The Golden Mean

Are you more go with the flow or do you like to shake the boat? Are you the spark in the relationship Or Are you the one that calms everything down? Ike and Jas are talking about that Fire & Ice...one of you in your relationship is the spark. Is that spark necessary in a relationship. Join Us as we share some of our stories and try and break down what exactly intrigues us about that Fire!

Distractions...they come in all shapes and sizes, and at the most unexpected time...BUT is it actually the right time? Ike and Jas are discussing those exes, summer time flings, and the ones that just didn't work BUT want to ease their way back under that Friendship vibe. Is it Worth It?? Pop Those Headphones In & Stop Through!

Chivalry Isn't Dead Y'all, We Promise! Opening Doors, Asking Women Out on Proper Dates, No Netflixing and Chilling on the First Date, Men Being Protectors & Providers...It's All Still A Necessity. Now Its Just Getting Through All The Layers... Ike and Jas discuss the importance of Holding Your Partner Accountable and Calling Them Out when they start to Slip! Join The Conversation

Are You Insecurities the Responsibility of Your Partner? Everybody brings their own insecurities to a relationship, but if those insecurities start to interfere in your current relationship...What Then?  Ike and Jas are tackling this topic this week. Stop Through!

Ike and Jas are discussing those souls who are not pleasing to our spirits. Communication & Delivery is key when talking about intimacy and performing in the bedroom. Everyone wants to have a good intimacy partner but it takes time to develop that connection. Ike and Jas break down some of their Do's and Dont's when it comes to exchanging these spirits. We can guarantee by the end of this some of y'all will be looking at your partner a little different. Perhaps a little side eye 

It's getting a little Spicy. Intimacy is a big part of any relationship it requires so much vulnerability. You have to be willing to talk about those uncomfortable subjects...this week its MONEY AND SEX. Which do you feel is more intimate...talking finances or talking about the nitty gritty when it comes to pleasing your partner? It Gets A Little Spicy! 

Do You Know Who You Have In Your Passenger Seat? Do You Know Who You Are Riding For?  Ike and Jas are discussing the people that we have in our circle, specifically our partners. Sometimes our partners are the toxic presence that we need to rid out of our life, but are you prepared to Clean House. Is Your Partner Speaking Life Into You? Or Are You Sucking Life Out of Them? Join Us! 

Companionship and Commitment are not synonymous, contrary to what you may think! Ike and Jas are discussing the road to companionship because that journey is long! Most of us want that companionship, that commitment, that partner who we can grow and build with but are we REALLY ready to go through this process. Join Us as we break it down, because there are LEVELS to this sh#tt

We all love that honeymoon phase, that sweet spot, those first six months when you both are on cloud 9. But...Are you really prepared to go the distance? Ike and Jas are discussing   that time right as the "honeymoon phase" is ending and now the relationship is in the nitty gritty...after the I Do's are said. Are You Still In? 

Ike and Jas are just jumping right in this week discussing this infamous concept of the Ride Or Die. In today's culture, more and more it appears that being that Ride or Die women is turning into a badge of honor. But the ones being applauded, are they really embodying what a TRUE Ride or Die should exemplify? Join Us as we share our raw, unfiltered and honest opinions! 

This week Ike and Jas discuss those feelings everyone has had after we say goodbye to someone we thought we never would...should I reach out or should I just let it be what it is. Ike and Jas are talking about Missing That Special Someone! Join Us as we discuss, is it worth it to dip your toe back in that pond. 

Ike and Jas are discussing the importance of recognizing, accepting, and seeing RED FLAGS for what they are...CLEAR WARNING SIGNS to RUN. Join Us as Ike and Jas share some of their experiences where they didn't quite adhere to those warning signs.

This week Ike and Jas talk about the need to really get to know someone before becoming exclusive...and how those pillow talk conversations are not going to be enough to sustain the relationship after that honeymoon phase...

Ike and Jas are just diving in this week talking about where each of them currently is in the dating world. Ike and Jas are going to give you two different perspectives, one of is actively dating and the other is happily single. Tune in to find out why each of them is in that respective place in their life and if they are really enjoying it.