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Forgiveness doesn't come easy, especially when it's the need to forgive yourself. It's easy to beat yourself up and refuse to let go of the things which hold you back from experiencing true peace from God. In this episode, Chris & Lanny explore the power of forgiving yourself and the freedom which comes from forgiveness.Join the conversation twice a month as we explore, explain, and encourage each other by discovering what the Bible has to say about our deepest struggles in faith.www.tcccfamily.org

There are days when we say, "I know I need to forgive and it's the right things to do" but stop just shy of forgiving. Why do we struggle with forgiveness? Why is forgiveness so hard? In this episode, Chris and Lanny discuss the struggle between needing to forgive and wanting to forgive and the freedom which comes from letting things go. Join us every other Tuesday as we explore, explain, and encourage each other by discovering what the Bible has to say about our deepest struggles in faith.Tweetable quotes from the episode:“We are not really human if we do not struggle with the idea of forgiveness.”- Lanny Smith“Pride is an obstacle; it stops that beautiful flow of grace that comes from God to me and then comes out from me to the people in my world. Because God has opened up his hands and released our sin and goes to the cross with Christ so there's satisfaction for the sin." -Lanny SmithBible References:Matthew 6:9-13Romans 12:1-3Leviticus 17Additional Resources:Town & Country Christian ChurchTown & Country Christian Church | Facebook

Forgiveness is not something that comes easy. Forgiveness is either never given or too freely expressed. But as Christians we are faces with the tough question of “how do I respond when the need for forgiveness and my faith collide?” That’s the faith question for this episode. In this episode, Chris and Lanny dissect the need for forgiveness by looking at forgiveness from God’s point of view to release the power sincere forgiveness can have in our lives. Join us every other Tuesday as we explore, explain, and encourage each other by discovering what the Bible has to say about our deepest struggles in faith.Tweetable quotes from the episode:“Holiness is beautiful; brokenness is meaningful.”- Lanny Smith“Forgiveness means that with a sincere heart, we cancel our offender’s debt against us. It is a personal decision that necessitates surrendering our bitterness and rage in an act of trusting in God.” – Lori Schumaker“It takes two to reconcile but it only takes one to forgive.”-Lanny SmithBible References:Matthew 18:21-35 NLT - Parable of the Unforgiving Debtor - Bible GatewayMatthew 6:5-15 NLT - Teaching about Prayer and Fasting - Bible GatewayRomans 12:17-19 NLT - Never pay back evil with more evil. Do - Bible GatewayPsalm 103:12 NLT - He has removed our sins as far from us - Bible Gateway Luke 17:3-4 NLT - So watch yourselves! “If another - Bible GatewayLuke 23:34-35 NLT - Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, - Bible GatewayAdditional Resources:Town & Country Christian ChurchTown & Country Christian Church | FacebookThe Hiding Place by Corrie Ten BoomI’m Still Learning to Forgive by Corrie Ten Boom10Important Questions Answered About the Power of Forgiveness in the Bible by Lori Schumaker | Crossmap Blogs

Jesus said, "If you have faith as small as a mustard seed" you can do amazing things for the kingdom of God. But what happens when we anxiety controls our lives? How do we leverage the faith we have to overcome the anxiety that steals our joy?In this episode, Chris & Lanny are joined by Shawn Alyea of Christian Practices, LLC, as they discuss the intersection between faith and anxiety; providing insight, wisdom, and practical ways to overcome anxiety in our lives.Join us every other Tuesday as we explore, explain, and encourage each other by discovering what the Bible has to say about our deepest struggles in faith.You can listen to this podcast on Apple podcast, Spotify, or your favorite streaming service.Hit the like button, leave us a comment and rating, and share with your friends.Hit the subscribe bell so you won't miss a single episode.For more tools and resources, check out our website at www.tcccfamily.org or follow us on Facebook- TCCCFamilyFor more information about Shawn Alyea, Christian Practices, LLC, or the Jesus Exhibit follow the links below.Christian Practices: Christian Practices, LLC – A Counseling Service (christianpracticesllc.com), Christian Practices, LLC | FacebookThe Jesus Exhibit: The Jesus Exhibit | Facebook

Is anxiety stealing joy from your life? Do worries and concerns control the way you live? If you struggle with an anxious heart, we want you to know you are not alone. In this episode Chris & Lanny explore anxiety and the difference between a manufactured joy and the joy God desires us to experience.Join us every other Tuesday as we explore, explain, and encourage each other by discovering what the Bible has to say about our deepest struggles in faith.You can listen to this podcast on Apple podcast, Spotify or your favorite streaming service.Hit the like button, leave us a comment and rating, and share with your friends.Hit the subscribe bell so you won't miss a single episode.For more tools and resources, check out our website at www.tcccfamily.org or follow us on Facebook- TCCCFamilyApple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/.../faith.../id1643246397Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/3cFD6RagYvqEphPbrhtMst

What are you anxious about? Does worry have control over your life? If you are struggling with anxiety, you are not alone. In this episode Chris & Lanny explore anxiety and the effect it has on the Christian’s faith.

In this three-part series, Lanny and Chris take a look at what it means to be a biblical father based on 1 Corinthians 16:13-14. Joining in the discussion is their summer intern, Dakota Fox. Be sure to listen to all three episodes in this series.Part 3- How do we stand firm in our faith when the world/culture is against us? What does it mean to be strong and courageous in our faith? What does is mean do everything with love?1 Corinthians 16:13-14Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. And do everything with love.www.tcccfamily.org

In this three-part series, Lanny and Chris take a look at what it means to be a biblical father based on 1 Corinthians 16:13-14. Joining in the discussion is their summer intern, Dakota Fox. Be sure to listen to all three episodes in this series.Part 2- How do you stay firm in your faith?1 Corinthians 16:13-14Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. And do everything with love.www.tcccfamily.org

In this three-part series, Lanny and Chris take a look at what it means to be a biblical father based on 1 Corinthians 16:13-14. Joining in the discussion is their summer intern, Dakota Fox. Be sure to listen to all three episodes in this series. Part 1- What does it mean to be a father who is on guard? What do fathers guard against?1 Corinthians 16:13-14Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. And do everything with love.  www.tcccfamily.org

In this episode, Chris & MJ share their heart and relay their gratitude and appreciation for their listeners as they announce a transition to start a new podcast. After much prayer and consideration, Chris & MJ have decided to close the book on the In The Trenches podcast will be launching a brand new podcast called Surviving Chaos. Many thanks for our listeners over the last several months. We look forward to this next adventure and hope you will join us in this new endeavor. -Chris & MJFollow us on Facebook- Surviving Chaos or check out our website at www.survivingchaos22.com

What is a vow? Is it a never promise or contractual agreement? What happens when the vows become too hard to keep?In this episode, Chris & MJ revisit their wedding vows and discuss the value of commitment. Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Visit our website at www.inthetrenches.blog#longevityinmarriage#makingmarriagelast#walktoremember#jeremycamp#vows#marriagevows#fireproof#sicknessandinhealth#focusonthefamily#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

IRecently I had the opportunity to speak at Wesleyan Christian School for their Jr/Sr High Chapel service. It was a blessing and a privilege to bring the message Message notes.The Greatest Of All TimeText: Philippians 3:4-13Word association:- Candy Bar- Reese’s Peanut butter cups/ payday-Pizza Chain- Cici’s Pizza- Soda/Pop/ Carbinated Beverage- Ginger Ale/ Root beer-Mathmatician- Elbert EinsteinScientists are still working off his theories from almost 100 years ago-Basketball player- Michael JordanHis records for scoring and championships are still unmatched when you consider his age and the amount of time he spent in the NBA-Boxer- Muhammad Ali Self proclaimed “I am the Greatest” and he proved that in his prime he was one of the best boxers of his day-Paul- ApostleAttributed to writing 2/3 of the New Testament Philippians 3:4-6 we see him lay out this amazing resume of success. All the reasons why he is the ultimate Pharisee and follower of God. Why he is the GOAT. If someone else thinks they have reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more: circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; in regard to the law, a Pharisee; as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for righteousness based on the law, faultless.”‭‭Philippians‬ ‭3:4-6‬ ‭NIV‬Quite a resume. Then he says this in verse 7. “But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ.”‭‭Philippians‬ ‭3:7‬ ‭NIV‬Why does he say this? Is he tired of other people puffing him up? Does he not like the limelight? Does he not want to be famous? Are his actions of self-denial some part of his own righteousness? No, he found something greater than anything this life could offer. “What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ”‭‭Philippians‬ ‭3:8‬ ‭NIV‬‬Anything this world has to offer is complete garbage compared to what he gains by being associated with and following Jesus. Study moment:I consider them garbage Garbage- general Greek word to mean rubbish, dung, and wasteOnly appears once in the Bible…in this verseWhy use this word?Paul is trying to get us to understand that whatever we want to lift up as important is waste compared to having a relationship with Jesus. And not just a relationship where we say we follow Jesus, but a relationship where we are willing to throw everything else away so Jesus can be exalted in our lives. Back to the scripture“and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith.”‭‭Philippians‬ ‭3:9‬ ‭NIV‬‬Do we love Jesus more than everything else in this world we hold dear? Does our life reflect that love for Jesus? Would the world know we were followers of Jesus based on the things we pursue?One bit of scripture that isn’t taught enough is what’s called the “Shema”. It comes from Deuteronomy 6. Every Israelite  little boy by the time he was 5 would be able to resite this:Hear oh Israel, the Lord is God the lord is one. Love the Lord with all your heart with all your mind and with all your soul. When we love God like this, there is nothing left out of balance. Every bit of us is living for God. We are no longer a divided follower. All loyalty is focused on the creator of the universe. Paul’s confessionPaul had it all. Power, fame,...

What is the greatest gift you have ever been given? How did that gift impact your life? Are we giving gifts to our children which will be remembered and impactful to their lives?In this episode, Chris & MJ discuss the power of meaningful gifts and the impact they make on who your children become. Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Visit our website at www.inthetrenches.blog#greatestgift#nintendo#deuteronomy6#d6family#memories#speaklife#adulting#focusonthefamily#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

Why would God ask a wife to submit or respect her husband? What is respect anyway? In this episode MJ takes a closer look at Proverbs 31, where a husband is respected at the city gates because of the influence of his wife. MJ discusses how to be a wife who shows honor to her husband in order for him to gain that kind of respect. Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Listen and follow us on your favorite streaming service. You can find our podcast on Apple podcast, and Spotify. Hit like button, leave us a comment, and share with your friends to help us grow this podcast. Hit the subscribe bell so you won’t miss a single episode. Visit our website at www.inthetrenches.blogApple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj/id1622205302Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5XEJc89JtFX3M6qzWWudJi?si=YY75ZkPiScqQmkUrDTiblQ#proverbs31#loveandrespect#husbands#marriage#focusonthefamily#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

Being in ministry isn’t as easy as you think. In this episode, Chris discusses what it’s like to be in ministry and the difficulties most pastors would never tell you. Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Listen and follow us on your favorite streaming service. You can find our podcast on Apple podcast, and Spotify. Hit like button, leave us a comment, and share with your friends to help us grow this podcast. Hit the subscribe bell so you won’t miss a single episode. Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj/id1622205302Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5XEJc89JtFX3M6qzWWudJi?si=YY75ZkPiScqQmkUrDTiblQ#ministryishard#familyfirst#lotr#lordoftherings#focusonthefamily#Ministryhardships#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

Do you have elderly parents? Do you ever struggle with choices because of your feelings of obligation and responsibility? In this episode, MJ shares her heart concerning taking care of her elderly parents yet still submitting to the Lords call to ministry; feeling divided yet knowing God is in control to take care of the details. Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Listen and follow us on your favorite streaming service. You can find our podcast on Apple podcast, and Spotify. Hit like button, leave us a comment, and share with your friends to help us grow this podcast. Hit the subscribe bell so you won’t miss a single episode. Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj/id1622205302Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5XEJc89JtFX3M6qzWWudJi?si=YY75ZkPiScqQmkUrDTiblQ#Elderlyparents#focusonthefamily#Ministryhardships#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

Calling all men. Are you living up to your calling and mission from God? Are you investing in the the next generation of young men? In this episode, Chris challenges men to step up and create a lasting legacy. Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Listen and follow us on your favorite streaming service. You can find our podcast on Apple podcast, and Spotify. Hit like button, leave us a comment, and share with your friends to help us grow this podcast. Hit the subscribe bell so you won’t miss a single episode. Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj/id1622205302Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5XEJc89JtFX3M6qzWWudJi?si=YY75ZkPiScqQmkUrDTiblQ#men#nextgeneration#focusonthefamily#Creatingalegacy#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

Feeling like you’re always at odds with your spouse? Looking for some practical wisdom to restore your relationship? In this episode, Chris & MJ discuss ways to improve your relationship by remembering your spouse is not the enemy.Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Listen and follow us on your favorite streaming service. You can find our podcast on Apple podcast, and Spotify. Hit like button, leave us a comment, and share with your friends to help us grow this podcast. Hit the subscribe bell so you won’t miss a single episode. Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj/id1622205302Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5XEJc89JtFX3M6qzWWudJi?si=YY75ZkPiScqQmkUrDTiblQ#Nottheenemy#Lovemyspouse#focusonthefamily#Housedivided#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ

Want to understand your children better? Wonder if your can ever appreciate your spouse more intentially? Is clearer communication a desire for you and your loved ones? If so, don’t miss this latest episode of In the Trenches with Chris & MJ. In this episode, Chris and MJ discuss the book, Love Languages, by Dr. Gary Chapman and ways to better understand the people in your life.Join the conversation every Monday as we share insight into raising children, building a stronger marriage, and thriving in ministry. Listen and follow us on your favorite streaming service. You can find our podcast on Apple podcast, Spotify, and Amazon music. Hit like button, leave us a comment, and share with your friends to help us grow this podcast. Hit the subscribe bell so you won’t miss a single episode. Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj/id1622205302Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5XEJc89JtFX3M6qzWWudJi?si=YY75ZkPiScqQmkUrDTiblQAmazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9b8973d4-34f8-4508-9b9e-fa2f4b125937/in-the-trenches-with-chris-mj?ref=dm_sh_swIXXmHf6W9xDgPdMYUXtq3Gy#GaryChapman#LoveLanguages#5LoveLanguages#HeartMatters#WordsofAffirmation#ActsofService#PhysicalTouch#Gifts#QualityTime#UnderstandingChildren#IntheTrencheswithChrisandMJ