respects me." She opened a secret bank account and was planning her escape from what felt like an abusive marriage with a narcissist. Then she discovered the Six Intimacy Skills and decided to go all-in one last time. What happened next shocked everyone—including her 8-year-old son, who asked, "Mom, why are you smiling all the time?" In just 4 months, Grace's husband stopped drinking, became a stay-at-home-dad so she could work, and began using the nickname he used when they were dating. He tells her, "Just when I think it can't get any better, you get better." Grace shares the exact steps she took to transform their marriage from feeling like "slavery" to being treated like a princess. If you think your husband might be narcissistic or abusive, Grace's story will give you hope and a clear path forward. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4o7MR7v

08-12
01:21:41

298: Overcoming A Sexless Marriage

My guest Diane's husband was so withdrawn that for two years, there was no physical intimacy. None. Zip. Nada. He'd moved to the basement and stayed there, leaving her feeling rejected, invisible, and wondering if this was just how things would be forever. But when she became intentional about practicing the six Intimacy SkillsTM—especially one she never saw coming—things shifted in ways that still make her do the happy dance. Now the passion is back, and it's better than ever. Like, way better. She's gonna tell us exactly what she did (including the shift she made that had him wrapping her up with a kiss) so you can do it too. Spoiler: It has nothing to do with lingerie and everything to do with becoming the woman you were meant to be. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4lSa4ch

08-05
01:33:28

297: Why is the SILENT TREATMENT so Hurtful?

Tired of painful silent treatment and cold wars in your marriage? Kristin's house was filled with tense silence, piled-up problems, and thick resentment. Then during a tense conversation, she said just six words that shocked her husband—who then shocked her by giving her a hug. Now the cold wars have ended and they dance together in the kitchen. Discover the exact words that broke through years of silent treatment and transformed their marriage from resentful to joyful. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/40xTLIW

07-29
01:02:05

296: Her Avoidant Husband Betrayed Her

If you're feeling alone because your husband is emotionally distant, this show is for you. Heidi begged for connection from her avoidant husband but he seemed more distant than ever. She felt broken. Then she learned a few new skills and got a completely different response. Now her husband is affectionate, close and she feels so connected to him. Discover the specific approach that transformed her avoidant husband into the affectionate man she knew he could be. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4lWvKUf

07-22
01:24:52

295: How To Rebuild Lost Trust In Marriage

Can you rebuild trust after infidelity? Sandra's husband was unfaithful and they separated twice. She felt like a victim of betrayal. But today her husband is adoring, their marriage feels amazing, and she knows she has the power to keep it that way. Discover how Sandra transformed from victim to victor and rebuilt a marriage stronger than ever after infidelity and separation. Her story proves it's possible to create something beautiful from the ashes of betrayal. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/44DKBM7

07-15
01:23:08

294: What to Do When Your Husband is Disrespectful

Are you questioning how long you can withstand bullying from a rude, disrespectful husband? Sara felt unheard and alone, carrying all the weight of childrearing and cooking while enduring his critical behavior. Then she started prioritizing her dignity and peace—and today her marriage is so good that her husband brags about it at work. Discover the exact shift Sara made that stopped his disrespectful behavior and transformed their entire relationship. You don't have to live with disrespect forever. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/402667Z

07-08
01:40:29

293: How to Know When to Leave Your Relationship

Do you lie awake wondering if you should leave your relationship? Laura reveals 3 ways to know if your husband will ever change—so you can make the biggest decision of your life without regrets. Discover why the "relationship work" you've been doing might be backfiring, hear Catherine's shocking story about her husband losing their special needs son, and learn the crucial difference between doing the wrong work vs. the 6 Intimacy Skills. You can't know if your relationship is hopeless until you've tried the right approach. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4kdMKnt  

07-01
11:26

292: He Wouldn't Give Me a Baby

When Amanda's boyfriend broke up with her instead of proposing, she thought her dreams were over. At 41, desperately wanting marriage and a baby, she felt hopeless—especially after practicing the 6 Intimacy Skills™ hadn't worked as expected. But today she's married to the man of her dreams and the mother of his baby. She's going to reveal exactly how she turned heartbreak into her happy ending, so you can do it too. Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4edAfai

06-24
01:20:29

Jennifer Johnson

This episode makes me so angry. She needs more training especially hearing how she responds to her son. You trashed your husband for 19 years to him, he only knows what you have told him. You didn't at any point defend him, you basically said well he's a jerk but I'm staying married.

04-05 Reply

Jennifer Bachmann

In regard to his change as a result of his wife's change: Because the answer is spelled out in Scripture: “Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear” (1 Peter 3:1-2).

01-18 Reply

Selena Pearce

this resonated with me so much. I was brought up to believe that a woman's job was to keep the house clean and to always be busy. it's a hard thing to break, but you're right that the MOST important thing is intimacy. thank you

07-21 Reply

Selena Hatton

There podcasts are so inspirational. listening to them helps me learn so much about how to show up in my relationship. I always thought that communicating what I wanted meant moaning and reminding...how wrong was I??

07-22 Reply

Lalo Joy Poll

the audio quality of the recorded call is very poor and difficult to hear. I couldn't understand most of it.

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