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The Homeboy Way Podcast invites listeners into stories of healing, kinship, and transformation. Hosted by Tom Vozzo, former longtime CEO of Homeboy Industries, alongside Fr. Greg Boyle, S.J., and illuminating guests, the show explores what happens when people are seen, cherished, and given space to heal. The Homeboy team will talk about trauma, redemption, social justice, faith, and business efforts that foster healing, but more than anything, we talk about belonging and what happens when you meet people where they're at. The Homeboy Way, a movement of radical kinship.
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In the late 1980s, a young social worker in Watts kept hearing she had to meet a priest in Boyle Heights. She didn't like priests. She didn't like religion. But she finally made the call.What happened in that first meeting, and in the decades that followed, changed how Dr. Jorja Leap saw gangs, research, and her own life.In this episode of The Homeboy Way, Tom Vozzo, former CEO of Homeboy Industries, sits down with Jorja, a UCLA professor, longtime friend of Father Greg Boyle, and a self-described "Homeboy elder." She takes us back to a time when there was no Homeboy, when a city was afraid, and when almost no one believed in the people Greg did. She shares what she discovered by simply showing up, why funders and government kept Homeboy at arm's length, and what she'd tell any nonprofit fighting for support.She also gets personal about how Homeboy became her chosen family, a woman who has stayed in her heart for years, and the one time she and Fr. Greg really fought.Key TakeawaysViolence is multifaceted, so the response has to be too. Jorja compares gang violence to cancer: cutting out the tumor never worked on its own. She says no single approach, and no "typical" gang member, exists. Relationships were the intervention. Her early research at Homeboy found that no specific strategy explained the results. Community, transferable skills, and seeing other former gang members succeed gave people the confidence to believe they could change too. Relapse is part of the process, not a failure. Jorja prefers "relapse" to "recidivism" and describes people as "struggling," not failing. She advises nonprofits to put a comma in place of the period: "We have an 18-month program, and very few people make it through the first time." Bring in a researcher early, but don't let a rigid funder rewrite your mission. She urges nonprofits to partner with a university researcher early and often. She and Tom also criticize control groups that deny services to people in need, and she argues that if a funder insists on one, "you don't want their money." Homeboy never gives up on anyone. Jorja describes a woman she has watched at Homeboy since 2008 who is still struggling and still trying. To her, that is what Homeboy stands for: hope, not just success. In This Episode:[00:00] Introduction[01:32] Meeting Father Greg before Homeboy existed[03:37] The "super predator" myth[06:40] Why violence is multifaceted[11:40] Pitching Fr. Greg on research[14:48] Relapse, not recidivism[18:07] What the research found: relationships[21:05] The study's results[23:06] Why foundations hesitated[26:37] LA County, the "bad boyfriend"[30:28] Advice for nonprofits[31:40] The trouble with control groups[35:19] Explaining an 18-month program[36:28] How Homeboy changed Jorja[41:20] Being Fr. Greg’s friend [43:24] Closing Notable Quotes"The effectiveness was based on relationships." - Jorja Leap [00:18:18]"Homeboy never gives up on anyone." - Jorja Leap [00:39:50] "Greg Boyle has taught me in the purest sense, the meaning of unconditional love." - Jorja [42:32] Resources and LinksHomeboy Industrieshttps://homeboyindustries.org/https://www.youtube.com/@HomeboyIndustries_LA/videosDonate: https://homeboyindustries.org/donate/donate-online/Homeboy Media https://homeboyindustries.org/social-enterprises/homeboy-media/Jorja Leaphttps://luskin.ucla.edu/profile/jorja-leap/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jorja-leap-a30a451a5/Thomas Vozzohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasvozzoThe Homeboy Way: A Radical Approach to Business and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Homeboy-Way-Radical-Approach-Business/dp/082945456XCredits:Hosted by: Tom VozzoProduced by: Podify, and Alexa Rousso and Melody Carter of Homeboy Media
What do you do when you're tired of the life you're living but have no idea where to start? Paradise Adamson asked that question in a prayer on a dirt hillside beside the freeway, at what she calls her rock bottom. What followed was an arrest over a missing TAP card, time in county jail and in treatment, and a string of people telling her she should check out Homeboy.In this episode, Tom Vozzo sits down with Paradise, now a navigator at Homeboy Industries who went through the 18-month trainee program herself. She shares how she went from rock bottom to walking through Homeboy's doors for the first time. She talks about what it meant to be honest in an interview when every past job had taught her to hold something back, and how she learned to treat anger as a signal instead of a flaw. She also explains why she believes healing works best as a toolbox rather than a single fix, and what it takes to guide new trainees through the same fears she once had.Her story is a reminder that transformation doesn't require a plan. It can begin with showing up, telling the truth, and letting yourself be accepted as you are.Key TakeawaysSometimes the hardest part is finding a starting point. Paradise reflects on reaching rock bottom and struggling to figure out where to begin. Homeboy became the opportunity she had been praying for. Honesty was the game changer. She feared that being open about her past would work against her. At Homeboy it was exactly what was asked of her, and she says being that honest for the first time gave her room to grow. Addiction takes many forms. Paradise learned that anything not used in moderation can become an addiction, including anger, harsh self-talk, and even depression. Grief isn't something to stop; it's something to carry well. She doesn't try to stop missing her loved ones. She focuses on how she represents them. Healing is a toolbox. Rather than expecting one class or one insight to fix everything, Paradise takes what fits from each and leaves the rest. In This Episode:[00:00] Introduction[01:00] A prayer near the train tracks, and an arrest over a TAP card[04:24] Hearing about Homeboy in jail and in treatment[06:27] Showing up for intake and interview[07:10] Being honest about her past for the first time[08:38] Celebrating one year of sobriety at Homeboy[10:09] What was different about this prayer[13:15] Learning through hardship and changing how she prays for her siblings[14:42] Advice for avoiding addiction: everything in moderation[16:04] Why she vents out loud in the morning[17:41] Being tired of the life and having no starting point[19:23] Still working on her emotions as a trainee[20:58] Understanding anger as a secondary emotion[22:01] Embracing grief instead of trying to stop it[23:26] Building a toolbox from Homeboy's classes[24:15] Working in the Homeboy Cafe[26:05] Why trainees should embrace the social enterprises[27:11] What keeps her grounded[27:48] Why navigator may be the hardest job at Homeboy[29:23] Where she sees herself in the next few years[30:31] What Father Greg means to her Notable Quotes"If I'm always pretending, then I can never authentically grow." - Paradise [09:26] "Anything that's not used in moderation could become addiction." - Paradise [15:04] Resources and LinksHomeboy Industrieshttps://homeboyindustries.org/https://www.youtube.com/@HomeboyIndustries_LA/videosDonate: https://homeboyindustries.org/donate/donate-online/Homeboy Media https://homeboyindustries.org/social-enterprises/homeboy-media/Thomas Vozzohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasvozzoThe Homeboy Way: A Radical Approach to Business and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Homeboy-Way-Radical-Approach-Business/dp/082945456XCredits:Hosted by: Tom VozzoProduced by: Podify, and Alexa Rousso and Melody Carter of Homeboy Media
After surviving a brain hemorrhage and facing stage-four metastatic cancer, Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J. describes the past year as both the hardest and the best of his life. His experience revealed something he had spent years searching for: God was not somewhere “out there.” God was already present within him, and in the people surrounding him at Homeboy Industries.In this deeply personal conversation, Tom Vozzo is joined by Mikala Rahn, Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J., and Mary Ellen Burton to explore how Homeboy Industries has transformed their understanding of God, faith, and unconditional love. Mikala shares why curiosity protects us from judgment and how loving ourselves is inseparable from accepting God’s love. Mary Ellen reflects on arriving at Homeboy broken, being welcomed into the community, and discovering a God who is “relaxed and smiling.”Together, they examine faith in action, the relationship between suffering and joy, and the difference between helping people and walking alongside them in kinship. They also discuss spiritual doubt, contemplative practice, cherished belonging, and why Homeboy can feel more like church than church itself. This episode is an honest exploration of what becomes possible when faith moves beyond belief and becomes a way of being with others.Key TakeawaysGod can be found in the chaos.Homeboy Industries may not look peaceful from the outside, but its relationships reveal a deeply present, loving, and nonjudgmental God.Accepting God’s love requires self-love.Believing that God loves us unconditionally is only part of the journey. We must also confront the barriers that prevent us from loving ourselves.Kinship is different from rescuing people.The goal is not to fix or save someone. It is to stand beside them and allow both people to be changed through the relationship.Homeboy offers a different model of leadership.Humble leadership is rooted in relationships, openness, and a willingness to be corrected while staying grounded in the mission.In This Episode[00:00] Introduction to The Homeboy Way[01:28] How Homeboy changed Mikala’s understanding of God[03:25] Mary Ellen arrives at Homeboy broken and finds love[04:18] Discovering a God who is relaxed and smiling[08:35] Fr. Frank’s hardest and best year[10:58] Experiencing the kingdom of God in a Homeboy classroom[11:38] A God too busy loving us to judge us[13:05] Finding unexpected joy after a devastating diagnosis[14:01] The dream that changed Fr. Frank’s surgery experience[19:04] The daily practices that keep Mary Ellen grounded[20:19] Finding Jesus in Homeboy’s “secure village”[21:46] Why Homeboy can feel more powerful than Sunday church[24:40] Mikala receives an unexpected “ticket to heaven”[27:13] Why suffering and resurrection belong together[28:13] Cherished belonging and the Homeboy model of healing[36:38] Fr. Richard Rohr, Henri Nouwen, Rumi, and belovedness[38:15] Finding spiritual teachers in everyday lifeNotable Quotes“All you need to do in this life is take in that you are beloved and support anybody who comes across your path in taking that in for themselves.” - Mary Ellen Burton [05:39]“At Homeboy, we learn to meet what Fr. Greg says, ‘A God who is way too busy loving us to judge us.’” - Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J. [11:38]“I’m a kinship person. I wanna be with someone so that I’m transformed as much as they’re transformed.” - Mikala Rahn [26:14]Resources and LinksHomeboy Industrieshttps://homeboyindustries.org/https://www.youtube.com/@HomeboyIndustries_LA/videosDonate: https://homeboyindustries.org/donate/donate-online/Homeboy Media https://homeboyindustries.org/social-enterprises/homeboy-media/Thomas Vozzohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasvozzoThe Homeboy Way: A Radical Approach to Business and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Homeboy-Way-Radical-Approach-Business/dp/082945456XCredits:Hosted by: Tom VozzoProduced by: Podify, and Alexa Rousso and Melody Carter of Homeboy Media
What does it take to rebuild your life after prison, addiction, grief, and years of being told you will never change? For Nickloos Tate and Washea Beverly, transformation began when they stopped allowing their pasts to dictate their futures and found a community willing to believe in them.Nickloos shares how a life-changing question inside prison, “Do you want life, or do you want to live life?”, helped him change direction after 14 years behind bars. Washea opens up about recovery, rebuilding her relationship with her son, and using stand-up comedy to find light in painful experiences.In this episode of The Homeboy Way, Tom Vozzo and Hector Verdugo explore how Homeboy Industries creates second chances through kinship, accountability, laughter, and unconditional support. Nickloos also performs “Drive to You,” an original song he wrote while incarcerated, and explains why his greatest ambition is helping someone else succeed.Key TakeawaysYour past is part of your story, not your identity.Nickloos refuses to hide his former gang involvement or incarceration, but he no longer allows those experiences to define the man he is becoming.Choosing life requires deciding what to do with it.A fellow incarcerated man challenged Nickloos to think beyond getting released and seriously consider what kind of life he wanted to build.Recovery begins with honest acceptance.Washea explains how accepting the consequences of her past allowed her to stop defending herself and begin moving forward.Homeboy Industries welcomes people from every background.Washea initially wondered whether she belonged because she had never been in a gang or prison. What she discovered was a community built around love, accountability, and personal transformation.Accountability is an expression of love.Homeboy does not abandon people when they struggle. It offers correction, another opportunity, and the invitation to return when they are ready.In This Episode[00:00] Introduction[03:03] Nickloos Tate’s first days after leaving prison[03:35] Meeting Father Greg inside juvenile hall[04:47] The handwritten letter that brought Nickloos home[05:24] Why Nickloos refuses to hide from his past[14:01] Washea Beverly opens up about addiction and her legal cases[15:01] Arriving at Homeboy and questioning whether she belonged[16:06] Working to rebuild her relationship with her son[18:07] Why Nickloos chooses to smile after surviving violence[20:51] Washea’s decision to choose peace and light[23:00] Teaching her son to remain cautious but lead with love[30:17] How Washea became a stand-up comedian[32:37] Laughter, accountability, and everyday life at Homeboy[40:45] Nickloos’ goal of writing music for other artists[42:37] Live performance of “Drive to You”[48:09] How Homeboy helped Nickloos rebuild his life[55:50] Washea explains what brings her joy[56:22] Closing reflectionsNotable Quotes“My past don’t define who I am, but it also is a reflection of where I came from.” - Nickloos Tate [05:24]“I choose to choose peace. I choose the lighter side of life, only because we all go through something.” - Washea Beverly [20:51]“You be cautious in this world, but you lead with love, and love will follow you.” - Washea Beverly [23:32]“A hand up means I’m just pulling you up and showing you there’s another way to do it.” - Nickloos Tate [41:26]Resources and LinksHomeboy Industrieshttps://homeboyindustries.org/https://www.youtube.com/@HomeboyIndustries_LA/videosDonate: https://homeboyindustries.org/donate/donate-online/Homeboy Media https://homeboyindustries.org/social-enterprises/homeboy-media/Thomas Vozzohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasvozzoThe Homeboy Way: A Radical Approach to Business and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Homeboy-Way-Radical-Approach-Business/dp/082945456XCredits:Hosted by: Tom VozzoProduced by: Podify, and Alexa Rousso and Melody Carter of Homeboy MediaTechnical team: Ronald Dennison and David Carpinteyro
A life shaped by survival can make change feel almost impossible. Mike Tyson knows that world firsthand. So does Jose Arellano, whose childhood in a multigenerational gang family led him into the streets, juvenile hall, and eventually prison. Miguel Tyson’s story takes a different path, shaped by a mother who taught him through her actions that helping others is a way of living.When Jose returned home after six years in prison, he was carrying trauma and struggling to adjust to life outside. Then he called Homeboy Industries looking for a job. His past could have closed the door, but instead, it opened one. Even after setbacks, the Homeboy community continued to welcome him back. Today, Jose is the organization's Vice President of Operations and an entrepreneur.In this episode of The Homeboy Way, Tom Vozzo and co-host Jose Arellano sits down with legendary boxer Mike Tyson and his son Miguel Tyson to talk about the mentors who shaped them, the communities that helped them survive and grow, and the responsibility to give others the opportunities they were given. From boxing and incarceration to service, entrepreneurship, and the new Homeboy gym, their stories come together around a powerful idea: sometimes transformation begins when someone sees possibility in you before you can see it in yourself.Key TakeawaysHomeboy becomes a place to rebuild.After six years in prison, Jose returned carrying trauma and struggling to adjust, eventually finding his way to Homeboy Industries.Second chances require persistence.Homeboy welcomes people back even after setbacks and relapse, creating a community where people society has written off are given another opportunity.Survival can shape what feels normal.Mike and Jose reflect on growing up surrounded by crime, poverty, violence, and environments where survival became the norm.A mentor can change a life.For Mike, boxing and the mentorship of Bobby Stewart created a path beyond the world he knew.Giving creates purpose.Mike explains that he started the Tyson Foundation because he wanted to use his reach and resources to do meaningful work and help people.Belief can unlock potential.Mike argues that helping people believe in themselves, while understanding the value of work, struggle, and sacrifice, can change how they see what is possible.In This Episode:[00:00] Introduction[00:24] Jose's story: three generations of gang life to incarceration[03:11] The phone call that got Jose hired at Homeboy[04:23] Jose's path from client to VP of Operations[04:47] Mike Tyson on his upbringing and the Tyson Foundation[07:45] Mike’s "awakening" moment through boxing[08:20] Miguel on discovering Homeboy and starting the gym project[11:36] Homeboy's reliance on donor generosity[12:19] Mike on poverty as a "frame of mind"[13:07] Why even a bad mentor beats no mentor[14:55] Miguel on his mother's activism and his global mission work[16:56] Giving as self-love[18:20] Jose's business, Tepito Coffee, and its meaning[19:09] Homeboy's mission: healing, community, and job skills[20:04] Closing thanks and reflections on family Notable Quotes"You only keep what you have by giving it away." — Jose [17:09]"Even a bad mentor is better than having no mentor." — Mike Tyson [13:12]"Poor is a frame of mind... it's all about believing in yourself." — Mike Tyson [12:41] Resources and LinksHomeboy Industrieshttps://homeboyindustries.org/https://www.youtube.com/@HomeboyIndustries_LA/videosDonate: https://homeboyindustries.org/donate/donate-online/Homeboy Media https://homeboyindustries.org/social-enterprises/homeboy-media/Thomas Vozzohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasvozzoThe Homeboy Way: A Radical Approach to Business and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Homeboy-Way-Radical-Approach-Business/dp/082945456XCredits:Hosted by: Tom VozzoProduced by: Podify, and Alexa Rousso and Melody Carter of Homeboy Media








