The Gaslighting Effect

I’m Angela. A writer and cult survivor. After decades of being silenced, I’m finally finding my voice.

Predators In Disguise: How image-obsessed people wreak havoc in recovery spaces

In this episode, Jessica, a self-described ExMormon sex worker, shares how she came to be in the crosshairs of an ego-driven man who has no qualms about destroying anyone else, just as long as it benefits him.

04-21
01:13:46

A Beginner’s Guide to DARVO: deny, argue, reverse victim and offender

TikTok’s Maggie in Babylon joins this podcast episode to discuss how predators turn the tables on their victims and if there’s anything that can be done about it.

04-15
54:57

5 Red Flags Of Predatory People

This episode is dedicated to the enabling attitudes and behaviors in the ExMormon community that allow predators to continue hurting people.

04-05
44:46

Predators in ExMormon Spaces

An introduction to season 5, which will be devoted to talking about predatory behavior in communities recovering from religious trauma.

04-02
18:12

One trait abusers share

Why did my ex-husband get so angry? How could my mother gaslight me for a decade, yet believe she had done nothing wrong? In this episode I explore these questions.

09-05
15:51

Two Virgins: how shame ruins sex

A brief portrait of my sex life as a Mormon wife.

08-22
35:08

Culture Wars In Mormonism

In 1980’s white suburbia, there was a mold we had to fit. Even the Mormons. Especially the Mormons.

08-08
27:16

Children Primed For Sexual Abuse: 4 ways parents set kids up to pick sexually abusive partners

A discussion of how a child can be groomed to accept sexual abuse even when parents never physically touch them.

07-25
24:32

4 More Spiritual Abuse Tactics

What is Spiritual Abuse? The analysis of spiritually abusive tactics continues.

07-04
32:38

4 Spiritual Abuse Tactics

What is spiritual abuse? A description of 4 tactics used in spiritually abusive communities.

06-27
27:08

13 Emotional Abuse Tactics

13 ways a friend, partner, or family member can manipulate and control you without hitting or raising their voice.

06-20
49:30

10 Verbal Abuse Tactics

If your partner uses these ten tactics to keep you in a state of submission, you may be in a verbally abusive relationship.

06-13
28:41

Mourning

How I feel about the current unrest and racial injustices in my country.

06-05
12:28

The Enmeshment Doctrine: when boundaries are forbidden

Your family might follow the enmeshment doctrine if your future has been planned out for you and healthy boundaries are perceived as a threat.

05-30
39:46

10 Things Keeping You In Unhealthy Relationships

No one gets a free pass to treat you like cr*p. Not even family. Especially not family.

05-23
33:16

Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing: 7 signs a parent is manipulating you

My dad is father of the year... until he doesn’t gets his way. 7 signs someone you love may be a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

05-16
33:48

Three Types of Perfectionism: the pitfalls of growing up in a perfect Mormon family

Dedicated to my father, I kick off season 3 by analyzing the home he grew up in and the poisonous effects of choosing perfectionism over people.

05-09
29:40

Healing Through Connection

How I went from believing God was outside myself and that my body was the enemy to integrating a soul-body connection that led to greater self-acceptance.

05-02
34:06

Healing Through Touch

What exactly is touch deprivation? A list of comforting touch substitutes, the most healing way to be touched, and the importance of having at least one secure attachment in your life.

04-25
32:28

Healing Through Reflection

Rumination and trauma. How to reflect on the bad while bringing in the good.

04-18
24:30

Rick Carter

I have a 5 year old little girl that was diagnosed on the spectrum at the age of 2.5. This show has me in tears right now, because I can relate in so many ways with your scenarios. My daughters mom uses shaming the way your ex-husband used it on your son, Wallace. These effects you speak of shaming I see in my daughter every weekend when I get her. it kills me. it makes me so sad, because she is the sweetest, kindest, smart, funny, beautiful little girl I have ever laid on eyes on. Thank you for speaking about this and sharing your insight on this subject. I would love to hear more on this topic and tactics used to try and help these kids understand they are smart and strong and perfect just the way they are. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this story. You earned a subscription from this guy 💞💞

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